Sawadee

Sawadee

M62

Women craving cock, true or false. ?

March 02 2020

OK, in my time on this earth ' ive experienced women who love / like to make out and those who prefer to wait til the time is right ? In other words making love and not just fucking because they can. So just when i think thats the way it is ' along comes a few women l now know ' who unashamedly admit they fuck for the love of it, and weekly if they can ? One is married and the other a young mid 20s single. So my question is this. Are these 2 woman considered the norm these days ' or are they the rarities ? BTW , this experience came after a very open lively group discussion at a club recently..

Comments

  • curiousgirl35

    curiousgirl35

    5 years ago

    I guess the answer is don't pigeonhole woman, we won't pigeonhole men. We are all different. I myself love sex and the more I get, the more I want.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    When I was married and made to feel like it was my duty I had a very low sex drive, then I was single for a while and loved exploring but ended up getting annoyed at the amount of men who don’t care about a woman’s pleasure. Then along came this Dragon character who takes the time to make me feel amazing and will explore with me at my own pace and also happens to be blessed with a great cock, so while I have craved cock before (except when I was married, lol) it’s never been as strong of a craving as it is when that cock comes attached to a decent man who knows how to treat a woman. Ms Phoenix.

  • 86Jasindy

    86Jasindy

    5 years ago

    I crave my partners cock! Or do you mean random hook ups? I definitely have the higher drive out of the two of us. About 730pm each night I'm absolutely needing it. We have this discussion all the time, he thinks I just need any cock, but it's absolutely his 😉

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    5 years ago

    If women want to have a fuck, let them. Does it really matter how, when, were why or how many times? We fuck because we choose too and because we can. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Oh, I was so busy with my humble brag I didn’t even answer your question 😂 Yes I think it’s normal for women to crave cock, sometimes we just get turned off by all the other shit that comes with it, or even by our own stupid hormone imbalances. Ms Phoenix.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    *no disrespect towards men intended there, I’m sure you’d go through the same crap with women sometimes.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    5 years ago

    I have to agree with foxy.... with a condition All people can be subject to change, at any time, for any reason. A woman (or a man for that matter) may be reserved with one guy but lose all control under the influence of another. I could say “yes, this is the norm” because its MY norm (for a few reasons) but if you've only known 2 women like this, its not YOUR norm...... so what does ‘normal’ even mean across such a wide range if variables?! You just cant compare people like that, or you end up labelling them

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Ok.... Well I think I may have added a tad TOO much funky cold Medina in that coffee... 😂😂 Mr Dragon

  • sw1ng3rz

    sw1ng3rz

    5 years ago

    Completely agree with curiousgirl 35.... the more I have the more I want.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Searching for a great cock to crave....

  • sweetnsensual

    sweetnsensual

    5 years ago

    I like cock and pussy but crave genuine people not a body part!

  • Kokoflamingo

    Kokoflamingo

    5 years ago

    Same, I crave the whole person, not just a few inches of their bodies

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Kokoflamingo You can crave me as a male to hangout with your choice if anything else hangs out Koko hope I made sense and behaved

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    5 years ago

    If you get a great session on tap, who wouldn't crave for it? But that's not always possible, even with a regular player so when sub standard experience torpedoes your boat, it dampens the experience of being at sea when your priority is staying afloat

  • MrKentia

    MrKentia

    5 years ago

    I find the vocabulary used in the title + the reference to the shame concept in your post OP clearly problematic. It's perhaps not your intention but it's like you find these modern women of little vertue. Is that so? I hope not because they should be free of doing whatever they want without someone telling them that it's uncommon or whatever that they are not ashamed of just wanting a fuck. I think it's perhaps the way you phrased your sentences but it participate to shame women about they sexual behaviour. We have a long road ahead of us regarding sexual liberation. Hopefully, women will not have to justify whatever they do with their bodies. And same with men.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    For me definately have best sex drive of my life. Perhaps that is because my kids grown left the nest and no longer a fulltime parent. However as a single that can be frustrating too as its rarely available when u want it. That is because I want quality over quantity and prepared to wait and be with someone that floats my boat. Also because it leaves me feeling good about myself and totally satisfied.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    5 years ago

    What a total load of BS... l dont taint women one way or another.. I simply posed the question after a lively discussion l was involved in last weekend' then posted here to see what the ladies of RHP had to say. In no way was the topic meant to demean women and most replied that way.. It may not be suit your etticute... opps etiquette... 🙄

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Just weekly? 😈 I love sex and I am not bi. I am all about the dick. But......I do not like crass guys and so many on here think bc it is a sex site that crassness is acceptable. Be classy guys....tease a bit. Entice us ladies. Make us want it through innuendo and flirting.

