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Why the lack of visible profile Face pics..
January 05 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is an anonymity issue...hence, the lack of pictures, verification, the profile filled with "ask me" answers and using the proflie bulider...and the fact that some have no intention of every meeting up face to face... Or, perhaps it is a lack of self confidence in one's looks...let's face it, the moment you post a non-pg pic on this site, all users can rate you in the "hot or not" function... And lastly, not everyone is blessed with the Facial Symmetry that you, OP, certainly have...so well done for choosing a face pic over a penis pic
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RHP User
12 years ago
Still want to share that flight to WA?.... mmmmmmmmm
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RHP User
12 years ago
I take it you guys don't have kids or are married? Small town everyone knows everyone, kids at school, professional careers can all be affected. Yes there are people that really will never meet anyone and are wanting to just provide enough info to be able to have a look about. But with a professional career and having a lot of contact with a lot of people on a daily basis that private life is better kept to those that are in the lifestyle, not everyone on the street. Those very people that are having a perve could well be a parent of a child of your kids go to school with, or could be a patient or client of yours, certainly a position where judgement will come in. We socialize with friends and on the odd occasion the talk of swingers will come into the conversation. Sure it's interesting and everyones ears listen, and if there is an assumption or rumor a couple are swingers in the area well the judgement they get as "how could they do that" is on the negative side not the positive. Now I'm the first to admit they are the ones missing out as it works for us and our relationship has never been stronger and I know our life is more exciting than theirs. But that aside my life would be worse than theirs if I was to announce that " oh we are swingers" First of all there would be that initial thinking by the guys, single or married that they perhaps have the right to hit my wife up when ever they want, secondly some women can be hard critics and my wife would be looked as though she is a less than desirable person and me for that matter. Of course all this is based on where you are, we are certainly in a more conservative area so image and religion are still quite strong in a lot of people even though they may not practice it they judge by it. Anyway I don't say everyone has a need to not show face pics but for some it's certainly required depending on there situation or location. If your single no professional career and know no one well perhaps it's ok to do it. But as always it's your choice and you make that decision. One of the Unspoken rules that's I feel remains always strong in this lifestyle is that respecting everyone's boundaries is highly followed and everyone has their reason for doing 3somes, playing alone or not too, anal sex or not and to display face pics to not. Happy searching
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RHP User
12 years ago
They don't need (or want) to know what their aging parents are up to.
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
There's less of a stigma for singles looking for NSA dates than couples out for a four or more some.
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RHP User
12 years ago
People have problems if every tom dick and Harriet knows them when they do their shopping I have a separate life from RHP I have grown children who would be horrified if they thought mum was here And I have a husband, who knows I am on rhp but would be embarrassed if others in our social group found out If your single with nobody else to worry about then all fine. People you work with, friends and family will judge you. Just the way of the world. Especially for a woman, guys think oh she is on a sex site, so its a given she fucks anything so she must fuck me as well. I do not want to go to my local pub and have some guy come up to me and say, your that cheap slut on RHP, how about a root The sexual Salem still exists for women Scarlet letter will not match my outfit I had my face up here overnight as per another thread, but thats about as long as I would do that and its a risk for me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes rhp is basically a sexually based dating site, for couples is a bit different to that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
But am very aware of the possibilty of being recognised by colleagues. I rotate my profile pics regularly and show my face every now and then. Actually, let me change it right now.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You go on RHP looking for sex and then you are to scared to show your photo. Hmmm you are married in a relationship or as the other lady said the stigma attached to being on here. So my question??? have you not already stepped over the mark of being ember rest for your private life? What does it matter someone sees you who knows you? Wouldn’t it mean when someone say something about this site they are on it as well? So why being shy about something so good and natural? WE ALL WANT SEX EVEN THE ONCE WHO ONLY PERVE> I don’t understand, but then I don’t have to because each of us comes from a different mindset and rules.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I only show my face pic when asked in private SMS. I am not at all worried about what ppl think of my looks. I am worried about my future in the occupation of my choice.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
We have our face pics in our private gallery so we can control who sees them. Tuscan said it perfectly we don't want our face pics up for everybody to see because of that exact reason. Especially being in Adelaide because it really is such a small town. Face pics in private gallery is a good way to go because at least you can control who sees your face, and only let the people you're actually interested in meeting see them rather than everybody on rhp. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I do feel for those who are judged and victimised from being recognised on here. However, I sit diners, laptop open and in chat, or sometimes I'll post in the forums, and the big letters RHP is open for all to see. I'm still yet to have someone make a comment. I even have a little speech prepared for when they do!!!! *insert devilish emoticon here*
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RHP User
12 years ago
its a photo...and really, if you think you are only ever going to be identified if you have a face pic....you are greatly mistaken...we all have many unique identifiers....and the face is sometimes just the confirmation... we were picked out before we had even one face pic...by our details, ages and place of residence.. it happens.
