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Women! What makes you stop an take interest in a guys profile??
October 29 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
The first thing I look at when look at is.*INTIMATE TAB - Safe Sex bit. If it says "If required" it a NO from me. Major turn off!!!You might want to change yours OP as people like to practice safe sex especially on a site like this...you just never know what nasty things are out there. next I look at...*LIFESTYLE TAB - and look at what Relationship Status is..I only go for single me, if it's Married - NEXT!!Then I read the profile- if it catches my attention and makes me curious - all good if not NEXT!FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Should read...."The first thing I look at when I read a profile is"FOXY
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On_Safari
11 years ago
But in answer OP, Cockshots as profile pictures instantly make me go "Bugger" I then take a deep breath, notice if there's an interesting username and venture to read the profile. And YES All the tabs too. If your public gallery is just more cock shots no doubt the assumption can be made you're really impressed with your penis and probably won't care what I think of it. If this is coupled with a generic profile builder saying you're a sex crazed animal and looking for women/couples seeking NSA (No Satisfaction Assured) then that's where I click the back arrow and move on to the "next Contestant please". Now if you can combine some cheeky charm, intelligence, tasteful pictures of you in a natural setting, smile, body in profile and not necessarily concentrate on your abs (cos they always make me think steroids and shrinkage/performance problems/roid rage, etc) and can spell and use punctuation a little then you're going to bring forth a smile. I'm not going to lower my standards for a random shag sweet and one would hope you don't either. Seduction begins with the mind, how often do we say that here? Because "I'm passing through town wanna fuck." doesn't work in the real workd, why would it work here? There's no easy answer because everyone's tastes are varied but I hope that helps a wee bit. ~ Indy
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RHP User
11 years ago
I only check out the profiles of those that have viewed my profile.If there are no photos (or just cock photos), I don't even bother reading.If there ARE photos, I first check Location. If they are not local, then let's be honest, what is the point? It's not like we are going to meet, are we?If they are local, I then check Relationship Status and Smoking status. If they are married / attached then I don't keep reading. If they are smokers, then that is a major turn off as well.Now if I get through all that, yes, I do read the profile. If it's just the standard profile builder sentences, that is a disappointment. I'm not expecting a masterpiece, just something that shows a glimpse of what the person is like. Humour goes a long way, too! Also, I take note of the "I am looking for" section, to see if I am actually what they are looking for! But, if they have a ridiculous amount of "friends" then that's not the type of person I am looking for either!Complicated much?!*#!?*@!
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RHP User
11 years ago
As soon as I read in a guys profile " I love to give oral...I can do it for hours....Ill have your legs trembling when I lick and suck you all night....I click that little red cross in the top right corner. Recent experience has taught me that the guys that say they can do this and that normally cant or don't even bother!!! The ones that never make any claims are the ones that deliver ;)) Has to be a face pic or access to one I look at height, as I am a shorty ! Relationship status Smoking habits..couldn't be with a regular smoker
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rootratandlady
11 years ago
I scan user names of the people who look at our profile. If it is tempting then it gets looked at first In the profile, I look at : 1) Location 2) Height 3) Relationship 4) Then I read the profile. Tease my mind and I will most likely send you a flirt or a message Depending on how all that pans out, then I will show my husband and see what he thinks.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I prefer the foxtrot, to be honest
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RHP User
11 years ago
Or How about...I love to Jack-Rabbit!LOL What dick would put that on their profile?FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
I never use the search function as I never really had to bother with it. I usually just check out who checks me out. First thing I check is age and location. I know some people think age is just a number, but for me, I want someone within my age range. I'm not interested in travelling far to meet anyone (unless they're really super hot or special), I have a lover who lives in Brisbane and going there every few weeks is enough travel for me. So those are my two biggies.The other things are the photo, if it's a cock or "restricted" photo I, as a guest, can't see it anyway so why bother with it? I'd much rather see a face pic or a nice shoulder/peck/arms area as that's what I will be looking at for the most part, especially if we get past the initial meet'n'greet drinks. I don't really care so much what the profile says, as the messaging back and forth will make me decide whether I want to be interested in the person or not, and face it, no-one is really that great at writing profiles.
