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Women only-Finding Mr Right

July 28 2015

Following on from my topic the other week in which I asked the women here, how many sites do they need to be on in their search for the playmates and a recent discussion I had with my FWB, I am asking what type of site that they would think they would search and find for their next foray into a long term relationship. Her thinking was that she would not think it possible that she would find anyone suitable on a sex site such as RHP.My side of the discussion was based on the fact that if you had gone through the selection process, found a playmate that ticked all your boxes, loved all the sex acts that you did, loved experimenting, found them great in and out of the bed, why couldn't you accept them into your normal life and settle down?If not, do you chuck your strappon in the brotherhood bin with the dozens of dildos you have collected, tone down your lingerie collection and become Miss Vanilla so you can find him on a vanilla site? And pretend you are miss wholesome and leave your sex life behind? Otherwise risk your vanilla friend stumbling across your strappon and asking that question you have been dreading....... Now I have split the topic into men and womens so as responses dont get skewed by the opposite sex's responses. So be yourself. Pretend you are in SWB and speak your thoughts. I know the topic has been done before but thought I'd take the split approach. Repeat, WOMEN only post here

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RHP User

9 years ago

People are people everywhere you look. When it comes down to finding a long term partner then communication is the key no matter where you meet each other. I put it out there in RHPland and have found a loving relationship with a very open minded and open hearted man. Be honest in what you seek and you shall find. Hugs to allLG ps. yes all my boxes are being ticked (repeatedly!) lol

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RHP User

9 years ago

I don't think I could go back to being Miss Vanilla if I tried. Yes, I'm on a vanilla site, but even there my profile isn't much different than here (though I left the bukake and crazy monkey sex references out to not scar the general population.) Ideally I'd find a guy who "ticked all my boxes, loved all the sex acts that I did, loved experimenting, and whom I found great in and out of the bed". It depends what you mean by settling down though. I'm not sure I want monogamy, but then I've never swung with anyone I was in love with either. I'd hope he was bi and we'd have many adventures together. Time will tell. (Now awaiting those one or two guys that will post here just to show everyone they can't be told what to do. Those badasses.)

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Twisted_Mister

9 years ago

How YOU doin'? *winks* - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

9 years ago

I thought I wanted to find Mr Right.but then I realised I actually didn't...it doesn't matter where you look,you can find what or who you are looking for anywhere ...but it won't work unless its the authentic you they are meeting.not the you that you think they want to meet xxFreya

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TheLuckyOne

9 years ago

I had profiles on vanilla sites and on here and a similar site, and like Mea, my profiles were nearly identical. I'm not exactly Ms Kinky though so there wasn't anything to hide on the vanilla sites! I have met my Mr Right and it wasn't through the vanilla sites! As long as you be yourself you will find the right person for you. And just because I am on RHP doesn't mean I must be kinky and have a collection of strap-ons! All my boxes are being ticked and not a strap-on in sight! - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

9 years ago

You could meet your match anywhere, it doesnt really matter where? As long as you are compatible and stimulate each other both mentally and sexually, can laugh together and enjoy each others company, it shouldnt really have to be an issue over where and how you met. Ive met some lifelong friends on here, so I wont discount meeting a lifelong partner. ( And I wont be stuffing my lingerie and stuff into the back of a drawer thats for sure )

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RHP User

9 years ago

Finding Mr Right happens by accident. Can happen any time and anywhere. Just depends if your heart is open to it.

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Missb4u

9 years ago

im open to a relationship and I never though I would be again. But When I say relationship I don't think of the traditional monogamous kind. And no I will never curb my sexuality again for anyone. I am me pure and simple and one day someone will discover me. I to have a profile on a vanilla site "looking for a relationship" but I am very upfront probably to upfront to quickly and no doubt it puts men off I've never been very good at playing games though or messing with people's minds and really if he needs all of that he isn't for me. Ideally I would love to meet my match on here exactly how you described Annie but won't hold my breath waiting and I won't stop working on my fuckitlist while Im waiting.

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RHP User

9 years ago

Im sure I could meet my next Mr Right here,there or anywhere, except in my heart. Its locked while I focus on myself,my journey and what I need from "me" to make me happy and content. There is no rush,so when I find all that, I will be ready to share myself completely with another.And I know I will attract and connect with the perfect person for me when its the right time. I thought I was closed up to a new relationship because I was scared to get that deeply involved again, but its because I needed to get to know myself through my eyes, not my perception of how I think others see me, if that makes sense. 3 yrs single and still discovering new things about myself that Ive never seen before. Loving my self discovering journey.

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Lovinit28andKC72

9 years ago

Here is as good as anywhere else I guess.... I want more than vanilla, much more, at least in here it's all out in the open for you to see and that suits me just fine....💋

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RHP User

9 years ago

To finding a partner in crime on here and my profile reflects that. Im not searching for it but one day it will happen. I discovered Im bi so I dont think monogomy will ever be for me again. But happy to share everything with a potential partner. Ill be keeping the lingerie, my kink and my strap on for sure.

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inspirit

9 years ago

*SHIVERS*

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inspirit

9 years ago

*SMILES*

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Baileygirl

9 years ago

I thought I had met my Mr Right on RHP. I gave up my fucklist bc he ticked all the boxes and wanted the same things...or so I thought. Actually, that's what he led me to believe only to find out 7 months into it and living together that he was cheating with other women the entire time. So you might say, once bitten, twice shy and therefore I no longer believe Rhp is the place to find love and I'm no longer looking. Party girls can't get hurt.... Bailey 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

9 years ago

Sorry to hear about your unfaithful partner. Unfortunately they are around. Just look at all the "discreet" married profiles in RHP and all the ones who are "pretending" to be single on the vanilla sites. I have had 2 experiences like yours. The first I met in real life and was married to for 16 years. The other I met on a vanilla site. Doesn't really matter where you meet them as cheaters will always be cheaters. There are also many good and honest people everywhere. I choose to believe that there are more honest and good than liars and cheats. Don't let the bad ones stop you from finding what you really want. HugsLG

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RHP User

9 years ago

are far more straight forward than relationships. You can meet Mr Right anywhere, or no where. That said, if I was looking for someone to join me on a diet I wouldn't look in a candy store.

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