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Why bother
December 01 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
On the other end there is also the couples that do meet and say they want to catch up again soon but you don't here from them.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Happens to us too... 30 no shows out of 37 arranged meets... they all talk the talk then cannot walk the walk.... no idea why considering the nature of this site...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Fun_2_gether'Happens to us too... 30 no shows out of 37 arranged meets... they all talk the talk then cannot walk the walk.... no idea why considering the nature of this site...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Tell us about it, then there is the ones who have other motives rather than meeting both or all parties, and one ends up the invisible person, it sucks.
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RHP User
13 years ago
At least we still have fun2gether despite the no shows :) Just over the crap on rhp
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Fun_2_gether'At least we still have fun2gether despite the no shows :) Just over the crap on rhp Good advice, don't let it spoil your day,and yes over it,
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RHP User
13 years ago
we always meet ppl never leave you hanging we have only had a cpl of ppl let us down but most off the times we meet and we always get back to the other party even if its to say thanks but no thanks .......alan and annette
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RHP User
13 years ago
You might be having issues with pleasing 2 people so half the issuses and use us single males I dont fail to please
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Two_Tarts
13 years ago
We have never had, or been, a no show. We would be pretty pissed off if we went to a date and the other couple did not show up but it has never happened to us. Perhaps we have just been lucky but it seems strange to us that others have this happen to them so often. We have certainly had people cancel in the lead up, and there have been times that we have had to cancel in advance when family stuff has come up, but that is just part of real life. We also don't play with everyone we meet unless there there is actually a real attraction in person but most people seem to understand that being a swinger does not mean you want to have indiscriminate sex with every person you meet. (just indiscriminate sex with sexy people who turn you on.- lol) The one and only time we ever tried to arrange to meet a single guy he chickened out about 30 minutes before the meet which was a bit of a let down, but he still had the decency to call and come clean on his own personal issues. We never bothered with single guys after that but our preference is for couples anyway as that gives us a bit of something for everyone. We can imagine that meeting with a threesome for the first time could be intimidating unless you had some idea how they like to play, but you would hope that people considered that before they wasted your time in the lead up. Good luck, and have fun!
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RHP User
13 years ago
We've had a couple of single guys no shows occur, but, we amuse ourselves and think it's so much better just the two of us. we play at our place, so I have to set it all up and make it look and feel sexy. Arranging to meet someone new is a lot of work! That's why when you get a good one, you hang on to him/her. Couples have turned up and decided not to play. Usually it's the lady that changes her mind, while the poor guy is so eager to get started! It is disappointing when it doesn't play out the way we've imagined it. But a 90% success rate is pretty good and we've met many lovely couples and single guys. Just don't like it when we meet, the guy doesn't look anything like his photos! Well this is a site made up of all sorts of people. It's been interesting.... Hope it will be for many years to come....
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RHP User
13 years ago
You should try it here where we live, out of 15 only one will show up.... Its hard to find a couple with a bisexual male and straight female... But we do get couple of nice single bi-guys now and then.. What I can't under stand is why people are on here if they don't want to meet..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Some just want to chat gtbi, some just want to cam or get pics. Some appear to be seeking a virtual relationship. It is deceptive as they have no intention of meeting, yet they say they do and are on this site. All I can say is screen, screen, screen. We are slowly learning how to screen effectively so that we can figure out in most cases if they are actually genuine in meeting.
