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Women Like Sex, Men Like Sex
March 29 2018
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OkeyDoke45
7 years ago
I would say that men are generally less picky/selective when it comes to sex, the old ''if it has two legs and a pulse'' is not that far off the mark for a lot of blokes, and a spot-on assessment for some. I don't think men like sex any more than women do overall. There is far more judgement against women who actively seek and enjoy sex, they are thought of as ''sluts'' by some men and women alike. Men are thought of as stallions when measured by the same yardstick. You just have to look at the reaction when you are at a pub (say for instance) and a woman walks in dressed rather minimally for maximum exposure. Blokes will look like those clowns that you drop ping-pong balls down at sideshow alley, women will shoot absolute daggers at her. So yes, women (in my opinion) are less open about advertising themselves as sexual beings. All of these things are probably why there is such a disparity between men and women on here.
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deepestpurple
7 years ago
80% of the women have sex with 20% of the men. That leaves 80% of the men trying to have sex with the remaining 20% of the women.
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Xxalex
7 years ago
You just about sum'd that up perfectly.. I hope that the females of rhp feel a little more freedom and respect from the guys on here and feel it's a safe environment to be themselves a little more.. It's a shame the world has such a different take on the actions of a guys VS the same actions of a gal... - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
7 years ago
When women are horny, whether conditioned or just a thing, put it in a list and maybe quite content having a twinge with higher priorities that need to be done and dusted, then like a switch kabaaam, it's on! I don't think there is any competition, just do it and do it now!! in ways no man can resist, nor dare. We men more need a connection and our buttons pressed, and if a woman can express her feelings with us then we are insatiable hoping it all isn't just a wham bam best three minutes of our life sort of thing by some who portray they go all night. That's why the statistics are so high, we have a great level of patience and able to resist the urge. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
From an evolutionary perspective, men can spread their genes and have hundreds of offspring in a year, women can only have one (usually). So women have evolved to be more pickier with whom to share their gene pool with. Men by design is to increase chances of their genes surviving - so by design men are less picky, in fact hard wired to spread their genes far and wide for maximum chance of it carrying on in the gene pool. - Posted from rhpmobile
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blondes6365
7 years ago
From our point of view the females get the tags but males are classed as the ants pants Who realy cares who enjoys more its all about the experience and having a good time
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ruby_blossum
7 years ago
and there is no way there are any really right or wrong answers. Its drummed into most women by many various means since we are little...if you like sex, Men are Studs and Woman are sluts...not in a good way. It can take a few years for a woman to realise that they too can embrace sex and not feel bad about themself. Some women never overcome that sense though. Then they come on to an adult site...and get bombarded with contact from guys who just to fuck and go...often home to their wife-partner who they love but she doesnt like sex. With him. Occassonally , the women actually meet someone who wants to get to know them as a person...and its wonderful. More often than not, I see women as the stronger sex, those who choose to embrace their sexuality...Rock!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Nikkiandroley' From an evolutionary perspective, men can spread their genes and have hundreds of offspring in a year, women can only have one (usually). So women have evolved to be more pickier with whom to share their gene pool with. Men by design is to increase chances of their genes surviving - so by design men are less picky, in fact hard wired to spread their genes far and wide for maximum chance of it carrying on in the gene pool. - Posted from rhpmobile I would suggest you read Sex at Dawn, especially the chapter on Sperm Wars, you might modify your thoughts after reading it.
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Of my favourite authors, r.h. Sin.... Men run around chasing pussy, so desperate they lie for the pussy, damn near sell their souls for pussy then have the nerve to shame a woman for sharing herself with them.