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RHP User
12 years ago
but because of a real life identity. its in my best interests to keep it just the way it is. So far, only a few picked up who. So lm happy to keep it that way. ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
"its a photo...and really, if you think you are only ever going to be identified if you have a face pic....you are greatly mistaken...we all have many unique identifiers....and the face is sometimes just the confirmation...“ Yes but I don't have to give then the confirmation. Let them look and wonder if it is me.- Posted from rhpmobile
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Smilingwithfun
12 years ago
Hi Would like to throw up another line of thought. How many times have we missed out on meeting someone interesting or enjoyable because of first impressions. Someone puts a face pic up and we all pass a judgement. Do we read the profile if our inital thought's are not great. Do we take the time to see the person for who they are not just by one pic? The pic could be a poor pic, taken in bad light, there is a whole range of reason's why it is not a true representation of that person. So perhaps some of us don't have a face pic up because we want you to read our profile & interact with us first. I do have a photo in PG. For me the mind & personality of a person is the greatest afrodisiac. We are all different and we all have our own reasons for what we do.
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RHP User
12 years ago
In a professional atmosphere for government. It's none of their business but they feel they have the right to know every detail of my life, including a second job and what I can or cannot say in a public forum. I also have the stigma of it being a small town and people judge. Sex is already hard enough without having some knuckle dragger having a go at how I, as a single woman, find sexual partners.
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RHP User
12 years ago
In our public pg there are face pics of us, as we keep all the naughty one in pg1 and pg2...You just got to go and look at our profile to see us Couple of old oil paintings (LOL)GT
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SacralChakra
12 years ago
I like seeing faces - and yours is definitely yummy... But I also like those cock shots... Lol...
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RHP User
12 years ago
...and would be embarrassed to be recognized by me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I keep my face pic in my private gallery, because you really don't know who is having a perve on here.If I see a cock pic as a profile pic, I tend to switch off. My fave pics are those that show a guy doing something cool, like surfing etcKeep in mind, you were blessed with a particularly nice face!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' But am very aware of the possibilty of being recognised by colleagues. I rotate my profile pics regularly and show my face every now and then. Actually, let me change it right now. I love the recent one with the champagne, oh and the one of her bitting her lip. Oh and the one of her butt and how could I forget her face pic. Also the one.........Maybe I should stop now before I'm blocked as a stalker
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ghostbusters'I do feel for those who are judged and victimised from being recognised on here. However, I sit diners, laptop open and in chat, or sometimes I'll post in the forums, and the big letters RHP is open for all to see. I'm still yet to have someone make a comment. I even have a little speech prepared for when they do!!!! *insert devilish emoticon here* What that speech is GB. I'm sure the words man and up would be involved.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Like most it's about keeping particular facets of your life separate.I doubt my close circle of friends would care if they found me on here (if anything, they'd probably be saying it's about time I tried to get laid, heh), but I'd prefer not to have this conversation with acquaintances, less-well-known friends, relatives, colleagues, etc.
