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March 16 2016

Kinky Is there one particular act that first comes to mind when you read: kinky / kink / kinky play on a profile (or elsewhere)? Rather than the frame of mind / open mindedness, etc., what is the one particular activity that springs to mind when you first read the word. Does it align with the particular kinky act you enjoy / seek? Does it differ depending the gender person's profile you're reading?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Interesting question. I don't relate it to anything in particular, but it excites me, rather than scaring me, if that makes sense. Most of us here are kinky anyway in one way or another, so it's just whatever that person is into, always different. Absolutely no preset ideas though on what they might mean, very individual

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Me Up,Tie Me Down...yum,Antonio Banderas 😜xxFreya

  • social_suicide

    social_suicide

    9 years ago

    So unfortunately the wider vanilla community would see a proper kink as a mental health issue. To me a proper kink is something that is required for the individual to "get off", to genuinely release. Mrs S is very lucky as my kink is MFM and BDSM. Bruises new and old get me rock hard, and so does the traditional spit roast. As the saying goes...." I was born that way" There is nothing sexier than a women enjoying a couple of hard cocks and being whipped till her gorgeous arse is glowing red. I love the sting left on my hand from a purposeful slap, and the groan from taking it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I think I say kinky in my profile! oops ,but I am a sub I love rope ! I don't care what people think of the word!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    That sprang to my mind was being restrained and dominated. But that's my little thing. It also conjures up some images of things I've seen that I wish I hadn't 😕 For some reason I seem to associate reading the words with acts involving implements.

  • social_suicide

    social_suicide

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Summer_solstice' I just wonder what that person's understanding of the word is. I think the word kinky gets confused with fetish regularly as well, so I'll usually ask what someone means before I assume anything. For myself a kink would be anything that has my vanilla friends go "you like WHAT?" or better yet "No way is that even possible!" Interesting point regarding the two words fetish and kink. I think I may have been wrong with my definition, a fetish is something that you have to have to "get off"?..........or is it kink?......its definitely one of them. ......I think its fetish. Can you have a fetish for MFM?

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    9 years ago

    I don't think of one act. I normally wonder how kinky they are. I have found it has a broad meaning depending on the person. to some kinky is anal or rimming to Others it is needle play or knife play and others it can be a D/s relationship.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    9 years ago

    .. or sausage or salami...... Huh huh 👅 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    9 years ago

    Kink to me is muiti coloured vanilla. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    who once asked something about handling her boss .. I can't remember what she asked.. but it was not something really bad.. she obviously sort of liked her boss....so I said "just walk into your boss tomorrow and say....""Beat me, bite me, whip me.. fuck me like the dirty pig I am.. cum all over my tits...Tell me that you LOVE me.. then get the fuck out of my office"...oooops...I forgot Facebook was a family forum...and I believe my post got reported..I did NOT believe saying that to your boss was all that kinky....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Am I???? having kinks or twists."long and kinky hair"curly, crimped, curled, curling, frizzy, frizzed, wavy, ringletted, ringletty;synonyms: informalinvolving or given to unusual sexual behaviour.abnormal, unusual, weird, bizarre, peculiar, strange, odd, funny;synonyms:

  • ocean_man

    ocean_man

    9 years ago

    I think Kink is more an attitude thean an act. It is that " I am open to anything " philosophy :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    StarJustice - no judgement at all! Just curious if there was an act that first popped in someone's head when they read the word. Does for me, and I wondered if I was alone - thankfully not :) For me - first thing I picture is for Men - anal play (esp receiving). Probably because if men are into D/s - they usually say that. And for women I think they want to be tied up. Couples I automatically think lots of toys. Then other things come to mind - but I have just noticed those images flitter across my minds eye, before anything else.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    It's only kinky till you try it.... After that it's practice for the next scenario 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile