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Why hardly any pics of men on couples profiles

January 19 2022

Why do people only post pics of the female on their profile or one crap one of the men? We are a straight couple that love an extra male for fun but really want to try with a couple. Mrs must find the man attractive or there is no go. The problem is we have to go through all sorts of hoops to get a pic of the male and then are let down with them not suiting our needs. Each to their own in this scenario but why does there seem to be a lack of fit attractive males in couples on here?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Absolutely agree. We feel the same way. We find most couples profiles are straight men, bi women so figure that must have something to do with it 🤷🏼‍♀️ But if all are going to play together then all need to be attracted to each other so it would help to see some of the fellas pics too.

  • Freaky_Fun

    Freaky_Fun

    3 years ago

    And that is the $64 000 question. Considering their profile descriptions state the male is attractive, 6ft 2 and athletic you'd think they would want heaps of photos of the male 🤷‍♀️

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    3 years ago

    You probally know this already ' but the female is the bait and usually photograph better anyway. But that aside, when we had our couples profile , we found the same. Mrs Sawadee, needed a attraction and could rarely find a guy to suit because of the lack of pic's..

  • jenniecruising

    jenniecruising

    3 years ago

    A frustrating part of the match making process. We just ignore any messages from couples that don't have any male pics. Our experience is if the male isn't featured in a few profile photos you are going to be disappointed.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    If there's no pics of the male, we can safely assume he has let himself go. If you got it flaunt it as they say....if you haven't got it; flaunt your wife.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    3 years ago

    The females are often the more appealing of the pair. It's not uncommon to see less pics of the male and use the female as the lure. Much like your own profile. Only one of hubby and three of the wife. We are a straight wife/bi hubby only meeting males for group fun. Our couples profile has equal (and of the same genre.... My boobs/his chest for E.g) so that everyone considering us to message or play with has full awareness of both.

  • Kt_Kcouple

    Kt_Kcouple

    3 years ago

    Our profile has plenty of us both. My man is hot though😉😉

  • Libertine001

    Libertine001

    3 years ago

    Coming from a profile with one male pic and a few of the female?

  • Care2Share2

    Care2Share2

    3 years ago

    There is nothing better than females showing off their sexy curves, cute bums & amazing angles of their bodies……. It would be nice if there were more pics of their male partner, as it would save time & the awkward thanks but no thanks msg that we have sent quite often . We are attracted to great fun personalities as well as the obvious physical attraction. Ps Ms Care2Share2 is pretty hot aswell lol

  • Margo_Lover

    Margo_Lover

    3 years ago

    It is frustrating that so many couples accounts don't show the male. It would be good if RHP would make a bigger deal of this to couples accounts. ie you NEED to show both members of the team, regardless of the fact that the female is sexier. Chatting with another RHP couple over dinner this week, the other wife lamented that in her experience, single guys are more attractive than married guys. Too many married guys just let themselves go it seems. Or maybe she was having a go at me... hahahhahaha... d'oh. - Alex.

  • Sweet_Cherry_Pie

    Sweet_Cherry_Pie

    3 years ago

    Well, we are always trying to point out that we don’t want dick pics. Maybe we can assume that if there are no photos of the male, that he is a bit of a dick

  • JnJsDarkDesires

    JnJsDarkDesires

    3 years ago

    I think we can all agree (straight , bi or whatever) that the female body is a beautiful thing whatever the shape or size... but totally agree if you are a " couple " Don't use your wife/partner as the bait, you both are who you are and if things are going to progress to the fun stuff the other playmate will most likely want to see the both of you 1st... don't be shy🙈

  • Chillymofo

    Chillymofo

    3 years ago

    Could be that most guys in a couple situation at our age have kind of let themselves go. 🤷‍♂️

  • 86Jasindy

    86Jasindy

    3 years ago

    Ours are all pictures of me (female) rather than us. It is me that is logged in, that answers inboxes and posts on forum. Mr is just a little more private and introverted than I. He would not feel comfortable even with our faces removed (even mine is on public photos) if anyone was to recognise him outside. His family and community are ultra conservative and so has his reasons. Mr is still involved, and often will ask who we are speaking with, and when we go to further conversations where we share face pics/ private pics is involved. He just has less time and I find "talking" with others enjoyable/ entertaining. The can be many reasons, these are ours. Each person/ couple have their own story outside of RHP. Some would be happy for that to be known, others aren't. Some couples have one partner that feels one way and the other not so much. It's about balance

  • AandA26

    AandA26

    3 years ago

    Generally speaking the females are way hotter than the males, that is probably the reason. Mrs has to take one for the team far more often than I do. :)

  • Lovinglifenow202

    Lovinglifenow202

    3 years ago

    It's like the guy is the ugly one and he's pimping his wife to get laid. It irritates the hell out of me. I won't play with a couple unless I'm attracted to both

  • FitAndGeeky48

    FitAndGeeky48

    3 years ago

    It’s boom or bust with most couples profiles. Seems to be either all or almost all women, with a few of only the guy. The latter I’ve always taken as there isn’t really a couple there at all. The irony is, if anything, there should be more photos of the guy. With the usual caveats of not applying to all couples, but in the majority of cases it’s going to the female whose more likely to put a strike through a potential match. So there should be more photos of the male half if playing straight and still as many if playing both sides. Not all of us want our face pics public, but it’s not hard to take / have taken some photos of both parties that give a true indication of what sort of body they want you to ‘bump uglies’ with. Although I’d go with the dick pick / close underwear only shots as worse. You’ve confirmed you aren’t unable to have a photo taken and yes, you’ve a dick and absolutely nothing else that can help anyone decide if it’s a yay or nay. It’s like a deliberate FU. (Note the only bit, if you’ve shots that show how you look as well, they can be a reasonable addition, they are icing not cake though).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Women just look better, especially when they have abs!

  • ozmelbcpl4cpl2

    ozmelbcpl4cpl2

    3 years ago

    We don't bother chasing couples anymore we find it too much work trying to match up 4 people usually the females are the drawcards .its a swinging site cant expect much more ... It's no different to being catfished by larger women using irrational filters... Unfortunately it's the way this new world is

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Cant speak.for others, but in our case it's because we aren't looking for couples..

  • MFMHotWife

    MFMHotWife

    3 years ago

    I (Mr Hotwife) only look for extra blokes to help pleasure my wife, its all about her for us, I don't think potential guests are interested in looking at me, and I'm often the one on the camera. There is a couple of pics of me on our profile, but I'm not the focus of our priority...

  • energiser69

    energiser69

    3 years ago

    i often wondered that myself

  • Powercouplevic

    Powercouplevic

    3 years ago

    We’re looking for single guys and couples also with an attraction to everyone been the hardest to tick box completely agree should be compulsory to have at least one pic of the male counterpart on the profile… would prevent allot of unwanted turn downs …