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Winks are natural, don't ignore them

February 05 2015

Girls - and yes its only female profiles - don't put in your text that you don't respond to winks, too many, too busy. If you find sifting through a few winks and responding to a few 'too hard' then how serious are you about finding satisfaction. Whilst us guys probably don't have the same problem, you aren't painting a very appealing picture of yourself.

Comments

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Duuuuuuuuuuude. Have you met Jamie?

  • Dryphuz

    Dryphuz

    10 years ago

    Its their choice if that's what they wanna say/do. Same as its your choice to send em winks anyway. Just dont expect any reply or attention if they said not to. Nothing about this site implies full dedication to finding someone. If anything "casual" is more appropriate.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    It's RHP and we flirt. Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Women are busy reading and replying to all their emails. Seriously I have never looked at my FLIRTS which is what they are called on RHP. So women put that on their profile so you wont wear your little finger out sending all those flirts. Really, why bother with all those flirts and emailing back and forwards with strangers when I can do to a sex club and have a smorgasbord of men to choose from, eh? Eh? Answer me that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Wrong site, Brun. :-P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Wink,wink...a nod is as good as a wink to a blind bat..Eric Idle xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I don't think it's the women having trouble finding satisfaction. Like Meeka said, we get enough messages to never have to look at flirts. I know you're a paid member, but let me reverse the question: How serious are people sending flirts instead of medsages about finding satisfaction? Guests sending flirts to other guests is useless as no further communication is possible, and if I receive a flirt from a paid member I'll skip it and go to the 5-10 messages I get daily from those men who actually put some effort into trying to stand out and get my attention. Simples. :-)

  • Twisted_Mister

    Twisted_Mister

    10 years ago

    You mean winking at girls you pass on the street or in the shops? Yeah I guess a returned wink in those circumstances would give me some satisfaction. Oh wait..... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    The tags with the OP

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Why would you bother with a flirt? What are you trying to accomplish with one? The responses are trite and unappealing. Use your own words and let your personality show.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    We cannot respond to your flirt, we do not get a free message anymore either. I get a lot, and really if the other person is a guest it all goes no where, so I just delete them. Paid members also flirt, i have no idea why, maybe they used all their flirts up that day and are just trolling and scrapping the bottom of the barrel when they flirt me. My profile is so bad that its a total surprise anyone bothers at all, but I do get some great conversations on here with guys who have a bit of a tongue in cheek attitude and not stress the small stuff. chilax baby its just sex

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    OP Girls that do not respond to flirts are very serious about getting satisfaction. Any man that thinks sending a flirts to a women is going to appeal to them has very little to offer. It just proves that the guy is lazy, uncreative, and has no understanding of what a girl needs for satisfaction. One of those things is being made to feel special and getting yet another lame flirt (selected from the world worst pick lines) does nothing towards making her feel special. I just makes the sender look like a right dick So OP dont send flirts if you are serious about satisfaction.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    that you are attached but at the same time criticising others for having rules and standards to enhance their life in the manner they choose. Goodness, they just keep coming through the door.....like lambs to the meat line

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If it says "I just wanted to say that I loved your profile." I do nothing because it warrants no reply. The Member is just complimenting me and I accept it graciously. If the "flirt" is from a "Guest" and other than the above "flirt", I will respond now that I'm a "Paid" Member. It all depends on what is in the "flirt". I will either reply with another "flirt" or I will "message" if the Sender's Profile takes my interest. I do get "Paid" Members sending me "flirts" too. Sometimes it is even from a "Platinum" Member so I think to myself , "Huh ???" and encourage that Member to "message" me with a "flirt" of my own. However, if I'm not interested in that Member's Profile, I return a "Sorry, Sweetie" flirt. To be honest, if a "Guest" male Member sends me a "flirt", I don't believe that he is "serious" in wanting to meet women. I don't expect him to "Upgrade" either and this is usually the case. Most of all, I have a laugh when a"Guest" Member with a mediocre/unattractive Profile Photo sends me this flirt "Damn, you're hot !!! What do you think about me ?". Well, what am I to think ? I don't want to be rude and I'm not prepared to waste on him a "message". So my natural response is to flirt back " If you are serious, pay for a Membership and put some photos up". If the man is "serious", HE WILL !!! Then I sit up and take notice !!! Amy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If the ladies on here are too busy to reply to flirts, how will they find the time to do the guy's cleaning, ironing and cooking?.Doing themselves no favours indeed!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Jean_Girard' If the ladies on here are too busy to reply to flirts, how will they find the time to do the guy's cleaning, ironing and cooking?.Doing themselves no favours indeed!! there are some burnt chops on the stoveI hung your undies with the skid marks on the line for the neighbors to see I will iron your cock for you when you get home, it has a few wrinkles in it as for sexmy pussy is about as welcoming as the hole in a frozen chicken

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    But when I press Show All. I just cant see any new ones.I cant do show all on messages. I have to read everyone and respond in kind. Wink, get the hint sweetie.:P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I am a good house Frau, there is always time to polish the knobs. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I do check my flirts every now and again if I have some spare time away from the cooking, cleaning, washing and ironing (lol Jean_Girard). If I get a flirt from a paid member without receiving a message as well, I automatically assume that he's 'just not that interested' so I never respond. If I get a flirt from a guest, I'll look at their profile and sometimes I might message them. To be honest, if I was a guest, I'd cringe at sending a flirt... the choices are terrible!! Much love, Elle xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I agree with fun lover. A carefully constructed message that includes a face pic is much more appealing. But it's a different story getting a wink in public 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Maybe all of us should send Brun repeated flirts! 30 each! ;-)

