M41
Why can't I have any luck
July 12 2017
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RHP User
7 years ago
You could do with more photos and include a bigger write up, maybe include more detail of your interests so you come across as more of a genuine guy. Remember you're pretty much a stranger to other members on here so try and stand out a bit more. Also I noticed a few minor spelling and grammar mistakes, I hate Grammer Nazis personally but for some people first impressions are important.
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IamMrSilly
7 years ago
Take another photo where you are smiling, fix your profile so it looks like you put effort into it and have worked on it, and put out date finders and other similar things to get yourself out there so you stand out. In short, work hard and put more effort in.
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Sherlock_H
7 years ago
Same disclaimer as Meander, this is an opinion only. A lot of your sentences a short and sweet, so they read like a checklist. Maybe pay attention to how you talk in real life, and see if you can make your writing reflect that, something perhaps a bit more conversational. Also, a lot of your sentences start with "I". It's something I've caught myself doing a lot and am trying to change, as I think it can come across as being too self interested. Also, there's some good feedback above, I pretty much agree with everything that's been said so far. Best of luck! S. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well you could start with even pic you post, make sure its got a smile in it, girls like smiles, you look easy to approach even if you a serial rapist lol j/k.Good idea to pull line's, idea's from other peoples profiles, or even read them to spark your own idea. women need many things in a relationship with a man, the first 2 are crucial if the relationship progress unless its just about sex.1. Certainty / Security - Put your self in her shoes, does the wording, the pics and the smiles show a fruit cake with no direction, or does it project and clean cut guy, whatever he's work position, he has hope's and dreams and he's really working towards those goals, not just talking about it. be busy, show her a busy, interesting life, chicks love if you volunteered to help the homeless, I do, they fucking love that shit, they are very impressed, its the new buzz word my friend altruism- disinterested and selfless concern for the well-being of others."some may choose to work with vulnerable elderly people out of altruism"unselfishness, selflessness, self-sacrifice, self-denial mention family values... I guess it comes down to this, theres 2 ways to do this, for a fuck or for a relationship, they are both different approaches, which is it? synonyms:
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RHP User
7 years ago
PS. like the other fellow said, your selling yourself, your a shop front, best pic with best smile up as main profile.
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RHP User
7 years ago
If you can be bothered spending an inordinate amount if time on here for a minir chance of success plod along. Truth is single guys outnumber women astronomically on here so unless your profile absolutely jumps out then you are probably just wasting time and would be best off just attending meet n greets rather than going for thecwritten impersonal approach. We've been on here over 3 years and can pretty much count on one hand the number of responses we've recieved so don't take it personally.
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Forus1234
7 years ago
From a couples perspective, you don't need to change much at all. Your profile is a reflection of who you are. There alot of single guys on this site, you profile will need to stand out, you've already promoted it by jumping on the forums so you probably won't to do much more 👍. Look up in your photo, so we can see your eyes. We wouldn't be too concerned about smiling in your photo, as sometimes smiling photos can come across as creepy. Also safe sex - if required, is a deal breaker! We like profiles that practice safe sex, but at least your honest!
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sweetnsensual
7 years ago
have a read of others profiles and also maybe its your opening message a hey or wassup doesnt cut it'also dont say what yiou are going to do to thema simple hello how are you i liked your profile and introduce yourselfif you send pics dontr send a dick pic unless asked for one would be my advicealso take some better pics possibly with a good quality camera and make them well lit just my thoughts
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RHP User
7 years ago
you last line should be deleted ,,ill show you what a real man is like ,,,,other wise i might take you up n show you what a real trans girl is like ,,,,,lol
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Supernova
7 years ago
Written word isn't as important as everyone says - you can change your bio all you like, won't work if your pictures are considered unattractive. If you have attractive photos, you'll find very few now have a problem with what you've written all the sudden! So get the best possible pics up! Perhaps ask women to rate them for you to get some insight. Good luck :)
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indulge_you
7 years ago
If you get a reply to a message your doing well. If you meet several ladies a year your doing better than most. Many more men than women on here. It's just a number game so hard work for men. - Posted from rhpmobile
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TheClitWhisperer
7 years ago
Just stick to who you are , she /they will find you 🤙 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Does anyone want to rate my profile? I just joined up and getting no responses, just views.. is it because i havent met with anyone yet to verfiy me ? Orrrr its over the top lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Absolutely 100% agree. That's the best advice you've been given. I quite often don't even read messages or flirts. I look at pictures and if I'm not attracted or there isn't enough/any vision, it stops right there. Pictures are the first impression of you that will jump out of your profile and make an impression. So sell yourself. You need to make it pop from that first glimpse, at least to keep our interest long enough for us to read the rest. And I don't mean anything over the top, model standard or professional pictures, just a mix of pictures showing your body and personality, face is a bonus 👍 Re the rest, just be yourself, relax when you go to write the about me and looking for sections, if it's real, it will come across in your words and will resonate with some. Good luck. Hang in there. Hope it improves for you 3somes really, again? If you're so jaded from your experience, don't be suggesting it's the fault of online dating/meeting and that the op should just give up now and go to meet 'n greets. OR maybe you could take your own advice and spare us the whining. I could think of plenty of things you could do/better ways to invest in yourself, to improve your strike rate 😃 Start a topic, that would be fun 😀👍
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's a better idea to start your own thread, if you want personalised commentary, or just read the threads and comments for general insights. I actually like your profile - pics and blurb is great, just a matter of finding someone in here that matches. Good luck
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Missb4u
7 years ago
Quoting 'hamo4lunch' Does anyone want to rate my profile? I just joined up and getting no responses, just views.. is it because i havent met with anyone yet to verfiy me ? Orrrr its over the top lol - Posted from rhpmobile great profile. Im sure you will do well. Its just going to take some time.
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Supernova
7 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Absolutely 100% agree. That's the best advice you've been given. I'm just honest. Maybe I sound cruel, but no point giving pointless advice. The better the pics, the better you'll go... I've changed around my 'wording' many times to literally 0 affect. But when I change my pics around a bit? - Massive difference! 21st century Australia, where everyone is a 'Bro' or a 'instagram model'...we are a shallow society, we may as well just own it and be honest with eachother :)
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Supernova
7 years ago
Quoting 'Frenchsoul35' Just stick to who you are , she /they will find you 🤙 - Posted from rhpmobile This. This is why you shouldn't come to forums for advice. So if he just 'sits back being himself', the perfect girl for him will sort through thousands of single male profiles and *find* him? Really? come on! We arn't all french supermodels like you mate
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TheClitWhisperer
7 years ago
Ok yeah my advice was pretty lame ! Everybody told him to change his pics , cause yeah bro u need a massive work in that , ask a female friend to help u with that , n in case you are not aware of that keep ur dick in a private gallery ( just in case someone ask but in my opinion it s not a good point for her if she ask) I told him " stay urself" it was more like " don t lie to attract " . Saying that you are going to spoil her sound like u got no self esteem and want to buy her compagnie ! It s how it sound to me while I read ur profile . But hey I m just a French top model so what do I know 😜 I know that my first attempt on this site I had 1 serious chat , nearly met her but she stood me up , so I gave up on Rhp , it was two years ago, then I came back about 2month ago now and 2 hours after I signed up I was on a date ( thanks to datefinder by the way) So you see it s a matter of time / profile/luck - Posted from rhpmobile
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