Ye Age Ol Question....

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Its probably in your head and I hope he doesnt read this as it might be in his head. All I know is more than a mouthful is a waste. More so there is nothing guys can do about it anyway. Mars

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Size at that time obviously mattered to you. Of course, the question has been dealt with dozens of times in this forum but like the experts say.... no woman complains about size while she is having an orgasm. Lots of hugs Gaz

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Oh that's right... I remember my last answer .... lol. It was do some kegels. Hehe gaz

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  maybe ur so used too ur partners that u dont want or can feel anything smaller

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  May be hard to answer without more explanation. Your partner may be perfect size for you but you haven't elaborated. That perfect size could be 5 inches and the other guy may have been a mere 3 inches. Or it could be that your guy is 7 and the other 4. Size only matters to a degree. I have had a lot of women say that the biggest guy they had been with was some of the worst sex they ever had because the guy thought they had it going on when in fact they were a dud root. In some other cases it just hurt too much. So there is such a thing as being too big. But too small just isn't gonna cut it either. However for some women too small might be more to do with the thickness rather than the length. Truth is that probably 90%+ of guys fall into the category of 'the right size', provided they use it right. It's only those on the extremely large and small side or very thick or thin that have problems. There is far more problems with guys that can't manage to last longer than a couple of minutes, or just have no idea on how to make it feel good for the woman, then there is problems with size.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  As for size the avearge Australian male is between 5 1/2 and 6 1/2 inches outside this range we feel we should be told before meeting. Has to be a fair swap in the bedroom after the other initail requirements have been met we all may have.  Other important requirements: Foreplay...which could be dinner ...games involving all four in private before the bedroom. Being able to get hard Being able to satisfy the lady foremost and then the guy can cum after the lady has.   Adidas09....Its not in your head, there are some dud roots out there. There is NO excuse for non performance in a swap situation.   The lady here has put her little finger up as a guide in the bedroom and says my little finger was bigger than him and he wouldnt do it.....and drive home imagine the conversation about a successfull swap, now we wait till the other guy is doing it before his wife gets a ride...been let down too often.      Cheers

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I personally am sick to death of it always coming down (no pun intended) to the size of the males' penis. It's no wonder that males are so size-obsessed. I don't care about the size of the penis, it's how you use it that counts!    Some of the best sex i've ever had wasn't with the biggest penis: The shorter penises tend to reach the right spots more easily. My current partner has a very thick penis and decent length and that's not always a good thing, because even though it feels  great at the time, it leaves me feeling sore for a couple of days after which can put the kabosh on any action for a little while.   I agree with Mars in that it was probably in your head- If psychologically you aren't in the right frame of mind (maybe you weren't 100% into it), you aren't going to get anywhere- no matter how perfectly sized his penis may be!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  well my lover considers himself on the small side, but to me he is a perfect fit..i have been with men larger and can honestly say that it did hurt and i was never comfortable..but i feel him inside me just fine and love it..and i have done my kegel exercises for years!!! so know how to grip.....

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Yes i have been in a relationship with a guy that was too big and uncomfortable and painfull and therefor the relationship did not last. If u read the last line properly you should recognise that i am in no way judging him by the size of his tool. my point was more to the fact that my partner new what i wanted (yes to admit he was a bit bigger) but the other guy was by no means "tiny" just smaller then my boy i could still feel him perfectly just wasnt able to cum with him. I was making more referance to the fact that it was probably more of a ref to how he was using it...hence the the post and asking your thoughts.i had no idea this seemed to be such a touchee subject. for me it was merely thoughts and an interest in what a variety of peoples opinions on the subject.   Sorry Gaz i am new to this site and didnt/havnt seen other posts on this subject as yet! oh and im actually a fourth year yoga and pillates student and my kegels are doing just fine!! but thanks for your encouragement!!   RED can u honestly say that every guy you have ever had intercourse with has gotten u off?? was it in your head when they couldnt or u just didnt click??   Cass your probable partially right in that i am used to my boy but that doesnt stop me from enjoying other men and we have had a few swaps that have been mind blowing sooo i guess its not that either??...   when writing this i was not looking to knock anyone and just wanted to know (mainly from women as men ....well see above) what does it for u?   Tastie thanks for actually reading and understanding what i was saying!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Was just thinking this...   some men have thier own likes and disslikes when it comes to women as well...   large breast v small, large/small nipples, innies v outies, curvy v slim....it all the same question really isnt it?   If your a guy who likes large breast and you have a choice where the women are identical but one has larger breast and the other is smaller....which are you going to choose in regards to what you find sexy and attractive and what gets you off? is it also in ur head? or is it coming back to what you like?....   see i have only a b cup and have been shunned by men in the past because of this...but i dont hold it against them as they obviously like larger breasts....   would it have been more of a comfortable question for everyone had i asked if they prefer large or small breasts?   just a thought

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  When we said that the av size of a guy when is erect is between 5 1/2 and 6 1/2 inches, thats true for 95% of males in the western world. When we meet a couple the ladies breast size is quite obvious (unless she deliberately decieves)  but the guys size is not. Or if he has emotional, shyness, non  performance issues or outside the 95% rule. Dont you think we have the right to know before hitting the bedroom? Cheers

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Size definitely matters to me.  Not enough that I would say no to a guy because I believe there is a lot more to the enjoyment of sex than the size of a man's penis, but enough that his size might affect my enjoyment if he doesn't know what to do with it - for me, the answer is the same if he is too big or too small.  Too big hurts like hell - sometimes I feel sorry for my partner because he is very rarely able to go all the way in and I bet he wishes I was a different 'size' at times.  I was also with a guy a while back that was just so small I couldn't feel him.  However, he adjusted our position many times to get maximum effect.  It still wasn't going to create fireworks but it was clear that he was creative and had dealt with the problem before.  Now here's the funny thing - I was with him in my early 20s and again in my mid 30s.  I don't recall ever thinking he was small in my early 20s!!!  This tells me a fair bit about what has changed in me, despite my kegels and toning toys, and I bet he was thinking the same.This topic has been discussed many times and at length (pardon the pun :) in hotchat and the consensus among women in there has always pretty much been that 7-8 inches and thick is perfect, but creative foreplay and good techniques for penetration are equally or more important.My final word on this topic - my partner recently made me cum with his tongue on my clit!  First time ever for me and on my birthday too!! :D  It was ... divine, exquisite, breathtaking ... and the size of his tongue didn't matter a bit - woo hoo!

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