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Womens views on "open" relationships
November 19 2010
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'll hazard a guess it's because he's a guy and you're a gal!!! hahaThis is the basic law of the 'adult dating jungle'
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RHP User
14 years ago
I dont think they are cheating at all, i mean there is an attached section for those who are cheating isnt there?I was the one that broached the subject of an open realtionship with my partner.At first it was because i wanted to explore my bi curious side so the intention was that i would sleep with other guys.My partner wasnt that open to the suggestion at first but he went away and thought about it (for about 5 months lol)and then came to the conclusion that the positives outweigh the negatives.He also said that he was cool to open the conditions so i can play with guys as well.But like Zeus99 said, i seem to get more interest from people than he does, i guess cause there are more guys on here than girls?
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RHP User
14 years ago
We have chatted to a lot of guys who say their wife/partner is cool with it, but when you NEVER see them, talk to them, it makes us wonder.....Hehe and lets face it, most guys are looking for a fuck, they dont care whether the woman is married, etc. Most women are a bit more picky i guess :) Or a lot of the girls on here are looking for girl on girl experiences.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thanks for your views, at least now i know that its not just us.
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RHP User
14 years ago
We have come across 3 couples we have met and played with , and all was agreed that both have an open relationship so to say no further arrangements were made for the other couples husband to come and have a 1 on 1 one with my wife , so my wife sent messages to other wife saying it is cool to come and have fun 1 on 1 with me , all have made excuses so the point there are more guys than females isn't the point it's being genuine and honest with married couples , our rule is if wife plays 1 on 1 with other hubby reciprication is warranted with the other wife , of course single guys will hunt down couples whom have an open relationship to play 1 on 1 but the females are very picky when it comes to meeting 1 on 1 with married couples husbands , large men are out of favour ,
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi first up our couple profile is playfulcouple5, I am married and we do have a very open relationship and have done for years, it can cause a few problems now and then like all things in lifee, but most times work well and we meet nice people, my wife and I have seen single people on and of some times for years at a time, other times once or twice, we esp love swinging with couples in the same bed etc, that way we get to see the other partner having fun and can be part of it, we both are bi, so that opens up a lot of fun with same sexs, but one thing we have found over the years we have swung, is the number of guys who say thier wifes dont like sex any more, so they play on their own, and thier wifes know about it, but often very hard to get them at night when wifes home lol,, where you live zeus99 would make it harder for you too have fun, as not to many would travel to WH's unles they knew you well, hope it works out for you, and Merry Christmas to all
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RHP User
14 years ago
Do you still want to meet us zeus99 you were going to txt us a couple of weeks back when you were down in Perth
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RHP User
14 years ago
As far as us texting you we had the kids that w/end & there was no way we were going to meet up with you or anyone else.
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RHP User
14 years ago
this what you sent us on the 30th september Hi, we are good thanks, we are actually coming to perth this w/end to meet up with some friends but may be able 2 arrange something. Ok we'll let you know towards the end of the week what our plans are.Tracey & Glenn amazing when we siad you were going to text us and your reply was you had the kids As far as us texting you we had the kids that w/end & there was no way we were going to meet up with you or anyone else.you need to be honest with people .we should of never believe what people say on rhp until you actually meet at least we aren't timewaitsers like so many on here , when we say we going to meet we do so .
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RHP User
14 years ago
Please dont post private messages with people's names in it! So much for discretion!!!! Pusscat xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Why couldn't ZEUS99 reply to the message it was directly pointed at them , so many who seem to be timewasters on rhp making a point for another couple , Pussycat your only interested in meeting at the Swinging pig like swiningbubbles , been there and met them by mistake and when we were supposed to be meeting Brylor and what a waste , well if that's your cup of tea then so be it it's not ours, and swingingbubbles when we went to club fantacy they were so rude to us , that is why we prefer meeting just 1 cpl at our each place if not a public venue.
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RHP User
14 years ago
we all have busy lives and theres times we just get caught up with whats in hand- so dont worry if people arent honest- just be patient :):) I am
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RHP User
14 years ago
As far as us meeting friends in perth, we actually have friends that are just friends and our babysitter fell through. Also when we do arrange to meet people, we do actually turn up but thanks for the post, you have now convinced us that we have no desire to meet with you at all.
