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Why the added inches ???

September 02 2010

Why do some men feel the need to add inches to thier penis??? The over embelishment of the penis is not a knew phenomenen i know, however through observing the online advances to female friends of mine there seems to be a prevalence of penis supersizing. Female friends of mine have had planned meets cancelled as a result of men not wanting to have to explain where the extra inches have gone, the embarressing truth is inevitably revealed in time. From what i have witnessed the men my female friends had this issue with were within the realms of statistically normal in penis size. There seems to be no positive outcome to this deception, no meeting takes place as a result of embarrassment at not being able to live up to a lie and any self esteem or self worth issues these men are experiencing can only become deeper and more entrenched as a result. As a male i just don't get it, i find it sad that some men have to lie about thier penis size inorder to gain the attention of women. My thoughts...

Comments

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    14 years ago

    Those that do are always the first to complain when they get served a lie themselves. You only get back what you give out. ET

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    It is sad ---- as in women wearing "push-up" bras has always intrigued me..............surely as soon as the woman is undressed and "involved" the truth is going to come out!!!!!!!!!!! But you have a biased opinion bcos I KNOW you have a THICK dick and therefore have been blessed with the "goods" anyway....................It is sad.....but its all about "trying" to get someone to sleep with you ................and if you get them to MEET you ...then your halfway there?? Mogdidliana

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    not everyone has to wear large condoms because the normal ones arent wide enough to get on :P seems to be a common issue with guys, some of my male friends ask for comment on their cock size and how big other guys are. honestly im not really one to notice unless they are very small or very large. thickness and thrust is so much more important than length. taste, cleanliness, and presentation are a big influence as to my interest. guys go on about penis size, some lie. if a guy brags then i usually say "congrats" and write them off pretty quickly because i anticipate issues of some sort its the guy the cock is attached to that is attractive to me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Who knows? I think measurements are taking from the perineum in a lot of cases. I personally don't care about the size of a man's penis although I do appreciate some girth.Personal experience, guys with quite sizable cocks don't put measurements up, some guys with big cocks think they're average (what the?) other guys with smaller cocks think they're bigger... some have no clue.When I see measurements specified over 7-8" I automatically deduct 2 inches. When I see 7-8 I automatically deduct an inch.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    its seems pretty normal to stretch the truth about "expected things"..on here and in normal life like ages - drop a few years (keep below that 40 cut off mark) weight - yes iam average (compared to people at burger king) height - yes 6' (in cowboy boots/heels) cock - 8" easy (if i squeeze the shit out of it and take a pic) single girl (unless you are a couple...then iam in a committed relationship) easy going guy (HORNY) :> we take everything with a grain of salt. and remember its just fun...be happy with who you are. Bernie and Kathy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Here's a theory. I go to a party and lots of teh straight guys are kind of shy about shagging in front of other dudes so they seem to stand back a bit from the action.. well.. they're not as forthright as some people I know if I can pout it that way. I have often wondered why that mght be.... Here's the theory... straight dudes hear all the exaggeration but rarely come ...err... face to face.... with the evidence. Their perception of their own dick size compared to their appreciation of the cocks that are about... makes them a bit body conscious. As a consequence, this perception reduces confidence.. However, see more stiff cock .. the more you see... the more you come to realise that there's quite a bit of variety either way. Dudes armed with that experience dont seem to bother with the exaggeration component. there simply is no point. So here it is... dudes exaggerate cock size because other dudes do and.. there's ... umm... stiff ompetition out there. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    There is no "It's little but it's cute" box to check. I can't believe people in here are still surprised or allow themselves to be dissapointed in people misrepresenting themselves. Politicians lie, sales people lie, most people lie on their tax return, police lie to entrap suspects, high court judges have lied, so have detectives (see royal commissions), famous and respected sports people (Tiger Woods) and your parents lied to you, Tooth Fairy, Santa, Easter Bunny, Baa Baa Black Sheep.... The motivations for people telling lies are endless, money, fame, recognition, ego, fear... Why the hell wouldn't they lie to get sex? I haven't read any womens profiles looking for a small to average size penis but I've read a few that suggest if you're not hung like a bear you're as useless as 12 inches of empty foreskin.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    because they think women actually care. which ofcourse we dont but they still add the inchs. I do hate when a guy lies about his height. I hate meating someone who says 6" and then we meet and I'm towering over him.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Are you sure they are exaggerating ? How was the "inevitable truth" your friends descibe revealed if they didn't actually meet? Maybe the measurement and the photo don't match, but photos can also be hard to measure. If they are, it might be to compensate for a lack of biceps. I guess the reverse could also happen. Maybe we should only include penis and bicep photos if they include a ruler. Independant verification would be going to far. Some of the profiles indicate the minimum measurements that they prefer, but size can also be a problem Girth isn't usually a problem but I think length can be just a few idle thoughts

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    yes ive been stiffed on a few inches before and its not nice

