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Your Rules As A Couple
February 02 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
My rules as a couple... my guy cannot kiss or fuck the other girl (anal is ok). He also has to treat me as no 1 and not concentrate too much on her. I have told him if she pleasures him better than I do he'll need to fake not being so turned on. lol My guy said he is happy to watch me do ANYTHING!
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RHP User
12 years ago
this is gunna be interesting ....
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm just gonna sit and eat popcorn....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Everyone involved should be having fun. Seeing your partner enjoying herself is as big a turn on as is pleasuring the person your with. More of a chance that it will happen again as well !!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
There is no rules!! So much easier that way!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Apart from safe sex that is...We have both never had an issue with anything we have done and have discussed this in depth.
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
Same room, safe sex, check in on each other, nothing that's not listed on our 'sexual interests'...
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jenniecruising
12 years ago
Other than the obvious safe sex rule we don't really have any others.We are not too worried about kissing someone else. Some folk believe kissing is too intimate an act that should only be shared between two committed people. A guy can have a girl deep throating his cock but God forbid her giving him kiss. That cracks us up but each to their own.
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luvsilver
12 years ago
Same as Saturn for us. Safe sex is a must. There are things we are not into as a personal preference but are happy to go with the flow.On certain nights that course may deviate from the norm but for us that is part of the fun and is not an issue. Mr Luvsilver
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RHP User
12 years ago
safe and all people are comfortable, as soon as the green eye comes out, stop, change or just talk about it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
* Safe sex, No glove, No love. * Same room play. * All in or nothing, we just love to swap. If you'd like to know more, lets meet to discuss.. ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I had an experience recently were I was with a couple in a swingers club. They invited me to join them. As a respectful unicorn I asked if there were any rules that I needed to be aware of. She responded that they have rules that they only fuck each other and I was not allowed to touch his cock and they only wanted a girl. She also frowned when he reached out to touch me. :-/ I sat back, did the math and politely excused myself. They seemed quite shocked. AWKWARD!!! Maybe I'm just greedy :-P
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RHP User
12 years ago
Unfortunately my partner and I have not had our first experience yet (not from lack of trying :( though)...but we have had some very productive conversations about our do's and don'ts and i think it makes us a stronger couple....and it makes us horny as hell talking about it too!!!!!! But I guess it all depends on the couple ur with ...we are both happy to please and be pleased as long as we are together and doing it as a couple ..
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StookyAndChooky
12 years ago
our rules are pretty easy here I don't play with other couples or single guys we as a couple play with females together and my man plays with females alone without me there kissing and everything is allowed as I know its just sex and he has something deeper with me than he could with any other female
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enange63
12 years ago
safe sexsame roomrespect for allG E N T L E... gentle..gentle.... GENTLEit must be funeveryone must want to be there and doing this.wow.. pushy arent we :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
- Never insert anything into either of us that's bigger than our fist. - Never meet with anyone who can't recite Coleridge's 'Rime of the Ancient Mariner' while in classic shibari bondage suspension. Failing this, never meet with people missing a sense of humour. - Before play, drink lots of water and eat minimally for 24 hours for a sleek silhouette. Afterwards, lurch towards the nearest burger joint together for a binge and debrief. - Important: When washing the sex toys after play, always suction them to the wall of the shower to give the next person a laugh. ... Oh, and safe sex :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Forget to mention....We never "Take one for the team!
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mistakenidentity
12 years ago
Open & Honest with ourselves and each otherSafe Sex OnlyOtherwise it's go with the flow as long as your comfortable
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ivannahumpalot' My rules as a couple... my guy cannot kiss or fuck the other girl (anal is ok). He also has to treat me as no 1 and not concentrate too much on her. I have told him if she pleasures him better than I do he'll need to fake not being so turned on. lol My guy said he is happy to watch me do ANYTHING! What are you going to do to your Hubby if he does what you do not allow to my wife? I would hope he never even thinks about cumming in anyones mouth ...not even pre cum excect for yours with that rule. The rules have to be for all four.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Rules- have fun- use condoms. Enjoy now because one day we will be too old! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
We do only spend time with single ladies so we have no couple rules, however ours are:- - safe sex at all times of course - everyone enjoying - both of us must be attracted to the lady - no taking one for the team Easy! Msfun
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RHP User
12 years ago
We have fairly simple rules, of which we talked about in a previous post a couple of weeks ago.Really only two rules:- safe sex is a must!- respect for all boundaries, it takes 4 "yeses" to get it going but one"no" to stop (play within the strictest couple's rules)- No-one "takes one for the team"- No anal sex (Ms Otori can't do it, to her it's a huge turn-off and a painful experience and she doesn't care about anyone's "amazing, secret non-painful technique" or advice about doing it "right", don't even try to mention it)The rest are preferences:- same room (we would much rather play together which is why we don't play alone)- meet first, play later (sometimes broken if we all get along like a house on fire)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Also:- No playing with people who are on drugs or really drunk. Not a good look indeed!
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RHP User
12 years ago
We expect any rule is valid for all four. We expect our wives treated by some elses husband the same way we he would expect his wife treated. Obviously we both want to have sex with the other couple, we are swapping partners for sex never just watching touching etc. Some of our unspoken specifics with another couple: I will not penetrate his wife untill he penetrates my wife. I will not give oral to his wife unless he gives my wife oral. When he cums / goes soft I stop, and return to my wife. Condoms for her but not him...you must be joking. Gentle sex only, we are over sore pussies for days after, I stop any roughish sex being applied to my wife. Lets say, most are fine to swing with but some have no idea its a 4 way thing.
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Safe sex, safe sex, safe sex!! Have as much fun as we can n talk about it afterwards... Have a safety word... Just in case. I only have anal sex with my husband n other men I have known for a long time. Mr cheeky isn't allowed to use the words he uses with me! But - enjoy, enjoy n enjoy
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1playfulcpl
12 years ago
all deals r off if u set a line an they cross it no matter who they r , respect the people u play with there rules/boundarys expect the same from them
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RHP User
12 years ago
have fun play safe respect at all times...no means no, at all times no married/defacto/otherwise attached men or women no solo/seperate room play....ever... no smokers....dont care if you just washed/brushed/whatever no drugs......ever, of any illegal kind. no drunks... nothing says 'ugly' louder than being pissed no pain.. there are others...but they are really preferences...some are 'optional'..others not.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Basically for us it's all go except partner swapping for intercourse. Kissing fondling foreplay etc all good! Girl on girl especially all good :P We love watching each other play and have fun, but when it comes to the big finale, all that sexual build up is for each other :D- Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
Respect and honesty, covers the rules. We have not played with a couple, we have played with some singles, it has been a mixed bag for the experiences.We have enjoyed most part for that.Me (Mado) is interested only to be with Tara for what ever the experience leads to. If another man is going to have intercourse or any physical contact with Tara, First.. he needs to be felt and trusted as a friend, second.. Tara will want to, or not. Third.. we will give it our best for having an enjoyable time.As for the ladies, I am happy to sit with my friend, while the girls work out what they want from us.I figure if it were left to the fellers to run the show, there may be a lot more darts being tossed.I am certainly not the type of man that will make a move to another mans woman. Call me shy or proud which ever.If we play with another couple, (we do want to) then our boundaries should not become the experience. For the Rules in place.It just does not sound fitting to say. Listen bloke these are the rules, make sure you tell your misses too, got it hey. I would much prefer to be saying, Good darts mate, mugs away. By the way mate would you agree, The ladies are looking pretty bloody happy, what do you reckon they are giggling about. hmmm. Probably that they beat us in the last game... Distracting us that way. hmmmOk, it probably would be maybe something to that manner of how things could be. They might like playing cards. They might just like sex,drugs and rock n roll. of coarse that's a nono.(it is in the rules somewhere)If there is any rules then they will be respected.We laugh a lot in good company, love having fun with some good music.Mado,Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Futurenomads' We expect any rule is valid for all four. We expect our wives treated by some elses husband the same way we he would expect his wife treated. Obviously we both want to have sex with the other couple, we are swapping partners for sex never just watching touching etc. Some of our unspoken specifics with another couple: I will not penetrate his wife untill he penetrates my wife. I will not give oral to his wife unless he gives my wife oral. When he cums / goes soft I stop, and return to my wife. Condoms for her but not him...you must be joking. Lets say, most are fine to swing with but some have no idea its a 4 way thing. BEST ones i've heard so far... especially... When he cums / goes soft I stop, and return to my wife. No-one likes a limp-dick.
