Young Swingers Perth

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  We find the clubs always have a large age range with a minority being young people as you say. Both PL and 103 do an under 35's event on occasion which apperently has a decent turnout, althoug we missed the last one at 103 several months ago. I beleive PL is hosting an under 35s night soon, ive seen it in the events section on here. I guess there may be private events around too although we have yet to find such a circle. We only check events out on occassion now and prefer to meet people socially, Then perhaps catch up at a club so at least there is some welcomed company. As far as single guys, it is part of the territory. If someone plays pushy just bluntly tell them no, no one is forced into anything. Anyway im sure others have some more insight on the subject and will fill in more details T + M - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Thanks but yeah several times at a club (we won't name on here) we have had bad experiences with pushy older people who won't listen to the first no . Because of this and the older general crowd we've decided the swingers clubs aren't for us , and we are yet to find anywhere that hosts for younger people , my partner is 35 so I don't think we can go to the under 35s . Maybe there just isn't that many younger swingers like us ? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Id say your best bet is to find other couples to meetup rather than looking for a large group atmosphere like a club, especially with the age barrier being a big issue for you. We personally have adapted that way for similar reasons, its much better to make likeminded friends and make your own swinging circle then trying to fit into a scene that dosnt fit what you are looking for. Besides you get to know people better when meeting socially with people outside of a club environment, the clubs tend to have a somewhat pushy vibe with expectations being too high at times. There are plenty of people our age into swinging but not everyome is looking for the same things so it cand be difficult to find a perfect match. And as far as i know you can still go to an under 35s event if one partner is under 35. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I feel your annoyance to some degree. However, we just have to keep networking till we find likeminded peeps to play with, and this post is a good beginning for you guys! My friends the Scientists maybe a good beginning for you and some of their friends, mind you, they're a bit geeky! I think RHP would be better if it let members and guests sort by common vanilla interests in the beginning. Once you've found someone you don't want to get away from, after the cum has gone, you can refine the more specialised things you could be looking for. I wish you luck. Perth Socials is another good group of normal sexually aware people, so try that! Good luck!! M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  We attended few private parties and been also in the clubs around Perth and we undestand your feeling very well. We are from Europe and even there you can find more or less the same situation but despite the age here there is a different mentality We suppose to attend private party or in a swinger club the first rule is the look, sexy, provocative ...heels,sexy undies for the girls of course and something elegantfor the boys ...should be logic , however... The worst look for a woman, joung or not, fit or not stunning or not , is when she is barefoot , with a dress like a courtain and holding a beer in the hand...you can be an Angelina Jolie ,but we think in a swinger environment isn't the best look..and this is worth also for the boys

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Sorry if im off topic,but I'm new here and I'm finding difficult for a single man to be ''accepted'' in the swingers circle. What would be the best way to meet ppl and show not all the single men are pushy or disrespectful?

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I found it amazing that when the weather is warm and couples get out and enjoy the beach that when I have gone to the nude beaches for a swim and relax the amount of couples that are swingers or openminded.Not for everyone taking your cloths off and being vulnerable ,but it could be a way of meeting couples that you both are interested in Ludam

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  i tend to avoid swingers clubs for this reason, a lot of single older men gives it the creepy vibe. if there was a younger club focusing on 18 to 35 age range id be all over that!!!

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  You're so right there's such a market to have a younger aged events or swingers club it's a shame no one has tapped into it . We've talked about maybe hosting parties ourselves but it's just a venue that's needed really - Posted from rhpmobile

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  infusions

  7 years ago

  If you consider there's a market for parties that cater for younger guests then you should set something up. Im sure you have considered all the issues. We stopped catering specifically for younger age range of guests for many reasons. Our venue was used by a group hosting an u/35's party. In the 6 years previous there was never any reason for police to attend, nor was there any wilful damage to the venue. There was also more vomit that night than in the previous 6 years in total. I hear your grief about older single men and all efforts are made to prevent predator behaviour and unwanted attention. Ive also seen older guests who are just trying to make polite friendly conversation be shunned and called creepy. Some tolerance is also required at swingers parties.

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  3someparties

  7 years ago

  We try to cater to our guests wants on any particular night or event and also try to have a decent spread of age groups so one particular age group doesn’t dominate proceedings. If you were after something in particular feel free to PM us and perhaps we can organise something suited to your tastes? We’re having a pool party in mid January at our private home if you feel like dipping your toes in the water so to speak

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  technologic

  7 years ago

  We'd be interested in an event for younger people too... Although we're fast approaching the the age limit!! (we still LOOK young though! ;P )

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  This thread is more discussing the want for a place for younger couples to meet (under 35s) and the “spread of age groups” can be off putting to younger people trying to avoid the negative experience most young couples have had with older people at swingers events . - Posted from rhpmobile

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