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Why most of the girls looking for "mature" guys?
June 19 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Benji from Paris..... you're English is pretty good. Are you asking about women in their 30s looking for mature men or all women? Experience and maturity do have a lot to do with it I think. Some women like to teach but often women want a confident man in the bedroom which usually means someone a little older. Welcome to Australia gorgeous.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Benji from Paris..... you're English is pretty good. Are you asking about women in their 30s looking for mature men or all women? Experience and maturity do have a lot to do with it I think. Some women like to teach but often women want a confident man in the bedroom which usually means someone a little older. Welcome to Australia gorgeous. Sorry That was meant to say are you asking about women in their 20s... that is girls your own age.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank for the welcoming darling In fact I was talking about girl from 40' to 50'. After reading your profile (It was really pleasant-looking) you're exactly the kind of girl I was interested to know why you put a limit of 30years old to your pretenders. Is it possible (if not unconfortable to tell it to the whole community) to know why you put this barriers on? Did you have some bad experiences with youngers?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Because I am looking for long term friends and I think that I would have more in common with people that are closer to me in age. Just as a general rule. I am looking for more than just sex. Plus older men are often better in bed due to having more experience. And when I see guys in their early 20s they often look like kids to me. I don't find them sexually attractive, which is probably how it should be.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks for your sharing a lot! I wish I had more time to discuss on it for today but I have to go back to work. If anybody else is interested about sharing their feelings you are all welcome! Have a really good day meeka, it was a pleasure to read you. xoxo
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Smilingwithfun
11 years ago
The reverse is also true. Once you get over 50 a lot of ladies have 50 as their upper age limit. AAhhh to be 40 again.
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RHP User
11 years ago
On the person and your connection for me anyway. Id prefer a man 40-50 as I'm seeking something longer term. However I have some experience with the men in there 30's and like any age group there are good and bad.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Age means nothing to me...it's how one treats me, with the respect and dignity I deserve is what means more to me than anything else. I look for equals and yes long term friendships, someone whom I can connect with on all levels not just the physical side. I've had lovers in their 20's and to be honest - it's nothing special...more inconsistency....they cancel at the last minute - quite unreliable, give poor excuses (like the dog ate my phone) and just have no idea about emotinal Intelligence or how to treat a woman with the respect and dignity she deserves. Not only that younger men just want to live life more. Older men tend to more stable, follow through with their actions and tend to be more in tune with women who have stability. They do offer long term, have more Emotional Intelligence and can offer more and have lived and experienced life more. As Meeka said older woman want that stability, want that little bit more - it does not mean we want marriage or to be rescued by a handsome knight, it just means we want more meaningful matured relationships. Most older women have lived a life and over time have worked out what they really do want as this has come from living life experiences. Hope this answers your question. Ms.Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Be very careful who you flirt with. Your butt may never be the same again. I have a lower limit for the same reason as Meeka says. If a lady doesn't know who Tom Baker is and that is the best Doctor, they probably not going to be around for long.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Nailed it :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Funlover, Tom who? Go Benji, welcome! I won't see younger men because I don't want to meet anyone who won't be proud to be seen with me in public. And I need to feel the same way about them. Hope this helps :-)
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Smilingwithfun
11 years ago
I show my age, they must know who Jon Pertwee is, he was the best doctor
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its an attitude / behaviour. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
being_me I agree. However when you are putting age restrictions on your profile you need to put some limits in play don't you. But I still prefer an older man who has filled out a little bit.... body and mind.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I recently changed our age limit from 25 up to 30, for quite a few reasons, most of which some of the Ladies have already mentioned..... :the younger men I've come across usually only want a one off experience, I prefer something ongoing. :There are quite a few guys that haven't followed through and actually meet, especially when you make it clear you want to meet in public first, they just disappear into thin air. :Unreliability, lost phones, excuses, dropping in and out of communication, not understanding that I can't drop everything and come running because they only have the nerve to meet right now! :I like a connection of sorts, some common ground and we are more likely to find that in someone closer to our age. :They only want to play with me, not me and hubby, but are always eager to be part of a Gang Bang should I organise it! :Older guys have hopefully had more sexual experience and have developed some interesting and pleasurable techniques and the abillity to hold off! :We are getting to that age when some of our friends kids are hitting or have already hit their 20's, I really don't want to come across them, start chatting them up and realising I know their parents. That would be very weird.