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5weeta5kandy
12 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' its a photo...and really, if you think you are only ever going to be identified if you have a face pic....you are greatly mistaken...we all have many unique identifiers....and the face is sometimes just the confirmation... we were picked out before we had even one face pic...by our details, ages and place of residence.. it happens. This is oh so true, one of my display pics has a necklace that i rarely wear but was spotted by an ex and was then asked what i was doing on such a site as this :( so yes we can be recognised by not only our faces but other distinguishing factors. I do have face pics on here in my pg and that is where i prefer them to stay once i communicate with others i am more than welcome to share, but as i live in a very small community (with very small minded people) have children and also a very public job that is the way i will leave mine. On a funny note after communicating with a lovely young man and after showing my picture, i finished work one day and upon checking my messages on rhp , read a message which said oh wow i was blown away to be attended to by you at your work today, had no idea before now that the quietly well mannered always professional girl, had a wild side and can't wait to experience for myself, lol (see can't judge a book by its cover ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting '5weeta5kandy' Quoting 'mikeandshel' its a photo...and really, if you think you are only ever going to be identified if you have a face pic....you are greatly mistaken...we all have many unique identifiers...mine is a very large and one of a kind tattoo done by a local artist and i am indeed aware of having it on display...I am also very clever at disguising or covering it up ..and the face is sometimes just the confirmation... we were picked out before we had even one face pic...by our details, ages and place of residence.. it happens. This is oh so true, one of my display pics has a necklace that i rarely wear but was spotted by an ex and was then asked what i was doing on such a site as this :( so yes we can be recognised by not only our faces but other distinguishing factors. I do have face pics on here in my pg and that is where i prefer them to stay once i communicate with others i am more than welcome to share, but as i live in a very small community (with very small minded people) have children and also a very public job that is the way i will leave mine. On a funny note after communicating with a lovely young man and after showing my picture, i finished work one day and upon checking my messages on rhp , read a message which said oh wow i was blown away to be attended to by you at your work today, had no idea before now that the quietly well mannered always professional girl, had a wild side and can't wait to experience for myself, lol (see can't judge a book by its cover ;) This is where mine are and for exactly the same reasons, I not only doubt my close circle of friends would care if they found me on here nor be surprised because they know Me and the kind of person that i am.It's fair yet sad to say that, most acquaintances, friends less-well-known , some of relatives and work colleagues would alter their opinion of me immediately based on their existing prejudices
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RHP User
12 years ago
Here's mine x
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RHP User
12 years ago
Philosopherpoet I agree with some of the other posts – you do have a lovely face J I choose not to display my face for a couple of reasons: · I like to be mysterious – it is in my nature to be so. · I work in a male dominated industry and I’m not comfortable with the potential for being recognised. This is simply about the professionalism I like to maintain in my work life. My private life is another matter entirely. · Whilst some close friends are aware of my participation on this site (and my sexual preferences), I don’t believe that every Tom, Dick & Harry has to know where I’m storing the bodies! LOL My erotic journey is between myself and the chosen few. My eyes are all that I will display of my face in the public arena. I do have current photos available in PG1 for visual gratification as and when the key is requested. I do like it when other members are of a different opinion though, and post their photos up front. Although in saying that I don’t mind if a face is not on public display, however, I will neither chat nor meet if a clear face pic is not forthcoming early on in the ‘flirting’.
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RHP User
12 years ago
that many people want to protect their anonymity and privacy.For me, the first body part I want to see is a face. I have mine on display in my public gallery and frequently have it as my profile pic. If someone recognises me and wants to judge me for being on here...well it says more about them, than it does me.
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DonnaBrett
12 years ago
If anyone is scared of being recognised by family, friends, workmates etc...then you're in the wrong game. Probably almost every person on here is related to someone or knows someone who also frequents this site or goes to sex clubs or private parties etc. The law of averages would suggest that eventually you'll run into someone close to you, then what do you do? Run away? At the end of the day what does it matter...cos if someone sees you here that means they are here too!! It all evens out!
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RHP User
12 years ago
She said, "So what if someone recognizes me. They'd have to be on here or looking around here too for that to happen"..I had to admit she has a point.Besides. Most of the people I've met in person from here look a little different from their face pic anyway. Unless you have a swathe of them up, I think recognizing someone in a crowd would be iffy.That said.. I like my Little Red Engine pic.. so that' what I'll have up most of the time.
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RHP User
12 years ago
There for those who ask nicely. My job is very public and I'm expected to maintain a high degree of professionalism. Any hint of sexual impropriety and I'd be almost unemployable. It would just take the wrong person to see me here and I'd be stuffed! Rumor, innuendo... Ugh!
