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Women fuck who they want, men fuck who they can.
February 13 2022
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youngsyd_cpl
3 years ago
I don't know About rampant on RHP, we have met some great guys with great attitude towards sex. But you're right, there are guys that have no idea about good sex. We have also heard the term "a hole is a hole" which we find disgusting.
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RHP User
3 years ago
When I get first messages of guys wanting to fuck me, before they even bother to see what I look like, or who I am, even bothering to ask my name...then it feels exactly like that to me. Not great for self esteem, to be honest.
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AWomanWithNeeds
3 years ago
Its not insinuating you fuck alot lol it says women fuck who they want. Which is true.
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AnnieWhichway
3 years ago
Running rampant..... I'd say this site is no different to all other sites. After all, most of the selfish, inconsiderate pricks of which you speak are across all sites to find their share of holes. Nature of the beast. I agree with you on the other points
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Rising_Phoenix
3 years ago
I don’t always have sex with people I want to have sex with, sometimes it’s not possible for whatever reason. I think it’s quite a silly misconception that women have it so easy and get to pick and choose from some wonderful smorgasbord. I sleep with people when there’s mutual attraction which can be hard to find. I think it’s only men who have the view that any hole’s a goal who think women are having lots of sex with everyone they want to because that’s how they think they’d be if they were a woman. News flash, women get rejected sometimes and it seems to me we’re also more picky, and even if we’re not picky not all men want to fuck all women, so as if we’re getting everyone we want throughout life, lol.
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hot2nwild
3 years ago
Very situational, works for some people, flip it around and it works for others.. 🤯
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hot2nwild
3 years ago
Own your sexuality no mater what anyone says, dont be infected by other peoples jealousy or insecurity. We are quite capable of deminishing our own confidence without help from others.. Fuck anyone who has the "Any holes a good hole" mentality.. Hopefully those type of people are easy to spot, unintelligent and arrogant are some tell tale signs
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Obi1kenietzsche
3 years ago
Probably should read “Women CAN fuck who they want, (whilst) men (WILL) fuck who they CAN”. The emphasis being on both “can’s”, where the former implies discernment and the luxury of choice, whilst the latter simply implies lack of discernment due to equal lack of opportunity. Of course, “can” does not equate to “will” in regards to the former, and “will” (I.e willingly or willingness) may not apply to ALL men in regards to the latter. Just most of us! 😉
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RHP User
3 years ago
Mr Honeyandthebee rejects more than he accepts. Not sure any hole's a goal is true for all men.
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sxy30sGCguy
3 years ago
utter bollocks..........maybe true if the guy in question is very low status and low sexual marketplace value, but for those of us at the top of the food chain, thats another story. I can have my pick, and i have standards regarding partners that i wont lower or break....because i dont have to.
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Sawadee
3 years ago
Im a male who fucks who l want to fuck.. Now before anyone jumps down my throat let me explain. Im a male who is just as choosey as any female. I dont just fuck anyone because they have a pussy... l need a attraction and connection before anything. Sadly ' we will always have guys who do look at women as having a hole only for thier pleasure. These guys spoil it for all the decent guys as we all get tainted with the same brush. Seems sites like this is thier hunting ground.. So dear ladies , we're not all the same..
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MsSuperFoxy
3 years ago
I've met fantastic gentlemen on here, some I haven't slept with, because "I've" chosen not too. It's the ones I've rejected and said No to, are the ones who I've dodged a bullet with because it's their actions afterwards that speaks volumes. Nothing needs to be said to them, except to move on. OP if you have issues with men that treat you like "any hole will do" attitude, move on and don't waste your precious time on them. Invest in those who want to get to know you and action. It's up to you to decide, not them. You are accountable for your choices. Ms Foxy
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SunnyCoastSwing
3 years ago
When the chemistry is working mutually, i will totally wait until she is comfortable and then the sex is amazing. 
