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Why are there few male pictures on couples profiles?

May 31 2013

Being only relatively new to RHP we have noticed that couples profiles are on the whole conspicuous by the absence of male photo's.We were wondering if anyone else has noticed this and we wonder why this might be the case.While I am not complaining Mrs Custardapples feels a little let down. It would be great to see some more of the guys upfront and public. What does everyone else think?Surely the guys can't be that shy?

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RHP User

12 years ago

Custardapples you have a great profile. The photo shows both of you and your about me/looking for sections are clear and concise. I often get messages from couples and 9/10 its always from the male and almost all the photos are of the woman. I think they need to have equal photos so myself and others can see.I find myself just moving on to the next profile when they are like that.

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RHP User

12 years ago

advertising. you put your best shots on display and hopefully generate as much interest as you can.... fact of life is that the gals are the pretty ones, not the guys....

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RHP User

12 years ago

Not likely to catch anything without the right Bait . What bothers me more is some of the Single Girl profiles . I read her Profile & then find out it's a Couple . GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile

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Mischeviouslad

12 years ago

.Photo omissions, I can understand..... but there are a few other odd habits that I cant help but notice.* Photos of the couple are dressed and obviously taken in a social setting, yet, there are also naked bathroom selfie photos of just the guy. So if she is supposedly consenting to a couples profile, where was she? I wonder.* Single guys (active in the forums)... but they have photos of women being shagged. Seeking some kind of validation that they may be worthy of a woman having sex with them?!* The oh so obvious fake female profiles that show up on the site front page as "new" members. Single photo, grainy, lifted off the internet. Who is fooled by this? Really?!!* A personal thought only..... Darts players, and competitive eaters.....are NOT athletes..... if ya know what I'm sayin'.......to be continued, Im certain.DG

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RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'MisterGreen'Not likely to catch anything without the right Bait . What bothers me more is some of the Single Girl profiles . I read her Profile & then find out it's a Couple . Completely agree. Without face pics of both I will not communicate further. Only yesterday I was contacted by the male half of a "couple", who wrote his first message as "we", but slipped up in his second one, only using "I". No deal!

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RHP User

12 years ago

We've wondered exactly that, as theres "always" plenty of the lady...but not too any of the tradie.

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Paradisepair

12 years ago

Sorry Luvnya just distracted me... We're guilty of having more of me (Mrs) than him in our public gallery, it's about 50/50 in our pg though. We have fun taking photos and I'm playful in front of the camera, he's not, so here and anywhere-else we have photos there are always more of me than of him. That's just us and I agree with many of the theories above on why it's common here.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Private gallery for me (Mr Kink) as I am....famous

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Playtimefor4

12 years ago

Custardapples great profile and a valid question...why is it so? There are so many couples profiles that only feature the girl on the public profile and still a lot with no guy appearing in the private pics as well. Not fair from a girl's perspective :-( Are there really that many couples with gorgeous girls willing to flirt for the camera and guys that wouldn't be photographed with a bag over their head? ......and on the topic of photos, congratulations to those who have put in way more effort than us and created some stunning galleries for us to enjoy! On the flip side, we could also talk about the lack of effort that is often apparent with the number of dirty washing piles, toilets and kids toys that feature in the background in photos.....unless of course, that's your 'thing'. Each to their own!

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RHP User

12 years ago

But only cos I take more selflues than him, and cos in in the past we have actively sought single men.... In saying that, just recently, got done by a "single" female, Skype-ing us. I was having cyber spec with her, as you do, Mr came in -watching from the sidelines , and pointed out that it was the EXACT cam action he had seen from her days before. Scammed! Pre-recorded, was hot, but I felt like a douche. Sigh. Haha, #making life harder for those who try. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

12 years ago

Sex! Not specs! Hahaha- Posted from rhpmobile

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jenniecruising

12 years ago

Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' .Photo omissions, I can understand..... but there are a few other odd habits that I cant help but notice.* Photos of the couple are dressed and obviously taken in a social setting, yet, there are also naked bathroom selfie photos of just the guy. So if she is supposedly consenting to a couples profile, where was she? I wonder.* Single guys (active in the forums)... but they have photos of women being shagged. Seeking some kind of validation that they may be worthy of a woman having sex with them?!* The oh so obvious fake female profiles that show up on the site front page as "new" members. Single photo, grainy, lifted off th

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Cheekyarses

12 years ago

Can I just say Custardapples that you guys are hot!! Well we have wondered this too! Is it because the male of the partner may think that sex sells better with a female profile pic?? But love your profile xx

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custardapples

12 years ago

Thanks everyone for the feedback. It's interesting to get the varied opinion.Thanks Cheeky, Playtime & Giggler for the thumbs up on our profile. Mischevious - you made soe good points .. obviously given this lot's of thought.These forums are kewl.P.S.. Cheeky - the feeling is mutual!!

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custardapples

12 years ago

Thanks everyone for the feedback. It's interesting to get the varied opinion.Thanks Cheeky, Playtime & Giggler for the thumbs up on our profile. Mischevious - you made soe good points .. obviously given this lot's of thought.These forums are kewl.P.S.. Cheeky - the feeling is mutual!!

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RHP User

11 years ago

Thanks for this post custardapples. As newbies on this site, we were amazed how many couples only have pics of her. We had a discussion about this over dinnner.....the psychology of it all: Are guys not confident enough in themselves to portray their sexual self visually? Do their partners not appreciate their shapes and angles in an aesthetic way? Is it just that guys are camera shy, or prefer taking the pics? Maybe a validation thing - look what i've got.....showing off their woman If there are only female pics in a couple profile, i am left wondering what is wrong with the male I am the female in a MF couple and appreciate the aesthetics of nicely shot imagery of men Both alone or with their partner C'mon guys - get creative with the smartphone - no mirror flash shots ... It is possible ... ALL our pics were taken with a phone I'd love to issue a challenge - get snap happy guys - a picture is worth a thousand words If you think u have great male pics send us a message...

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