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gazpacho
7 years ago
You’re asking us to unravel the mystery that is the mind of women? First it was something about the clitoris and now .... Is there no end to this torture of men? Maybe they’ve got a headache? If all us blokes went on strike and refused to chase women for sex, it would be months before the majority noticed? Lol. Ok. Hugs G
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RHP User
7 years ago
In a word: physiology. When you have a cock, as long as it gets stimulated in some way (preferably to the point of blowing a load), you've had fun. For men, there is almost no such thing as "bad sex". It's the ole' "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" stereotype. This is the gist of it anyway. It came to me some time ago when I noticed that even amongst the most sex-positive crowd in the nonmonogamous communities, this disparity still exists. And when you peel away the layers of social conditioning the way these people have, and everybody involved is a highly sexual and sex-positive being in a safe and consensual environment......the inescapable conclusion is simply that the sexual response of people with penises is just much more easy and straightforward to enjoy. (This is also why the m2m scene is by far the most promiscuous sexual scene on the planet. And explains why there is no female equivalent of the bathhouse)
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RHP User
7 years ago
...perhaps needs to be defined. Traditionally we are the hunters and women are the gathers. I'll leave the rest for discussion if anyone is interested. I'm glad that it seems to be a continuum. ⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Such an interesting theory I would have to support and I’ve often wondered myself. Females of the human species (remember we are mammals) also seek a male of good strong breeding. Survival of the fittest. 💪🏻 Seeking to choose a male who is strong, fit, able to provide and protect and hunt for food. I had read, albeit a long time ago, that female also had several sexual partners, in order to increase the chances of fertilisation. That is why babies that are born tend to look like the father for the first few months, so that back in the day, they knew who the offspring belonged to. 👶 Also hormonal cycles support this biological theory, as certain times a woman is hot and ready for sex. The lioness on the prowl. 🦁Other times, not so much! Run mr lion, do not poke the bear you may be attacked! I think woman want and enjoy sex just as much as men, we after all can orgasm in sooo many more ways, over n over. We’re just a little smarter, perhaps more choosy and refined in how we go about it ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Okey, you took the words right out my mouth or the typing out of my fingers... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sometimes the lion might just go and poke the bear 😈
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
If men are just hornier in general due to testosterone. So seek out more sex.I remember when I was pregnant there is a period when you get a big flood of testosterone at around 4 - 5 months. That was a bit of a revelation. My ex husband was in 7th heaven there for about 3 months. He didn't know what hit him. My libido was off the richter scale. I remember thinking is this what men feel like all the time? Wow. It also went like that when I first joined RHP. It was freaking awesome. Sadly its wound down a bit now again. But that was probably just the kid in a candy shop effect. Plus I hadn't had sex for a year. Are men often like that all the time? Do tell? Does it change as you get older?
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PurePeony
7 years ago
I love sex...a lot! But I was raised in a culture that was pretty conservative and there was a huge stigma against promiscuous women. If one grows up in an environment like that, it kinda sticks to you like a leech. So, I'm happiest when I have a bf who is also horny. He's happy, I'm happy. I think of and lust for and crave for sex so much that sometimes I wonder if I might just have a higher libido than some men. Because of that, my ex bf's would complain about anything else but the lack of sex. 😆 In fact, my last 2 breakups was because of no sex for almost 1.5 years with all my advances being dismissed, and very little and very poor quality sex. I think men who stay in sexless marriages for the sake of their children are martyrs... I think I'd go ballistic! The longest relationship I had started with us being sex fiends and we were going at it like bunnies for all the years we were together. I was in my element and so happy with all the sex and all the dirty weekends! I love being an absolute slut... to one man... like a role play. 😜 I can't be promiscuous because I cannot shake off my strict upbringing and imprinting that loose women are sluts. It's hardwired in me. It's also a self-love and self-respect thing for me. Some women might express that by being liberated in their pursuit of sex with multiple partners and power to them for living their ideal life. I just have a different definition of a sexually ideal life. 😉 At the end of the day, we are free to live our lives the way we want to. Who cares what strangers think? 😉 Great topic, EarthQueen! 👍🏻😉
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curiousnhorny05
7 years ago
So here’s my two cents: - some of it is related to the contraception us women take. I find it dulls my horniness and effects me a lot. - I was taught in a way even if you have a one night stand your less than. It wasn’t even allowed when I grew up and sex wasn’t something discussed or celebrated. - what I wore was very much controlled heaven forbid a man look at me with sex on his mind and if I dressed in an inappropriate way then I deserved the negative attention. Since getting married I’m aware that I am a women who LOVES sex anytime I can get it. I’m from a very conservative background and find myself indulging myself in this lifestyle. My partner is fully supportive and much to his surprise he’s so turned on by this. I don’t feel that anyone on these sites that I’m seen of as negative it’s always been positive. However some guys don’t take the time or effort to deserve me though :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Check your non matching section of your mailbox.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Not you EQ, someone else has unread mail.Enough said.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Would you be more nervous about rubbing mud from the ground on your nose or putting it up your nose? The internal vs. external nature of intercourse for the two sexes has something to do with why men are more cavalier about sex.
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RHP User
7 years ago
From a point of sexual studies, I saw an interesting documentary a long time ago that tested the male and female sexual responses to different acts and the females response was stronger than the male. I think it is also more common for females to be nymphomaniacs (sorry can't remember the male equivalent). The one thing I haven't seen mentioned is that it is the male of the species that generally does the chasing perhaps that is something to do with it. As it is the same on the majority of dating sites one would also have to presume that a lot of males could be on multiple sites just to make his odds a bit better as let's face it online dating most definitely favours the female side.
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
Quoting 'firenice05' So here’s my two cents: - some of it is related to the contraception us women take. I find it dulls my horniness and effects me a lot. Sorry just read your post and yes, this, I agree. It's kind of shit and sad for women that we have to sometimes spend most of our lives on some type of contraception and aren't really ever able to understand how our bodies feel without interference from hormones. I noticed a big difference for the short period I wasn't on them. I wonder how much long term effect this really does have on women?
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