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RHP User
12 years ago
If someone recognized that freckle on my left knee though. Lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' Quoting 'Ms_Devious' But am very aware of the possibilty of being recognised by colleagues. I rotate my profile pics regularly and show my face every now and then. Actually, let me change it right now. snap out of it! I love the recent one with the champagne, oh and the one of her bitting her lip. Oh and the one of her butt and how could I forget her face pic. Also the one.........Maybe I should stop now before I'm blocked as a stalker sorry hon my bucket had a hole in it, so would have been cold water yesssssssssss she is hot and sexy as I have seen her in the flesh if you did, then I would have to roll your tongue up of the floor
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RHP User
12 years ago
WELL IT IS sugested by rhp not to give to many private detials as face pic on profile until your sure about someone so my guess is some people follow advice , i feel safe anywhere and dont care who knows my indenty i guess its how my life has been...das
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RHP User
12 years ago
Actually no those two words aren't....perhaps I do need to inude them somewhere even IF it's just a PS... :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wtf is inude?? Sounds like an apple version of X-ray goggles!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
inude is an Apple porn site?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Please roll Funlover's tongue up off the floor, will ya?
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RHP User
12 years ago
So if thats the only reason why wouldnt you have it in your public gallery but not necessarily your main pic? The reason I ask is that while certain aspects of this site is available for public view only your main pic is one of those. Thus unless someone is also a member of the site then the general public cant see it. If they are a member of this site also then arent you both basically here for the same reasons? And which is more embarrasing? Seeing someone you know having a profile on here or turning up to the same party without knowing that you both are on the guest list? If you can identify the person on the guest list as someone you know privately and not wanting to see them in that manner then at least you can avoid the embarrassment. Just my opinon Kisses Focus
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Awesome71'If someone recognized that freckle on my left knee though. Lol That freckle isn't on your right thigh? You must be a different lady.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Awesome71'If someone recognized that freckle on my left knee though. Lol That freckle isn't on your right thigh? You must be a different lady.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' Quoting 'Funlover71' Quoting 'Ms_Devious' But am very aware of the possibilty of being recognised by colleagues. I rotate my profile pics regularly and show my face every now and then. Actually, let me change it right now. snap out of it! I love the recent one with the champagne, oh and the one of her bitting her lip. Oh and the one of her butt and how could I forget her face pic. Also the one.........Maybe I should stop now before I'm blocked as a stalker sorry hon my bucket had a hole in it, so would have been cold water yesssssssssss she is hot and sexy as I have seen her in the flesh if you did, then I would have to roll your tongue up of the floorAs well as freezing cold showers, when can we meet TR?
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RHP User
12 years ago
That if we are all here for the same reason what's it matter if you show your face straight up on your display pic. But the problem is not everyone here is here for the same reason. Some are just there to have a perve and those that don't ever intend to play they are the one that might see a pic and go run and tell. If you could be assured everyone were genuine not problem. Unfortunately it's not that way and never will be.
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RHP User
12 years ago
But it was choosen with a bit of thought, firstly the lady in it has given me permission to use said pic as she cant be identified. I had also looked at a few local male profiles & they seemed to fall into 3 main categories, 1) holding up a barra (fish) as the big game hunter2) holding a beer or bar up as the pisshead3) holding their cocks on cam as the wankerSo my pic was intended to show I dont need to be pissed or kill things to have fun & while I have the 3rd item I'm not so self absorbed in it to forget to spoil a lady.
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hardnslow
12 years ago
I will lets go
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madotara69
12 years ago
I put a lot of effort into getting a good shot of Tara's ride on mower.Heavens to betsy, if we had a face shot on a sex site,we could get the sack. That's why we have joined this ride on mower enthusiasts club.Identify? no problem, it's a victa and she's a beauty.Mado
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Splicey
12 years ago
I'm actually not a fan of penis pictures and enjoy when there is a profile without nudity as it's main picture.I struggle with couples who have only pictures of the woman too.But we wouldn't put a face picture in as we want to control who sees us.MrsSplicey
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well being bi my self I would like to keep that from my family and friends. Yes some will say I am hiding but that is for me to decide. If asked I provide face image in my private gallery, but not to just everyone. I am not handsome in the classical young man sense of the word. A life of sunshine has had its effect. But then not interested in people that only see the cover. So I leave my best side (as I have been told) on display. Then move from there if someone expresses interest.
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Usandu73 very very well written!!
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inspirit
12 years ago
a small town with small minded people.... and lots of fifo's on here.
