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Yes...We are a real couple..

January 14 2014

We received a not so nice message today from a couple who has wanted to catch up for some time. Just because we have "knocked them back" a few times because of work and life commitments, it doesn't give them the right to slander us as being a fake couple. Our lives don't revolve around swinging as we work professional jobs that don't suit everybody else, have a young family and a nice circle if friends that we do like to spend time with. We swing when we can, not when we are summonsed. There are many couples in the Swinging lifestyle that can vouch for us as "Being real." Have you ever been harassed or slandered in some way because you don't come when somebody says, come?

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RHP User

11 years ago

Yes! Especially from the people who want to do it "right now"! Pusscat xxx

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RHP User

11 years ago

sorry to hear that, i see our swinging as a pass time thing not a do it here now and fast .it should be something to enjoy.As of yet we have not had that but we have had a few strange comments sent to ms_liquiddesirez from single men that think that because she has a profile any one can have a crack. we roll our eyes when it happens and just don't bother in exchanging any further with them, there are plenty of nice people out there not to have to waste your time on being pressured into it . cheers

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JessicaRabbit

11 years ago

Happens to all of us I think. People don't like being rejected and some can't take it gracefully, so place the blame on you. Even being verified and validated, I still get this crap! Don't lose sleep over it, just block and move on. Jess xx

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RHP User

11 years ago

If they had been patient instead of pushy, I'm sure everyone could have had a lovely time but probably best off not having entertained the other couple and best off not taking any notice if they were going to be so rude. We're all adults here and I find the biggest impediment to anything in life nowadays is the scheduling. Don't let their harassment of you put you off, stick to what you want to do and enjoy yourselves.

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BS_KS

11 years ago

Totally been there Luvnya. I guess this consumes more of some people than others? We actually do other things than swing in our spare time.... K xx - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

If they do not have the patience and respect to meet when it suits both couples, then forget about them. Rude and pushy people often spoil an experience that should be otherwise sensational. We are also limited with our play time and regard the swinging part of our lives as some fun along with many other things. Swinging is not necessary for us to enjoy life but it is part of what we enjoy when the opportunity arises. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

to hide their fake profiles ;) Sounds like you dodged a problem there anyway! Why are people so quick to want to fuck instead of get to know each other a bit first...what is the rush?

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On_Safari

11 years ago

And the lesser evolved actually treating the site like a guaranteed free-for-all sex on tap orgy. (Shakes head) yepaaarrrr some people really know how to make friends and influence people. NEXT!!

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Taby_DK

11 years ago

We have this problem a lot because we have a long distance relationship and are only together for one weekend out of the month which of course severely limits time for play, let alone time to see each other! We are interested in many couples but right now we just don't have the time to play with anyone! Good news though is that we are in the process of moving in together so we will soon be together on the Gold Coast and have much more flexibility and time to play. :D Personally this is a massive step in our relationship and in my life as I have never lived anywhere other than Hervey Bay (my current location) so moving to the city is going to be awesome yet scary! Taby xx

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RHP User

11 years ago

I'm unreal, baby....... Obviously, they're not worth your effort.

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madotara69

11 years ago

Some times Tara's not too happy if I am a bit tired and turn her down. Not often though, hardly ever actually, not often enough worth mentioning, very rarely. Not from anyone else, that sucks luvnya. Mado Tara xx

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RHP User

11 years ago

Yeh, it happens. Not much you can do about it, except put those people in the flake pile and move on.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Yes, me too. As a fairly new member of RHP, I made a couple of planned meets with alleged couples who just didn't turn up, or maybe they did lol, but when I followed up I was "slagged off" by them and abused if one can be, by message. In both cases it was the guy, not the female which makes me believe they weren't a couple wanting to meet, just the guy with no balls to do it. Let it go, it's annoying but that's the nature of many on here, they fantasize but are never going to actually do anything about it. Interestingly, only ever abused by guys, is it a guy thing?

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RHP User

11 years ago

On you saying yes, when they are free..... Is not your issue. :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

I have lost count of the number of times, way back when I first joined, of couples profiles that were just lies. You start communicating and all is good then the suggested meet is proposed and its, Oh the wife is away, on holiday, working and etc... Yep right and goodbye. its not that I am not into the guy, but I hate being lied to. For me I will only communicate with couples profiles if they have the verification tick. As for abusive messages because I say no. Have had a few of those but does not matter I have already indicated I am not interested and sometimes there is a sick satisfaction in hitting the block button.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Thanks Guys n Gals for your reply's. That block tab is looking mighty fine.. T & B.. 💋

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