jensta

jensta

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Why do so many guys have! arse! fetishes!

November 24 2010

Just chatting to guys on here! I am amazed how many want rimming arse play and anal, Help me out ??? I think to myself, guys would be wanting hot pussy! Are they bi & cant go there? ?? So this is the next best thing! Seriously I believe many on here have Sex issues! sad but true! Its really hard to filter! whos! who! As I also know lots of good ones on here too! xxx

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Arse play itself on a guy can feel absolutely fantastic. I remember my first girlfriend randomly one day started touching back there while proceeding to do other things. It felt amazing and lead to a powerful orgasm. Admittedly I'm straight as an arrow, but I know several of my friends who are nothing but 100% straight and love to engage in arse play, anal and rimming. All of which I suppose can be explained by the fact that it feels good.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Its not always about your sexuality. Areseplay and riming feel good to receive and I love to reciprocate to ladies who enjoy it too. I've never tried it with a guy and can't imagine I will while there are willing girls out there who enjoy it as much as I do

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    heh, that should be "I'm not as straight as an arrow". Damn proof reading

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I guess its all in the eye of the beholder!!...(n that pun was intended!)...butt blokes like the tightness!!...n as we here them saying...every holes a goal!!!x

  • jensta

    jensta

    14 years ago

    Guys wanting arse play! Its not like u wanna do that with just anyone! I understand it with a partner! but not a random! x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'jensta'Guys wanting arse play! Its not like u wanna do that with just anyone! I understand it with a partner! but not a random! x For a chat/conversation to head down that track so fast the guy is making quantum leaps in chatting. To me you discover that with a prtner it is all about exploration and sensuality...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I'm hearing u Jensta!!!...but if thats the kink for them!!...it's what there gonna get off on!!...we'r all different!!...wanting different things!!...doesn't mean you have to do it!!!xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Now I dont mind playing back there and I certainly dont mind having mine played with (Provided I remember to cut my nails first that is). I Dont mind anal sex either. That is fine also but when it comes to rimming..... Oh I am sorry! It is something I do not enjoy having done to me and it is something that no matter how clean the guy is I will not be doing AT ALL. In my opinion.....Nobody needs to lick someone elses arse.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee' In my opinion.....Nobody needs to lick someone elses arse. You dont know some the people I have worked with :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Employed brown nosers!!....n getting paid for it to!!.....well that may numb the thought a bit i guess!!..tis a wierd world!!...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee' Now I dont mind playing back there and I certainly dont mind having mine played with (Provided I remember to cut my nails first that is). I Dont mind anal sex either. That is fine also but when it comes to rimming..... Oh I am sorry! It is something I do not enjoy having done to me and it is something that no matter how clean the guy is I will not be doing AT ALL. In my opinion.....Nobody needs to lick someone elses arse.It is the conotation that goes with it! Not for me! Just a mite degrading in my mind

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well I think straight guys have a prostate gland too.. am I wrong?As for rimming... not really my cup of tea without a good shave down, an enima, a bucket of bleach, a toothbrush and packet of tic tacs. p.. although I understand mint lozenges are interesting... I think "I'll stick with the ginger figging. hehe..HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Gay men aren't gay because they love arse, they're gay because they love men. There are, in fact, gay men who don't like anal sex. And there are plenty of straight men who do, without it meaning they have "issues". The arse is, as amply pointed out above, a very sensitive erogenous zone, and last time I checked both men and women have them. If it's not your thing that's fine, but your judgementalism smacks of old school puritanism to me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I'm sure they're totally interested in hot pussy too, but generally if chatting to a woman on RHP it doesn't require a conversation to see if that's something she's into.

