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Women seeking women

August 29 2014

This is my first time starting a new topic so be gentle with me... This post relates mostly to the bisexual women on here: I'm interested in how many of the women with profiles stating they're looking for 'men, women, couples' are actually looking for women? I have looked at quite a few profiles with those parameters and yet when I get to the meat of the profile, it's all about the sort of man she's looking for. I understand that there are women who can take it or leave it with other women and would be comfortable in a threesome situation for example, but isn't it a little dishonest to advertise that you're looking for women if you would never make contact or arrange to meet one for a date without a man present? Conversely I would love to hear from any women who have had success meeting a woman on here. Thanks!

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Violetincredible

10 years ago

There are some very genuine girls on here- it just takes a bit of searching. Xxviolet

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RHP User

10 years ago

that if you aren't searching for something, you shouldn't be advertising it but I only state that I am looking for a man and I get contacted by couples and women also, so it doesn't seem to matter what you write, if people find you appealing they are probably going to contact you anyway. Maybe the meat of the profile is about what they ideally want but are willing to play with those she has selected at the top. Good luck finding your lady :)

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RHP User

10 years ago

But I've met far more in real life. Can only put it down to them seeing my personality. I never seek female attention when Im out as Im quite submissive when it comes to women. Maybe they pick up on that. For that reason I rarely initiate contact with women from here. My BFF took a chance on me three years ago. Just walked right up and fully kissed me. Weve been planning things together ever since. Give it time OP youll find some one.xxx

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RHP User

10 years ago

I'm starting to see another issue raise it's head here. The majority of single women on here are guests. It works fine for those of us looking for men or couples because the nature of the site is such that they tend to pay for a membership. We single women have the (probably unfair) advantage of being able to interact without forking out the dough... So if two women like each other and they're both guests, then what...?

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RHP User

10 years ago

Cant girls get into Chat ????

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Violetincredible

10 years ago

I've definitely found it worth the money Xxviolet

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RHP User

10 years ago

I just tried to chat with you and it directed me straight to the upgrade page, so apparently not :-) I think I'll just bite the bullet and pay up, it's not really that expensive after all....

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RHP User

10 years ago

It is hard, I agree. I like girls. I like boys. But couples? M'eh, can take it or leave it. But, sometimes it's the only way. This is a great point. On reflection, I've never been approached on RHP by a single girl, only boys or couples. And I'm a guest too. Never really thought about. OMG! What can we do???!!! Where do i sign up?!

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RHP User

10 years ago

Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' I just tried to chat with you and it directed me straight to the upgrade page, so apparently not :-) I think I'll just bite the bullet and pay up, it's not really that expensive after all.... I believe my Diamond Membership will allow that.

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RHP User

10 years ago

I've been contacted by several lovely women recently. Not sure what's prompted the change but I'll take it :-) Of course, the fact the I paid for a membership and can respond to the flirts now probably helped things get off the ground... Thanks for the advice everyone.

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RHP User

10 years ago

Starting this forum topic may have helped with the recent interest. ;) For what it's worth (now that you're already sorted)....I always figured that girls seriously searching for girls will pay for membership. Having said that, when I was doing girl meets I tweaked my profile to that effect but never paid membership and still found some great playmates. (obviously only girls who had paid membership). You definitely have to be more patient and relaxed about it but it can happen. Btw....I'd always go by the profile rather than the 'looking for' category. I think people may click on what they are open to, while not necessarily seeking it.

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RHP User

10 years ago

...name typo.....and.... My posts keep posting in duplicate. Double grrrrr! ;)

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