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Yeah, you'll do.
August 18 2015
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Missb4u
9 years ago
Many times in fact in my clubbing days. Isnt that what one night stands are all about? these days it's a little harder but I have invited someone to have sex purely to have sex. I kinda think men like it. To be that booty call I mean.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I don't know MissB. I have only had a few one night stands, maybe 5? I was never into that, too much of a good girl.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have never had a one night stand or had sex with someone I didn't care about.... Without that connection and those few bubbles of flutterbyes I'm not there psychologically and that's not a cool thing for me or my partner.... I know....I know....I'm such a girl 😝💪 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
9 years ago
I've done it before, especially if they are offering me something I just can't say no too and sometimes I get an itch that needs scratching.....💋
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madotara69
9 years ago
No problems admitting that. It's led to some mixed experiences, neither matter of good or bad as expected with random acts of kindness, but we have always taken something of each experience and learnt more of each other and more from some than others. Mado Tara xx
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horneycouplewa
9 years ago
Or taken one for the team lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
... guilty as charged .... .... in times passed .... with beer goggles on ... .... now days ... as it would be rude to say 'no' ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes,ons I have had many ...some were memorable.others not so much 😝xxFreya
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RHP User
9 years ago
If I hook up with someone, it means I'd like to see them again. One night stand doesn't seem to be my thing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
But I still had to be attracted to them.
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Lovinit28andKC72
9 years ago
Oh god yes, I can't do it without that.....💋
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inspirit
9 years ago
...any pole is a goal - Right Giddyup.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I don't know if I can really say I've had one night stands in the classic sense, as I seem to have a habit of one night stands turning into FWBs turning into relationships, but when I'm looking for a casual sex partner I have honestly never really been able to do the 'oh hey, you have a vagina, let's go' thing that some are able to. I have to be drawn to *something*. TBH my life would be a lot simpler and I'd probably be getting a lot more if I just went for the 'yeah you'll do' approach when I'm feeling in the mood, but for some reason I just can't get into it without *some* modicum of physical or psychological attraction.
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RHP User
9 years ago
often while drunk, and often a mistake.
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's sex it's not building a shrine to God or whoever you worship.
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inspirit
9 years ago
Quoting 'CravingTouch' often while drunk, and often a mistake. You naughty goirl hehehe Drinks at the Balmoral Friday night - We will be the ones in the naughty corner :-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have.....several times!! In fact the most in the last year. I broke up from a 7yr relationship (prior to that - 10yrs) and I wanted to find myself. Part of that was discovering my sexuality. It was exactly what I needed. No relationship, just pure sex. I'm not ashamed of how many I slept with. I was up front and honest. And now.....well Ive found my soul mate on RHP and couldn't be happier. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Can't be choosers ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
At swingers events there is often only a little chance to get to know someone beforehand, but so far I've found nearly everyone (women) to be decent, genuine people. More to the point, I am turned on/off by someone's attitude and behaviour, rather than body type. But I've been lucky enough to spend some private quality time (even just socially) with a couple of beautiful (inside and out) ladies. For me it's a case of appreciating every moment with them, in whatever capacity, regardless of whether it goes further or not. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
A skirt too short... the heels... all the little flirts that went before... too much cleavage... too often... the non essential and irrelevant discussions about prior adventures of the flesh kind... all of the above... and being left alone in the office... well. The desk was asking to be used... it needed a body bent over it... the carpet needed another stain... The next day...furtive looks... but the expectation of more was there. What had I done. A monster was created.
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RHP User
9 years ago
When it came to the annual review... one on one... had she already had her bonus or would it be leverage for a bigger one... the offer of a blow job on the board room table was tempting... but this time strength... the pout after rejection was appealing... tempting... but no... just a one off.
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
Um...... isn't that the attitude most people have when scanning profiles? yeahnahnahnahyeahnahyeah yeahnah
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RHP User
9 years ago
done it a few times in my life and mostly sober. I'd been chatting to the person for a bit though as we'd met socially or started discussing something we had in common. It was understood it was just a scratch my itch thing.
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RHP User
9 years ago
havent we all at some point in our lives had a fuck 'um and leave them moments, maybe not as much as we get older as we try to be more considerate to peoples feelings. I think one big prob is when people hook up with a stranger to play and swing together and think it is more. it is what it is, it is not a relationship. it is satisfying a need no more no less. i know it is easy to say especially in a stable relationship where we are learning to play as a couple but as with all newbies we have put certain rules in place to protect our relationship and after we meet and play with couples we talk openly about it. Communication is always good. There are times yes that i wish i could go out there again (like when i was single...cos it was great fun having a few men on the go ..and yes they all knew about each other, they really did ) and fuck and run with a nameless guy... and we all know the attached ones or pretending to be single guys on here never use their real names, part of the game!
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Im in the zone l go cock crazy. How do i get in the zone? My corset has magical powers. It seems the tighter it's laced........