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    5 years ago

    It's simplifying something that isn't simple. There are periods of low and high libido but from my observations women are rarely like men. It takes more to get us wanting and it takes something great to keep us interested. All of this is then variable to life pressures and how we are feeling emotionally and also our hormonal cycle. Personally I get bored pretty quickly and my interest wanes unless he is something or someone special and a generous lover or hits a hot spot with a kink. Dare I say sex for women has the potential to be more mediocre, than for men experiencing the same sexual experience. Broadly speaking we don't get off as easily in general, so it takes something good to keep us keen for more. What doesn't help is that when we use online dating there are honestly so many dodgy guys that constantly want to fast track sex in shitty ways. Women who want the freedom to just explore and have sex often can get jaded quickly. Thats just how it is. Also, quoting you OP "So just when i think thats the way it is ' along comes a few women l now know ' who unashamedly admit they fuck for the love of it," It would be my hope that all women can fuck for the love of it at some period in their life, preferably all of it. To hit that with someone is sublime, is it not? Whats the point if you aren't enjoying it? I would say there is no 'norm' with womens sexual desire. We are complicated creatures but stimulate the mind and treat us well and we might just crave you and your cock.

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    5 years ago

    I nodded my way through all your post. 👏

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Mr Kentia Perhaps the subject line craving cock was a bit too much. Would have been less confronting using words such as sex drive. Besides some ladies crave a little meow too. 😻 However I think most of the ladies ignored his dominate use of words and just answered the question.

  • MrKentia

    MrKentia

    5 years ago

    I agree moan a lisa! I believe it was worth being mentioned at least once that the vocabulary chosen wasn't the best one. I believe it's quite important to pay attention to the meaning of words in matters like this. Obviously, that's just my opinion. Happy to be disregarded.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    To be perfectly honest....all of the women I’ve known love sex.....but only few were comfortable enough telling people about it in fear they were labelled for their healthy approach to sex and the challenge they posed to society’s social programming...... I’ve been very lucky with Ms Phoenix though in that she’s felt comfortable enough with me to express her thoughts and desires. Mr Dragon

  • neverenoughfun

    neverenoughfun

    5 years ago

    I have always loved having sex and as my partner says, someone only has to talk about sex for me to suddenly want to do it It was my idea to join RHP to find additional sex partners not his It has always been my idea to host or attend sex parties, go dogging or go to swingers clubs not his That's me though and all people are different. However, I have witnessed first hand at parties we have hosted; 1. Quite a lot of people attend as 'couples' where the female was reluctant to attend in the first place or had been coerced and had no intention of removing any clothing or came only out of curiosity. Yet when there, they ended up screwing everyone and were the first to ask when the next party was and could they get invited again. 2. A large number of married or attached women attend without their husband's or partners knowledge and partied like no tomorrow. Very many of these ladies attended regularly. So do women love cock? Personally and from my experience of seeing others, an emphatic yes. Do they like it from their husband or partner, perhaps not. Only they can answer that one.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    5 years ago

    Personally ' l think you might be reading a lil too much into the word ' craving '? It is a acceptable,word in the English dictionary so l guess its the interpretation of the individual . Most women here replied as per topic and kept on the subject. Just goes to show how one person's throw away line can upset another's moral standards.. lm sorry you felt that way .. For a site such as RHP , l feel theres far too much emphasis on a peoples grammar ? Surely making comment on the subject matter is far more important than pointing the almighty finger of fear ? That " gets up my nose far more than a misspelt word.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    5 years ago

    I found your post very interesting and informative.. thanks ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Sawadee.... I agree with you...I think it’s merely a matter of semantics...rather unimportant semantics at that. Mr dragon

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Just was responding to Mr Kentia actually. But since u chose to direct a respond to me. Then I shall respond to you. Saying yes maybe the subject line Women "craving COCK" is a bit full on. I didnt say at all that it offended me. You just assumed and you know what they say about assuming. 🤣

