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Women on male sexual performance?

January 29 2010

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This question seeks answers from women.  Sure, guys can answer but I'd rather here from the other side.  I know there have been some threads regarding male stamina but what I'm looking for is numbers.  How long do men really last in the sack?  From the time they "start" to the time they "end"?  Actual sex, excluding foreplay.   Having asked many female friends the average seems to come in at (no pun intended) 10-12 minutes.  Younger guys tend to get it up faster but are less experienced with the equipment and don't last.  Older guys are slower to start but tend to last.  Rare seems to be over 30 minutes.  One friend found a guy who lasted an hour but commented he was boring.   The question isn't intended to cover technique which I'm sure we all agree is more important, but with all the erectile dysfunction advertising claiming that men can go from seconds to minutes - it really makes me wonder how little self control guys have.   Your thoughts?

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    There are so many variables to consider that a definitive time is useless information even if you could come up with a conclusion. For example... oh lordy lord, she put a mint in her pussy and then rubbed her armpits under my nose.... this time I lasted 47.5 seconds.... ooopsies.... v's... she was a starfish.. at one point I thought I could hardly keep awake... and then she moved her foot to the left and oops... 2 hours 45 mins later, I shot it.   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Hey D, A subject close to my heart..and even closer to my bits! Seeing as how I have a stop watch on my person at all times, I am in a position to provide you with some serious data. The average session from point of insertion is < .43 seconds This is based on > 4-8 minutes of fellatio Average cunnilingus sessions: < 1.53 (minutes and seconds) This raw data is of course subject to many variables particularly when the astute male (and patient female) employs the mc-combo strategy averages are only increased by a bare minimum tho. 10-12 minutes!? Hm, in which case I would hazzard a guess and imply an increase to the female taking the scenic tour around her man of the moment's body. Who said women don't make good navigators??...lol An hour?.....I say....'zzzzzzzz' or....crikey! I gots me a bad case of lockjaw!!! ps: please excuse my prolific poor literary & grammatic prose...cos..I just dont give a f*&k, lick or suck

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    You beat me to it again! No surprises there tho...men always 'get in' first....hehe

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    ....it's obviously in a guys head if he has to snort something up his nose to get his cock to work...hehe   My ex husband, I met him when I was 22.  In the early days of the relationship after some heaving petting he said to me "I have something to tell you"   At this point I'm thinking, "OMG - he's gay"   But no, this young soldier said, "I'm impotent"   So me being me...rather than saying 'cya'...goes to work on fixing him.  Which I did.  Didn't need nasal spray - don't think it was around back then, just some good old fashioned oral work ;p    Anyway, medical conditions aside, the pysche as young Stalky mentioned has a lot to do with it.   In my opinion...   Jx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    A woman and her wonderfull oral skills..... ya suck em...til their right in the head again (pardon the pun) and....its all over red rover....

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I thought you two were smarter than that. The dude used to oldest line.. serious, THE original line in the book.. she falls for it.. and lippyu praises her for HER skills. OMFG... RIIIIIDDDDGGGGEEE Get teh bus ready... I found two more! hehe   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    My wife says she swings because she wants to feel satisfied and cum with the sex. Not sex as foreplay and left feeling unsatisfied without cumming.   For her 10 minutes plus is very good, mix it up with oral! 2-5 minutes she classes as foreplay.   30 minutes gets boring but not if you keep switching partners or a social break and then round 2! 3-4 hours has been our best with others coupled with 2=3 10 min breaks! What a night!     Cheers

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    ...and here I was thinking that my determined Mary Magdelene talents were indeed curing the incurable...but in fact I was just gullible....pmsl...   Jx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Call me slow ladies but are we discussing intercourse here or the whole package/ session?? I like to have a CD playing if we are still playing when the CD stops , then the session is going good. and long this not hammer time  long.!! If i have to change CD'S then we are blowing eachothers minds !! Sounds like you ladies have only been playing single tracks !! Make him play for the whole CD ..

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Myname...I'm sure you are trying to be funny otherwise you are with the wrong guys bigtime. I have met a few women that talked about guys that only last a minute or so. Personally I can't imagine being that quick. Not enough time to work a sweat up. The 10 to 12 minutes I would believe. Especially when you average things out. All the one minute wonders compared to those who consistantly go half hour plus. 10 to 12 minutes is a quickie in my thoughts but if going hammer and tong then yeah I spose thats fair. It is a bit the same with women. Some orgasm super quickly and others just cant orgasm (or haven't learnt how). Always got to try to get them to reach the big O a few times before letting them finish you off. That's sometimes easier than other times.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' Just what are you going to do with the information? Morbid curiosity.  Though I wouldn't be on RHP without a good dose of morbid curiosity

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Ahem, lovenlust, I am somewhat discombobulated by your accusations. Particularly as you seem to have simply rewritten my 'thread' albeit in your own words.   Of course there are factors which impact upon performance. This, I believe, was inferred by the mention of 'variables' Semantics aside, I do not believe any male would admit to the exact time it takes him to achieve orgasm once stimulated! Dare I propose you borrow a stopwatch and obtain quantitative data to refute my results? Controlled conditions apply in order to do so however. By this I mean the subject would be yourself...and the controller would be Moi.   NOW Im being funny....or at least trying to....

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    ok, anything less than 10 mins is ridiculous unless it's an intentional crazy quick and dirty (which can be AWESOME)!  Anything over 30 mins can get boring really quickly, unless there's something special about the techniques and/or connection or other elements.  Having said that, a 2+ hour session of straight penetration (with a few minutes of respite here and there) has been known to blow my mind - but only with a very special man :)So - how long do guys last?  Well from experience it varies enormously.  However, if they stop tensing the muscles in their body and take deep slow breaths, in my experience they can last as long as they want to :)lilmiss x

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    go girl ..you blew the unblowable !

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I had a lover who had a 3 cd changer and sometimes the cd's would still run out before we had finished lip, sip and sucking each other.  Other times we would just stay in bed for most of the day, getting up for the necessaries.  Sometimes the sexual tension would start to build during the evening while we were playing music and/or dancing, then we usually had a shower together and then to bed where it was nothing not to get to sleep til 5am.   I reckon don't worry about what other people are doing, focus on making your own offering to a woman a damn good one and you'll be a popular lad.  Wildly reminiscing

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    that is the way to enjoy your sex..