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Working girl vs domestic goddess

July 16 2014

Ladies in an ideal world would you rather work and carve out your own career or be a stay at home domestic goddess, guys do you prefer if girl works or stays at home and manages the donestic front - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    I much prefer to work outside the home. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    An ideal situation would be where the Woman works & takes care of the Home ;) GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    I cant stand staying home. When my son was born, I was itching to get back to work. In the end I stayed home for a year as me working didnt work out for kiddo. Then it was straight into full time work which was hard to do the house work, raise a child plus care for my sister. We hired a cleaner and it was fabulous. I will never stay home again to clean and cook. I only do what is needed atm as I am busy being a mother and working takes up a fair chunk of my time. If I was to ever meet someone and we were happy for me to work and they stay at home with kids and do the house work/cook etc, I am all for it. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    I would want to be both a working girl and a domestic goddess and not feel tired at the end of the day and have all the energy to do stuff with kids - a Supermum! :) Keep dreaming, you say :P - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    As long as we didn't have kids. Seriously, full time work cuts into my Xbox time immensely.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    to be a goddess, now I am a hieroglyphic :-) xQ

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    In a perfect world I would have a bizillionaire husband who can look after me in the manner I deserve. I think that would be fair.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    We both like working and being domestic.He cleans everyday when he gets home from work and I cook so we share the load.Once we've got kids i'll stay at home for the first year then he will have a year off to be home dad.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    I work from home, earn good money, keep the house in order, took care of the children before they started school and do 70% of the cooking........ Geez, if he complains, I'll clobber him lol. Oh yeah, he can also have sex with other women........ Put me on a pedestal now...... Although come the weekend, I want to play, escape and relax all together if possible ;)

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    I don't want kids and I hate cleaning....although my current casual job sees me doing a lot of cleaning and it's amazing the motivation you get from being paid to do it

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    1. I love my career and I am strongly independent.2. I make my own money and love the freedom that brings. 3. I could not imagine not working ? I' think i'd die of boredom. 4. I like to be challenged daily and I enjoy shopping :) and lastly I don't cook or clean ever…I pay someone to do that for me ……I can't give that up !

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Quoting 'DeliciousCurves' 2. I make my own money and love the freedom that brings. That's another thing....I would never want to be financially dependent on a man.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    So I can choose my hours and decide on any given day whether to be either of these ladies I'm house proud and like to run a organized home and when I have guests over, I adore cooking I don't mind doing the domestics, just crank up the ITunes and off I go. I love work and my work originally started out as a hobby and interest, so now I can't imagine not working My hours and times are maniac and I travel a fair bit for work. Only recently have I come to appreciate the whole "stop to sniff the roses " scenario, so I'm just about take time off till Xmas and chill. A lady of leisure.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    I believe I fill both :) I work till 3 , 5 days a week.... Am home to cook a nice dinner..... Then go to the gym..... Then help with homework.... Maybe do some baking....I may not be super mum but I do ok :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    I would rather be the domestic goddess and donate my career skills in mentoring others.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Having never had a partner who did either I have no idea what it would be like... methinks I'd like someone who did a little from both column A and column B. In the end a partner is someone you should share the responsibilities along with the fun... earning the income, doing the chores, being the designated driver/passenger and giving/receiving the massages etc. 50/50 give and take yes? I must say I have nothing but respect for all the single parents out there, the mums and dads who are raising their children being both the bread winner and homebody. I have several friends in this situation and I don't know how they do it and maintain their sanity without burning out (or maybe they do burn out and I just don't see it). SG

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    I would like a housekeeper that did all washing cooking cleaning grocery shopping. I love my job (apart from odd days when I detest it) and couldn't imagine not working. But if I had the same or higher income to stay home than I'm sure I could fill my days. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    I've always had a working career, however I would like to think domestic duties would be shared?? One would hope that if a partner they would support a working career no matter what. Don't think I could be with anyone that didn't support my working career, goes vice versa. As for domestic duties, I can bend over the dishwasher and wave my little toosh and lovely lady lumps! Panties or no panties... Who says domestic duties can't be fun?? Foxy

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    From a man point of view I have always like to provide the choice of if she would like to stay home or work. My only stipulation is that she is not to be used or abused. Only moorhen is now with economics stipulate that she has to work due to losing my job through redundancy 3 times in 12 months. Puts a strain in both of us, and had to make some hard choices but we will get through and my love will again have the choice info have my way. Fiy she wants to work and have a career and I fully support her all the way in what ever choice she decides on. Oh and she is gong back to uni for further education. In saying all that I would love the choice to stay at home and if I could do half as good as she does I would be doing alright. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    i'd want my gal to be independent, and not tied to the house, everything there is a shared responsibility anyway.

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    Hubby and I share everything, from working to household duties. I looooooooove cooking, but no one beats a BBQ cooked by hubby. He cleans the house each Friday and I do the washing/ironing (yes I iron, don't judge). I wouldn't hesitate to do the gardening and any other work required outside, if it needs to get done, it gets done. Why choose, the best of both worlds! Even if I didn't need to work for financial stability and I had heaps of money, guess what, I would still work. mary xx

  • Splicey

    Splicey

    10 years ago

    I prefer working for myself, with a lot of free time to look after the family unit - and play :)

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    ...both partner would be happy with their lot in life and the partnership would be just that, a partnership with neither one resenting the other for staying at home or working or both. Frankly, I just want my partner to be happy and confident with herself. If that's at home, fine. If that's at work, more power to her. The old cliché and 50's style roles never did sit well with me. At the end of the day I want to have a self-confident, happy woman in my bed, not someone doing what they think is the socially proper thing....and I just realised that had two meanings.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    If possible' women should go out for work for the sake of their own self esteem and independence .. Cant think of anything worse than being at home all day with just the housework and watching 'days of our life's' Mental stimulation and mixing with others is all important to your own well being...

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Mrs Madmanx does housework, I do the outside. (Although I am slightly negligent on that at the moment... Shhh) She works a few days a week but also works with me on our business most of the time. She works damn hard between it all. We are always on the go doing something. Lol I greatly respect her motivation.