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RHP User
12 years ago
so yea I did have a profile picture of my face but it was scarry and I can still recall a comment "Why should i date with you when i could have someone better". And as someone among here knows very well my previous photo with a flying pointing dick was not even mine but i did achive some visit on my profile... and when I had been discovered i deleted that photo and being anonymous since then.. And it is still funny because i dont get any cheeky comments of the way i look and i can still be here and writting some lines.... which i enjoy :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
.....those kids are smart these days, can't imagine the horror of being caught-out having a life on here!!! "Hey Miss, didn't do my homework, busy reading our awfully lengthy profile on RHP........" Plenty of face-pics in my private gallery. :)
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madotara69
12 years ago
here is our facial shots, nothing to hide.
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justswingingbi
12 years ago
Quoting 'usandu73' I take it you guys don't have kids or are married? Small town everyone knows everyone, kids at school, professional careers can all be affected. Yes there are people that really will never meet anyone and are wanting to just provide enough info to be able to have a look about. But with a professional career and having a lot of contact with a lot of people on a daily basis that private life is better kept to those that are in the lifestyle, not everyone on the street. Those very people that are having a perve could well be a parent of a child of your kids go to school with, or could be a patient or client of yours, certainly a position where judgement will come in. We socialize with friends and on the odd occasion the talk of swingers will come into the conversation. Sure it's interesting and everyones ears listen, and if there is an assumption or rumor a couple are swingers in the area well the judgement they get as "how could they do that" is on the negative side not the positive. Now I'm the first to admit they are the ones missing out as it works for us and our relationship has never been stronger and I know our life is more exciting than theirs. But that aside my life would be worse than theirs if I was to announce that " oh we are swingers" First of all there would be that initial thinking by the guys, single or married that they perhaps have the right to hit my wife up when ever they want, secondly some women can be hard critics and my wife would be looked as though she is a less than desirable person and me for that matter. Of course all this is based on where you are, we are certainly in a more conservative area so image and religion are still quite strong in a lot of people even though they may not practice it they judge by it. Anyway I don't say everyone has a need to not show face pics but for some it's certainly required depending on there situation or location. If your single no professional career and know no one well perhaps it's ok to do it. But as always it's your choice and you make that decision. One of the Unspoken rules that's I feel remains always strong in this lifestyle is that respecting everyone's boundaries is highly followed and everyone has their reason for doing 3somes, playing alone or not too, anal sex or not and to display face pics to not. Happy searching
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RHP User
12 years ago
Its not exactly being recognised that bothers me, its the thought that someone else would know that I am here without me knowing they were here.... does that make sense? Mutual understanding is important. Therefore I can email or give access to PG as appropriate once I've looked at photos to see if anything looks familiar! Its happened a couple of times, people who are friends of friends have contacted me here and I have always owned up and told them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'usandu73' I take it you guys don't have kids or are married? Small town everyone knows everyone, kids at school, professional careers can all be affected. Yes there are people that really will never meet anyone and are wanting to just provide enough info to be able to have a look about. But with a professional career and having a lot of contact with a lot of people on a daily basis that private life is better kept to those that are in the lifestyle, not everyone on the street. Those very people that are having a perve could well be a parent of a child of your kids go to school with, or could be a patient or client of yours, certainly a position where judgement will come in. We socialize with friends and on the odd occasion the talk of swingers will come into the conversation. Sure it's interesting and everyones ears listen, and if there is an assumption or rumor a couple are swingers in the area well the judgement they get as "how could they do that" is on the negative side not the positive. Now I'm the first to admit they are the ones missing out as it works for us and our relationship has never been stronger and I know our life is more exciting than theirs. But that aside my life would be worse than theirs if I was to announce that " oh we are swingers" First of all there would be that initial thinking by the guys, single or married that they perhaps have the right to hit my wife up when ever they want, secondly some women can be hard critics and my wife would be looked as though she is a less than desirable person and me for that matter. Of course all this is based on where you are, we are certainly in a more conservative area so image and religion are still quite strong in a lot of people even though they may not practice it they judge by it. Anyway I don't say everyone has a need to not show face pics but for some it's certainly required depending on there situation or location. If your single no professional career and know no one well perhaps it's ok to do it. But as always it's your choice and you make that decision. One of the Unspoken rules that's I feel remains always strong in this lifestyle is that respecting everyone's boundaries is highly followed and everyone has their reason for doing 3somes, playing alone or not too, anal sex or not and to display face pics to not. Happy searching Very well written & not much more to add to that...I have clear & recent pics of my SMILING FACE in my PRIVATE GALLERIES for those that ask nicely & appeal to me..A good profile & a good message & at least one nice pic of their smiling face in their public or PRIVATE GALLERIES.Have to say that there's some lovely looking people on rhp that have recently put up their face pics....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' here is our facial shots, nothing to hide. Hahahahaha!And mine looks like this.....
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Tuscan Red I'm still in awe of your beauty.... OP can I just take this opportunity to promote myself to any prospective employers out there who may have missed my post on the same topic. Yes you may recognise me, have had dealings with me previously in a professional capacity, have interviewed me recently and kicking yourself or are now hoping to shortlist me for interview for a job you badly wanna give me!! Would it be detrimental to say I lost my last job because I slept with the boss? She liked it but the board didn't, especially during the meeting....(insert angel complete with wings). So if anyone has a job for me, please apply within; I won't hold being on RHP against you and it could improve our working relationship by having someone to confess to. Lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
What jaybaby and usandu said! All of the above. I have a job where I have to "uphold professional standards" not just of myself but of others. Can't afford to allow anyone's judgement affect that. Plus, I know for a fact that people come on here just to perve with no intent to meet. I used to do it myself, when I was not single! With other smug married friends. We found it a laugh to find profiles of people we used to go to school with! See... If an open-minded gal like me once treated RHP as light entertainment on a quiet night in, I'm sure there could easily be others out there with potentially malice intentions. No thanks, I like to keep a little bit of control (where possible...). However! Plenty of face pics in my profile for those who get in touch and meet what I'm seeking :P
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On_Safari
12 years ago
I didn't sleep with any of my employers or colleagues. That would be just damned unprofessional.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Showing your mug may be all well and good for someone with a face the shape of an elongated stop sign, but for the rest of us dropped pies (too red hot) we like to surprise our dates at the last minute with our vicious visages. It's more difficult for them to run once they're petrified stone.Errr, wait. No. Privacy. What they said.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes, for me it's anonimity. Happy to allow access once chatting though...
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'creamykit10' Quoting 'madotara69' here is our facial shots, nothing to hide. Hahahahaha!And mine looks like this..... awww giday creamykit, sorry i didn't recognize you, i was to busy looking at your tits Mado xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks for the face pic... ........
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RHP User
12 years ago
...I recognize those toes and the little freckle shaped kind of like Tasmania! Quoting 'Awesome71' Any hint of sexual impropriety and I'd be almost unemployable. It would just take the wrong person to see me here and I'd be stuffed! Call me, we can negotiate..I'd so hate to see you get in trouble.Of course, either way...you're stuffed.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' Tuscan Red I'm still in awe of your beauty.... OP can I just take this opportunity to promote myself to any prospective employers out there who may have missed my post on the same topic. Yes you may recognise me, have had dealings with me previously in a professional capacity, have interviewed me recently and kicking yourself or are now hoping to shortlist me for interview for a job you badly wanna give me!! Would it be detrimental to say I lost my last job because I slept with the boss? She liked it but the board didn't, especially during the meeting....(insert angel complete with wings). So if anyone has a job for me, please apply within; I won't hold being on RHP against you and it could improve our working relationship by having someone to confess to. Lol lol, well come-on up here love. should be able to find you something.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We had a face shot of both of us for a few day and we did receive a lot more interest from members. However, we also live in a small place and it can be very conservative. So now our pics can only be viewed in our PG. On the otherhand, the only way that you could be identified is by other RHP members and dosn't that put them in the same boat.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Question asked... Ok, "sex sells" - but why is it that a majority of couples are one-sided in there pics, only to show pics of the woman in the couple, obviously you can tell who the domineering person is in the duo, and obviously whom might be the ugliest of the two as well. Couple does mean 2 people, not just one, and not just the female gender either... So as to finding out more information about the couple you want to have fun with... Good Luck !!