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    To add Sawadee Not the first time you assumed that you offended me in the forums. My point is to try and at least make a small impact on the way that women are viewed and spoken to on this site. Just my personal view point and noticed others as well would like to see a shift in that way. Plenty of ways to have open frank discussion without deameaning the opposite sex. Of course that goes both ways. Couldnt care less about grammer or spelling mistakes. You made your post now take the response's like a grown man and pull up your speedos. 😁

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    5 years ago

    l didn't assume anything ... I appreciate your right to be offended by joining the word craving with cock as you so empathized. Im sorry you felt that way ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Sorry Mona I did lack a clear response, but it wasn’t actually directed toward you. We agree too that none of the replies really gave a toss about the vocabulary used, which is why I agreed about it being simply semantics at play from the man with the sandy mangina...I really hope he finds a bidet though... Mr Dragon

  • N4November

    N4November

    5 years ago

    I have and I am currently going through a COCKICIDAL phase 😈💦💦

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I think this is a good phase to be on! Shame we are a few hours apart...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I think the reason why so few women have appeared to "crave the cock" could be at least slightly related to the attitude you appeared to exhibit when being told the title was a bit offensive etc... I'm just putting it out there from a man's perspective that it appeared that you were advised the title was clearly taken offensively by a few women here. It would probably be more beneficial for you in general and find more women will "crave the cock" if you took it on board rather than dismiss them and tell them what they were feeling was wrong because the words were in the dictionary... It is essentially like reading a biology book, learning the anatomy...and then during sex you might be told "that's uncomfortable could you do something different"...I don't think the response would be "No, it can't be uncomfortable because that's the location of..." Then citing a biology text book. Because in my experience women enjoy sex as much as men. They just mostly respond to different stimuli than men...why do you think there is so much said about grammar? Because if you look like a dumbass then it's unlikely that you'll be seen to be able to mentally stimulate a woman or a man...and that appears to be pretty important in having someone "crave your cock" That's what seems to be the case. Or, you have a magic penis.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    5 years ago

    I Really ' obviously this topic was not meant for everyone and certainly not a person such as yourself . I'm sorry you feel the way that you do.. But you did fail to mention the women who replied and had absolutely no issue replying , albeit for the few who complained ? It was certainly not my intention to upset you or anyone else for that matter. But it is what it is , and had l the chance to re phrase the topic , l probally would ? But apart from the topic , if mine or anyone else's grammar upsets you , it's only fair l point out this site is made up of people from all walks of life and education levels ' not just for the few peacocks who like to puff thier chest and boast thier vocabulary..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    People naturally need to judge and have everything fit into preprogrammed definition and that’s natural but deprogramming is something I feel we all need to do abit of. Judgment however I just don’t do but that’s because I’m completely comfortable with me. Some people have higher sex wants and how can that be a bad thing or something to question. It is not for judgment just appreciate 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I think using the word “unashamedly “ set the tone, because you are implying that they should be ashamed and that’s judgment. With a hint of disrespect. But I think everyone can move on from this unscarred and all friends 🤞 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Sawadee, It doesn't bother me what you do. I didn't see the title and think that it would upset anyone. I just thought it was an interesting response to those that did suggest it could be perceived as offensive. If you're insinuating that I like to puff up my chest and be a big man to impress the ladies, or whatever the peacock reference is... you couldn't be more wrong. Women can stand up for themselves...and a peacock....I wish I had some way to show off to attract females naturally built in. But if you want to be that way...here is my logic. Two women who just love sex because it's great...it is a truly depressing thing that a grown man would think it's unusual. Genuinely. So there could be a few scenarios that could lead you to be surprised... You might be absolutely terrible in bed. Which would be unfortunate, but may result in your partners enjoying sex as much...if nobody tells you, you're none the wiser so you couldn't improve. Or another scenario is that you don't know many women...so you don't have a large sample size to work with. Or, you haven't ever just discussed sex with women before...fair enough, what women enjoy etc may not interest you... Or maybe you've been advised by a female that the approach you might be taking is not overly appealing to some... But you dismiss it. Because it wasn't what you wanted to hear... The vast majority of women I know love sex...with the right person, or circumstances...the only reason they don't is because their partner doesn't know how to please them... Which I guess would come down to taking on board something that may be off.topic or not what you wanted to hear?? Anyway. Maybe it's just my magic penis... I didn't really mean to offend. It just seems that if you're surprised females want sex because they just want sex because they enjoy it...then I'd be taking on board all the advise I got. I'm going to test out my plumage now...😉

