Would like some help from experienced users of RHP

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  available across RHP and one the forum threads, titled "The Ten Commandments for writing a male profile" may assist you further although your profile is not too bad the way it is.I wish you good luck.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  what's the rush??? I've kept some people waiting 6 months just to have coffee....but at least I was sure of who they were, their intentions, and a direction for our interaction... Oh...and like the pedders ads....no fakes lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Mischeviouslad

  9 years ago

  Hi JV. Im going to ask the obvious. You invested 3 months in seeking to meet this one person. Why aren't you meeting them again if "the whole experience was very positive and still makes me smile" ?

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Don't they say the young are full of cum or something like that? We wouldn't want the poor guy to explode! JV can't you hook up with your lady friend again?

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  sweetfrangapani

  9 years ago

  Don't be shy try some of the meet n greets they are a great friendly way to meet ladies

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Without having gone to the meet & greets, for a young single guy, meeting one new contact in three months from just the one site isn't actually that bad, better than many. Go to some meet & greets (which are held several times a year), keep yourself known on the forums, combined with the odd private invite... give it a year and you will have a few different contacts to keep yourself amused ;)

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Lol they might be after the Op touches the wet spot :p lol

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Here is the link to Meander's thread mentioned above:http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/The-Ten-Commandments-for-writing-a-male-profile-48927 Also just recommend pursuing the Profile Clinic area and Newbies for other threads - there have been numerous. I like your profile pic - I'd dump the other two - since they're the same thing, but without the quirky ambience of the first. Then add a couple of others, maybe a torso short - dressed if you prefer. I quite like your profile, and I'd just recommend putting effort into the message you're sending women. Just make sure it is tailored to their profile and their looking for. Have fun :)

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Hi OP, Your profile reads friendly and genuine to me, and I hope it attracts the same. I do find this bit contradictory though: "age is nothing more than a number, but I do have my "ceiling" set at 45 yrs old". So age is more than a number to you. Nothing wrong with having an age limit of course, but then leave the first part out imo. And saying no one needs stress? I think that goes without saying, no? Good luck x

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I've had some great sex with men I never met up with again, for a variety of reasons. I don't plan for my encounters to be one-offs, but the fact that some didn't turn into something ongoing does not change my memories of them one bit. :-)

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  Mischeviouslad

  9 years ago

  True.... circumstances can play a part..... although there was no reference by the OP to reasons why he wouldn't meet that person again. I guess that's why a few asked the question, as he clearly enjoyed it but seeks other options instead.

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  JValenz91

  9 years ago

  As for the question of why I'm not meeting this girl again, she asked for our meet to be a one off, and I'm more than happy respect her request. While I may not want all my meets to be one offs, the fact that for my first time ever I had a great time, and I'm not muddying it up but pushing for a second meet when we both agreed to it being a once off just makes it more special to me. It's a great moment frozen in time that I'm more than happy to keep that way :). Meander, I will change that part of my profile concerning my ceiling if it's a bit redundant. As for the no stress part, I mainly added that after reading a lot of prifiles for women that say they want someone with lots of experience, which seeing as I've only had sex once I'm severely lacking in experience. I will remove that as well if you think it's a no brainer, but that was my rational behind that addition. As for messaging as brought up by Stirry and PepperRose, it's not that I'm being kept waiting after chatting for a while, it's more that I have messages that have been read but not replied to. I have even tried tailoring my messages to what I think the woman I'm messaging is after, but it's just not me. In person, I'm not one to talk about what I'd do to a woman, I'm more the kind of person that talkes about common interests, and looks at the person's body language, eye contact, facial expressions, and other things to see how what I have said has been taken, something that is impossible to do in writing :/. When I message as myself, the subject is just me saying "Hello *insert name here*", then in the message I say things like "I liked what you wrote in your profile, and you look lovely in your photo (if photos are present). Want to talk a bit/meet for a chat over coffee/get to know each other". I'm thinking that maybe my wording is part of my high number on un-replied messages ...Sorry for the length of this, i can also be quite chatty if there is enough "bite" to a topic XP

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