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QLDtwo4fun
12 years ago
No one takes one for the team
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Futurenomads' Quoting 'ivannahumpalot' My rules as a couple... my guy cannot kiss or fuck the other girl (anal is ok). He also has to treat me as no 1 and not concentrate too much on her. I have told him if she pleasures him better than I do he'll need to fake not being so turned on. lol My guy said he is happy to watch me do ANYTHING! What are you going to do to your Hubby if he does what you do not allow to my wife? I would hope he never even thinks about cumming in anyones mouth ...not even pre cum excect for yours with that rule. The rules have to be for all four. My lover (not my husband) is my playmate. He is respectful and would never do anything we hadn't agreed on! He wouldn't cum in her mouth.... he would prefer to spurt it over 4 large boobs! The rules don't have to be for four.. everyone feels comfortable with the rules for them and for their partner!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've met a gorgeous man on RHP and both of us have experience with groups / couples etc independently before we'd met. Interestingly enough the few times we have met with other couples to play, or view to play I felt the need to 'jump the gun' and rush into the full range of play that normally as a single female I would do. Honesty, integrity and communicating about what you BOTH want or expect from an experience is paramount... we've decided for now to not have sex with other people, as in penetrative sex, as we love and respect how we feel for each other and need to nurture that trust and connection before taking the next step with commitment and integrity. Listen to your gut, your intuition, and if anything isn't sitting well then take some time to think it over, why you're feeling that way, and talk about how you can move on from it. HAVE FUN!! But don't compromise yourself or your relationship. Sex is sex but love, trust and intimacy is hard to gain. X(and condoms always...bare is something we also save only for ourselves. )
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RHP User
12 years ago
My hubby n I really only have a couple of rules when it comes to playing with others they are: No cuming inside me the wife,anywhere else is fine mouth,face, body… other than that pretty much we’re all or nothing, you have to be true to yourself and to us and have a good time thats all we really ask for, other than what you’d like to do to each other heeee lol xx hope this helps answer your questions… Remember best getting your boundaries set between you as a couple before you play with others other wise you could leave very unhappy and the poor person/s that you played with would wonder what the F they did wrong xx S
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RHP User
12 years ago
...Jennylee sets all of our rules. I just do as I'm told.
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RHP User
12 years ago
safe sex its a given i think, we only play as a cpl. we get off watching eachother pleasure and get pleasured by someone else, no kissing on the lips Mr B feels something should be kept for just us and we both have to agree on the playmate other wise its not fun, if anyone wants to stop at any time we stop no questions asked.WOW it sounds alot when you write it down but i really just see it as 2 rules only play as a cpl and no kissing on the lipsMrs B
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RHP User
12 years ago
funny title considering we are one of the strange couples that stipulated very early that KISSING was off the cards.Some people might find that strange, but it's just one of those things that we feel needs to stay our own.. plus, there is plenty of other places to puta tongue anyway!Ohh and anal... the missus isn't keen on it in the slightest... wiggs out at the thought of it.. so that's off the cards as well.Anything else gets a green light provided it's safe and everyone is keen!
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