Why do single men send flirts/messages when I'm not looking for a single man?

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  cbdlivin

  12 years ago

  A subject that has been covered, and of course the answer is they either, don't read the profile, they believe you will make an exception for them or they are so awesome you should be grateful they are contacting you. The last type could be a compliment about your profile and they are not expecting an answer, just wanted to say you have a great profile.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  And keep sending flirts when you have responded that our planets will not collide.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Hey NewCouple2147..Welcome to the world of swinger sites. It doesn't matter which site you're a member of, nor what you stipulate in your profile. Some single guys either don't give a rats what your desires are or they just think cause they're Hung like a horse or look like Hugh Jackman, that every married woman will want to sleep with them...Yeah right!

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  avidmale

  12 years ago

  To be a smart arse and give you both New.. But no.. cbdlivin has covered it i think.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I think a lot of guys just play the odds of hit & miss!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  They can :)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Single Men can't read ;)- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I strongly believe at least half are taking the piss.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I've asked a bunch of guys about this. Don't assume they think about why they're doing it or that they have a specific reason for doing it to you. Most have said to me that it's all about the numbers - cast a wide enough net and you're bound to catch someone. Most haven't read you profile or preferences - if anything they've looked at your pics and whipped off a flirt, lickety split. I remember a while back a guy said he had an average of 1 successful hook up for every 100 or so flirts/messages (a bit like the standard brochure-drop success rate!) ... so by that rationale, you're just one of 100s. Don't take it personally, don't give it any energy and certainly don't feel like you have to respond to them all :)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  If a profile/person makes an impression I'll send a "love your profile" flirt just because.I expect nothing.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  That's why RHP has a block function. Seriously though, is it really that big a deal? We just ignore them because it clearly states we're not looking for them. It must be difficult for single guys because there are so many more on this site compared to people looking for them. Maybe they are just trying their luck and hoping for the best? I don't see any reason to be annoyed by that.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Why do you get Junk mail when you state No Junk mail   Because You DO

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  We are guessing they only are trolling and see something they like...They are the sort who walk past a Porsche dealership and go and 'kick the tyres' knowing they can't afford it, but still waste the dealerships time by seeming interested... C'est La Vie xox

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  yeah you get them at the shop, you attach them to your cock and use it like a mouse   so that is why the dick mouse over rides all other programs   Like the reading program, or the thinking before I contact progam   the dickmouse also puts all kinds of virus into your computer   like the wmsv as in the wanking myself silly virus the wtiab virus wanking till I am blind virus   I feel for them. I have it on my profile please if I do not respond to your flirt its a no from me kinda thing. alsas I have a few guys, and often the same ones that send me five flirts in a row each day

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Cause we stooopid !

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  Mr_DarkChocolate

  12 years ago

  Mr Choc - Might be many reason's but to me logically i go with the simplest because it's often the most likely... it's just marketing 101 but they are the product but they also have limited time on their hands & as such a much more effective way to put their brand across is to flood the market with advertising e.g themselves through flirt's or "cookie cutter" messages & inevitably they will surly have a few interested parties & as such the uninterested ones that find it in any way annoying, bothersome or irritating are of no concern. Effective but personally it's kind of stupid, shifting through pictures we really only find a handful that even look remotely worthy of interest & as such to us they are worth the effort of reading their profile & yada, yada, yadaHopefully that bring's some reason to your digital single guy junk mail problem but either way there's nothing you can do to stop it.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  They can. . and... . You just never know your luck in the game unless you actually try.

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