M53
Working around the Housemate
February 11 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have a woman from rhp lives here, and a nice sweet gay guy. They are diwnstairs. But the house is huge and sound proof. Fuve beds four barrooms so we can keep clear if each other. I never host at all here. But they do. The trick is not to be to much into each other's life. It can be shit if you get it wrong. I had a good friend female move in with us in a smaller place. She was a horder and as lazy as they get. Never cooked a meal nor cleaned a dish. Her room soon looked like a tip. I find most guys on here cannot host They live with flatmstes, parents or the wife( darned inconvenient that one) . It can be the death of your sex life. My female friends all take lovers a lot younger and the last thing you want is the mates seeing you in the morning as you do the walk of shame with panda eyes and your heels in hand as you slink Past a bunch of studly dudlys in righty whities - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Whenever I would find myself in a shared situation (I have to say it was always my place that someone was moving into to take a room). It would be something that I would discuss up front. We would talk about keeping the house clean and tidy and that if they need the place to themselves for a dinner or whatever. We would discuss having people stay for the night or a couple of nights. I certainly wasn't going to ever be upset it there was some howling coming from down the passage. I also made the point of stating that I didn't care about the gender/orientation of the person staying or bring home. All houses I've had could allow some separation of living spaces, which was good. I also came from a large family, so sharing space and chores was normal. That said, I olive alone now and have done for some years .... it is far better. In my shared days I did have a few times when I'd get a know on the door late at night and be invited to join a house mate and a partner for some horny fun. Maybe I'm a prick, or just chose the wrong partners to bring home, but I never returned the favour.
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RHP User
10 years ago
i call bullshit.... The married couple would be having sex right?? If so, why would said housemates not understand the needs of said single for this to be something that needed addressing?? I'd also be fairly confident in saying that in the event that said housemates were to arrive home unexpectedly to find you up to your nuts in guts with said single that you'd smile and simply say "gold coins in the jar over there thanks 😊" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
i call bullshit.... The married couple would be having sex right?? If so, why would said housemates not understand the needs of said single for this to be something that needed addressing?? I'd also be fairly confident in saying that in the event that said housemates were to arrive home unexpectedly to find you up to your nuts in guts with said single that you'd smile and simply say "gold coins in the jar over there thanks 😊" - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Wasn't worth reading twice.. lol I don't struggle.... she didn't struggle (much lol) ... but, this lady said she likes to wander around naked, and tuned out to be a noisy eater...... so it was obviously much easier to take shenanigans to my home... than hers.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'd opt for reputable accommodation (at my expense) regardless.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I know you're gettin on in age see; so I just wanted to make sure you got it lol 😝 So I'd be asking her if her situation is really working for her?? I used to cohabit with friends in Wagga....but....I never really felt like it was home. It felt more like I turned up once and never left lol I remember two major things....one was their question "you know you can have friends over right??" Lol "yeah and I would if I had them lol" The other was they came home one day and said "we're off to tumut for the weekend..." "Cool, what time you be back so I know when to kick the hooker out??" I asked... "What?? You're not coming??" "Errr.....was I supposed to be??" Point is I felt like I was their third wheel....and moved out soon after... And I don't know if I could ever cohabit with anyone again to be honest.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am sure mr Lad a POW camp would be more fun than living with you 😝 But enough of that , last year i met a lady took her back to the place i was renting with a friend and his girlfriend , gis girlfriend was only one home as i thought they both went out , anyway jumped in the spa on back veranda and ended up doing what you do !!😜 anyway how can anyone know when you land a screamer !! Well and scream and swear she did, was no way i was gunna stop especially when she was screaming dont stop !! After the event i found myself and my guest locked out of the house and in the bad books. Maybe because my guest was louder than my house mate ever was . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
My flatmate has a 8 year old daughter, so I never host. I haven't even brought up the subject, I think it would be way too hard to explain different guys staying. But even if I was living alone or with a flatmate that didn't mind me having guys over, I think it would take some trust before I left them know where I lived. I try & keep my RHP life & normal life as separate as possible.
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RHP User
10 years ago
then you are entitled to do whatever you like that is legal and sex with others is legal as long as they are consenting so I don't see the problem. If I had boarders or was a border myself then I would expect I was free to have sex in my room as much as I like, the common areas would be a different story unless it was my place.
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RHP User
10 years ago
that say, I can't host, I have housemates. I have said back, you pay your rent don't you?, you are entitled to have a sex life without having to get permission. I think it more stems from people who are embarrassed to have people, especially different people come and go that their housemates might see. I sort of think well if you are embarrassed to be seen with me then you aren't fucking me. If you are embarrassed about your actions, then maybe you and your conscience need a chat. I am not embarrassed about being seen by other people at your place, why should you be? The only time I think this is acceptable is if there are kids. They don't need to be privy to your sexcapades but if everyone is adults then why do we need to hide it?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I know this is splitting hairs ,,, but are you sharing with a woman who has a friend or are they a couple ? Couldn't work that out - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorted - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
10 years ago
The Husband/Wife and kids? I had one of those excises tecently and he got called out on his bullshit. NEXT!
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Having sex at homewith a housemate didn't bother me over much, and I used to say to her I didn't care so long as I didn't have to listen to it. Therein lay the problem, how can I flog someone up and have a rip roaring time if the housemate was around? For thse nights it was asked, can you find somewhere else to stay for the night I have a "HOT DATE" coming tonight and you don't want to see us fucking on the floor, kitchen bench, dining table, stairwell before bedtime 👍😇 That usually worked. Give and take hey. 😘
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' Having sex at homewith a housemate didn't bother me over much, and I used to say to her I didn't care so long as I didn't have to listen to it. Therein lay the problem, how can I flog someone up and have a rip roaring time if the housemate was around? I guess thats sort of why I was asking..... If I wanted to lift this lady onto the kitchen counter and help myself to her womanly wonders..... the housemates might have gotten a bit of a shock and found it difficult to grab a spoon for their midnight ice cream run. And listening to others antics through walls can be somewhat annoying. So I led her to my home where there were no such logistical or social issues to deal with. Only fun DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Rock it dude.... If I were the married couple I'd be lookin at my partner and simply say "you've got to be kidding me right??? We can fuck louder than that 😉" 😝 It is what you make of it....you can choose to get all bashful and shit or you can choose the group sex thing....that'd be a fun way to break them all in 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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