  • jensta

    jensta

    14 years ago

    I certainly love sexy arse! But I find it, Demeaning at the fact they hopeing to meet for Arse stuff! Thats just to fucked up for me! Great sex happens in natural progressive ways! Not get on the internet just ask for the bit u want! NOT HAPPENING! Great fun sex! Starts with Good conversation, Attraction, body language, kissing touching, feeling, & exploring & pleasuring each others bodies in many ways! By the way I have a nice tight well controlled pussy! so if guys like a tight hole, Dont alway have to be arse! I have done all & enjoyed while in relationships! xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We're not too prudish and enjoy some of these things every now and then together BUT there is no place better than a pussy to stick your cock or your tongue. The other stuff is for something special and we are amazed how many people ask as a second line "do you do anal". I think people want it because they haven't had it or maybe it's a power thing I'm not sure? It's nice to keep a thing or two for special times eh?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well this is a sex sight...n if you don't ask you don't get!!..suppose we cld go with the thought that at least people ask....nothing worse than it put apone you whilst vunarable with ya knickers down!!....eekk!!

  • jensta

    jensta

    14 years ago

    I would never have thought guys would be more iterested in arse! Really I think its them being selfish! Its about what they want done to them! thinking they can get anything they want on this site! Well That Where They Are Wrong!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Jensta, are you being serious or having a joke with everyone? :) and as a counterpoint to your 'it Is selfish' argument, see sweetie pie's comments. I love seeing where people are kicking in with the moral indignation... Anal is special; it isn't something for someone you just met/started talking to; etc. When if you ventured outside RHP you'd find people who don't grok swinging/hedonism/etc making similarly absolute statements about activities people enjoy 'share your wife with another man? Oh, that is wrong'; 'fuck in a club full of people doing same? Maybe on our pornos, but in real life that is wrong' etc. (this isn't commenting on people having personal limits, it is the absolutism of viewpoints)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    My attitude to sex and life in general is as long as all involved are consenting adults and are good with it, then each to his or her own. Some people like to be suspended upsidedown over a vat of sharks and spanked with a paddle, and as long as their partner is happy to oblige and they have ready access to a vat of sharks, then good on them. I find it a bit odd that people are offended by the fact that other people are raising this with them in chat, when it would seem from this thread that it's a contentious issue. Surely that's ample reason to raise it, and it gives anyone the option to say "sorry, not my thing." taking offense and then judging them for their sexual tastes is all a bit prudish to me, unless they're raising it in an offensive way. Personally I barely talk about sex at all in most of my emails, I figure I already know that stuff from the profiles. I'm more interested in finding out whether there's a personality connection in message exchanges...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Darkhorse makes a very attractive point. Personally, I also very rarely ever talk about sex... .. no.. wait a minute... that can't be right... Ok... but I know what he means! He means that he'll figure it out to suit the moment... being spontaneous is so much more fun after all... except of course.. anal sex is so much more fun when you're .. errr... prepared. You can relax knowing that you're .. umm.. ready! hehe. So, fore-warned is fore-armed! What obliging gentlements we must have here on RHP letting all teh ladies know what they're interested in so that the ladies can prepare, perhaps BRACE THEMSELVES (see cock shot).. hehe, relax and enjoy the moment!HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    All true, Stalky. All tue.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    In agreement with DarkHorse & Stalky. Lucky I have had my hep C shot then. xxxx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Darkhorse makes a very attractive point. okay, now you guys kiss.... *shrug* hey, it was worth a try.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' So, fore-warned is fore-armed! fore-armed? holy bejeebus, I mean, I've marvelled at people who can be fisted 'there'... but past the wrist and beyond?! *speachless* ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Leave the judgement out of it. The hard part is when the guy wants anal sex with a strap-on from a Mistress because if he gets it from a guy he thinks he will be labelled as being gay. Apparently there is less shame in taking it from a girl. I get annoyed sometimes with that kind of attitude. I regard anal as being normal and part of a healthy sex life. Not kinky or gay. And as for fisting - yes Sydneyboy, that is kinky!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'MsValkyrie' okay, now you guys kiss.... *shrug* hey, it was worth a try. :pHugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Leave judgement out of it, but some of us enjoy arse play or being fucked with a strap-on but are not sexually attracted to guys. So girls who are happy to provide such pleasure are very much appreciated. Even more so if she gets off on it too.