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abcplus1
12 years ago
For us it is privacy and discretion. The kids don't need to find out everything mum & dad do. We have an openly bi daughter, but she is single and part of a generation that doesn't place any stigma on that choice.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ok as for me its kinda awkward when a family member or ex freqwents the same site so i choose to open my private pics when messaging somebody so they can see pics- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't really mind if people know I am on Red Hot Pie. For me it's more about the things I write in the forum. I do not want people I know, family or work colleagues reading my comments. I am very open about myself and my preferences and about things I get up too here on the forum. I can do this because it is relatively anonymous. Besides my mother thinks I am a virgin so she would never believe it was me. For example do I want the guy from accounts knowing I love anal sex? No, not really. So people may accept that you are on an adult dating site but when you start talking about swingers clubs, threesomes, and moresomes and fetishes and sexual fantasises. Well to you, the RHP forum, I am like all of you guys but to most people OUT THERE I would be judged by many regardless of whether they are on RHP themselves or not. The end.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' Quoting 'tuscanred' Quoting 'Funlover71' Quoting 'Ms_Devious' But am very aware of the possibilty of being recognised by colleagues. I rotate my profile pics regularly and show my face every now and then. Actually, let me change it right now. snap out of it! I love the recent one with the champagne, oh and the one of her bitting her lip. Oh and the one of her butt and how could I forget her face pic. Also the one.........Maybe I should stop now before I'm blocked as a stalker sorry hon my bucket had a hole in it, so would have been cold water yesssssssssss she is hot and sexy as I have seen her in the flesh if you did, then I would have to roll your tongue up of the floorAs well as freezing cold showers, when can we meet TR? at least four times a year, so coffee in the royal archade sometime perhaps
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RHP User
12 years ago
We are who we are. My wife and I are swingers, its not what we do but who we are. Take it or leave it, like it or lump it. If you judge us poorly because we enjoy sex than stick it in your ear. That goes for family, friends, and everyone else. We know when weve been recognized sometimes, we will look at a profile weve never looked at before and were blocked. Has only happened a few times but I'm sure it because they know us and are simply ashamed to let us know there on here too!!! When we decided to put a profile on RHP, we didnt want to hide, because were simply not ashamed to say were swingers, so we were straight up with our close family and friends, so as to not cause them any embarrassment should they find out at some point. They are now closer than ever through our honesty with them., and our children who are adults, think were the grooviest parents ever. This isnt to say that everyone out there in RHP land should follow what weve done, you need to do what is right for you, but just that it isnt the end of the world should the close people around you know you like to f**k, odds are so do they!!! Enjoy your journey Troy
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RHP User
12 years ago
If your on rhp and someone recognize's you who cares, that person or persons are on here too looking for the same thing as well. Who knows you may just end up meeting them for some fun. My friends and family think it's great that I am in a position in my life to be on here and so do I. But I do not judge as everyone has different circumstance's going on in their life. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
If your on rhp and someone recognize's you who cares, that person or persons are on here too looking for the same thing as well. Who knows you may just end up meeting them for some fun. My friends and family think it's great that I am in a position in my life to be on here and so do I. But I do not judge as everyone has different circumstance's going on in their life. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
No matter how many times pics are changed, some are best left alone... but then again no one likes to think they look too bad I guess...Your mum thinks you look good' thats all that really matters...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well I have just posted a full profile pic of myself. I don't usually as I as over endowed in most areas. Also, the place where I live is very very small. I have been recognised on Facebook and am being stalked by an 18 year old boy. That is another reason I don't post my facial pics.Also, I didn't want to scare anyone away - lol
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tyandeb
12 years ago
When fucking my husband's best friend and him fucking his best friend's wife become socially acceptable without judgement or stigma, we might make our face pics more public. You want to see us, drop a line, let us know you are real and discreet and you can see our PG. Right now, we would prefer not to have our work, family or social colleagues know just how much tail we are getting. They could get very jealous and not understand. Remember the old adage: if I have to explain this to a colleague they wouldn't understand.
