RHP

RHP User

M32

Young dumb and full of.......

July 01 2013

It has come to my attention that the younger guys on here have more trouble then ever why is this is it because woman want an older man who knows what he is doing? If so how does a man learn without a teacher? Anywho just wanted to know people's view on this especially the woman's thoughts 😃- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I've actually widened the age preference on my profile, largely due to an encounter I had just last weekend with two lovely guys in their early 20s. In that case they were the ones who were introducing me to some new experiences, and they were very polite, respectful, and great to talk to. It was one of the best experiences I've had for quite awhile, and it made me realise that it's not as much about age as it is about the individual and the approach they use. I had tended to dismiss all younger guys due to the crass approaches they often use, but then again I've had older guys be like that as well, so now I try to look at it on much more of an individual basis rather than outright dismissing a guy just because he's more than 10 years younger than me. And in regards to the teaching thing, I don't have an issue with that, and I think I would rather like it . However, I'm also still learning myself and there are so many things I have yet to experience, so in my case I'd like to think it could be a mutual journey of discovery and sharing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    there are plenty of us "mature" ladies helping the younger guys....maybe just not in Perth....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Your subject title say's it all. Like the old tune.... "have patience, have patience, don't be in such a hurry".Be confident and respectful to the lady folk and you'll find your very own tutor. No one likes an Eeyore

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    firstly you are a guest,it's difficult for most men here as women are far less in numbers....most women ignore flirts and you can't message them...secondly if you are trying to attract older women then asking them to teach you some''tricks of the trade'' is a lttle insulting...even though you probably didn't mean to be....your other pic is lovely,I suggest you use that for your profile pic..change some wording on your profile and good luck.. ps contributing to the forums should get you noticed too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I found that if you want to be noticed in Perth, you have to be in the chat rooms. That means you need to pay though. From the people I talked to in the meet and greets (another thing you should go to), they all know each other from the chat rooms. Few Perthites post on the forums, either that or they don't show up for the meet and greets.Good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Is crucial as first impressions can make or break any potential opportunity you may have.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think it may be the reatio of men to women on here. If you search men in your area who are current and the same for women, you will see a huge disparity. I think women can have their pick of many eligible suitors, and (well within their rights) can pick and choose, especially when you read some profiles saying that they get over 100 messages a week.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'onlyoral4u' I think it may be the reatio of men to women on here. If you search men in your area who are current and the same for women, you will see a huge disparity. I think women can have their pick of many eligible suitors, and (well within their rights) can pick and choose, especially when you read some profiles saying that they get over 100 messages a week. You know, I think the whole idea that all women on here are completely inundated with messages, is one of those big myths that just keeps being perpetuated. There are only a few situations where I think women would be getting that many contacts. One is when they first join up; I know in the first week I joined I was getting probably 20 messages a day (the lure of 'fresh meat'), but that soon slowed right down. Also, if they post in datefinder or that they are going away (I also had that experience when I posted about my trip to Melbourne). And yes, some women in the large capital cities may also get a lot of messages, particularly if they have a high profile in forums / chat. But I'm sure that the longer they're on here, the more it would slow down. Now, I am not saying here that women don't have the right to still be picky, because they do. I know I am. I'm just saying that the idea that we all have hundreds of potential suitors lining up at the door is a big, fat, untruth. Note though, that I am only talking about messages here and not flirts, as many women will often not respond at all to flirts because let's face it, if you're serious about meeting someone flirts are usually a waste of time. On that note OP, if you want to get anywhere you're really going to have to pay so that you can send messages. Women aren't generally going to chase you and although they may not all be inundated, they also usually get enough guys contacting them that they don't need to pay (some do, like me, if they want the option to be able to send messages and look at the naughty pics ;) )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    For some you will find that if you fit in the age category of their children they just cant bring themself to go there.Then like they say be patient life and learning come with time, even if you knew everything right now you need to experience everything in its own time.One person at a time one experience and indulge in it for a while. Ofcourse at your age you are full of testosterone and wanting to do it all.i have had and found myself that younger guys can be a bit rushed and excited. Sex is wonderful if taken in nice and slow deep and lengthy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I myself don't like the idea of playing with to young a guy because doesn't feel right as if I go with a teenager or even a guy in his early 20s it is to close to the age of my son or nephews and just doesn't feel right- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    From my understanding, most of the messages women get are pretty base, boring or downright vulgar.So make an effort and reap the rewards.And remember, no reply is an answer. (not interested) So don't be all offended and post winghey topics on here, been done a thousand times and is not attractive!