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Would you/have you had experiences with a guy in a wheelchair?
November 23 2008
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RHP User
16 years ago
'I know I might not get to many replys as it's kinda a taboo question'
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi there, I can only speak for myself obviously. No it's not something i've ever considered previously and this would be purely and entirely because it's not something i've ever had to consider. ie. Because i've never found myself in this type of situation. Speaking generally, no I don't think I would discount the idea as for myself personally it's more about a mental connection and somebody's conversation, values, morals, etc, etc than purely a physical thing ... but at the same time I guess no doubt that if I ever was to find myself in a situation that deemed having to confront this then I imagine all sorts of questions would spring to mind ... naughty and the not so naughty. But then don't we have these kind of conversations with most people anyway ? Haven't really answered the question I guess but then to date I've never really had to either. Sorry I can't be of assistance.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've personally always been a little curious about what it would be like to have sex with a man who is in a wheelchair. My assumption is that it would could be tender, slow, sensitive and very connected, because of necessity I guess. Of course, a man in a wheelchair can have varying degrees of paralysis so sexual penetration is not out of the question in all cases, but even if it is, I would imagine the foreplay could be divine and a few toys on hand could solve any number of problems. I'm sure I'm romanticising the whole thing ... just my thoughts though. R x
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RHP User
16 years ago
Of course, a man in a wheelchair can have varying degrees of paralysis so sexual penetration is not out of the question in all cases, but even if it is, I would imagine the foreplay could be divine and a few toys on hand could solve any number of problems. That is about right - there are some problems, sexual penetration can be hard for some but luckliy not myself. In terms of foreplay, yeah it can be pretty good if the girl is open to it and I suppose a bit part of that is getting that connection to being with. Haha, I'm starting to feel like the spokesman for 'sex for guys in wheelchairs'
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RHP User
16 years ago
My first boyfriend was in a wheelchair. He had lost both legs at the knees, and also had prosthetics, so we could manage sex a few ways. He was an ok lover to some extent, but I found that his own insecuritues got in the way of allowing us to be fully connected in ways that ultimately broke us up. I think the main thing is about having confidence. If you are not confident in yourself, you cannot have confidence in your own abilities to make someone happy. Be well adjusted but also be ok if things don't go as planned. It's a cruel hearted person who cannot understand that sometime it takes a bit of will power to get back up on the horse. Phoenix
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RHP User
16 years ago
Given the way you wrote this question and the nature of your profile I would say yes, I would have a sexual experience with a guy in a wheelchair. Hugs Ruby
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RHP User
16 years ago
If there was an attraction there, yes. I would consider it. I think most women would. I don't think that your question is taboo at all. However, most women would be afraid to ask you, for fear of hurting your feelings and looking dumb, how you have sex. Or if you can. If you have the ability to make a woman melt with your charm, than you are miles ahead of most of men in a foot race. Cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
...we got wheelchair basketball, rugby , just to name a few of the countless activities , often played by able bodied people too !! WHY not wheelchair orgies ??.. could be a blast !!! ~~~Horrible~~~ * runs off to patent idea !!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have not had sex with a guy in a wheelchair. I thinks its a good question and power to you for asking. I have been attracted to a couple of guys in wheelchairs. They were both married otherwise had the opportunity presented itself I would definitely have gone there. I am glad you ignored the taboo and asked the question. Its good to educated the general population about the need and right of people with disabilities to have sex. Cheers and happy sex life Wild
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ok im male and currently in a wheelchair. wont go into what happened but i am slowly getting out of the chair. I can stand just not walking far atm without a frame. Its not easy to pick up a lady while in a w.c. I get the feeling its more to do with the fact of they dont know if you can still have sex or not. I get arround my area and I still surprise people by standing up in a shop to reach something lol. I have had a lady who didnt mind the chair tho and she actually enjoyed the wheelchair coz she likes lady on top in sitting possi. It was great lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would have an experience with a guy in a wheelchair..but I have not as yet.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi bbBMWww I think that is a great question and my thoughts immediately jump to "why not". I have to admit that I have not had any sexual encounter with anyone in a wheelchair but would not rule that out! Like you said "there is foreplay" and I am sure there are many people on this site that have encountered just that at any given time. Ultimately for me it is about the persona and the connection. So I say as long as there are no physiological issues then hell why not. Cheers Boobs Xoxoxo
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RHP User
16 years ago
as a sex worker i see a lot of men that dont fit the 'norm'. today i had a wonderful time with a lovely gentleman who has cerebral palsy. was a bit of a struggle with the harness and such.....but the end result was well worth it. he was rapt!!! such a simple thing to need really (sex/love.companionship)...and we able bodied ppl take it for granted.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have had sex with a wheelchair bound young man. He was very persuasive and confident.....cocky even....something I like in a guy (pardon the pun). I live up a flight of stairs so just getting him in the door took awhile but I did all possible to assist without making him feel uncomforatble. Unfortunately I was a little freaked out once we got into the bedroom and handled it badly. I still feel really bad about it. I am a very confident woman in the bedroom so this feeling of complete uselessness was very new to me.....would I go there again....I would like to think so......I could only do better!!
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