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Why is my KINK so odd
August 08 2020
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SpicyKale
4 years ago
Not odd, just a different dynamic that you might struggle to find single women into. We've come across a few couples into it on here, but it came across as a backdoor way of trying to find a unicorn. Sort of your wife can fuck hubby while we sit and watch.... it was just a hard sell and came across as the wife realty wasn't interested in the lifestyle and just doing it to keep hubby happy. Not saying that's the case here, but I'm also not sure how you would go about not giving off that impression either. It was a bit of a red flag when we came across it to be quite honest. You might struggle to find couples into it and with women it's a case of everyone looking for a unicorn🤷🏻♂️
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Sawadee
4 years ago
.. to see that a female who loves watching her man with another woman ? Being a man who enjoys watching his wife be pleasured , l completely understand where your coming from ? Being a woman should not mean you shouldnt enjoy the visual as we men do ? Good for you...
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Freaky_Fun
4 years ago
It's not 🤷♀️
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ReyandJean
4 years ago
That was the fantasy that got us into the lifestyle
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2EssesExploring
4 years ago
People just love labelling and placing everything in nice little compartments. We started out primarily to satiate Mrs A’s unrequited bi desires and she was a jealous thing so I took a back seat. Then I enjoyed watching her play with others, whether male or female then she found out she wasn’t so jealous. Now her favourite thing is actually watching me and the more I’m into it and the more the other woman is into me the more tuned on she is. We never know just quite what the dynamic will be until we are with others, then we just go with the flow of what feels right for everyone involved at the time. We find that those that have definite lists of “I want to do A then B and have you do C then must end with D are really not the kind of people we enjoy.
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AnnieWhichway
4 years ago
Nothing odd here. Being in here and in the bdsm lifestyle has taught me thats its great to be different. Who wants to be normal anyway if there is such a thing
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Sexatdawn
4 years ago
Not weird at all. My wife is totally into it. Each to his or her own.
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hootymcjugs
4 years ago
I would say that if you like it then who gives a toss what other people think. We are a poly amorous couple who often play separately - and we regularly get the same shocked reaction from couples on rhp. Female is straight as well - which weirdly seems to be a real problem as well with couples on here. We have learnt not to worry about what others make of our choices - we certainly don't want to judge anyone else's either - live and let live because life is waaaay too short! But, if what people say to you about this bothers you - just remember that their predjudicies say way more about them than it says about you. And you two go out and have exactly the sort of fun you want!
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MsJonesy
4 years ago
Then thats fine! Enjoy it whenever you can. I certainly take pleasure from watching a fwb with another female, so I understand the turn on. 😘
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2EssesExploring
4 years ago
Hmmm Hooty, I’m torn between wanting to ride your wife or your bike! 😂
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RHP User
4 years ago
Kink shaming is the worst. Who cares what you are into? If it doesn’t hurt anyone and gives you all pleasure go for it!! Nothing makes me angrier than judgemental people.
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DonnaBrett
4 years ago
Not odd at all...
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curiouscouple4u
4 years ago
Not odd - I love watching my man with another girl
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SpicyKale
4 years ago
Reading back over the OPs post I'm wondering if people have jumped to conclusions on the kink shaming and maybe it's about communication. It's not something we're into, but you do you. A number of our friends are into stuff we'd never entertain, no shaming involved, but we still love hearing the stories! I still think it's how you communicate stuff like this, in our case when we were approached it was done really badly.... it felt like we were being used for someone else's end goal and we hadn't even met. It's like everything in the lifestyle, communicate and do it well!
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Samnite
4 years ago
I don't see it as odd. People have all sorts of kinks and fetishes. That is evident. What I find odd is that for people who claim to be open-minded, who demand respect, who want their opinions accepted and validated, and who want freedom of thought and expression, that these same people are not willing to give those things to others.
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RHP User
4 years ago
I find it a huge turn on watching another girl get pleasure by my man 🙌
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playfulminx
4 years ago
That's not odd. The only problem that some people may have with this is if that's *all* you're interested in and you're meeting couples without saying so. I'm assuming you still participate in play with another couple but just like to hang back occasionally and watch your man with the other lady?
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LittleGiant
4 years ago
As has already been said, I don't think it's 'odd' per-say, but you might find that single females are a bit suspicious of this because they might wonder if you're actually doing it because you want to or you're just going along with your partner's fantasy? I am not saying that's what is the case, because obviously you enjoy it, based on what you said, but that would probably be what I would wonder, as a single woman. Miss Little xx
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notquiteperfect
4 years ago
Great to hear this. My better half says she wants to watch me with another woman. Always thought it was a ploy or ‘ur just saying that’. Might have to believe her huh? Now tonfind that situation....
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2Hot1979
4 years ago
I love watching my man and another chick . We normally start off myself and her , and he watches then he joins in and we all play together and later I just sit back and watch and play with myself and the circle starts again .( not always in that order ) but So much fun and everyone Loves it . You enjoy girl 😈🤗
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WildWest1971
4 years ago
It’s not odd my gorgeous gal loves to Watch me with other girls. Not that we get to do it very often. She also likes to watch guys play with themselves. Mind you she watches while touching and playing with the girl. She is never very far away. Her hand is usually near by guiding you in.
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cyril1
4 years ago
Its not odd, the majority of members want it to be the opposite to your kink. Just be you and enjoy what you, ignore those who want to impose their thoughts on you.
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RHP User
4 years ago
I don't think its odd, I'd love to watch my man with another woman x
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RHP User
4 years ago
Well I love watching my partner enjoying our play friends and the intensity he can give to them is very different to myself so watching him has also help me with my play😋😋🥰
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