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Women who don't like to be active
January 04 2011
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Mr_MrsJones
14 years ago
Where you say 'Passive' I would be considering inserting the word 'lazy'. Mainly because they are, as you are saying, letting the guy do all the work. How can they enjoy themselves if they are not even moving much at all??????
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loveprod
14 years ago
In my expirience. It's more the case that women prefer a man for his dominance. His ability to lead in the situation.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I call these particular lovers "Starfish". The way to handle a starfish is to say "NEXT"... or you could just wank all over her tits.... at least that way it's more fun than fucking a starfish and you know that you're going to pop. HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
The "starfish" as Stalky calls them are usually inexperienced or a tad shy. A little encouragement will go a long way. Make suggestions, try different positions and tell them what you would like.
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RHP User
14 years ago
And now I am going to get jumped on here. PRESENT COMPANY EXCLUDED! The majority of New Zealand guys I talk to tell me that the Aussie girls are just lazy in bed. I certainly find them lazy in other areas of thier lives compared to how I grew up. I was discussing this with a South African man I know and he is of the same opinion. They lie there because they ARE lazy. They expect way more of the man and nine times out of ten do not want to reciprocate. JMO This does not include RHP ladies as we could never be considered as average.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Kiwi girls are kinky things :P Well, the kiwi girls we have come across seem to be :P xx Salina
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loveprod
14 years ago
Just something I've discover from past lovers. Is that women that sing. Aren't firecrackers in bed. Their BLOCKBUSTERS!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'SalAndy'Kiwi girls are kinky things :P Well, the kiwi girls we have come across seem to be :P xx Salina I take that as a compliment then.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I looooooooove your profile pic! Nice work! Sorry to change the subject people... As you were... Mrs W xx
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loveprod
14 years ago
These in-active women.Did you roofy them first?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi I can't speak for other Women, because I've never shared Sexual Intimacy with them as yet anway ...However some have already mentioned they maybe inexperienced Lazy .It could very well be a case of low self esteem ie not comfortable in their bodies or with sex, see it as a necesary evil ,dirty to a degree only bad girls do it..OMG! am I so glad I've high self esteem , comfortable with myself and Love being a bad girl in the bedroom...If they are inexperiened time patience and little shared info will solve that. If lazy now they will remain so ..don't bother .As for singing that's a good 1 it may be so, if that's the case I would have made a bad Lover I'm tone deaf he!he!Lol Lu :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I really love to be "active" if you know what I mean I guess some girls think guys like to take control so they just let them do the job.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Maybe they just dont know any better or are possibly shy? Not everyone is a master in the bedroom right away, have you considered encouraging these girls to be more active and give things a go. Encouragement goes along way and might help you sort out the shy from the lazy... xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'loveprod' These in-active women.Did you roofy them first? You're a wicked man. :pGaz
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xFunlovingx
14 years ago
Have you tried to find someone with a pulse? Might help! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Please be gentle kind people...only second time answering post here...to Touko..mmm yep some girls can change ...lol.. To answer the last part ...."do girl sof the passive type change....? "....HELLO!..(hand raised...lol)..went from shy and submissive/passive type to one who has become comfortable with herself. Have to give credit where it is due to the attentions of a lover who encouraged me to discover myself and my groove..if i can put it that way...He took the time to look past the physical and find the passion that was always there but I was scared to release. Suggested things to do ...didnt push and if uncomfortable respected my no's. Because he was attentive to my desires i then wanted to please him more so slowly became assertive to the point where he doesnt know what to expect when he visits...Not that he is complaining and I am not always in control... So yes...some women can change. So rest up...and stop wondering why ....ask and encourage and you might be surprised as Miss Passive might just turn into that tiger you are looking for...and if she is ...you better not be found sleeping...lol.. xblondeabbie1
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RHP User
14 years ago
