Who was the first to raise the topic of swinging (or your fetish) and how did you/they raise it?

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I started going to clubs and events as a single and ended up meeting people that way. I was a wide innocent. :p My BF is pretty fricken wild, I had never met anyone like him before. It’s a bit like the reverse for me... I feel like he is the Hothusband! 🧐

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  nightingale8

  7 years ago

  For some strange reason in the first few months of our relationship the thought of adding another female to join us turned immediately into me saying let's try some swinging. We joined a smaller site, dabbled a bit, went to some parties and met some great people. What an entry into this world and new relationship! Ultimately we couldn't meet our different tastes so we decided to see people separately and several years later still do! Are you still a hotwife if your hubby sees people too? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  justforthefun44

  7 years ago

  I Female was the one that first talked about having another man join use for some hot fun. after some time we had our first man join in the fun. now mmmmmmmm its the best always look forward to meet in men and women

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  My ex husband thought it would be a good idea. I went along with it just to please him and also a very long story involved but not for this forum. He organised everything and arranged the dates mostly without my knowledge, then more of a cursory is this guy OK type of thing. Even left me drunk and at a swingers party because he was angry I was getting so much attention. I only know about RHP because he had us on here. He used to communicate with guys pretending to be me. I can see the value of this for couples who want to explore and enjoy it. I would certainly do it again but with full consent. Now I am free to please myself I am happy to experiment but only if both agree. So my first introduction to this was a very negative experience. Ms Midnight

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I was my partners first sexual partner, she was 26 when we met, and 27 the first time we had sex, just before we got married, and up until 2 years ago the sex life was good, not always as frequent as she would have liked, but averaged once a week i guess (she is very highly sexed) In the past 2 years we have often talked about her never having experienced another guy, and i know she has often been curious, even tho she says she has not, so i would like us both to go to a Swingers Party just to see what they are like (initially as visitors) and if it is not something we want to do, we can look at other alternatives. Should we do this, and what are the things to look out for on a first time visit. Cheers

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  curiousnhorny05

  7 years ago

  I was the first to suggest it and glad we have just experienced our first. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Hi pinton Yes, we would recommend going to a swingers party or club. The key is to communicate with each other about boundaries. Start slowly. Just watch to start with. May be just play with each other next to another couple. You will probably find hands touching bodies. If you are both feeling comfortable, keep exploring. If not, politely say we are just playing by ourselves at the moment, People are overwhelmingly respectful if you or your partner decline to play. It is strange that we will play with others yet feel emotionally monogamous. Swinging is not for everyone, but I suspect it will fit you two. - Posted from rhpmobile

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