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Who's your Daddy???

March 30 2013

Early on in my experiences with the Mr on RHP, there were many mishaps with condoms and the last thing I wanted to be doing at that age was getting pregnant again, let alone to some random considering I could not and did not need to go on the pill because the Mr had the snip after our second was born. I decided to have a Mirena inserted as insurance which ended up having more benefits than I'd considered. But today I'm wondering...Do you worry about getting pregnant to a random on RHP whether you're a woman or the female half of a couple? Have you done anything to ensure that can not happen?Have you ever thought about how you miight deal with something like that if it did happen?A sincere concern I thought and I hope people will respect the answers shared here. Peachy

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's just like having sex with ANYBODY you don't plan on necessarily sticking around with.   Condoms as a first line of defence (and procreation's only half the reason for using them,) her choice whether she's on the pill or not (or any other female contraceptives,) and if there's any accidents or concerns (condom torn etc.), there's the morning after pill RU486 - despite Abbott's attempts to block its availability when he was Health Minister (sorry, couldn't help myself!)   It's not something that really crosses my mind any more so than having sex with someone not from RHP.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    What he said.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    im on the pill (though Dr wants me off in the next couple of years :(...) and condoms, not really worried at this point

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yes but what about girls that play with couples? Bet the guy is not always using a condom with his partner. So this is a stupid question and I can't be bothered googling it. What about transference of sperm on a guy or girls hand?? What about women who are into bukkake and may have lots of sperm .... Everywhere? Due to health reasons I can't be on the pill or many other forms of contraception. Being in group situations can sometimes be a concern but I normally have my Daddy there watching out for me. :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm sure this doesn't really need to be discussed. Everyone is mature enough to know "what they should do", and "what to do". It's the year 2013...we have choices and prevention's.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'neptune_drift' It's just like having sex with ANYBODY you don't plan on necessarily sticking around with.   Condoms as a first line of defence (and procreation's only half the reason for using them,) her choice whether she's on the pill or not (or any other female contraceptives,) and if there's any accidents or concerns (condom torn etc.), there's the morning after pill RU486 - despite Abbott's attempts to block its availability when he was Health Minister (sorry, couldn't help myself!)   It's not something that really crosses my mind any more so than having sex with someone not from RHP. that the emergency morning-after contraceptive pill is actually not the same as mifepristone, otherwise known as RU-486. The latter was approved for medical abortion, whereas the emergency pill will have no effect if pregnancy has already occurred, and also won't stop implantation of a fertilised egg. It works by delaying or preventing ovulation, hence the need for it to be taken as soon as possible after unprotected sex.For an interesting article on the emergency pill and its dispensary by pharmacists, google "The Conversation" plus "Note to pharmacists on how not to sell the morning after pill".

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    or anything else that messes with my hormones. As much as I love my 3 kids - NO MORE!!!No condom = no play. I must be lucky, I've never had a condom mis-hap.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Yes but what about girls that play with couples? Bet the guy is not always using a condom with his partner. So this is a stupid question and I can't be bothered googling it. What about transference of sperm on a guy or girls hand?? What about women who are into bukkake and may have lots of sperm .... Everywhere? Due to health reasons I can't be on the pill or many other forms of contraception. Being in group situations can sometimes be a concern but I normally have my Daddy there watching out for me. :P Apparently YES it is possible-very rare-but not impossible to become pregnant with no penetration. If there is sperm around the vagina or on hands etc it is possible for it to swim inside.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have been in a threesome where one of the guys err.... Well you know. Lucky my mate likes to swallow and managed to catch most of it on the way down. PMSL. Still freaked me out a bit. All I can say is watch where you aim guys.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I really have no sympathy for idiots who do not use contraceptive and complain about pregnancy. Some people are lucky but it is like russian roulette. Eventually you will reach the bullet. Those people make their bed, they should sleep on it. Two forms of contraceptive is always better than one. No, I don't mean putting on two condoms but an IUD and condom or the pill and condom or the femdom and condom or one partner being sterilised. You get the idea. Of course, there is the issue of STIs but that is another topic. I find the access to the morning after pill to be a disservice in Australia. They keep it hidden behind the counter and you have to ask for it. How many women actually know they can get it without a prescription? Sexual health services and information dissemination needs to improve in Australia. No offence to anyone here but as much as I like the RHP forums, I would rather get information about sexual health and safety from a one-stop shop, i.e. government or health service website or booklet.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    pinned this advice to my bedroom door when I was eighteen....it has always worked perfectly   Take the advice of one who knows,and tie your nightie to your toes

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Due to medical reasons beyond my control...However I still choose to use condoms, cause I never know who's been with who and who has what...am not going to risk my health for anyone. Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'zu7bcv' I really have no sympathy for idiots who do not use contraceptive and complain about pregnancy. Some people are lucky but it is like russian roulette. Eventually you will reach the bullet. Those people make their bed, they should sleep on it. Two forms of contraceptive is always better than one. No, I don't mean putting on two condoms but an IUD and condom or the pill and condom or the femdom and condom or one partner being sterilised. You get the idea. Of course, there is the issue of STIs but that is another topic. I find the access to the morning after pill to be a disservice in Australia. They keep it hidden behind the counter and you have to ask for it. How many women actually know they can get it without a prescription? Sexual health services and information dissemination needs to improve in Australia. No offence to anyone here but as much as I like the RHP forums, I would rather get information about sexual health and safety from a one-stop shop, i.e. government or health service website or booklet. It's kept behind the counter because it's a legal requirement for the pharmacist to talk to and obtain details from the woman before dispensing it. There are certain things they need to ask them (such as determining whether the emergency pill is suitable for them which depends on how long it's been since unprotected sex occurs, generally you need to take it within 3 days), and they also need to give them certain information. That is actually fair enough IMO, but I agree that there should be more general awareness of its availability, and as outlined in the article I referred to in my earlier post, many pharmacists need to improve on their methods of talking to and dispensing the emergency pill to women to avoid causing embarrassment and shame.