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RHP User
11 years ago
all of the above for me also.................face smile pic...............stats...height etc.........lifestyle...........attachments..........non smoker.......then if all god i read profile............like ones from the head not the penis also.....i only look at profiles of those that are looking at me in real time.............hope you gain the inspiration your looking for to blow all of our minds..............looking forward to checking you out ..............in profile........pyro
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd still check my profile out :p Boom Tish.......shameless advertisement...... God I'm stooping to new lows!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
when a person's profile says that they worship spell check, then the person needs to know that spell check can be a false god.....because words can be spelt correctly but be spelt incorrectly because of the context in which they are used.For instance....an and been are incorrect when you say...an been.....should read...and being.....so if the person whose profile I am reading makes a claim about correct spelling,then they should be able to spell....However if they don't make such a claim and they clearly can't spell,then I have care factor zero...
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sungf1t
11 years ago
I'm liking what im reading, all the different opinions its pretty interesting thanks for writing your thoughts :) Freya77 about "worshiping word spell" classic example of slipping it in as a joke an you sound like a dick head that carnt spell ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
You are asking the wrong crowd here OP. The majority of female posters here sprout idealize ideology. What makes them look again and then be interested is, intelligence and looks. A nice smile and a pretty face is the major draw card here for most of the women. Intelligence then also makes them return for more. So write a good profile. The forum posters are but a tiny fraction of people here. There is a wide variety of types on these dating sites. Best bet is to be noticed. Click profiles, again and again. Join as many sites as you can. Message message message.And above all. Don't listen to the less the two dozen women that post on the forums. They defiantly are not the meat you need for your grinder.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Being yourself and showing respect will attract the right person to you, for me, being honest and sincere about who you are as well as wanting the obvious helps my decision to meet then the rest is up to chemistry.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree with them!
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RHP User
11 years ago
WellTheir is a reel issue here. People who can't spell really get my girt. And when there post's are wrongly puncutated I just get furios. Thee should just weak pu to themselve's I reckon.road
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RHP User
11 years ago
On a guy's profile this week, he said he likes to be nauti. I wonder if his name was Cal? Anyhoo, I instantly had a mental image of him having sex on a yacht, wearing nothing but a captain's had. I was tempted to ask him if I had permission to bored. OP, 1. Location 2. Height 3. Relationship status 4. Safe sex (Required is me asking what they mean by that, Sometimes is an absolute no) 5. Pics (face pic is a must) An I must say I personally prefer usernames that are non-sexual and don't contain numbers like 69 (unless you're acually born in 1969) or 1234 etc.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hat*
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
According to the ladies here... I guess sex reference username penis profiles.....who talk up how they'll lik a woman all nite long and she simply won't regret it.....IE The majority..... are helping everyone else :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mr.Tango,I have never been called a dick head before....and I never said that I could spell...your boast,not mine....now a dicktator....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh no... You have insulted RHP royalty. Not a good move buddy. ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Dear Mr Tango,Seeing you have been such a naughty boy insulting Ms.Royal Freya.I "defiantly" will give you 10 spankings.Yours TrulyFOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have all the requisites but still no hits... Ammmm not pretty enough!!!! *cries*- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
After your been bombarded with plenty mail ,do you still search to see what guys are out there?? It is true about the bombardment (a good thing :)) however the wading through of profiles, with no photo, little information, and the yeah baby "you can have all this" attitude, can be a little tiresome :) and the "safe sex "if required" answer is a complete NO from me. What is a YES is humour, a nice smile and respect that shows through in what is written. And no I haven't used the search function as yet. Are you looking for someone you would look to pick up out an about, or going random an seeing what may come of it?Looking for someone that actually READS what I have said in my profile :) (being able to read is also a bonus lol) What makes you interested to click that mouse an read that profile?? Is It the pic, login name or a quick phrase comment? Do you read the profile at all?? Yes I read them all, and respond to every message and flirt. After all if someone has taken the time to contact me, it is only polite to respond, even if it is in the negative. I only ask as it seems if you write with your cock, you go no where. This is the "Yeah you can have all this baby" attitude that just makes me go oh ffs....next! :) you write with ya brain,your boring...NOOO this shows that you have put some thought into what you want :) you try an make it funny,you sound like a dick...NEVER a way into a girls pants is through her funny bone ;) Now to work on my bravery and jump in the deep end!
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ocean57
11 years ago
Great post Micky!I personally do not believe in profiles. I think what first takes your interest is a profile pic, it is a natural reaction. Next step would be contact trough email or chat. Final step is meeting in person to see if there is enough mutual attraction to take things further. After going trough all this, a profile is just that, a profile. You may have a completely different opinion about a person after you met them in "real" life. I have met a lot of people from here in person ( male and female) and I don't think they are anywhere close to what their profile description is saying (most of them for the better…lol). I read a profile just to make sure I meet the persons searching criteria so I'm not offending when making contact.Makes me think of applying for a job… after you send in your resume you may get asked to attend for an interview before getting the job… lolocean :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
*waving*Welcome to the forums.FOXY
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Quoting 'ocean57' Great post Micky!I personally do not believe in profiles. I think what first takes your interest is a profile pic, it is a natural reaction. Next step would be contact trough email or chat. Final step is meeting in person to see if there is enough mutual attraction to take things further. After going trough all this, a profile is just that, a profile. You may have a completely different opinion about a person after you met them in "real" life. I have met a lot of people from here in person ( male and female) and I don't think they are anywhere close to what their profile description is saying (most of them for the better…lol). I read a profile just to make sure I meet the persons searching criteria so I'm not offending when making contact. Just quietly...... to the demographic you're targeting.... it doesnt matter what you think about profiles.... its what THEY think.And it seems to be unanimous.... profiles matter.A profile is not just a profile... it is a window into the person behind he pic.You woudlnt have met them if the profile was vile, uninspiring, or merely a template.DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
What I like. A nice photo. A smiling face a good body. A man that can write and spell and string a sentence together. A man that can write can attend to my biggest sex organ, my mind. Its how my current love caught me...by his knowledge and use of the English language. His sexuality that I read through his grammar. That was hot.Try not to be so negative. What works for one, won't the other. We all see beauty in different things. But negativity never got anyone anywhere.
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RHP User
11 years ago
A whole list of Ask Me's is a big turn off, smacks of hiding things, lack of initiative doesn't show one's personality.Smoking is a no go for me. Showing one's natural personality gives the women an idea of the real person.Intelligence, thought and consideration is attractive and of course a healthy attitude to sex.Easing into the subject of sex(ie courtship) rather than "I am a spunk do you want a Root" attitude can drive some women away as they may be seen as a neanderthal, which may be ok for some but you may not get a whole lot of hits as the modern woman wants a bit more
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sungf1t
11 years ago
Woo I do apologise freya77 I have re read my second comment regarding my quote to you! I have used words that put my quote out of context I am sorry :( what I was trying to say was as per my thread I put "I worship spell check as a joke an tried to be funny" an you as in women think This guy is a dickhead that carnt spell..... I hope I haven't offended you as than wasn't my intent. :(
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sungf1t
11 years ago
Haha 10 spankings plus sitting in a naughty corner foxy ;) Gee it's unreal how different we all are!! Some similarities but very different.. So answer me this, guys don't get the pleasure of sexy lingerie or slamming your wonderful set of breasts to catch our attention" cause you know it works" in your profile. as I go off face pics! Eyes,eyelashes,lips,smile..... Natural features that's my attraction. As if we meet I'm gona be looking at you..talking to you.. If ya got a good body freakn bonus!!!!
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PL1963
11 years ago
I have tried everything I can think, my profile is not bullshit, my msg's are sincere, am I being too nice & honest & therefore no one believes me? If you & some of the other Ladies could view my profile & offer constructive criticism, it would be greatly appreciated. I was in the one relationship for 30yrs, am I out of practice or just dead. Thx Paul.
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