RHP

RHP User

M39

Worst Flirt ever

March 31 2013

I look at reply options for flirts and there was one that goes (maybe not accurate, but along the line of)-"Sorry honey, if you can't afford a membership you can't afford me'The reply makes the replier sounds like a prostitute....outright degrading themselves. There must be much better excuses/replies than this. Com'on RHP.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The choices are not very good so it takes a bit of care to choose the right one.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I read the standard replies and I just don't feel them.. The author obviously wrote these without any consultation with the ppl who need to use them.. I understand rhp's job is to promote it' s product and bring in the dollars, but the available replies make me cringe... So all I can say is I like your profile....

  • uneventful

    uneventful

    12 years ago

    I usually use when being sent the 'you are exactly what im looking for' .... by guest member too stingy to pay a membership ... but would like me to use my paid membership to message them ..... i dont consider it makes on out to be like a prostitute .... but everones perception is different..- Posted from rhpmobile

  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    12 years ago

    It's terrible, and not only because of the paid-play connotation but also the idea that people pick someone to play with based on income is a bit sad, really. I don't care how much your car cost, I'm not getting in it. I don't care how much your clothes cost, I want you to take them off. And if you try to impress me by telling me how much you earn, all it tells me is that you lack substance as a human being.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Add this to the list."I am a guest. If you can't afford a Platinum membership, you're not worth the effort." for flirts from paid members to a lowly guest like me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I don't even bother with Flirt Replies . I wouldn't say any of that stuff . I reply to Flirts with a Message . I want real Communication not a conversation of Templates . GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Uneventful... I'm a single mother and really can't afford membership...I didn't realise poor people weren't worthy of finding love. I'll let all the other people who struggle with finance know and we won't bother you anymore =)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    As for the "Sorry honey, if you can't afford a membership you can't afford me" reply, I think it makes the woman sound like a princess. Not very appealing to me. The other one, "If you're serious, pay for a membership and put some photos up!", or something is just as bad. Why would I yell at someone I don't know?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Miss sweetpuff I would love it if someone poor like you replied to me : )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I agree and I'll never use that one. I'm here to meet people for his personality not pocket.

  • uneventful

    uneventful

    12 years ago

    Well thats fine sweetpuff .... but then .. im not looking for a woman so that wont bother me ... I struggle with finance ... having been a single mother of 5 for the past forteen years thanks to a cheeting husband.... plus being unemployed for past 8 months .... but thats fine ... i will just waste my time and messages and money ... messaging people who I Have Not Looked for and who dont fit my preferred ... just so you can feel worthy.... walk in somone elses shoes first .. and a month membership ... is less than two cups of coffee ... or a pk of cigarettes ... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • uneventful

    uneventful

    12 years ago

    Well thats fine sweetpuff .... but then .. im not looking for a woman so that wont bother me ... I struggle with finance ... having been a single mother of 5 for the past forteen years thanks to a cheeting husband.... plus being unemployed for past 8 months .... but thats fine ... i will just waste my time and messages and money ... messaging people who I Have Not Looked for and who dont fit my preferred ... just so you can feel worthy.... walk in somone elses shoes first .. and a month membership ... is less than two cups of coffee ... or a pk of cigarettes ... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    for much younger Male guests, their profiles are brief, arrogant, plain stupid, & they want me to message them...That's my reason & I think it's perfect.However I do agree, RHP need to add a few in there to cover a few "grey areas" that their current flirts don't allow.Which is when I just send a message.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I always assumed that from a males perspective women didn't even bother reading flirts so I don't bother using them. I always just go straight for the message, maybe i'll have to rethink that.Would you be more likely to respond to someone if their initial contact was through a message, even it was to turn them down?

  • uneventful

    uneventful

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'bjclhb' I always assumed that from a males perspective women didn't even bother reading flirts so I don't bother using them. I always just go straight for the message, maybe i'll have to rethink that.Would you be more likely to respond to someone if their initial contact was through a message, even it was to turn them down?Some women and some men .. dont bother reading any of the flirts they receive ... others read but dont reply ... others again read and reply .. EVERY ONE IS DIFFERENT and have different reasons for their reactions .. Just as everyone is different in their receptive and expressive traits in respect of them .. As are some messages .. some are replied to and some are not .. Quoting 'OneEmerald' for much younger Male guests, their profiles are brief, arrogant, plain stupid, & they want me to message them...That's my reason & I think it's perfect.Thank you OneEmerald ... it in no way INFERS that we are replying in respect of INCOME .. FOR SOME PEOPLE I KNOW have a huge income .. but just cant be bothered to pay any out on a membership ... Quoting 'Sweetpuff78' Uneventful... I'm a single mother and really can't afford membership...I didn't realise poor people weren't worthy of finding love. I'll let all the other people who struggle with finance know and we won't bother you anymore =)- Posted from rhpmobileANYMORE than i referenced this to any specific person .. nor did i make reference to poor people .. or worthiness.... I really wish people would see what is written .. not what they think they see... my coment reflected who i use the flirt reply .. similar to the way OneEmerald also uses it .. The flirt referees to "affording MEMBERSHIP" .. not to wealth or income levels .. IMO

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Well as a couple we find it silly that RPH does not have flirts for us as a couple like, we love your profile, or sorry our dance card if full, or we think you are a hot couple what do you think of us,   as for the cant afford me bit, we as a couple use this because of all the guys out there wanting us to message them because they are guest, we pay a membership fee and get to send 5 messages a day, that will not go far when Mrs Lee is horny, this site is not the best but a vehcile to find like minded people, sometimes I think guests get more access that members !!   suck it up princes that what we say !!!! heheeh   the Charlees

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I hear you. Not everyone can afford a paid up membership and I'm peeved at the one's who act in that holier than thee attitude just because they can. I think everyone would love to be a fully fledged member, but for some it's not a priority, specially when you have twins to care for like you... BTW, just read your profile . What a surprise package you are. Love a girl who loves to lives life with her tounge in cheek.. That's me all over, so I can identify with all you wrote.. lol. Jay

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Exactly the same way. I love sending that reply to Men who wank on in their profile about being high flying businessmen who would love to spoil me by taking me away for dirty weekends in 5* apartments.Quoting 'uneventful' I usually use when being sent the 'you are exactly what im looking for' .... by guest member too stingy to pay a membership ... but would like me to use my paid membership to message them ..... i dont consider it makes on out to be like a prostitute .... but everones perception is different..- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Well said sweetpuff!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I never read it that way. I always thought of it as women are money hungry succubi and don't want a povo guy.Now time for a sketch!Husband, concerned: Honey... why is the baby on fire?Baby, on fire.Wife, screeching arms flailing: BUY ME MORE JEWELRY!