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Done mine.If he doesnt reply, he's too shallow?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Love it,a flirtathon😉😉😉😉😉😉xxFreya

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    10 years ago

    I'll send 5 just to make sure we fill his inbox ... and see if he responds Oh hang on, he's saying we need to respond to get our box filled.... Nah....that's a full serve of CBF there

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    For being a good sport and flirting back xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have no problem responding to 51 Flirts in 10 minutes (Thanks Meeka nice profile btw) I find them humerous and slightly tacky but an easy way to say yes or no on a photo basis. Afteral this is real life, you don't spend a hour chatting up someone you don't find attractive. A club....wait sorry what... One of the more recent posts was about missing the chase....its little things like this that engage ! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Think I'm up for a root!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I dunno, this is a hard one for me. . I'm in a very different place where apparently men can read (like you do, apparently;-)) and I don't get many messages aside from people in the forums. . I do get flirts, from the Hot or What? feature on the amateur pics page mostly. That's where people rate the profile pics and a flirt is sent if you score them 'hot'. Check it out if you like, I think a lot of women find it an annoying feature, because of the flirts, and huge amount don't even know it exists. I used to reply to them, but I don't anymore after sending multiple replies to the same man, who had rated my main profile pics, as I changed them. He thought I was being nasty. Not my way though, but I have my moments. . I honestly don't feel an obligation to reply to Hot or What flirts so much, partially because of the many layers of confusion. But mostly, there isn't really a simple thank you flirt. I could edit my profile to say "thanks, but I won't be replying", I suppose. But it would be up to them to actually look at it to know that. And there's not that many that l notice actually looking beyond the rating of the picture. :-) . So, I suppose the short answer is, there really is no suitable flirt reply for me.

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    10 years ago

    I got flirts and a little something else! Not as good an offer as you Annie... maybe he ran out of messages (she says hopefully and optimistically )

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    you could get together with one of the other single ladies and make up a FF couple.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    you guys crack me up, I love the forum interaction - Posted from rhpmobile

  • TheLuckyOne

    TheLuckyOne

    10 years ago

    I very rarely get any messages or flirts, so I'm not as offended by them as some others seem to be. I think they can be a good way to gauge interest. If you get a positive flirt back, then that opens the door to message them. Just my humble opinion. 😊

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    Rather take my chances in the forums and get roused on by you now and then Feisty little cuty ..(flirt wink flirt)

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    according too the Urban dictionary Cuty is really cutie for stupid people who dont know how to right. (write)

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    Enjoy the 65 I sent you sweetcheeks......💋

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'kissk' I got flirts and a little something else! Not as good an offer as you Annie... maybe he ran out of messages (she says hopefully and optimistically ) I said I was up for a root. Perhaps not meaning he was up for a root. Hey, have to be upbeat when you're an old tranny..........his photos are quite nice........mmmmmmmmmmmWont divulge the contents of his message, they are always confidential. But I'm sure that you would get a better offer than me Kissk.If you didn't then he would surely need some professional help for knocking you back. Interested to know the something else............

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69' you could get together with one of the other single ladies and make up a FF couple. What's Tara up to later this week?.........................Not single but your such an understanding hubby

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    Glad you are finally starting too get the message

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69' Glad you are finally starting too get the message Can't help not to. Been looking at her very fine rear end for a while now...........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Elle67'... If I get a flirt from a guest, I'll look at their profile and sometimes I might message them. To be honest, if I was a guest, I'd cringe at sending a flirt... the choices are terrible!! ...That's why as a guest I still send flirts to ladies who are smart and switched on. They might even get my name, right..? ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yet another man telling me how I should respond to him, to make him happy and stroke his ego on this site. I thought it was my paid membership and therefore I could decide who I wanted to contact I've logged on late tonight where I unexpectantly received 36 flirts curious I went to look as to why so many only to find that 34 of them was from a 43 year old man, saying I was exactly what he wanted..and flirting me 34 times was the only way to get my attention. Really ? If you think I am exactly what you want, then make a effort, write me entertaining message, pay some bucks (like I have) and send it to me. Nope, I don't bother reading or responding to flirts and I think its kinda creepy when someone flirts you 34 times saying "look at me, look at me ".

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You must be a women of discerning tastes. By the way, I'll be in Brisbane in a month ;).

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Maybe all of us should send Brun repeated flirts! 30 each! ;-) Sorry OP

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    At the end if the day we must respect everyone's wishes :) if they say no winks we should respect that. If they say no guys we must respect that. Don't get pissed at people for standing but there own instructions as set out in each profile...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Keep it up everyone. I think Brunny needs more flirts so he can fully understand. Keep going!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I seem to rolling around the floor laughing my ass off and can't get up....love your style!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    1. Why do you care so much?? 2. What kind of picture of yourself have you just painted?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    There is the Wee Willy Winky ..Running through the town half clad and peering through windows...xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It's all in a wink lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Priceless painting, nice one Sir_stir - Posted from rhpmobile