Whoa!! The date finder.....

May 24 2012

Not sure I'll post for dates on date finder again!! 43 expressions of interest!! Very overwhelming, even for an open minded gal.....   Unless ofcourse I send them all to a quiet place and have the gang bang of my dreams   Any chick done this??

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You picked at least one, right? Cheers Felonius

  • xFunlovingx

    xFunlovingx

    13 years ago

    I did it about a year ago when I was going to Ballarat for a long weekend...I had over 50 interests and I would say that around 48 of them were guys out of the age range I was looking for...Never again unless RHP can target it to the audience I am seeking! Hugs...xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Haha, think its a bit different for guys. Either way if your still looking for someone I'm always keen ;D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I posted a date for this Friday night , so far 8 guys replied -i messaged them - all were very unsure what the date was all about, despite it beung written there , and then 5 were " busy" or without a car!!???? And 3 unsuitable or not what we are looking for!............................................................ No couples as yet, winter sucks!! NO one wants to party !!!.......................................................... Just have to go to a swingers club and try my luck a hot man shows up !! Grrr

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You nasty girl Mrs Delish....scaring the bejesus out of those poor boys.....Raflmao. Cheers Felonius....It's a weird weird world we live in.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ... it was one guy showing 43 expression of the same interest! That's maybe "...it rubs the lotion on it's skin" kinda overwhelming, although, if that's your cup of tea; no judgement from here :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    alwayswet2011, be glad that you have recieved a lot of responses rather than none.   Deliciouscpl, being unsure about the date or suddenly becomes busy on "Friday night" is very stupid. But I'm sure you can find anyone anywhere so I don't see why you need to be frustrates. If you want it that bad I'll visit you right now and no need to wait for tonight.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    There are a few factors to consider though- like was it a Fri/Sat night for instance or like me a short notice Mon daytime meet put up late on Sunday night lol? I get about half that give or take 10 ;) I would like to see what I could get for a Saturday night with a few days notice. Hmmmmm the social scientist in me makes me curious!!! But the humanitarian in me thinks it's wrong as I always have my kids when my partner is away!As if getting heaps of choice would be negative and make me question whether to use the function!!! Perhaps little to no response....geez sometimes it's easy being a girl!Cass xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Well I like it now too :) To the guy who showed up - thank ou, I'm still smiling :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'multiples_xxx' There are a few factors to consider though- like was it a Fri/Sat night for instance or like me a short notice Mon daytime meet put up late on Sunday night lol? I get about half that give or take 10 ;) I would like to see what I could get for a Saturday night with a few days notice. Hmmmmm the social scientist in me makes me curious!!! But the humanitarian in me thinks it's wrong as I always have my kids when my partner is away!As if getting heaps of choice would be negative and make me question whether to use the function!!! Perhaps little to no response....geez sometimes it's easy being a girl!Cass xxx and if your willing, maybe I could bring my kids over for a play date with yours, then we could have our play date of a different nature, nature being the operative word of course...little hard to do a last minute thing with my two girls, but I am sure they would thrive on the adventure...as would IIn turn if you wanted to visit WA, I have plenty room for kids to play and sleep...in turn plenty room for us to playand relax...if over indulged

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    What I don't like about Date Finder is that I end up with a whole lot of expressions of interests from guys on my block list! Those guys are the ones that tend to list themselves as available every day of the week... You wonder if they have much of a life at all, if they are always so available? On the other hand, it's a good way to get some exposure through the 'X matches your date on Date Finder' notification on other people's home pages.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You can't win them all