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mrcheeky70
13 years ago
Quoting 'DandAfuntimes' On the other end there is also the couples that do meet and say they want to catch up again soon but you don't here from them..... Yes agree totally guys, has happened to us a few times now......just when you think you have met the right couple......nothing.........but hey thats life on RHP, take the good with the bad but keep on perservering we say....one day !!!!!The Cheekys
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RHP User
13 years ago
We have leart to block a lot of them but just wish we could find someone with out all the run around But as you say it RHP And you do get some shit here
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RHP User
13 years ago
We have met thirteen couples so far and have had zero no-shows. We have had some last minute cancelations, and have twice cancelled on our way to the Emergency Department (ah, the price of a life of adventure), but we always reschedule.NormalThree - we have looked at your profile several times and are a LITTLE intimidated. But if we made plans to meet with you, a little intimidation would not stop us from following through.... that's just plain rude. If we make a date (for coffee or whatever), we're going to show up, or call well in advance if there is a change - it's only polite.Just out of curiosity, NormalThree, do you get a lot of (or any) actual Dom/sub couples like you're asking about? We leave our "just us" kinks out of our profile because we suspect that meeting other couples in a "vanilla" way is hard enough. Do you all think that putting some kink in your profile adds to the intimidation level (and therefore an increase in no-shows)? We come across (we think) as fairly normal and have had great success - does the group here think that there is a bias, or additional intimidation factor, when extra kinks are added.M & E :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Where are all the fun sexed up couples that like having fun. Have had some amazing times but find some are time wasters.even harder to meet single girls on here.find parties are alot more fun and more down to the point ;)
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rc_80
13 years ago
Parties are where it's at. Network network network. Once you've found the genuine couples, you'll find an entire crowd of like minded people to enjoy :) Quoting 'AcoupleNU' Where are all the fun sexed up couples that like having fun. Have had some amazing times but find some are time wasters.even harder to meet single girls on here.find parties are alot more fun and more down to the point ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'gtbi_mm' You should try it here where we live, out of 15 only one will show up.... Its hard to find a couple with a bisexual male and straight female... But we do get couple of nice single bi-guys now and then.. What I can't under stand is why people are on here if they don't want to meet.. Quoting 'gtbi_mm' You should try it here where we live, out of 15 only one will show up.... Its hard to find a couple with a bisexual male and straight female... But we do get couple of nice single bi-guys now and then.. What I can't under stand is why people are on here if they don't want to meet..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yeah weve had alot of fun at pic parties.but sometimes hard to find other parties to go to in between .
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RHP User
13 years ago
Dont understand what there is to be intimidated about,???????????????????
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rc_80
13 years ago
Keep your eye on the events section. One more popping up soon that will suit ;) Quoting 'AcoupleNU' Yeah weve had alot of fun at pic parties.but sometimes hard to find other parties to go to in between .
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'rockercouple80' Parties are where it's at. Network network network. Once you've found the genuine couples, you'll find an entire crowd of like minded people to enjoy :) Totally agree with rockercouple. We had met a few couples, had a few cancel, then we went to our first party. Had a blast, met some great people and took off from there .Some people join this site thinking they know what they are getting themselves into, but when the time comes, it may be too daunting for them. My only advice is to keep trying, and hopefully you will meet some fun sexy people soon!Mrs 2ezee xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I doesnt bother me there are 3 of u , may be its the guy that scares em off, i dont care to tell the truth were all on here for some sort of fun an if there is more than one great...............Rob B.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We have had the same, we set up dates, cancelation usually come last minute or through no reply, not sure why just seems to be the way things are sometimes.In saying that, the couples that we HAVE met have been great, most of which have been through parties or group meetings. Parties really are where its at!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes know that feeling meet couples and the male partner gets shunted out Milkybars like at the hotel Yevonne got attended too but i was left out , that happens at all parties we go to . And yes so many couples who play games we see alot whom say they get stuffed around well i have seen plenty comments on the validation of a couple that prove other wise .
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RHP User
12 years ago
hi guyswe have the same issue. every time we find someone to chat and maybe catch up and see where things go they usually ask to see our other pics and when they dont get what they want they usually dont wanna know or if we do show them then it stops. all we want is fun. whats so hard about that. we're also looking for a female to play with hubby but that too is a struggle
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enange63
12 years ago
We have had only a couple of no shows over a few years. We find that MSN chats are the answer, if people cant find enough time to chat online then there is likely a problem in finding time to meet, also it gives us a chance to see if a meet is worth while. This of course means we upset some folks as they want to meet straight away but its an essential for us, and it undoubtabley reduces no shows...and uncomfortable meets.
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