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DonnaBrett
12 years ago
Umm...'Littleredengine' if people don't look like their profile photos, then what is the point of putting them up? Our photos are as we are...what you see is what you get! That's how it should be for all profiles. Oh...and we do get recognised a lot just out in the street or shops or movies etc. But it's no big deal, we just say hi back to them.Quoting 'LittleRedEngine' She said, "So what if someone recognizes me. They'd have to be on here or looking around here too for that to happen"..I had to admit she has a point.Besides. Most of the people I've met in person from here look a little different from their face pic anyway. Unless you have a swathe of them up, I think recognizing someone in a crowd would be iffy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' Ms_Devious... Thanks for the face pic... ........ Quoting 'Jay_Me' D ' we have to ? No matter how many times pics are changed, some are best left alone... but then again no one likes to think they look too bad I guess... You really suck at it. My name, initial and my colour and I still have no idea what you want. Whatever..... Next!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'DonnaBrett' Umm...'Littleredengine' if people don't look like their profile photos, then what is the point of putting them up? Our photos are as we are...what you see is what you get! That's how it should be for all profiles. Oh...and we do get recognised a lot just out in the street or shops or movies etc. But it's no big deal, we just say hi back to them.Quoting 'LittleRedEngine' She said, "So what if someone recognizes me. They'd have to be on here or looking around here too for that to happen"..I had to admit she has a point.Besides. Most of the people I've met in person from here look a little different from their face pic anyway. Unless you have a swathe of them up, I think recognizing someone in a crowd would be iffy. It's hard recognizing someone from a single photo, unless they have very distinguishing features. My current pic is very much me, but I don't think many people I meet will realise it's me. Not unless they've seen my in that position...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dont want anything.. The first post was tounge in cheek in reply to your post regarding your comment on my pics last week . If you notice' It was almost identical. I thought you would pick up on it and just laugh it off... the second was meant to be a general comment mixed with a dash of stirrer.. nothing more..Im truly sorry if I upset you... That is something I never intentionally set out to do to anyone unless there is a valid reason...Oh , and sorry for using your RED ' grrrrr.. ( I should know better ) If you dont use my BLUE, I wont use your RED.. K ?Have lovely day...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' Quoting 'Funlover71' Quoting 'tuscanred' Quoting 'Funlover71' Quoting 'Ms_Devious' But am very aware of the possibilty of being recognised by colleagues. I rotate my profile pics regularly and show my face every now and then. Actually, let me change it right now. snap out of it! I love the recent one with the champagne, oh and the one of her bitting her lip. Oh and the one of her butt and how could I forget her face pic. Also the one.........Maybe I should stop now before I'm blocked as a stalker sorry hon my bucket had a hole in it, so would have been cold water yesssssssssss she is hot and sexy as I have seen her in the flesh if you did, then I would have to roll your tongue up of the floorAs well as freezing cold showers, when can we meet TR? at least four times a year, so coffee in the royal archade sometime perhaps Message me when you are going to be in town next. The drinks will be on me
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RHP User
12 years ago
always had a face pic and am thinking its a bad idea as I must be a bit like the hunchback of notre dame. Too hideous to contemplate meeting as I don't recall being contacted unless I make contact 1st. Then its usually "sorry not my type" or "in your dreams loser". I will agreee its not the best pic in the world but isn't it nice to be surprised when you meet someone who is better looking than the profile pic. Mike
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RHP User
12 years ago
Anyone can view that first pic you have on your profile. Logout of RHP and google "lack of visible profile face pics" plus RHP.Click on the link. Say hello to yourself.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have no issue showing mine.... This is a more recent pic than the last... Like others have said.....those who see me here and recognize me ...are here as well..... no drama.. Lol Shels a bit less daring..but thats ok as well......- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Getting to know someone without a picture and going on the written word adds to the mystery, aside from that I don't have the facilities to post a pic, if I did it would be in private gallery, I think for some it is a privacy issue ie small town as mentioned so it is understandable they don't want to put a face pic in the general gallery. I have not had any trouble meeting people on here so a picture doesn't necessarily make any difference.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Once on here and on another site. The first time was someone I had worked with a couple of years before and she said she'd be discreet about it, keep the secret so to speak. The second time I got into work and the manager I had been flirting with was like... so I found your couples profile, how bout it? Needless to say we had some fun times with them So face pics can be advantageous some times.
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nortiesecret
12 years ago
maybe its a privacy thing
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RHP User
12 years ago
Because I don't want anyone I know or work with to find out I am sex crazed female looking for guys to fuck in my free time!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me I need to be anonymous until I get to know someone better due to the nature of my work. I'd never post a penis pic here. It's a penis, people know what they look like. Besides its nice to keep a little mystery....- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
In my case its discretion, basically I wouldn't want anyone I know, to know I was looking for some extra marital fun. Morally wrong I know but that's life.
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