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    5 years ago

    I appreciate the effort you put into your different senario's. But there is a difference between those senario's and what was meant to be just another topic ? Albeit a bad choice of words for the few , the topic probally would have ran its course and faded away like any other topic? As far as you puffing your chest and preining your feathers , that's totally up to you ? But there will always be someone out there ready to take you to task ' should you do so in a demeaning manner.. I'm not going any further with this conversation.. the topic in my opinion has now gone well off track and while that might suit you , l feel for those who replied to the topic the way it was meant to be..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Does not constitute an argument. To Whom it may concern; Being offended means you can’t control your feelings, so you demand everyone around you do it for you. It means you’re a weak person.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I haven't read this thread before though I've seen excerpts appear on my stream and popped in because it was mentioned on another thread. How is it we can have a lively discussion in person but as soon as we put it in writing, we're arguing how it was put and the topic gets lost in the translation of spelling, grammar and language. It is a bit of fun seeing the different characters though, especially the translater for women, thanks! Now that I've bored ('scuse the poor pun) myself, thanks for the topic, I'm glad you asked. It is well worth a lively discussion to get input (and again) that rounded out your experience and what you thought you knew in my opinion. It is becoming more acceptable for us women to be ourselves, however that is, without feeling shamed. Well, I'd like to say that, but it's not really as long as we can't accept ourselves and each other, and women can be the worst. I'm terrible that I'm a horny bitch and that is what hubby (of 30 years) loves about me. We've had our on and off moments. Lucky he has all the good quality gear a cock craving woman like me would need (haha, we watch porn and I think about that a lot, it's not the size I'm talking about here for those who might be thinking that) along with that gift of pleasing. Yea, so we women are out there, it's not that we're rare, more I think that some are more vocal (not a pun) about it than others. Some of my best experiences were with complete strangers where the mind didn't have to be so engaged. I have a ton more thoughts but that'll do. Bums up, and please excuse the long dribbling post. Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Cockicidal? Please explain?

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    5 years ago

    Well ' that puts things back in its right prospective.. Thanks for your input..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Markoshadk.. it’s all subjective, never once did I take the word “unashamedly” to be in any way an implication from Sawadee that we should be ashamed for craving cock. To me that word represented liberation because let’s face it, SOCIETY is prone for labelling women who love cock as sluts so to unashamedly embrace the love of man bits can be liberating for many. I never took it to mean that Sawadee thinks we should be ashamed at all. Why would he think/imply we should be ashamed of something that he clearly found quite enjoyable? It’s important not to get so hung up on individual words that you lose the context or misinterpret the intent of what’s being said. As a woman (and some what of a feminist) I can honestly say I did not feel judged or degraded at all. I think it’s awesome he found some cock craving playmates, all men should be so lucky! Ms Phoenix.

  • justforthefun44

    justforthefun44

    5 years ago

    I love cock Mr cock anytime. Others cock as much as we can. Can't beat a nice cock or 2

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    5 years ago

    In a nutshell , that's exactly what i meant ? You explained that well...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I think someone woman enjoy 'sex' more than others. My experience of other woman is it's usually round their beliefs about sex and the sexual experiences they've had. I do believe less woman 'fuck for fun' compared to men. Physically, it can take a woman longer to orgasm than a man too except on porn. I think if sex education to teens also focused on how to give and receive pleasure AND factual information about sexual acts including the results of, more woman would be 'fucking for fun.' I can immediately tell when I meet a guy if his last partner wasn't into sex because he always has 'porn type stereo typical ideas' about how a womans body/mind functions sexually.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Quoting 'Dragon_Phoenix' Markoshadk.. it’s all subjective, never once did I take the word “unashamedly” to be in any way an implication from Sawadee that we should be ashamed for craving cock. To me that word represented liberation because let’s face it, SOCIETY is prone for labelling women who love cock as sluts so to unashamedly embrace the love of man bits can be liberating for many. I never took it to mean that Sawadee thinks we should be ashamed at all. Why would he think/imply we should be ashamed of something that he clearly found quite enjoyable? It’s important not to get so hung up on individual words that you lose the context or misinterpret the intent of what’s being said. As a woman (and some what of a feminist) I can honestly say I did not feel judged or degraded at all. I think it’s awesome he found some cock craving playmates, all men should be so lucky! Ms Phoenix. Thank you, Peachy

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    5 years ago

    Peachy, ditto! Ms Phoenix summed it up perfectly for me. It's refreshing to see a role reversal on the topic for a change. A guy that craves pussy is a stud, but a woman that craves cock is a slut! We still have a way to go to level that playing field. I still love it when the word "slut" is reclaimed as a positive. I hope for most of us the word slut has a very different connotation to the majority of society... may the rest join us eventually! Nice topic... take it in the context it was meant in!