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countrytouch82
3 years ago
With only consensual sex, the apparent low end can only be "I will fuck anyone that wants to fuck me". But the situation varies. Able bodied vs non able bodied for example. Despite the amount of effort put in, that might result in many fucks vs still no fucks. For someone partnered, it might be that they are not "trying" to fuck as many people as possible, but just their partner, and if they are not trying with anyone else, then of course no one else will magically "want to fuck them". So this may have no impact on their monogamy. BUT of course it's the attitude that matters. So yes, if one has this attitude then it means he/she will fuck anyone else willing regardless of their current situation (even if it never occurs). Which I think is certainly nowhere near the majority, even of men. The attitude may come and go. It will never be lifelong. At some perhaps small moments, "anyone willing" may do, even for one night, but rarely do I think this attitude actually lasts. But it may recur. But alas like all simplifications, it's still not realistic even for moments. Will someone fuck someone they despise, ever? Of course not. So "anyone" never rings true.
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KindaOldButNew
3 years ago
I guess that statement could be true to an extent. It's appears to be a numbers game for some men.
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AnnieWhichway
3 years ago
It's why God invented alcohol for the masses, not just the catholic mass. Add a little alcohol and your possible partner become so much more palatable. Add some more and you to yourself becomes that more irresistible. God made it so that too much self induced irresistibly meant that things go a little soft and it turns out " she wasn't right for me "
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Andrewxwz
3 years ago
Imo it's just a stereotype, unfortunately it looks like it seems to be a fairly accurate one. Just remember woman on most occasions have the opportunity to be selective. Alot of men will just play the numbers game.
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Highlands81
3 years ago
I actually think it applies to both there is very good looking men and women on the site who are attractive, great bodies etc, I also think it applies to what sort of sex that you like, whether it be dom, sub, group play etc.. I am sure both sexes talk a big game but I can speak from experience and I am sure the girls can as well. If you say what you want upfront you think it should be good to go but not always the case.
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RHP User
3 years ago
There is nothing more unattractive to me than a man with that ‘any hole’s a goal’ attitude. It reeks of desperation. I understand that for some guys on here it is a bit of a numbers game, but if you’re willing to just take anything you can get, you mustn’t have much to offer. Chemistry and a mutual attraction is a must for us when we meet other people. It’s what makes it fun, not just fucking for the sake of fucking.
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RHP User
3 years ago
Men can be picky who they want to fuck to. I have a type who im into. Just like everyone does. Its not gender biased.
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RHP User
3 years ago
Those types are honestly not worth the clean sheets, fresh hair and makeup and perfume for real!!. Quality over everything! We have sex toys guys, we don’t need a selfish disappointing experience, we can literally have multiples at the touch of a button. Thank god. Put in some effort and maybe have some standards instead of just fucking anything? 😂
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dontpanic
3 years ago
Whilst it probably has some truth to it on a supply and demand basis (on a site like this anyway) it's a bit of an oversimplification. Everyone has some degree of preferences and standards.
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Boundinpleasure
3 years ago
Not true, you couldn’t fuck Brad Pitt or any other of your so called hall pass men. Women fuck up in status and desirability traits so they get lifted up into a higher rung of society so to speak. Men can fuck a drunk girl that lives behind a dumpster and bring her up to his level but you won’t play around with a fry cook from kfc. Simply put…Kings can make queens but queens can’t make kings. This is almost true in all instances as what you find desirable is always key traits that all women want to some degree. Men, on a instinctual level, just need a womb to replicate his dna. This is a bare bones explanation but I’m sure you get why you choose, and we take what’s on offer.
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EasyGoingCple69
3 years ago
Its not rampant . Women can be the same Many blokes dont just fk what they can. They can be just as choosy
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badboyhere
3 years ago
I’m just here for the forums
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Daddysprincess6
3 years ago
I think you attract what you are. I myself as a guy in a relationship hold myself to a high standard (we both do). I love keeping fit dress nice love to smell good and being successful etc. I play humble though. Myself being a guy I also choose who I want to sleep with but I start with personality. If that stinks I'm not interested you can be a 10/10 by appearance but there is no way I would even want to sleep with you and show you a good time by treating you like a lady while at dinner then like a naughty who're while in the bedroom. On another note we meet more ladies in the real world who we sleep with then on apps like RHP and tinder etc as you can really capture who the person is and read there body language.
