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Why do you not go back for seconds?
April 06 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Depends how much time in between, sometimes feelings changed since your first time, life events, or you meet someone else and feelings change. Also what was great at the time overtime becomes less so. I've had it go both ways most important is to be honest and communicate about it. But I'm all for going back for more if it was good....for both! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
All of the above (minus the ninja fuck) and then some! Usually it's because the sex just wasn't all that. Other times because my mind wasn't stimulated.But I remember a great night with a smart, funny and outgoing guy who made a racial slur the next day.Out! I just can't have sex with people I don't like.
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RHP User
11 years ago
all of the above. For me the biggest turn off is being told how wonderful someone is in bed then they don't deliver. I would be a rich woman if for every time I have heard, 'I love going down on a woman', 'I won't stop until my partner is pleasured', 'I could eat pussy all night' ....and then they go nowhere near it other than sticking their dick in it. MOST guys I have encountered, not all, have been all talk. It is like going to a movie and leaving disappointed because you thought it was going to be better. No idea why guys even do this, they end up with performance anxiety because they have to try and live up to what they have said. I would rather someone just chat with me and let things happen naturally than all the hype driven sex that ends up a let down. Oh and porno sex, I am sick of being fucked like I am starring in a porno. It would be nice to have sex with someone who knows how to treat a woman in bed. It is a big thanks but no thanks to a second round of that. I manage to pick the ones that I do really want again and again, I can't have :(
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RHP User
11 years ago
It could be a holiday fuck where you don't see them again Could be the regretful Work Christmas Party fuck, where you shat where you eat, Too drunk fuck you forget to exchange details Could be because of something they said or done or a belief you don't agree with or attitude they have. Could be the sex isn't to your taste Could be you find their friend cuter So so so many reasons - Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
11 years ago
..and some of the above.
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RHP User
11 years ago
and Mea,it's amazing how many people think that way......Ralph,I am currently living in my born again virgin cave for similar reasons:-) :-) :-) but my true confession is that I am a coward and a liar....some of my excuses have been....sorry no,I am busy hanging out the washing...my daughter is here....my budgie is sick :-) xx Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
Such a shame that the guys I have really enjoyed are ninjas. Have been lucky to have some longer lasting Fwb's . Must say though, there have been a few who are so bad I just have to blank them out of my memory bank!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'll let you know once I've found a woman worthy of a FIRST fuck!! ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
if it was great, I want to go back...if it wasnt (for everyone concerned) then it might still be worth a second visit to make sure lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think it's because I screen really poorly. I feel really guilty too because I have met some lovely people. Reasons for not going back, one was just too old for me, one lied about his penis size and was waaaay to small, another was awful and expected me to be on call for blow jobs. How do you politely let people know thanks but I'm not interested in meeting again?
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RHP User
11 years ago
It seems from the answers given so far that you have picked guys that talk it up and have an overinflated ego..... They are only interested in getting themselves off, not getting you off, despite all the sexy conversation they have with you. .... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I typically won't go back if the person hasn't been honest. Met some nice people but they often lied about age and appearance and also sexual interests. Physical attraction is certainly important, but confidence is also extremely sexy. If women are honest with me and are confident, we will both want to meet up again
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RHP User
11 years ago
I went through a period where i could only meet someone 1-2 max. That addictive feeling of knocking in someone door, not knowing exactly what they look like etc... That's was an amazing nervous feeling. No matter what they look like, it was kinky, so I would have hot sex with them... Some where hot, some where ugly , but they where new... And exciting.... The fits time would be amazing.... Enough to repeat the act another time... By the time they contacted me for another session, I was over it... And went on the hunt for the next woman to pleasure... I loved pleasing them and was addicted to new people... Only one woman held me by some magic spell, that still to this day, after 12 months of seeing her, I'm as excited going to her house as I was the first time... I fact.. Even more so... Because she's such a kinky woman.... Other then her.... 1-2 times is usually it... Hot passionate sex and move on. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Most of what has been mentioned. Often though, I'll say something stupid that turns them off me. I think it's because I like them too much.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Upon talking to someone you already get a bit of an idea of how they are.... The minute I smell pretentiousness, or that dash of fake shit like excessive compliments.....sometimes any compliments.....they'll get a big fat NOOOOOOOO. There are of course other reasons, but they're a good start. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Cheekyarses
11 years ago
We have met the greatest ppl on this site and have been very lucky to have played with almost all of who we have met. We might not go back for seconds if they live to far away and we were only passing through or visa versa... or we end up becoming too good of friends with them. We will not go back for seconds if when playing one partner may feel uncomfortable or one of us may feel uncomfortable... But you dont know unless you try..