  • xFunlovingx

    xFunlovingx

    14 years ago

    But I have actually knocked back guys on their size being too big. When I explain this to them (as nice as I can), I have had 98% of them come back to me and say that instead of the 9" they "brag" about that they are actually only around 6-7". I don't bother asking the why...but I do explain that not all girls are "size queens"! In the end, they are the ones that miss out because they assume that size means everything. xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    In alot of cases...I think the guy GENUINELY thinks he is bigger than he actually is...and I think...like Stalky said....most have nothing to compare it to other than porno's....and those guys are usually above average!So...I would suggest.....MEASURE IT!Pubic bone (NOT pressing into the flesh..lol) to tip....not to the asshole!And thickness....well....again...Stalky's suggestion of a toilet roll cardboard inner seems to give the good "average" measurement.Remember guys....."Average" length means between 5 and 6.5 inches....and its 'average' because that's what most of the guy population has!I would much rather a guy have 5 inches on his profile....and can get it hard and use it well...than put 8-9 inches on there...and be sadly mistaken....and useless in bed.As always....JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Ruggedly Rugged - "12 inches of empty foreskin" Shit that is gold!!! LMAO!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I was reading this bok recently about the US helping Russia in the war with Afganistan, the US ws sending them supplies......anyway the ruskies ask for condoms off the US and state that they need them to be 18 inches long............so the US send them 18 inch long condoms in boxes marked medium..............bahahahahahahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Ruggedly_Rugged' you're as useless as 12 inches of empty foreskin.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    dont know how to measure it. but not that big John

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Has a nice size apparantly. lol or is that a nice way of saying its small

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Maybe they use different measuring systems. They could be trying to attract those ladies and couples asking for "HUGE" "well-endowed', " well hung" etc Polar_Bear_Girl "Who knows? I think measurements are taking from the perineum" and MissBJ "Pubic bone (NOT pressing into the flesh..lol) to tip....not to the asshole!" Hi MissBJ, long time no chat. xx Have to pay membership so I can get back in the Chatroom..lol squirtalicious "yes ive been stiffed on a few inches before and its not nice" you were obviously disappointed but that does sound funny. Stiffed on 3 instead of eight?? Some ladies would think you were lucky, at least you got a stiff one.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Myabe, just maybe guys lie about their cock size because so many women here demand in their profile that anyone who contacts them must be hung like a deformed donkey. It is the age old double standards here. A woman can and often do say in their profile words to the effect ".. don't bother contacting me unless you have 8" or more dangling between your legs .." and nobody will say boo. But if a guy said in his profile that he only wants women who have boobs that can pass the pencil test, there would be hell to pay lol Girls, just accept the fact that the RHP advertised penis is like the side mirrors on a car "Ojects may appear larger than they actually are'. Same way guys take women's ages etc with a dose of salt (ducking now lol) mooka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I hate to say this but woman on here most of them put what they want cause they can and have the upper hand on here being a higher male to female ratio, so if they want 9 inches of man meat then so be it doesn't mean they are going to get it anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    The "inevitable truth" was revealed and uncovered through subsequent conversations my female friends had regarding the meets being cancelled, the guys revealed that they couldn't go through with the meet because the truth was stretched and they were embarresed to go through with the meet...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    am i one of the only men who actualy gets embarressed at my size? the few times ive been to swingers clubs etc i feel like a freak with the comments, attention etc, dont get me wrong i take the compliments like any man would but being a shy guy and new to that environment, it can be a little embarressing, i put my size on my profile purely because, like my other details i want to be honest, and as other members here have said, the proof is in the eating lol honestly, some people must wonder if they have met the same person on the profile!! oh and i DO realise size isnt everything, i have never had any relations or encounters with a woman assuming ive just made their day with size! long story but its only recently ive realised im a little above average, so ive treated my partners in the way they should be treated, i do have fingers, tongue lips etc

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    oh and a word to club owners, how about some "bigger" condoms in the rooms, its damn frustrating trying to get a standard one on in the heat of the moment lol bit of a passion killer when you have to excuse yourself and run to your locker haha no i cant carry them behind my ear lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    On readong my post...failed miserably...lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Must have a rather strange ruler, or wondering just where there they take their measurements ?? I'm average size and don't pretend to be anything other than that, after all even you get that far and you lie about that what is the lady going to think about the rest of the things you have been telling her ??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I have loved every moment of reading it... Now I would like to openly say "I'm a fan of medium sized dicks". Yep, I've said it. I'm not always a fan of sitting on one and feeling it come out of my throat... a bit of ovary bashing is good but not all night. I may have to walk the next day, and sometime people just don't take that into consideration. If you have a medium cock, please message me. I'm not a size queen. (although if you have a massive one please message me too, I'm not size-ist and I will do my very best to accommodate you hehe)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    why are the good ones always on the other side of the country??JMO...BJxxx

  • Bubbaj

    Bubbaj

    14 years ago

    can the length be added to a tongue?! lol "only searching for men/women with long/thick tongues that can last for hours"i guess it wouldnt work the same for breasts though....they can last for hours but whats the benefit if they are huge? lmao