  • fundave2

    fundave2

    5 years ago

    Quoting FunLovinGal "Physically, it can take a woman longer to orgasm than a man too except on porn" Did you mean a woman can be aroused more quickly with porn?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I imagine Funloving means that porn shows we orgasm quickly. Personally, sometimes I can come quickly at times but other times I can struggle, it's not all about orgasm for me but the pleasure of the feelings. It can get too intense for me to orgasm. 😊 🍑

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    5 years ago

    How true... Nothing nicer than the warmth of a woman when you first connect... Personally , I dont always need to cum ? Taking time to enjoy the feeling is just as nice..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I think some porn provides inaccurate factual sexual information about women. Sorry to burst anyone's bubble but Lovelace did not have a clitorus in her throat. 😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    From my time on here meeting other people with hubby, just the anticipation sometimes was so intense my body would stiffen and arc. I found the intensity during meets, while well intended, just to try to bring me to orgasm too intense but so enjoyable as I had to express so many times because I felt like a failure in a way. The mind and body are beautiful things. Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    That some men think porn is a form of sex education. I know not all men think that. I was rather shocked to discover some even thought it was. As a woman I've always just seen porn as a form of 'sexual entertainment'. Kinda like going to see strippers. I.e the gorgeous girl on stage is just a character but behind that is a real person. I'm a writer by trade and professional Porn, is scripted to sell. It's not scripted to provide sex education or make men better lover's. However, it's possible to buy these kinds of films too. Most of the information in them though, is extremely easy to find on YouTube. I had a partner 7 years ago whose ex wife wasn't that interested in sex so when we got to together he went a bit crazy learning everything he could about pleasuring woman since I was keen. I really admired him for it too. Not many men would do that in my experience. Easily the best sexual relationship of my entire life.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    5 years ago

    I can identify with that ? There was a time when l thought it was all about me and everyman for himself . Then I realised all i was doing was pleasing myself not really thinking about my woman's needs.. Since changing that way of thinking and taking time to find my woman's buttons, is much more satisfying.. And lm not too proud to ask her to guide me .. Not all women are alike .

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    5 years ago

    No ' far from a failure . Just the way you and your body work ... I witnessed that same feeling of intisipation with Mrs S on her first hotwife meet. The build up she was feeling was that intense like you say, it crossed over onto me.. And just like you ' she enjoyed every minute but so excited she couldnt cum.. So your not alone... 😅

  • Solareclipse999

    Solareclipse999

    5 years ago

    Quoting 'EnergeticGurl' Just weekly? 😈 I love sex and I am not bi. I am all about the dick. But......I do not like crass guys and so many on here think bc it is a sex site that crassness is acceptable. Be classy guys....tease a bit. Entice us ladies. Make us want it through innuendo and flirting. Great! - subtlety, teasing and playing with the imagination - its the brain which is the real sex organ. Btw you say you like to flirt but won't accept them in your profile :-(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Honesty is the best policy. Simple and concise. Well said MsJDays

  • RocknRolla_1

    RocknRolla_1

    5 years ago

    Agreed, everyone is an individual and moods and emotions affect our libido, Loving fucking and love makimg is different and is not the same as loving cock in my experience, this is natural but some enjoy more than others. I have had experiences with a couple of woman who genuinely love cock, and it's one of the hottest most sexy things I have experienced, there's nothing better than looking down on a woman who is totally focused on your cock, enjoying every aspect of it, and understands what works and what doesn't, she knows she has total control over her partners body and pleasure. In saying that the individuals probably need to be attracted to the person and dick I suppose.

  • lover73

    lover73

    5 years ago

    I love sex, will have it whenever I can its healthy. Can't get enough of it, I'm 48