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
To be honest, sometimes I don't even know myself, all I know is. I just don't want to see them again. I am not sure why?? I just do... Maybe it's because I believe, they never have the same (I don't know the word??) respect ?? for me as they would, if I didn't sleep with them on first meet or sex just the one time, that is why I choose not to met again. Only on the one or two occasions, have I gone back and met them again. The times I have, the man has made the contact afterwards... Maybe that is why I have gone back?? I don't really know myself, why? vulnerable maybe? wanting to know them and their behavor and who they were was not what I thought? my own expectations maybe?? ...........who knows? I don't know why I feel that way for? Maybe cause I think I am worth more than just a quick shag or maybe the trust is just not there? Who dam well knows, why I do it?? All I know is it does my head in...... Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Too much make up - doesn't look so good in the morning :) Lucky I shave my balls btw - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'coops14' That addictive feeling of knocking in someone door
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Larceny' I think it's because I screen really poorly. I feel really guilty too because I have met some lovely people. Reasons for not going back, one was just too old for me, one lied about his penis size and was waaaay to small, another was awful and expected me to be on call for blow jobs. How do you politely let people know thanks but I'm not interested in meeting again? I feel your pain, I have had every one of those situations. I am just rude about it now, if guys don't live up to their own hype, I am a down right cow about it. I don't claim to be good in bed, I would never assume that I am because everyone is different. I do give credit where credit is due though. I am not rude to those who at least put in a good effort trying but I haven't had an attraction, that would just be mean. I do feel bad if i have to tell people I am not attracted, some don't take it too well.
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sweetgem
11 years ago
1) Don't return the oral pleasure at all after they've received some from me, when they say they love giving oral in their profiles. 2) Are too rough in their movements such as, keep pulling my hair and hurt my scalp in doggy style when I have asked them not to do so numerous times. 3) Don't respect my safety/will and take off condom midway through. 4) Are cheap skates who let me pay for the entire cost on the hotel room renting. 5) Treat me like a working girl and only call/text me when they need a fuck!........well sorry arrogant heads, you can FO and good luck with your way of treating women! - Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
11 years ago
I will let you come back
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oops.. Knock on someone's door!! On!! That first time you knock on the door/. Ring door bell of someone new! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
perhaps Robert Downey junior could help out :-) :-) :-) xx Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've only met 2 guys who I wouldn't go back to for more. One I didn't hear from for 3 months, and then I suddenly got a text asking "Want to do it again?, errrr "No thank you" and the other one was just really shit in bed.
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RHP User
11 years ago
To many variables as to why I think. Guys: We only fuck out of towners to many guys and not enough women in Darwin so the locals tend to pester you, so we don't have to go back. Couples: Locals are ok if they are not fuckbuddies otherwise baggage and yours is better than mine problems arise, pick the right couple and we will go back. Unicorns: Well when you find a good one (only play with the good ones) you keep going back for more, only pick the right one and we will go back. It isn't just about sex, sure the website is about bringing people together for sex but if your sexlife is already great then you look for more than just sex. You look for the ones you will keep going back to for the friendship and the great sex.
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inspirit
11 years ago
I will give him a call
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RHP User
11 years ago
he is Iron Man afteral :-) :-) :-) xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
They were Smokers Married Inconsiderate - blow 'n' go type Too rough Too hairy Unhygienic :| All talk There was No discipline, no self-control (cum too quickly) No reciprocating of oral No connection No contact for weeks, sometimes months later - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Always considered sex partners were for a reason, a season or a lifetime and if their a reason it's normally alone off.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Fat fingers, delete alone and insert a one off
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
I wouldn't go back if the kissing was no good, if the connection isn't there.....
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