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Women profiles are so often couples profiles...

July 15 2009

Perhaps it is us having a little trouble finding real women desiring to play with a couple, but more time than not, when we open a woman's profile, it only takes a few lines to read "my partner and I would love to play with..." or "my man wants to watch me play and join in..." The question we have is why in the world these women that post profiles under the "women" section would not consider posting their profile in the "couple" section? The other annoying thing is the fact that although they mention their partners involvement, they hardly ever show any pictures of the men...why not? We understand that for privacy reasons many prefer to have their face hidden, but at least their body features could be shown. Oh la la, we now feel like terrible whingers! lol! We do understand that many women are truly genuine and willing to play by themselves. To these women we send our best smiles and hugs. S & S xx

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RHP User

15 years ago

Seems to me that quite a few women who have a couples membership, also have a singles profile. Maybe that is becasue they occasionally play alone... but you know.. it's difficult when in a relationship not to mention your lover if he's going to be leaping out of a cupboard wearing nothing but a latext spiderman suit with a large glow in the dark condom sticking out of it... I mean.. things like that if unexpected ....could scare a guy limp... and we dont want that! Relationships are so varied and complicated aren't they!

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RHP User

15 years ago

Like gaz said.... maybe some of those women play alone too?? I get more responses from men from my fems profile, than I do when looking for a bloke on our couples profile...... I do state in my profile that if couples/fems are looking to play with me, then I will only play with my partner involved, with our couples username stated in my profile to be directed to. I thought it was good to be honest.... maybe not.

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RHP User

15 years ago

That s#$ts me a bit. Really if you a then post as one you read that alot and the other one is when they have man on their looking for list but then you message them and they say are suprised that single guys message them and say we arnt into single guys. Then bloody well fix up your profile so it dosnt happen so as not to waste ours or yours time gee i rant dont I..

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RHP User

15 years ago

I think sometimes at swingers clubs girls who are actually part of a couple are invited to join with special deals - i know I've had that happen. Also we have both a couples and single profiles because we play both together and separately but they are very different.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Have noticed this a lot.There are those that have looking for men but then also mention they don't want single guys. Simple if you don't want single guys that means you only want a guy as part of a couple then list it that way. Worse are those that don't mention on the profile that they are part of a couple and just lead guys on. I think a lot of them do it for the self esteem of having all the guys drooling over them. Then when they get contacted they ignore them or lead play with their minds.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Just a thought, have you tried specifying in your search...." single" " divorced" "open relationship" those describtions would imply there is no partner or they play by themselves? We have a similiar problem when searching....we are not looking for bi play, so tend to tick straight and bi curious partners seem to appear and so often we are told the "girls must play thats what the lady is looking for" We are not sure if thats just "Bi Curious" but hey....we are not complaining eventually a match does come our way. Cant find a way around that one Cheers

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RHP User

15 years ago

Like Gaz said there are many couples who have singles profiles as well and it seems logical to me if you are half of a couple that plays alone. In this case though I think listing your status as "attached" in your single profile is the least you can do. Also if someone contacts you on your singles profile they are not expecting your partner to be involved so neither should you. It all seems so simple just be honest in your profile about who you are and what you want. But again, again like Gaz said relationships are complicated so there is plenty of room for confision. Would it help if RHP allowed couples to specify if they play alone? Then it would remove the need for people needing a couples and a single profile.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Have the option in the what looking for field as not looking for anyone at the moment since their seems to be a lot of those around as well. Might be a good addition.

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RHP User

15 years ago

has happened to us too - even in their profile never mentioned a guy but then when you message them - hey presto - boyfriend wants to join in!!!

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Women profiles are so often couples profiles...

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