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RHP User
11 years ago
But wrong about the best Doctor!
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Antzy
11 years ago
I'm looking for somebody in my own age bracket as I'm not looking for NSA or FWB, I'm looking for more of a companion, friend, lover arrangement in and outside of RHP and a 20 - 35 (even 40) are in a completely different mindset and have different wants to me. It's all about satisfying ones needs and wants, not so much about the age I think?
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laughandplayRHP
11 years ago
I have stated 25 and above on our profile (I'm the girl in the couple), however, I generally don't go for anyone under 29/30...with my preference being for the mid - 30's guy's...why? because I have found the older dogs have more experience and understanding towards women and their needs, whilst the younger ones are still working it out - which is fine - some women like to teach them, and I know many ladies who love the under 25 guys for that reason. The older guy's about 40 -45 are, by my experience, toooo set in their ways and don't like variation lol...but, as for myself, I don't have the patience nor want for either someone to teach, nor someone who doesn't like variables. So, for myself, the mid-30's guys are tasty boys to seek out what I'm looking for. Ms T xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm not sure this 42 year has a similar mindset as anybody else no matter the age bracket. I like your username though. Antzy. Antzy. Antzy.
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RHP User
11 years ago
lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
As I said in a recent thread when answering a question from another man... "You'd be surprised how ladies on RHP are looking for a more permanent relationship". By that I meant exactly what more than a couple of ladies have said above... (Talking about single ladies, not couples at the moment). If they're looking for a man, it's not necessarily for 'SEX' for the sake of Sex. They are looking for a man who will make then feel like a 'woman' and pay all the same courtesies and give all the same considerations as a man who was simply 'dating' a lady... Men who are older, (not necessarily as old as I) have by that time, learnt a good deal about ladies and what they are looking for (in and outside of the bedroom). I don't necessarily mean the difference between 38 and 35. To me, I don't see a whole lot of difference there, but then, it does depend on what the individual has experienced, not only the amount of ladies he's fucked, but also all the other intricacies that go to making a man 'woman wise'. This MUST involve his getting in touch with his 'feminine side' (and we have one, believe me)... And it's strong and if we take notice of what it tells us, we will be far better off in many areas, not only with love and sex. For instance, and it's just a small thing, but you may notice in ALL my posts, I refer to females primarily as 'Ladies'... That's because of a degree of respect that I have for each and every one of them. Of course, the 'experience' issue is valid and high on the list issue and I think most ladies are well aware of the fact that men can be far more experienced once they get to a certain time in their life.... And it's a level of experience that can't be taught... It must be learned. The issues of 'stability' and simply 'knowing what he wants' and also 'knowing what a lady wants'... All of these things come together to 'Hopefully' form a well rounded, self aware, knowledgeable and self confident man who is going to be, more often thoughtful and kind, gentle and considerate, rather than (and no insult intended here) a man with his eyes directed solely at the 'Goalposts'... Thank for the Waflle...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I mentioned 2 ages "38 and 35":... I meant "28 and 35".... Thanks...
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SexySmart50
11 years ago
For me it is also about the reality of life if you click and want to stay together I am not likely to be serious about someone in their 20's or 30's and I'm realistic enough to know they probably really aren't that interested in me. I have found that a few young guys go for older women so they can 'brag' about it or because they think its an easier target. I don't fall for that. I don't wish to 'tar you all with the same brush' but that has been my experience. x
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RHP User
11 years ago
A guy saying "What is a Ferris Bueller?" makes me feel sad. And old.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' A guy saying "What is a Ferris Bueller?" makes me feel sad. And old. Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.Quoting 'Meander' A guy saying "What is a Ferris Bueller?" makes me feel sad. And old.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Openly1' For instance, and it's just a small thing, but you may notice in ALL my posts, I refer to females primarily as 'Ladies'... That's because of a degree of respect that I have for each and every one of them. I don't see 'ladies' as being anymore respectful than just calling us 'women'...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23'I don't see 'ladies' as being anymore respectful than just calling us 'women'... And I really don't like "females".