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couplerocky
3 years ago
All woman should be treated with respect And be made to feel like they are the only one on earth 🌍
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FitAndGeeky48
3 years ago
Whilst personally I'll always go for (what I consider) quality over quantity, it's not a fair question / comparison IMO. Women (especially on a site like this) are going to get so many offers that they can be much pickier and still have regular hookups. Guys, that's not going to happen (couples falling somewhere in between). Take two hypothetical friends Alice and Bob, we'll say they are both considered 7 out of 10 in the looks department, good enough looking but not model material. Both join RHP thinking they can hook up with several other 7's, maybe an 8 if lucky. Within a week Alice is hit by dozen's of guys considered an 8 and 9, maybe even 1 or 2 10's. Bob meanwhile gets clued in he's fighting with so many others to even be noticed. Those much fewer women 7's, why would they look at him? They have 8's and 9's giving them attention. He has a choice, maybe never get any replies or 'move down' to those 5 or 6's and hope. Is Bob a realist or is Bob an arsehole going to chat to a women that's not like someone he had any intention to when he joined? Of course looks are far from the only (or even most) important thing, but for most it is an important part of the whole package of a person. Whether I get one, ten or zero hookups on RHP I'm not going to worry (though obviously preferably not zero !), but for all those 'Bob's' that are single guys here, projecting that they are dicks, because they put out a 100 messages/likes etc. instead of receiving that many is not fair.
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Jackson1811
3 years ago
I think its true to a point. And maybe it's different for singles but speaking from a couples perspective, we have turned down offers due to myself (male) not connecting with the female. And to say men fuck who they can? also not true. The amount of times we've been stood up by single guys when there was a better than even chance of something happening is mind boggling lol.
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RHP User
3 years ago
Not all men fk who they can. I have that on very good authority
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BarneyandBetty
3 years ago
The "hole is a hole" is the most disrespectful comment every to be made... if that is the case, why don't those fuckwits fuck aresholes...
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RHP User
3 years ago
I disagree
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dartem
3 years ago
Everyone can choose who they want to fuck and also be rejected b the one they chose for any reason, but in reality if 5 guys at a bar with hardons are rejected by the lady of choice, she can walk away and do something else to curb her desires, with out people noticing, but now you have 5 guys with a raging hard on that try and walk out and have no one notice the tent pole in their pants lol. The different biological makeup with females and males is a disadvantage for males in this area, males are aroused easier and once hard are driven to release the testosterone and elevate the erection hence, fucking who ever they can, (cause you can’t be walking around the streets like that), the talk about fucking anything/ one is males trying to out do each other a guy thing, but as the animal kingdom they are driven to mate when in that state and the brain is unable to reason any other way, females are able to subside these feelings by diverting their attention to anything else, as females needs are more emotional based and in our genetics to find a suitable partner to have children with, (which can’t be changed in either gender as it’s biological genetics,)so if a guy wants to fuck you without knowing your name what you look like etc it’s your choice to accept or refuse lucky females are still able to think when they are horny, Sorry guys but men at any age can be very immature when it comes to sexual pleasures and it can be hard to find the ones that are not only focused on themselves but also focus on the females needs sexually, and you will find these guys have learned from women willing to explain this to them and realise that they also get greater enjoyment then just the immature fuck and leave.
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Mischeviouslad
3 years ago
That phrase is uttered by people without preferences, standards, or care for others They are effectively just using another body for masturbation Because if they were interesting, appealing, communicated effectively and offered comfort, and allure to others….. they’d not be feeling that kind of dissatisfaction with their lives If yiu had any
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newtothis007
3 years ago
Girls do hold the power tho. if I had a bag it would be sore haha
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RHP User
3 years ago
Yes there will be men like that and then there are the exceptional men who take the time to foster trust and strike a conversation and invite out for a drink to break the ice. Good looking women are not always looking for good looking men and good looking men are not always looking for good looking women. It is at the end of the day subjective. Looks aside I’m sure the genuine people are asking questions and getting to know people.
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Vinnnieboi
3 years ago
I think for some its correct and women also experience this also. I think Men can be quite quick to let a Lady that tonight is her lucky night and maybe that explains the perception.
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