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RHP User
14 years ago
As far as woody pussycat making a point for us, it is a "public forum" which is why if you had a problem with us then you should of sent us a message instead of posting it on here. Seems to me you are just on here to have a whinge.
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RHP User
14 years ago
A matter of fact how can we message you when we don't have a number to contact you guests can't contact full members , and we are here to meet people for sex and thats no bull , if your babysitter had fallen thru then why not message us explaining that , you made it clear eatser last year how you never wanted to meet us , when you were down and going to gosnells for the afternoon before heading back saying your baby needed to sleep , we should of never believed wsrn_couple how genuine you'se were when you met them , and when it came to meeting us it was 1 excuse after another everytime we tried to meet , and it's not whinging as you put it , it is just putting timewasters that keep making excuses with us , when we say we will meet after arrangements made we meet not make excuses soon as the day arrives , and yes it is a public forum for people to give their greavances or any topic that is on there mind , and if guests could message then how easy it would be instead of having make it a forum topic
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sexylegs - we meet people at our place, their place and other places - just not the swinging pig! We did send you a flirt but we got a knock back from you! And quite frankly I am not surprised people are rude to you, as you seem to be rude to them! Right vent over. Pusscat (NOT pussycat)
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RHP User
14 years ago
when you sent us the invitation woody pusscat we were asked us to meet you at the swinging pig on a sunday afternoon session not once but on 3 occassions as you were meeting a group of people their not at your place and if all clicked then you would go to your place so before you start throwing that you invited us to your place which you never did , we replied and said to you that we don't like to meet a group of people , and talk about being rude you were invited to a couples place in mt nasura where we attended and you had decided to not come on 2 occassions, you don't know us the same as so many on here , it's not nice in making arrangements and decide not to message and say your not coming just leave us hanging well as you more than likely will say maybe they got cold feet or changed their mind , well cold feet don't cut it when they meet others on rhp the same night
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RHP User
14 years ago
I've had enough, it's not worth my time or energy to argue with you butl after that rant and all the bitching about us and alot of other couples i am quite pleased to see it posted on here so everybody can see what they are in for!
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RHP User
14 years ago
There have been occassions where we could not make a date (like the party in Mt Nasura) but we always phone prior to the night and give our excuses (which is usually my health as I have severe rheumatoid arthritis) and we have never ever not shown up to something or left people hanging! Friggin over this! Pusscat
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RHP User
14 years ago
LOL Funny how some people have a quick name change isnt it??? Pusscat xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
It is lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
from my experience, men just happen to have more "balls" shall we say? as we girls may be a tad picky, when we finally settle on someone then the doubts set in, and we just don't back ourselves enough. (or maybe just worried about enjoying the fun too much )
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am not a cple but I have been in past, and we were into the clubs etc... but I am biting my tongue and finding it hard to keep doing it! I have been removed as a friend by a cple that I have never met or spoken to and that approached me to add them rofl I am not bothered about being removed but a little surprised... Is it coz we are both guests and therefore will never msg and therefore never meet? Making me useless to them as a potential other... oh the mind does ponder :) I tend to keep to myself a fair bit as I have been around the fringes many yrs and seen many 'untoward' things happen... and here is another example... HOWEVER...I have since grown and am now ok to stand up for myself when needed :) Please don't jump in and attack my post as it is in general and certainly not naming anyone - so don't name yourself ROFLMAO
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billecart
14 years ago
pussy or tiger? got the right idea tho keep it real guys its not high school get over it and move on , oh yer get a membership so you can send txt..... oh and one more of many tips dont get attached to anyone but your partner i was told once if you dont want a chick to fall in love with you , dont give them good sex or an orgasm and they wont bond to you girls avoide it by only sleeping with a guy once or twice whats wrong with me i just like sex did i mention any names? oh and swinging is run by the girls mostly have i forgoten anything..
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bigfella42
14 years ago
yep you girls have got it all pick and choose us big guys get what we can
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