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes I agree. And saying you know what RHP women want when you have only been here 2 minutes is a tad, dare I say, arrogant.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We are RHP chicks. LMAO. :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Luckdragon23'I don't see 'ladies' as being anymore respectful than just calling us 'women'... And I really don't like "females". I am sorry ladies. I was just giving an example of what I thought was 'respectful'. And saying that I use the term to show 'respect'... My intentions were meant to convey my attitude that respect is important and is something that we all respond to. I thought that 'intentions' would count, along with respect.Hopefully, I will learn the proper terminology used here.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd like it if you gave the women here the exact same respect as the men. Equal rights.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' I'd like it if you gave the women here the exact same respect as the men. Equal rights. You don't need to use any special names to indicate your respect for women, or give us any special treatment. This is what a lot of men don't seem to understand. Respect is best shown and given by just treating us as equals. I realise though, that older men in particular were often raised with the idea that 'ladies' should be treated in a certain way, and although this isn't bad per se, it does just perpetuate the ideas that women are these fragile, special creatures that want and need to be treated like princesses (ok yes some women still do like that sort of treatment and that's their right as well). Hopefully, I will learn the proper terminology used here. Also there isn't any one accepted terminology in these forums, there are way too many possibilities and as with everything all people have their own preferences. For example you might have seen some of the debates (shitstorms?) in here over the terms MILF and cougar when referring to older women. Some women - myself included - don't like to be labelled by those names because it implies that we are all actively looking for younger men when that isn't the case; other women don't mind the terms at all and even refer to themselves that way. The key with those sorts of labels and terms is to ask the woman you are talking to about her stance and then respect that.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi Benji, ( oh my, you're gorgeous) I have been with much older gentleman since I first became interested in sex. I seem to be more attractive to older gentleman & am rarely approached by someone my age. Unfortunately the few experiences I have had, have left me wanting more it feeling like a "pussy" rather than a "person". I also find the classic manly man much more attractive with a bit of a fetish for bald men with goatees & hairy bodies! That look doesn't crop up do much in men under 30 haha. Good luck though, if you were closer I would ignore all my barriers because you look ever so gorgeous... That might be cause to give you spanking though ;-) xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I agree, Tom Baker is the best doctor! To the OP, I have no problem with age, it is all about the person...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ivannahumpalot' I have a kid who is 20, creeps me out knowing someone is even remotely closer in age to my kids than me!
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RHP User
10 years ago
on Women aged between 40-45 seeking Men. Seems this demographic might be a little different Benji. Lowest age limits were 18 - 2%25 - 30%30 - 30%35 - 25%40 - 3% When I have time I'll do the same exercise on Women 20-25
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' A guy saying "What is a Ferris Bueller?" makes me feel sad. And old. Quoting 'Meander' A guy saying "What is a Ferris Bueller?" makes me feel sad. And old.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Exactly I find it abhorrent that there are young woman out there who don't know who Fonzie is
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MissAce
10 years ago
I prefer older guys, I have had both good & bad experiences with youger guys, younger guys are more likely to rush to get the end result rather than enjoy the journey. I also like a man who is confident & dominant one assumes older men have more experience and finally I feel more confident with someone older probably a misconcecption but I feel older men wont expect a perfectly toned skinny body & will be more accepting of my wobbly bits. Im sure there are plenty of yonger men who could confidently meet all of my needs so I never say never but I do have preferences - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Message me (soft, warm, gentle seductive smile) and welcome to the play pen.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I get it, it's an age old argument but I think it comes down to an individual and how much you're willing to look past age to see someone for what they are... My ex partner was 38, divorced with an 18 and a 9 year old girls... I'm 28 myself and we couldn't have gotten along any better if we tried, it only ended due to circumstances changing for us both... And as far as confidence that's an individual issue as well, after being with someone 10 years my senior I don't see the issue...
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OPNmarriagecpl
10 years ago
I (Mrs Curious) am over 30 years old and just find I am more physically attracted to men if my own age or older (30-50). Also, have found that we have more in common and can converse more freely and comfortably with people over 30. - Posted from rhpmobile
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tamworthguy46
10 years ago
Hi benjiI think a lot of woman are looking for older lovers, more for their general attitude, and some more life experiences, making them a bit more rounded as a person, as some things are learnt with time and experience, I find that with girls as well.....but there are exceptions , and you may very well fit into that category.....I hope you enjoy your stay in Aus, we love the French as they are fond of us also, that goes back to WW1.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi Good question OP My Question to the ladies who posted. If you received a message from a guy who is outside your age bracket stated eg bracket is 30 and the guy is 26, would you give the message some serious thought/time, view his profile etc or just disregard it?