The" Passive Root" , sometimes all of us like to lay back and be sexually pampered, nothing wrong there. This goes for both sexes if it becomes a habit with your partner try holding a pillow over their face and see how it all livens up. lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting '2into2'The" Passive Root" , sometimes all of us like to lay back and be sexually pampered, nothing wrong there. This goes for both sexes if it becomes a habit with your partner try holding a pillow over their face and see how it all livens up. lol might have to try that one myself .....if the need....arises! lol.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting '2into2'The" Passive Root" , sometimes all of us like to lay back and be sexually pampered, nothing wrong there. This goes for both sexes if it becomes a habit with your partner try holding a pillow over their face and see how it all livens up. lol might have to try that one myself .....if the need....arises! lol. I can't see that happening LOL XoX LC
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'LoveCurvie' Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting '2into2'The" Passive Root" , sometimes all of us like to lay back and be sexually pampered, nothing wrong there. This goes for both sexes if it becomes a habit with your partner try holding a pillow over their face and see how it all livens up. lol might have to try that one myself .....if the need....arises! lol. I can't see that happening LOL XoX LC I could see her doing that! Kisses Focus
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' I could see her doing that! Kisses Focus Nah I reckon she can spot a dud root at 20 paces at least now :) LC
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RHP User
14 years ago
Can't really help out here...as I have never met one, nor an alien although there is some talk of both?| Now...a woman who is shy, sensuosly still and moving subtley with her eyes closed, yes. A tender and passionate lover that does not need to communicate any other way, yes. And one more yes...they can and do go off like rockets at other times too. | The only "dead roots" I have ever really heard about and seen come from gardens where the caretaker doesn't quite know what he is doing...or during a very, very long drought! | And thank you to the powers that be for letting me avoid the cheap sheep jokes that are killing me now!
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RHP User
14 years ago
They haven't been turned on enough. Make that extra effort to excite and they will respond - like for like :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well I have know 1 to change from the starfish or sack of potatoes too a little pocket rocket, though it took me 2years too change her from a dead root too an amazing shag lol pity she is now my x gf cos of my manly ways, grass is always greener on the other sideAlso had a few lazy ones an a few shy ones some just like too lie there an do nothing, all ya can do is encourage them to be more open dont laugh at them an just show them you respect them a lot of it I found is them being embarrassed to say what they want or think! chuck a few sly hints of what you like etc, though i never gone and said to a girl damn you are a bore as I dont think that would go down to well An yeah a few Aussies I have been with have been pretty lazy though some are not an have been rated way up there, but its been the same for me with Kiwis, Greeks, Italians, Germans, English, Slovakian, various Asains, middle eastern girls some where great some where not now the Swedish, Brazilians and the Irish now I have never been let down there BAM top credits every time though i find the Irish a bit too dirty i think its just that accent reminding me of the pikeys an brad pit from the movie snatch haha epic
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sometimes it simply comes down to them being shy, and/or cautious. I have been with a couple of women who have been less than active on the first 'encounter', but come round 2 they have certainly come out of their shells! Some people just dont have the self confidence to let it all hang out straight away, but with a little reassurance and encouragement...its on like donkey kong and a win for all involved :D
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Chillymofo
14 years ago
I have to admit that i have in the past turned many "Athletic" lovers into these so called "Starfishes".When you are the sort of bloke who makes the rules, and are quite happy to throw a lady around the workbench, it does not take long for your lovers to establish a liking to being dominated.Mrs Rough, although not a "Starfish" is now very happy to receive and let me do the work!The reason for this can be put down to the fact that many women like to be dominated in the bedroom, and are quite willing to be very submissive.I believe it is not a question of being lazy, but rather of submitting to a carnal desire, which is ingrained deep in our psyche!Ask any of these ladies who are so called "Starfish" and you will find that the vast majority, love nothing more than to be tossed around the workbench for an hour or two, dragged to the edge of the bed so you can slip it in their mouth, or flipped onto all fours with her head pinned down, so you can lick, and finger her exposed lips.These girls love to be "Manhandled"I LOVE to "Manhandle"
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RHP User
14 years ago
I aint never met a lazy/passive woman from rhp
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