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'City_Kitty' What I don't like about Date Finder is that I end up with a whole lot of expressions of interests from guys on my block list! Those guys are the ones that tend to list themselves as available every day of the week... You wonder if they have much of a life at all, if they are always so available? On the other hand, it's a good way to get some exposure through the 'X matches your date on Date Finder' notification on other people's home pages. If there is 'no point' then why bother with the site at all as I am sure like mine your inbox is full of people who you are not looking for despite your indications.I just go through them no, no, no, maybe, yes, no , no, no, no, maybe next time etc it's easier then messaging a bunch and waiting for replies/interest when I have a bit of free time- it makes sense to see who else does. I find the ones that have it every night are those who work during the day and are happy for company at night which I think is fine- I hope they get it every night :)Ha HEEDLESS you mentioned kids and killed it lol! Mine don't sleep through (8,4) little buggers so I don't have sleep overs, mind you I have thought to say okay but you have to jump in the WIR when they wake bahahaha! If I need you Charles I will shine a light in the sky :PCass xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Cass - why I bother with this site at all? Tried to leave last week, but I'm a forum addict, plain and simple...oh and those moments when you open your inbox, trawl through a few emails and then go YES? Totally worth the time :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I wasnt referring to myself regarding exposure... I was more referring to the fact that as there are so many guys on here, that when the date finder notifications pop up while I'm perusing my feed, there's the increased likelihood I'll drop by their profile for a peek.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'multiples_xxx' Ha HEEDLESS you mentioned kids and killed it lol! Mine don't sleep through (8,4) little buggers so I don't have sleep overs, mind you I have thought to say okay but you have to jump in the WIR when they wake bahahaha! If I need you Charles I will shine a light in the sky :PCass xxx Revitalised back for a second hit Mmm kids, why would such innocence kill such expected pleasure??? Mine are 10 and 8, and slept through since around 21/2 well from around 10 - midnight 1. If you want I can stroll on over there, teach you the ways of sleep for your young, in turn keep you wide awake for the hours they sleep with copious amounts of pleasure, endorphins, hugs, cuddles, squeezes, foreplay, massages whispers, nibbles, kisses building up a crescendo before they awake for the finale and remainder sexual act but only if you so desire. 2. You come over here, get the cot out the attic mattress out the cupboard, child safe stairwell barrier out the garage, bottle warmer in the bathroom put them up stairs once bed time, then we can play in garden, spa, alfresco, kitchen, bedroom, laundry (if I seem to weaken) till dawn breaks, then lay in bed with just gentle strokes, touches, kisses till the stairwell buzzer alarm sounds, I then leave you in bed, put a quilt on the sofa, make the kids pancakes a fresh bottle for your young one if still on one, if upset bring through to you for a hug or two whilst the bottle warms up, or make a warm milk and a pancake too, then whilst they sit eating and enjoying each others company, exploring their holiday home so to speak, I bring you a nice brekkie in bed and hot beverage of your choice. They will think and see you slept in bed, but think I was on the sofa. 3. Throw all caution into the wind, you leave your bedroom window open, I zap over there climb through the window being careful not to knock the bottle of wine and port against the glass or crack the crackers for the cheese board, and as your munching, nibbling and slurping above the sheets I will be under them doing the same thing, if you can finish one of the bottles before just laying back at letting all your inhibitions run free, I will leave with what ever I came with minus wallet and underwear and head back to WA with tail tucked between my legs in shame (still with no touch, medicine or potions of any sort but show you how to help your child sleep through) if this all goes on to daybreak or till the young one wakes up, I swear to be up dressed making the coffee but pretending to do a safety check on your appliances or if you so wish crush me up into the WIR for seconds that evening!!!! All I ask is if you can deliver me - two bananas, 4 egg whites, two cups of pineapple juice 100%, two cups of Apple juice 100%, tea spoon of nutmeg, tea spoon of cinnamon, a small bag of seedless grapes, 3 raw carrots and a medium sized coco chocolate bar and an opened yet still full of milk fresh coconut, very large tbs spoon of honey, then as they go to bed the use of your bathroom for 20 minutes watch if you wish. No matter which one you choose I am completely on a win win win situation, so little unfair I suppose so will allow you to add an extra to each of the above to make it more worth your while H x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Never had problems with my 1st- solid sleeper from the day we fostered him at 5 months old. Always had problems with my youngest- never bottle feed he refused bottles to the shock horror of my nightlife!- BF for 2 years. He always woke heaps and still does......doesn't matter how many times he is put back (up to 6 times at one stage) it's 2 - 4 hours max. I eventually let him stay or when my partner is home I leave because 4 in the bed is ridiculous yes 4 problem now is my 8 y.o now wakes to 'snoogie' as well and I can't reject him and let the little one stay!!! Anyway, I hate sleeping by myself when my man is away ( that's why I am still up at 2:10am now) and whilst I would rather an the whole bed to myself or another adult to share it with lol it's okay until they are too old.No other pack animals sleep separate they all sleep together for comfort and safety. Revitalised whatdidja have 10 coffee's?! I pick no 3 where I get to see you climb up the story to my balcony (no latticework Romeo) to get to my bedroom Cass xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Many years ago Cass, I did climb up 5 balconies to get to a lady friend who lived on the 5th floor of a 6 story block of flats, sorry but if there is a will this little cherub finds a way Believe me; I do know all about a child not feeding of a bottle, my eldest was really ill at 3mths, took near two years of living in a hospital still today at 10 we still take her for checkups each year. She was fed on a drip for so long she did not associate hunger thirst with eating drinking. However all good now I did try and PM you not really wanting to say above on open forum, but what the heck, broad shoulder I have - though could not due to changes or some thing Mmm you know of my coffee addiction, give you top marks on your home work did move onto the Nespresso, but over $150 per month gave it up for visitors, parties only. Won’t say the actual amount as some think I would have some illness but I can have a lovely nice warm cup freshly ground and go to bed sleep like a baby, only not like either of the two we have or had. Unsure if you have tried some of the tips and tricks out there to help a young one sleep no potions as said before Ha ref my two, yes they are both sprawled right over my king size bed at the minute and as small as they are they some how seem to have every corner, pillow and quilt covered so who knows maybe I will light the fire, grab a port, kick my feet up and reminisce on how I got up 5 stories in preparation it getting up your one (balcony) Mmm pack animals, slept many places alone in my life, I can and obviously have lived with it, and doing it again now week in week out. Ha at least I am in a house this time though not on the side of some snowed under mountain or middle of a forest. However it is very comforting when things are sweet, and you have some one close to cuddle up to and just feel there body warmth, the slight beat of there heart as your bodies touch, feeling of the sheets moving with the breath they take and rise and fall of there body. Love it all, but as we all say to get and feel the ultimate from it an attraction of sorts is also required the more attraction the more you get and feel form such little things, ha are they little maybe not and why these things can be missed so much No 3 it is then, I suppose as you did your home work on the coffee I drink, suppose I had better start to follow your perfume trail in the hope it leads me to the right balconySure dont want some old grandad slipper smacking me in the face as I lift my self up and over that last part

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    with my recent trip to Darwin, although quite a few didn't notice till it was too late.Recommend it