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DBBandJBG
10 years ago
Well Benji what can I say? You would do well over here as the "COUGAR" mentality is alive and well here in the West. I am the male half of happyhornycpl............................soon to change to HAPPYHORNYLADY! as she gets all the action and I always miss out! she is 2 years older than me! Maturity and experience and a pleasant personality has NOT helped me a bit! After parties I always go home frustrated! She gets all the action. If we meet a couple HE will play with my partner and his female partner will go elsewhere. She won't touch me!It's why I don't post a photo on our profile or we would,nt get any response at all.Being a mature man is NO advantage at all. The younger guys will win every time.Cheers I
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RHP User
10 years ago
I get the feeling alot of younger ladies think a guy in his 50s is past it and woman around the 50s have probably been with a now disinterested partner of similar age and want a younger man.....I would have thought experience,technique,understsnding a womans wants and needs...and stamina mite cum into it?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hopefully! Plus reliable, punctual, polite etc. More often found with maturity than youth.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I can see that people are attracted to others in the same age bracket as they will more likely have more in common. The more you have in common, the more natural & relaxed the conversation will feel & the more confident & relaxed you will more than likely feel. Personally, I'm open to younger & older (call me a hybrid. Lol) I like to judge everyone individually.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I gave myself a year of being open to younger men…they were never my thing…... but I hate to generalise… having said that, I am still yet to meet one who rocked my world sexually…..I do not want to be the teacher, or the experienced one, (or the leader ) in bed. I am not particularly submissive, however I do like a guy who knows what he is doing. This includes out of the bedroom..the flirt and the build up. Older guys just seem to have more swagger, better banter, a finesse about them , a little more twinkle and spirit of fun. Young guys are eager and hard, and I am sure can be all of that sometimes….….I am just yet to meet one . I am now sticking to men 35-50 ….I find them much more pleasurable and connect with them better.
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DBBandJBG
10 years ago
Thanks. You give us older blokes some hope yet?xx Iain
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'RHP101' Nailed it :) - Posted from rhpmobile Quoting 'Funlover71' Be very careful who you flirt with. Your butt may never be the same again. I have a lower limit for the same reason as Meeka says. If a lady doesn't know who Tom Baker is and that is the best Doctor, they probably not going to be around for long. Not sure many women would know who that is anyway..... :) Quoting 'looking4quality' Funlover, Tom who? Go Benji, welcome! I won't see younger men because I don't want to meet anyone who won't be proud to be seen with me in public. And I need to feel the same way about them. Hope this helps :-) Yeah thats what I was gonna say LFQ.....most women wouldnt know who that is....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Meander you are so beautiful !!! Excuse me but I have a problem.. I don't speck English very wel because I'm in Aus from one year! I like your profile and I want to now if you travel or.. Exactly if came In Darwin soon!! I don't have experience about Rhp I'm new!! Excuse me if I have contact you public I don't want to be anpolite and excuse me if wrong same wards !!! Marco - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'marcop3' Meander you are so beautiful !!! Excuse me but I have a problem.. I don't speck English very wel because I'm in Aus from one year! I like your profile and I want to now if you travel or.. Exactly if came In Darwin soon!! I don't have experience about Rhp I'm new!! Excuse me if I have contact you public I don't want to be anpolite and excuse me if wrong same wards !!! That is very nice of you, thank you. Since you of course read my profile, you would have seen you are not quite who I'm looking for, but I really appreciate the thought.Good luck here x
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Jeeeezuz.... some of the profile photos people "choose". That one...... just nasty. DG
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Jeeeezuz.... some of the profile photos people "choose". That one...... just nasty. DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Best comment ever lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ferris Beulller lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ditto.. Tom Baker is THE best Doctor ☺️☺️☺️Lol.. For me.. I set my limit at 35 cos just think i'd have more in common with guys from 35-49 thou i try not to judge.. I guess i just don't want to be anyone's teacher ( you know, young guys hv this thing where they think older women will rock their jocks off ) & want more experienced partners.. Sex.. For me is to be mutually enjoyed & a journey of discovering what each of us enjoys ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Interesting it's all relative to what u want and need in a partner,20/35 Probably more sex driven ,than career and responsibilities of 35/50 bracket. That said,some are more free spirited and young at heart,try both but don't succeed! Best to stay in your generation ,the world didn't just start and end with Facebook!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Thanks? Was meant for DG.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I like the mature women they always put out
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