M62

Who does the talking ?

January 29 2020

We all know couples purposely use female pics to hopefully grab the attention of other couples , etc .. That's fine and a common practice. I dont have a problem with that . But i suspect a estimated 99 % of most couples here ' its the males that does the talking. Nothing new l know ' l came to this conclusion only after years of reading replys to topics . So it makes me wonder what would happen if the female of the couple took charge instead of the male. As a couple, would you be prepared to let your wife / gf take the reins ? My wife is quite happy for me to do the legwork, but that's her , I'm sure there's women out there who want a voice and capable to make things happen.. PS.. lm aware there's many independent women here who greatly contribute to the forums .. I'm talking women who usually take a back seat ..

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FredAndGinger2

5 years ago

If Ginger did the initial chatting with couples it would start with "where are the pics of the guy?"

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RHP User

5 years ago

Obviously Ms Phoenix will have her opinion on this, but based upon my discussions with her whenever someone has messaged us, it’s my view that very few would be replied to...she has a single profile on here as do I, but she rarely wishes to engage with people if she’s not interested.... Mr Dragon

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SSExplorer

5 years ago

It’s a team sport. This activity takes time and we have to allocate our time to the needs of each other and our family. A long while ago we tried Mrs S at the reigns but it didn’t work for us. She prefers I do the leg work as if left to her she would give up and since I enjoy the forums this works for us. As for photos, sexy photos taking isn’t a part of our usual play time, again when we have time when the kids are asleep we focus on enjoying each other, the camera feels like a 3rd wheel (isn’t that what we all want to find on rhp haha). Since a kid I’ve never liked being in photos so it takes effort or more likely stealth to get a photo of me not pulling a stupid face. I do however enjoy taking photos and find the female form much more appetising especially as there’s lingerie to play with. To that end we have more photos of her than me. We have tried a few different selections of photos and found the sexier the photos we displayed the more I wanted attention we received and we were missing messages from the attention we wanted, so we’ve gone back to a simpler selection. What do others want to see in couples photos? For us, a warm, smiling face will go further to stirring us up than anything but as we ourselves guard our privacy we know this isn’t realistic. The next visual attractant for us is the female as this all started from Mrs S’s desire to explore her bi side. Then of course it’s nice to see the guy isn’t an ogre but as I have said Mrs S needs that je ne sais quoi that only happens on meeting face to face. So our photos follow on from our own desires I guess.

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justforthefun44

5 years ago

We both do the searching mrs for women mr for men. Both for couples.

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curiousgirl35

5 years ago

Mrs here, always has been. Our profile created originally for my desires to be with another woman, so its the obvious choice for me to be in the drivers seat . I agree that probably 99% of the people I chat too are men, which is fine and the few I chat with are funny and engaging, but the Mrs never comes in at any stage. This sucks for me as she is my driving force!! I dream of the day I can have a steamy chat and meet with her!

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sweetnsensual

5 years ago

We both chat together Nothing hidden If we respond it’s both of us!

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RHP User

5 years ago

We are a FF couple and I always do the legwork. I write the profile, organize pics and reply to people. I ask her opinion on everything but she’s not interested at all in running the profile. You could say that as I am the more masculine partner that it runs with the trend except in the past I had long term male partner. If we had been on RHP I still would’ve been running the show 😂. It probably has more to do with who is most sexually dominant in the relationship.

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sw1ng3rz

5 years ago

Mrs here... I do most of the initial chatting. If we move over to kik I’ll make it a group chat if everyone is happy with that.

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Forus1234

5 years ago

Who ever attends to the messages & flirts first. We’ve been in this lifestyle for a few years now, we know what each other is interested in. So..we both do the messaging!

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86Jasindy

5 years ago

The female part of us here... he is definitely the more dominant out of the two of us, however very rarely would speak to anyone through this platform. Our public photos are all of me, but in our private there are both of us and face pics. Two main reasons, -we both have former partners we need to keep this private from (less chance of being noticed as even without faces someone could say isn't that x and y? ) - he simply doesn't have the time or need the distraction as he is always flat out with work. He trusts me to always share anything and to make plans. This is something we enjoy in his downtime. It is more about me being attracted to and enjoying other women than anything else 😘 But, I definitely agree. Many are the males in speaking with, and some i wonder if there is even a female part of the couple?

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RHP User

5 years ago

I don’t even exist, Dragon’s just gone next level with his personality disorder 😂😂 I sometimes wonder though if people believe I’m real or not, I don’t really care but I do wonder. Hopefully us remembering to sign off on our comments helps others to believe we are two people with our own views and opinions as much as it helps me when it comes to trying to remember who said what when I’m scrolling through an old forum post, lol. I generally take a back seat but I take charge sometimes and nothing different happens, sometimes we both take charge and disagree on the forums, lol, that’s the only difference I think it might make when both halves of the couple comment regularly. Ms Phoenix.

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RHP User

5 years ago

Ms_Phoenix... We agreed to not tell people about my errr...disorder... Are you wanting to go back to “the cage”?? Mr Dragon

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RHP User

5 years ago

Dragon, Whatever gets me out of work. Leave the food where I can reach it this time though, arsehole! Ms Phoenix.

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RHP User

5 years ago

Hahahaha ms_phoenix Mr dragon....

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SpicyKale

5 years ago

Dragon & Phoenix, just like fight club hey? 😬

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RHP User

5 years ago

Spicy...bingo!! 😂😂 Mr Dragon.

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Sawadee

5 years ago

Grrrrrrr..😠

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RHP User

5 years ago

Sawadee.. How so?

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