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Bubbaj' i guess it wouldnt work the same for breasts though....they can last for hours but whats the benefit if they are huge? lmao The most comfortable night's sleep on the world's most comfortable pillows? :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Bubbaj'i guess it wouldnt work the same for breasts though....they can last for hours but whats the benefit if they are huge? lmao better for tit fucks perhaps? Bigger object to aim for in bukkake? Easier to suffocate the lying bastard who turns up with only 5 inches not 10? (joke) xxx Mrs Sassy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    too big ? too small? too long? too short? are these measured in inches or mm ? or by time avaliable ? and isnt the right measure the feeling that goes with the said apendages use ????? and the level of affection from the person attached to it ??? Andy XXXXX just enjoying a relaxing read and red on a sunday afternoon

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well this is the very first time I have commented on a post so here goes Firstly - there are some very very good comments on here, I completely agree that men who have only seen other hard cocks in porn movies do not have an understanding of what is 'average'. The guys that are lying about the size of their cocks are the same guys that lie about being single or being 28 when they are actually 35. I am more than happy being 'average' in that department, and I have never had any complaints with my 'average' 5-6 inches. Maybe these men that lie about their size just haven't been with enough women or men to feel secure enough to tell the truth, or maybe they just aren't good in bed which makes them think they need to lie to girls about their size.. who knows! I have never done it and I never will :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well said mate...

  • Babadraw

    Babadraw

    14 years ago

    See, to me it makes no sense to exaggerate. If you are truthful/conservative, you'll tend to find they'll be' pleasantly surprised' instead and to me that's a much better outcome.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    A lady once said to me after a night between the sheets 'I would rather be licked all night with a 2" tongue than fucked with a 6" cock' I took it as a compliment, I had obviously succeeded somewhere during the night. But it also was established over breakfast that the tools are not as important as what you do with it. Its not what you have its the arse that drives it, There is no point hitting a 6" nail with a tack hammer :0)

  • Bigstiffy38

    Bigstiffy38

    14 years ago

    ...to all the posters, its THE WAY YOU USE IT...fullstop. I've seen the most ugly large cocks and the most beautiful small ones, so its also how it decorates you or not! Cocks are exactly like pussies - EACH ONE IS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT! I think we can only say there are categories of cocks, all to do with the look of it, NOT the size as is the urban myth. Ask yourself or you wife or girlfriend or boyfriend for that matter if you have a good looking cock...?...thats a better question I think. Another observation large cocks don't fit down throats very well (gag!) and for all the talk on here about blow jobs you'd think Mr. average would be very happy indeed about that, even Mr below average! I'm above average but that doesn't make me a better man or counter my below average issues in 'other departments'!...e.g. I wish I was heavier set, I'm not I'm slim.. I wish I was hairy too, I'm not I'm smooth....Be happy with your total package!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ....this is a refreshingly forthright and hilarious discussion about a fairly touchy subject...I'd say that the lies emanate from a cultural ill - that a massive cock is the paragon of masculinity and virility in the same way that to look like a Calvin Klein model is the ultimate body shape and certainly in the same way that women are bombarded with ridiculous standards and the judgements they impose..... Also, it's perhaps a symptom of the method of communication?! When in a person's company there are many ways to be flirtatious, using all senses....language is very powerful but it's difficult to compete with physical interaction, so maybe some feel the need to embellish a little to get to that stage!? Hope that makes sense....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Insecurity. It's easy to believe that based on the guys in porn and the fact that some women here specify 8" or over, if we don't resemble a baby's arm holding an apple, we're not able to give a girl a good time. In our hearts we know that's not true, but we all suffer our insecurities.That goes for most men, but personally, I lie because most women think that 15" can be a tad excessive... :-)What a great forum!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Sorry but the problem is you guys dont know how to measure a Penis.....But you are in luck because I have worked out how (SOME) guys do it.... They first place the tape measure at the base of their cock then measure upto the tip(say its 6 inches) BUT then you have to measure back down the other side (another 6 inches) Therefor they have a 12 inch COCK Now you know how its done !!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    the ESTIMATION of penis size is just mmmm, a whole lot of uninformed guess work. I mean BS I can guarantee you that 99.998% of the entire population do not have a clue as to how to measure the length of a penis. So what is the correct size? As a kinathropomtrist (A person who measures anatomical parts) where the measurement ends is easy where it starts, well, that is the tricky part. (the correct data is done using correct/scientific measurements) When you read about studies that state the size of penis', most people in their minds have an incorrect perception as to what really is 5 or 6 inches. or 8 inches or 10 Nearly all people believe that the measurement is done from the superior surface just above the pubic bone ie near the abdominal area (ie the part of the penis closet to your head) when in fact a correct measurement is taken from the inferior/underside of the penis and does include the part of the penis that extends behind the scrotum & testes. very easy to see if you watch a porn flick from underneath a guy. this actually can add 1 or 2 inches to what you do actually see normally This leaves most people with the incorrect perception as to what size it actually is. I hope I haven't bored with science. it is a wonderful thing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i have a 8 inch cock and thats no lie i also have a bit of girth,its not all its crack up to be. lets just say sometimes you need to be catious and anal is definatly out of the question