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Women who get really wet really fast...
December 31 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
However, in answer to your question...if all you are gonna do is stick your dick in there and pump like crazy for ten minutes or so the woman is going to get bored yes. Then the natural juices will stop flowing. All that in/out action is not what it is all cracked up to be. Oh I know...I know.....It feels good for you but not usually for the woman. Try pulling out and giving her some more oral until things get wet again. Try pulling out and indulging in more "play" time. She should get wet again very fast. Wait until she is practically begging to feel you inside before ramming it home again.
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RHP User
13 years ago
depends on how good the sex is... if the guy can keep me cumming I will flood. But when he is just interested in his own pleasure, I lose interest pretty quickly and start to dry up
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RHP User
13 years ago
I figured that since my body is more than capable of providing wetness then you should be the one to "extract/harvest" it (this part is NOT my responsibility as the manufacturer). You do your job, i'll do mine and we'll get along famously.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Handmaiden: Good insight, however ground and pound is not my normal technique. I'm not sure why you assumed that since I gave you no information about the details. I'm versatile with my motions and very creative, have never had a problem until recently. Usually I get a loud earful when I'm in action, but like I said previously, this is a new occurrence. I'm not the most oral guy but I'm good with my hands so maybe switching methods like you suggested would help? I'm always open to suggestions!goodgrlzsayplz: Sorry, but your comment just automatically assumes that I am doing something wrong and it has nothing to do with the partner that I am with. Not very helpful, to be honest, as your giant purple text just stated the obvious. It's the equivalent of me not being able to cum from a blowjob and blaming the girl while saying "Well you didn't suck dick the right way", when in reality, a decent number of men suffer from not being able to ejaculate regardless of the quality of head. I understand that I might not be perfect but if my technique was so fundamentally flawed as you suggest, then I would have come across this problem a lot earlier in life.My original question was "Is it normal for women to get really wet really fast, then dry up after ten minutes of intercourse?" Somehow, this was translated into "I'm fucking my girl for ten minutes and she can't stay wet, what's wrong with her?" Obviously there is a miscommunication here, so let me clarify.The first woman I was with got wet, extremely wet to the point where I could see juice dripping down her thighs as we started having sex, then abruptly stopped producing after a few minutes of intercourse. The second was similar but not as obvious until we switched positions and she couldn't lube herself again. So what I'm asking I guess, is if any women or their friends have experienced an issue with drying up abnormally quickly? If so, was it the guy's fault, or a regular occurrence?I hope this clarifies things, Thanks!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I find at the beginning of a cycle my natural juices dry up a bit. Or, I've had a few experiences of squirting a LOT and the liquid tends to be more watery than the natural lubrication. I have had this happen quite a bit as my the mr likes to make me gush several times before orgasm. Sometimes it's best to give the pussy a break, going down on the mr is usually enough time for me to have fresh lubrication for the finale. But I dare say, if she's orgasmed and squirted it may be that which is the 'drying' sensation. Hope that helps :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I wouldn't sweat it if this happens, it occasionally does to me too.....will start off very very wet and then it has a little rest, but it does come back again....it's almost like it happens in bursts of wetness. The important part is not to try and make it into an issue at the time, cos you know that will change the tone completely. I notice it coming in waves a lot actually and it's usually affected by the 'moment' when it happens it might be time to heat up the brain clitoris again with a little bit of dirty talk out of no-where (a nice surprise actually ) or like you say, change it up a bit with your fingers until you feel the next wave coming back.....it's not such a bad thing at all really I quite enjoy it when that happens, makes me look forward to the next bit where he might say..."OMG!!! where did that come from relax, enjoy the difference, and have fun
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RHP User
13 years ago
Take a pill sweetie, i was joking around.................. I'm sorry you didn't get me Once you get to know me you will see that's my humour. Maybe bold pink writting is better for you this time?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Writing NOT Writting
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RHP User
13 years ago
It happens , depends on age or what part of the cycle your in , the moon who knows. Same for men when they do not get as hard as they like. Lube , it works wonders
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why don't you like lube? If it's a simple case of having trouble on re-entry then you only need to use a little bit.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'D_G_T' I wouldn't sweat it if this happens, it occasionally does to me too.....will start off very very wet and then it has a little rest, but it does come back again....it's almost like it happens in bursts of wetness. Doesnt matter how horny you might be sometimes it just happens but like DGT said it always comes back
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RHP User
13 years ago
There is a great deal of variation between women and their ability to lubricate. It is not a reflection on your 'technique' nor even how 'aroused' she is. Hormonal changes, age, diet, stress, etc, etc, etc, all make a difference to lubrication. For myself, I am at an age where my hormones mean I often have dryness...there are heaps of fun types of lube to try out, and if you turn it into an opportunity to explore with your partner - what you are perceiving as a negative at the moment, may in fact, afford you opportunity to offer her even greater pleasure. Just my humble opinion. There are actually quite a few informative forums on the net with regard to this subject, and what you are experiencing is actually quite common. No matter how skilled you are as a lover, the vaginal secretions do tend to dry out a bit after continued 'pumping'. It in no way is a negative reflection on either you..or your lover.
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RHP User
13 years ago
you didn't mention whether you were using condoms or not. Some women react to condoms. Always use lube with them.
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MissSarahCurious
13 years ago
I never have trouble getting wet, but there are some kinds of condoms that rub me the wrong way, so to speak.. You may not like it but you do have to accept that it might just be that penetration doesn't do it for her as much as everything else. Some ladies really really get into all the foreplay but don't really get as much out of intercourse, regardless of how you're doing it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I stay very wet until condoms are used as my body is sensitive to the rubber in them. Then I dry up quicker than the sahara! some foreplay and clit stimulaton usually gets me flooding again as well as a bit of lube..not too much as it numbs the area and the friction is gone
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xFunlovingx
13 years ago
I am one of those women that gets wet very fast and doesn't need lube, not even with condoms! I am afraid to say OP that if he is doing it wrong and I get bored...I dry up just as fast! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
If there is a fan on in my direction, it's not good. Aircon seems to be fine but fans are not going to be helpful.
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RHP User
13 years ago
spit is a great alternative.Sometimes alcohol, drugs and ciggies can have an impactand also how hydrated she is in general. Dont sweat it...just think up some fun ways of getting those juices flowing again!Good luck!BJ
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hunter45
13 years ago
i will keep u wet all afternoon
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hunter45
13 years ago
Quoting 'zphinx' I stay very wet until condoms are used as my body is sensitive to the rubber in them. Then I dry up quicker than the sahara! some foreplay and clit stimulaton usually gets me flooding again as well as a bit of lube..not too much as it numbs the area and the friction is gone
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