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compressor
9 years ago
I wish a nice lady would invite me over even if it was just to give her a massage lol. has never happened to me
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QLDtwo4fun
9 years ago
Of course we have had sex with other people just for the sake of having sex. We aren't looking for Mr or Ms perfect, Mr and Ms acceptable and fun are near enough. In fact, as long as the other party/parties don't tick any of our six or so automatic exclusion boxes, they are probably in. We don't want romance or relationship we already have each other. Having said that, we have made some really great friends and met some lovely people through swinging.
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precious142
9 years ago
Fancy people having sex - with people - just because they are horny or want sex???????????? I'm brave (and old) enough to admit it........and love it!!!! Not always the first - but definitely acceptable............ And it all depends whether it a "fuck 'em and forget 'em" or a "please sir - can I have more"???? Either way - it doesn't matter at the end of the day....what's good for him is good for her
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RHP User
9 years ago
Oh come on, who hasn't done the walk of shame? "Yeah you'll do" was the basis of my sex life before I read "He's Just Not That Into You" and metamorphasised into a difficult bitch-who-knows-how-to-fuck-herself-better-than-you.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'CravingTouch' Oh come on, who hasn't done the walk of shame? strut of triumph thank you very much ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Um...... isn't that the attitude most people have when scanning profiles? yeahnahnahnahyeahnahyeah yeahnah Oh is that where I went wrong? Doh!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'QLDtwo4fun'Sounds like a question from a teenage magazine not a swinging site.Yes, and no. Considering how many profiles are very very specific about exactly what they want and don't want, often stating a list of checkboxes and things like "no exceptions!", it is actually interesting whether they stick to their philosophy ALL the time, or actually do make exceptions. For example, I managed to be invited by a couple for a private meet at their house. The profile said the lady wants the men to "be fit and have muscles, no exceptions". So I must have done something different to justify an invite, considering that's not how I would view my own body type, but then again, I'm always quite modest. And I have played with them more than once, so I wasn't conning them with fake pictures :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
As always lovely people on here,,,,,, sigh. Wonder why I bother really.
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RHP User
9 years ago
For me if I can take it or leave it.... I usually leave it. But seems like lots of people fuck others just for the sake of it. The meh, not that into you but you will do because nobody better is around. Oh well.......
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TallBaldSexy
9 years ago
Dearie me it's such fun too 😇😇😇😈😈😈
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
Hummmm orgy in a car... Be a tight squeeze. Meh! A mini will do full of lovely people. Promise I will ask names or what your age is. 😇 Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thinking back ' i wouldnt say any we're bad , just that some were better than others.. But that's the law of averages right ? Attraction is important, only ever had one I would normally pass up and she turned out to be one of the best roots ever.. One night stands are just that . We use each other's body to love and caress for a moment in time... you scratch my itch ' and I'll scratch yours...
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Hummmm orgy in a car... Be a tight squeeze. Meh! A mini will do full of lovely people. Promise I will ask names or what your age is. 😇 Foxy Now.... why do I have visions of you emerging from a car, all sweaty and dishevelled..... ..... after 23 circus clowns have exited the vehicle.
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RHP User
9 years ago
bloody alcohol accounts for you'll do's Hence why I don't drink so much anymore. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'QLDtwo4fun' Of course we have had sex with other people just for the sake of having sex. We aren't looking for Mr or Ms perfect, Mr and Ms acceptable and fun are near enough. In fact, as long as the other party/parties don't tick any of our six or so automatic exclusion boxes, they are probably in. We don't want romance or relationship we already have each other. Having said that, we have made some really great friends and met some lovely people through swinging. My apologies for not being as promiscuous as you. And yep, I know people they go to clubs and if there are 100 people in the room they are happy to fuck 98 of them and that's cool - a body is a body yeah?. Unfortunately i am on the other end of the spectrum. Sure sometimes I bonk people cause I am there but it is very rare as I probably would rather bonk the 2 out of 100 rather than the 98. Lucky there are people such as yourselves that are happy to bonk just anyone.... because you are looking to get your dick wet??... so it covers up my obviously disgraceful behaviour in clubs. Clearly I shouldn't go and I probably should not be on here either. It is true.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'rainbow88' havent we all at some point in our lives had a fuck 'um and leave them moments, maybe not as much as we get older as we try to be more considerate to peoples feelings. ! That was not the question. My question is do you bonk someone just because they happen to be the best option available at the time....... even though normally you might not go there.
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RHP User
9 years ago
bless her cotton socks; telling me before we split "we don't have sex because I love you....we only have sex now because I'm horny and you're the one in the bed" Lol she was always the romantic half 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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nibblemebi
9 years ago
Once from memory. . And it was a woman. It was nice though ;) I need chemistry. .that elusive chemistry. I just can't do anything. .lucky that or I'd have hit quadruple figures by now based on my libido! - Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' As always lovely people on here,,,,,, sigh. Wonder why I bother really. I do wonder wonder why you do bother sometimes. You asked for honest opinions and you got them and now you WHINGE.................... heaven forbid.
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RHP User
9 years ago
FO
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inspirit
9 years ago
Did I make you angry before you go too sleep.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Nah. You mean nothing to me actually. A big fat zero.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' My question is do you bonk someone just because they happen to be the best option available at the time....... even though normally you might not go there. At parties and orgies. Not something I really want to repeat but I'll never say never, especially if alcohol is involved.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Wish I worked in your office....
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inspirit
9 years ago
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have but there has to be a high level of attraction too.
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RHP User
9 years ago
So no credit to take.
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inspirit
9 years ago
Long time coming - I think we all know that. It wasn't you was it Meander......
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've never had a ONS or even a Two NS... I have to have connection... emotional and physical to the lady. That doesn't mean she has to be physically attractive, but just my type and the personality has to be there. I just can't do it. I need to meet a couple of times and maybe talk on the phone some, before I can get that close and allow someone else that close. I know it sounds a little 'feminine side' for a bloke, but I believe I have one and am very in touch with it. I am who I am and it's my way... You may ask why I'm even on this site. Easy... there are a number of ladies here who are the same and there is also a chance that one might find the person that they (yes I'm going to say it) "were meant to be with"... I'm also on a Vanilla site and go through all the messages, emails, texting, phone calls and then finally meet. It all fun and it also can lead to the same thing. Plus RHP has the Meet and Greets, which are fun and 'untamed' (in terms of normal circles and groups). I enjoy a good 'flirt' as much as anyone and I'm not averse to that. If it leads elsewhere, which it has over a short time... well and good. I've also made some very good friends whom I have coffee with and sex plays no part. It's a good site... And let's not forget the Forums, where you can talk about pretty much anything...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yep for me, if were not fighting then why not :-), Atm thinking that Inspirit, Meeka and Meander in a 4some (I`ll make up the numbers :-) ) Would be a unforgettable night. Make love not war oxoxoxo
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RHP User
9 years ago
Bit of an overreaction happening. People have different views. That's what makes life interesting. Imagine if we were all clones.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Are you saying we'll do? :-P
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Are you saying we'll do? :-P Yes without question, sex I see as pleasure so bring it on :-). (I expect you would do amazing xxx)I want long term with mutual attraction, sex is a good place to start. Given that I want an open-minded partner with high sex drive and twisted logic then I would expect the same from someone that I`m suited to. :-). Chemistry and attraction are important for good sex. Luck is required to find real love, so enjoy the search with honesty and amazing times.
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Seachange
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'rainbow88' havent we all at some point in our lives had a fuck 'um and leave them moments, maybe not as much as we get older as we try to be more considerate to peoples feelings. ! That was not the question. My question is do you bonk someone just because they happen to be the best option available at the time....... even though normally you might not go there. I am not built that way. I want a connection with someone. I need to know their name, I need to feel I am safe with him, I need to feel I am wanted (and vice versa) and I need a physical and mental connection. That could mean a few chats, coffee or dinner or whatever. Just me. Wish I was more easy going than that and like some other women but hey, we are all different. I do not condemn or frown upon their choices as who am I to judge them to be any less of a person than I am and label them promiscuous or anything else. Why shame them? Don't see the point. Am I missing something here? Why the disappoiintment in the forum posters' honest responses? OP, You posted a question and the masses has spoken with their preferences and their experiences. End of discussion. No right or wrong answers, no arguments required. Just is. If both parties are happy with the outcome, nobody is harmed (emotional, mental and physical), just do it. You are consenting adults. We all have as much right to do or not to do the deed with anyone we choose, type or no type.
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RHP User
9 years ago
After a sexless relationship that lasted a couple of decades I found that I had insatiable needs but wasn't ready for another relationship. I did need an attraction. Only a couple of ons though. I'm ready for naughty partner though but won't settle for 'you'll do' - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Once or twice I have had a "you'll do" partner, to be fair I'm almost certain I was also a "you'll do" for them. Nowadays if I'm my brain isn't screaming "I wouldn't wanna be anywhere else right now" it's a firm NO!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
many times and see nothing wrong with both parties gaining pleasure
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RHP User
9 years ago
Have attended a lot of Sex Parties and kindaa works for me. Couples, single women come to have fun only no strings attached. We all have their own life out of those encounters.....i believe its more about personal choice. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm not attracted to men nor am I gay. I like anal sex and cock to share with a woman. I have a huge sex drive but can't seem to get a woman. I've been settling for men and getting a good hard fucking in public places to be seen by a woman. Being bisexual seems to be gay cos I haven't been with a woman in a long time... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think a lot of blokes get on here thinking that "Yeah you'll do" is exactly what this site is all about. How wrong we were.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes .. i will admit it lol . Whrn your'e horny .. your'e horny and that is that aha ;)
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prettyinpurple45
9 years ago
In my younger days, I enjoyed quite a few too many one night stands (a few drinks helped), now that I am older and wiser and attached, no can do... but the mind drifts to ohhhhh if only... when I see a cute looking guy that I would do...
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boxestotick
9 years ago
Yep - we've both taken "one for the team" at some point. Still fun though. - Posted from rhpmobile
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