M64
Who we really are...
May 09 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
I look for mood lighting , avoiding harsh sun ( cellulite) situations, Meet in dimly lit bars, wear push up bras, spanks suck it in undies, and pray he gets drunk enough not to care !! Kinda joking, kinda not ! :) We all want to portray ourselves in the best light possible , to attract our mates. It is blurring that fine line between boring reality ( me sitting here hair up, no make up, trackie pants , baggy jumper , 8 year old slippers) and me when I like how I look, dressed up , feeling fit , sucking it in and posing in a flattering way - i know what pictures I'm putting up here ! Like I said , if I buy them enough drinks they don't mind my jiggly bits :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hardly any men on RHP,particularly the over forties,the married,or attached, have their face pics on display.As the, majority of women are guests ,we dont get to see your manly bits,or hairy,not so hairy chests,fab abs,or saggy man boobs....well sometimes we do. Women can discern the sucked in or even corsetted .It is when the photo is years out of date,or a man is ten to twenty years older than stated, that we get a shock on meeting them in person. . In reality we women are far more interested in your brains,never perve,and are always happy to meet The Shadow.....mutters to self....Hesione,liar, liar panties on fire.....yep all those sucked in guts will do that to me.x Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have a girdle.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...and keep 'em blindfolded. | Next question?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Good reply Delicious.. I guess the older we get the more we all need to compensate in some way for what mother nature takes away... What I meant is ' we inevidetly have to face the reality of the picture we paint at some point in time.. I would imagine how embarrassing it would be if we portray one thing but have to present as another. But like you said.. keep the drinks coming and maybe they wont notice.. lol.. As they say' theres no ugly woman after 2 am...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris' I look for mood lighting , avoiding harsh sun ( cellulite) situations, Meet in dimly lit bars, wear push up bras, spanks suck it in undies, and pray he gets drunk enough not to care !! Kinda joking, kinda not ! :) We all want to portray ourselves in the best light possible , to attract our mates. It is blurring that fine line between boring reality ( me sitting here hair up, no make up, trackie pants , baggy jumper , 8 year old slippers) and me when I like how I look, dressed up , feeling fit , sucking it in and posing in a flattering way - i know what pictures I'm putting up here ! Like I said , if I buy them enough drinks they don't mind my jiggly bits :p I have to say Cplbris...i love ur jigly bits and ur jiggly arse is hot hot hot mmm :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mate.....I may be drunk when we go to bed but hey, I am gonna wake up sober.....are you gonna wake up pretty? Best to leave before dawn. . It is all in product advertising. Once we start to chat then the personality will win through anyway and the looks cease to be of paramount importance. Initial impressions are important and this is a visual meium.
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RHP User
13 years ago
you said: " But like you said.. keep the drinks coming and maybe they wont notice.. lol.. As they say' theres no ugly woman after 2 am... " Personally.. I find women GET ugly after they have been drinking.. Which is why I DON'T do alcohol and meetings :) cavey.. unimpeded
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RHP User
13 years ago
What other people think of me. After having children, I know I'm not the same shape I was 10 years ago. I'm not vain, and don't feel the need to 'hide' parts I'm not happy with. What you see is what you get.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Jay, well in your words exactly as you put it "its always refreshing to READ a profile that seems genuine" . And thats exactly how I judge profiles, on what it reads first and foremost, not the pictures. As Hesione says we can see a sucked in gut a mile away... but the gut doesn't worry me at all so long as its not a full keg, they are just attempting to show themselves off in what they percieve to be their best light. And yes it is unfortunate that so many males don't put a face pic up, I understand that some ppl don't want to be recognised but I have one up so just my eyes are covered but from that pic most people can take an educated guess of what I look like and should even be able to see what my body is like from the outline of my shoulders. The only recipe for dissapointment is if someone lied about their age or showed pics from ten years ago.... one guy tried to do this to me... the early 90's clothing was kind of a dead give away......lol.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Most of us are not the proud owners of the perfect body. And that's okay. We come in all different shapes and sizes and I guess how you chose to portray that in your profile is all a matter of personal choice.For us, we'd rather be upfront and in fact, our profile is very clear about our body shapes and what we offer - it was our choice not to rely solely on RHPs pre-determined rank of 'average'. If we are not the shape, size, proportions that people are looking for, it makes it really easy for them to say NEXT and move on to the next profile.There's little point in deceiving; after all, we are what we are! But that's not to say a bit of soft lighting doesn't go astray. And besides, I've learned that playmates notice my flaws less when then can't take their eyes off my come to bed eyes !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Jensman,a crossdressing super hero,with a golden girdle....wow Cavey, I have the ability to turn wine into water...x Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hehehehehehehe
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Fleurtatious..Its surprising how far a full keg can be sucked in... OK, I know everyone wants to think they still look as good now as they once did' and Im just as guilty.. then I see a recent pic and think " thats not me " this must be some sort of trick photography.....lol On profiles' I consider myself a pretty good judge of character but who ever knows for sure, We can only hope our gut feeling is right.. I agree with you on your pic' I have a fair idea how you would look without the eyecover .even though I think that smile is as cheeky as they come,,,lolCavey50.. I agree' a drunk woman is not very becoming although a tidly one can be fun. The comment I made regarding 'theres no ugly women after 2.00am' that is the title of a song sung by a Country group. Its meant in jest, nothing else.. I dont practice that...
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