M52
Your advice please ladies (and gents as well)
September 22 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
I like your profile and your pics.Not bad Grasshopper!!Foxy
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Oh god.... youre a freo fan... theres your first problem!!!lol Check your mail..... a few tips sent.But dont expect the email ping pong game...... one tip, per grasshoppa, per day hahahahaDG
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RHP User
11 years ago
PMSL
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RHP User
11 years ago
In my experience; You can break the women down in this site into a few categories ( there are exceptions). There are some who use this site as a social outlet - chat via forums and it webcam - they have a community feel, arrange meet and greets and are here for the friendships they have created with the odd occasional 'dirty meet' There are some who seek on going casual sexual fun, so tend to chose men who suit there ideal fantasy man, but won't need to commit, having the best of both worlds. ( some women will have one FWB, others many). Some women want nothing more then a midnight fuck - these men chosen are the picture perfect guy they have in their minds. There are some more categories, yet out of all these women 80% are very empowered women. Women who confidently know what they want. Women who don't need to settle and can pick and chose whoever they life. The remaining 20% is a mixture, some feel insecure and want to feel wanted, some are on the rebound, some are mentally unstable! Reading your profile, you seem like a 100% genuine good guy. The type of guy who comes across as a long term relationship type... Enjoying what life has to offer and sharing that experience with a special someone. For you, you need to filter out 99% of the people on this site to find that woman... A woman looking for the same, who is drawn to your character and looks ( although looks will be secondary in the mind if the type of woman your profile seeks). My opinion, sites like e-harmony are better marketed to what you are looking for. RHP is a maze of many different worlds colliding..... Believe me, I can't even count the amount of people I have met from this site, and although there are many similarities, there are just as many differences. Try e-harmony or just go about doing what you enjoy in the real world, yet take a more proactive approach... If you have a hobby or interest, join a local community group who share that interest, it is when you create new adventures in your personal life doing what you love, that you find a partner doing the same thing, on your same level and before you know it, and without trying, you find your soulmate. Well that's what I got out if reading your profile.... Who knows, maybe I'm wrong? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your profile may be well suited to "Life Partner.com". You come across as witty and spirited (and ditto on the parachute jump) but you don't have sex with wit or a personality (so to speak)..With the target market of this site, curling up and watching a movie is not in line with mutually pleasing a woman as you watch a porn movie. Unless you're meaning that in a subtle way?.You are not unattractive however rugged up in sunday sport mode with scarf is not a widely chosen look for sexy action with the opposite sex, but feel free to start a trend..Be sexy, Do the effort and have the experience resultant of those two actions.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My only suggestion is that you be more specific about what you are looking for. Nowhere on your profile (that I can see) does it state you are after FB, FWB, NSA or whatever. Just someone who wants to share life with you! Could be scaring a few women off! But otherwise, nice profile and great pics! Good luck! :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I liked the other pic...not all women are football fans...and humour is a very subjective thing Trav...I have never liked Benny Hill type humour,the thigh slapping joker leaves me cringinging....dot points tell me that you can't bothered constructing a sentence...harsh criticisms I know but you did asknow,why aren't women answering or responding in a positive way to your messages?Who are you messaging Trav,are you a ''reacher''perhaps?If they are saying that you aren't their type,then perhaps you are not paying attention to their selection criteria.The first message is critical ,make her really want to meet you but don't write War and Peas either.Make sure the message is personalized,mention something in her profile that you liked.Good luck in your search Trav x R
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RHP User
11 years ago
But your pics suggest you don't have a great deal of confidence. Just something about the expression in your face and your posture. Confidence (not cockiness or arrogance) is key. The jumper looks a bit dowdy. Hmmm, in short, your profile doesn't shout "I know how to fuck a woman". Interestingly, you should never actually shout that (always under promise and over deliver) but it helps if you have an air about you that suggests you know your way around a woman's body. I don't know what it is, a glint in your eye, a wry smile, strength. Hard to explain, but whatever it is, I don't get it from your pics. I didn't read your profile but I imagine I'd echo Freya's comments :) Probably the one guy in the forums at the moment who - for me - has that air of sex on a stick but also cheeky, fun and respectful about him is MisterGreen. He's confident, not overly cocky, lusty in his comments but always respectful to others. Again, hard to explain, but maybe give it some thought. I've been frank as you invited frankness, hope it helps. Good luck x
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RHP User
11 years ago
You don't have enough alpha male going on, IMO :) Lots of men misunderstand the alpha male thing, and think it's a licence to be an arsehole. It's actually about confidence, strength, decisiveness, skill, kindness and respect all rolled into one, as far as I'm concerned. It's like the old 'nice guys come last' phenomenon, which actually has a lot of truth in it. Nice guys have plenty of the kindness and respect but not enough of the confidence, strength, decisiveness etc. Arseholes get the girls because they have lots of the latter and it's as sexy as all fuck - until the girls realise there isn't a soft heart in there somewhere and the guys are in fact just tossers. Girls can be really dumb that way :) So ... if you can get your alpha male on and let it shine through your profile, your luck might change! ***my opinions are entirely my own and do not represent the view of the general female population :P***
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would put on jeans and an open shirtyour pictures say, footy fan who loves a drink of redthats find if you see a woman that is a footy fan and likes a drink of redif you have something neutral that says not about you , its betterI find it odd myself that guys hold up fish pictures, not sure how thats attractive to womenor their car, again not sure how thats attractivebut the bike with them on it, yes you look like a nice fella and your profile is very sweet and tame, so its more a romance thing your looking for? You never know there might be some sweetie on here looking for the same thinggood luck, I hope it works for youLadyT
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RHP User
11 years ago
One of my mottos at the moment is "make your choices and take your chances". My only thought is wait until you come across someone whose profile makes you think..."I have to message this person" rather than "you never know". Especially with a message being text, the undertone of what you are writing is often as important as the words you use.Not sure if that's of any use, but for what it's worth, those are my thoughts.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Coops have you been hanging out with Lady T!...you nailed us...well some of us
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RHP User
11 years ago
Awesome! I think I kinda like you. 😉
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RHP User
11 years ago
Spot on. FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can add much more than what's been said. However, love the scarf, go FREO!!!!! Mr Funky (.)(.)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thankyou all for your comments and your emails, A fair bit to take in but I do understand where you are all coming from. Time for some soul searching methinks. I have promised though, if I do get a date from here I will be posting my profile pic wearing a Swans scarf....god that will hurt lolWill look into getting some diff pics. I got that one taken as my phone takes crap photos and my computer even worse. Will sort it out. I think I will look intothe eharmony side but will stay here as I love the honesty (mostly) here. You are all pretty cool in my book and I love the way there is no inibitions. That is pobably what I need to get rid of and is part of the "Alpha Male" comment snuggle__pot mentioned. Whilst I am confident I am that nice guy so well picked from a photo :) Cheers all T
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RHP User
11 years ago
Trav,I agree with many of the posters. To me, your profile doesn't say "looking for casual copulation".Your profile and your photos say to me "Intelligent, Truly Nice Guy, Looking for a Lady that I can share (more than a little) time with, and if that leads to sex, then that's a bonus".I think you could have better spent your Platinum Membership money elsewhere, looking for what you truly want. I just don't see you as a "casual FB / FWB" person.
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