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Would you date someone you met online ?
April 16 2016
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Still dating someone i met in here. Nearly a year ago. She's hawt...... Dont see why you shouldnt/can't/wouldn't. If you tick each others boxes. At least you know about the sex side of them.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Are not killed by men they met online....they are killed by their partners or ex partners. Of course I would date someone I met online...But most of the men that contact me here are not interested in that. Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
Have done and presently am. Its never been just about sex on here for me. I just think sex is better when you get to know someone. Going to someones place for sex when you have never met them before is just too risky. Ive been asked to do this before but it will never happen. Ive read stories about people being murdered....that guy on the Gold Coast who went to meet a couple? Far too risky just for a quick thrill.
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Missb4u
9 years ago
I sure would.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Absolutely, I would (do, done, will do again, and probably again after that)
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RHP User
9 years ago
absolutely
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RHP User
9 years ago
I hang out for hours on this website hoping that I don't have to meet or date anyone. I am of course the shy, retiring type by nature. PS... if you believe that, I have the title to a rather interesting bridge in Sydney and would make you a very good deal on it. Cash or PayPal only...thanks!
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aussian43
9 years ago
I first met my partner online chatting via ICQ (it allowed searches by location). It was at least a month before we met in real life. 16 years later we are still together. I still have the chat logs!
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PurePeony
9 years ago
Safety is a huge deal to me and I generally sieve out wheat from the chaff before I agree to meeting anyone. I also listen to any warning beeps from my trusty ol' Bullshit'o'meter aka women's 6th sense aka instinct, which hasn't failed me thus far. Anytime I've disregarded the warning beeps, I've regretted it. Just remember to never get yourself too emotionally invested in anyone you exchange messages with so that when you meet them, you can be clear-headed and evaluate them objectively. You need to keep your wits about you and be vigilant. Let a girlfriend know where and who you will be meeting and promise to let them know when you are safely back at home, just in case one becomes a Missing Person. :P Learning to suss people out quickly is also a good life skill to pick up. Always learn from your interactions with people. Identify the red flags. And don't feel embarrassed to walk out or cut short the meeting if you feel uncomfortable. Till today, I regret not having walked out of a few meetings, namely involving individuals who possibly used photos that are donkey years old / lying about their age / lying about their body size. Ah... oops... OP, sorry I have digressed! I re-read your question again and my answer is : Yes, I would date someone I met from this site if there's chemistry and I like the man. This site is afterall just a point of contact and not an indication of the man's personality.
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RHP User
9 years ago
An unequivocal yes. I would and do frequently date men I have met online. And with the exception of a couple of them, that are now just funny stories. I haven't regretted meeting anyone. Just be safe!
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PatchworkGirl
9 years ago
I have, and still am. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mr_MrsAraps
9 years ago
I even decided to marry her as well :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
god no, it's all freaks and weirdos online. I went on their forums and websites, and it was just perverted sickness... so I stuck around, they seemed like kindred spirits ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Of course you should. This is a great site to meet people on the same page sex-wise, and then you get to find out all the other stuff. If you meet someone you like, don't rule them out because of where you met them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have only ever made dates via some sort of online method. I'm yet to get a phone number or second date/meeting from anyone met at random in real life or at other events like singles nights or speed dating etc. :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Meet a truely lovely on this site! We had the widest times together even left my girlfriend, for this lovely lady I meet on this site...
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RHP User
9 years ago
I met my late husband online, and we married a year later. I am currently dating someone I met off here. We've been together 3 years and still going strong. Loving the journey so far, lots more to discover 😀 - Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
9 years ago
I'm just here for the pictures. 😛 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
spent 5 years with someone i met online. Yes i am wary due to news stories and try and take all the safety precautions that i can
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RHP User
9 years ago
Have done a few times and would again. Considering monogamy is most likely not for me I'd actually have a better chance of finding someone suitable on a site like this.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Plenty of people are attacked / killed by people they've met in the 'real world'. Yeah maybe the online environment can attract a few more people of the type who might present more of a risk (I haven't seen any stats on that either way), but basically everyone is a stranger to you when you first meet them no matter where it was you met. You can never eliminate risk completely but using common sense and basic precautions is something you should do no matter what the context when you're seeing someone new.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm pretty sure everyone knows the rules for online dating chat ask probing questions and obviously meeting in a public place so what you do after that entirely up to you.. I prefer to meet in a public place it's never meet and play on the same day in fact I like to chat 2 or 3 days before anything goes down it all depends on the circumstances and if the chemistry is there..
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Missb4u
9 years ago
Everyone has a different formula for safety there is no one size fits all. Most would probably be horrified (interesting side note autocorrect tried to make that hog tied) by my perceived lack of security. But I do have hidden security features. I just don't make people aware of them. And I'd recommend you vary your routines.
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ruby_blossum
9 years ago
more than happy to date the right person met online. Happy to date someone from real life as well. Either one of them may pose safety risks these days. Just have to go with your gut feeling and a few questions along the way. The only way you really get some kind of insight to another person is to spend time with them.
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sweetgem
9 years ago
I used to be quite worried about meeting people online for dating or just for some casual sexual company. However, after having had attended two funerals of my own friends (one was younger than me and another was only six years older than me) in the past 16 months, my perspective about Internet dating has changed and I am now taking life as it comes because, I won't know what's round the corner for me and so my new philosophy is, if I meant to die young, I would be anyway regardless. Therefore, I just need to take cautious of whom I meet and go with my guts instinct, which is always 100% accurate, from my past experiences. Therefore, to answer your question, I would not hesitate to meet someone online for some mutual company and pleasure if mutual chemistry is there. But I would definitely be cautious about it and taking things slow :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I hope to one day meet someone online, from here preferably, with the same sexual needs and open like I am. If someone jumped out in front of me in the real world, great, lightning will strike when it decides to. But that person would have to already be full on horny and kinky, for me to consider them as a partner in crime. I couldn't/wouldn't consider a relationship where there were any restrictions, aside from honesty, but otherwise, they'd have to be turned on by the whole sharing is caring thing and bringing other people in, play separately, any or all of the above. And I'll never allow a man to control me or dictate how I should behave or live my life. So long as he takes me for who I am, there's respect and love and LOTS of sex, I'm up for it. I thought I'd have more chance of finding someone like that on here, but being that I hook up with young dudes for sex, expecting someone closer to my age to pop out in front of me is somewhat unrealistic. The thing with relationships is, you don't go looking, I'm not, just happily having sex, but it happens when you least expect it, meantime, more sex lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks for all the awesome answers! If i found someone who i met off here i would be open it. Safety first of course, I have dated people that i have met through the net before ( not from here) and it was a good experience. :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
We met online (different site) several years ago. Common sense safety should be a given it's amazing how many people disregard it. Meet somewhere public, set up a safe call, take the time to discuss limits. P.S. we wouldn't be here if we didn't want to date people we met online!
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