Your "ideal" first dinner date...?

October 19 2014

.........So you've met the right person & progressing further a first dinner date has been arranged..... Ladies, Gents - Would you share an insight into "Your approach & Your ideal setting"? Remember its the first dinner date & this individual is super sexy with real potential....... Tell us about your preparation, which perfume / aftershave do you choose & why ?...Jewellery - which one(s)? A new outfit? or that great feeling existing - describe it, is it tight fitting, with heels ? Do you choose to host at your house & cook? or out to a classy restaurant?...Give us an insight into the setting you would choose if you think this is an ideal individual? =============================================== (To the non meet forumite only crew - I challenge you to share a deeply held ideal fantasy) (Hmmm ok Gents your challenge is not to say Maccas and Carpark sex - I dare you to show your sincere & romantic self)

Comments

  • TallBaldSexy

    TallBaldSexy

    10 years ago

    Damn didn't hit follow this topic.......and what an opportunity......so ill call comments from Mary, KIS, Meeka, Meander, JackD, Twisted, ITK, FL, DG, Tuplis, MsB, Hotsexy DeliciousCurves(as if it were hubby), a few red wines and ive ran out of suspects to add...ahh Paintme, "they say" youre a bit of a legend would you comment?.........and please anyone else.....this may be intriguing...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If it was the ideal partner it wouldn't matter where/when/what.... All I would notice is his beautiful eyes.

  • TallBaldSexy

    TallBaldSexy

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' If it was the ideal partner it wouldn't matter where/when/what.... All I would notice is his beautiful eyes. Meeks so the eyes have it for you....noice........but this individual is only potentially the right one.......so its early stages to seek and determine ....... What ticks over in people minds, how do you all prepare? whats the ideal setting to "feel" a potential ideal individual out...........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    & I don't date. :)

  • TallBaldSexy

    TallBaldSexy

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' & I don't date. :) HaHa, Well poo poo to you too.......but respectfully it's a shame youre choosing not to comment ....Might have given a members with potential for "you" to get a valuable insight.....would be interesting to others too... SA

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm a simple soul. A quick shower and mandatory grooming. Let my hair dry naturally. A light touch of make- up. No perfume. Jeans and a soft, feminine, casual top. Shoes that are easy to slip off. All ready for takeaway fish and chips by the beach :) Followed of course by a wander along the water's edge, where we can chat freely and comfortably. I'm not a fan of fuss and pomp. Anything by the beach on a warm shmmer's night brings out the best in me. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    i just need to preface this by saying I don't really date up front. I meet people from rhp. To me a date would come later if things were ongoing. My approach I have a shower and shave my legs, wash my hair. nope I don't buy a new outfit and no I don't wear much jewelry, I have rings I never take off and would wear earrings if going out I wear body shop vanilla spray only no other perfume (gives me migraines) And I don't wear heels.....yet. My ideal setting Casual is best for me. A small local place would be preferred over a fancy restaurant. if he potential ticked all my boxes then the ideal setting would be eating takeaway naked in bed. (A total fantasy of mine) And if I feel like dusting off my tiara and having a princess moment I would expect to be picked up and taken out old school style. That means guy arranges it and doesn't ask me where to go. It just shows he has prepared and not left it to me to organise. But I rarely wear the tiara these days 👑

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    I went on a lovely date out for dinner to a beautiful classy restaurant along Brisbane Pier.. My date picked out my dress. A stunning little black lace number (tight fitting to enhance my figure, mid length, short sleeve and thin high heel sexy shoes). It made him and me feel good so why not??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'd order Menulog and fuck him on the kitchen table while we waited for our food to arrive.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have answered it. All the bells and whistles do not work on me, in fact anything overly romantic dates and gestures make me uncomfortable. So it's the person that matters to me not where they take me. I am not impressed with a show of money or anything like that. Not sure how someone knowing I shave my twat would give any insight into anything. So I would say my ideal first date would not be a dinner especially a romantic one. In fact I find this whole question uncomfortable for some reason. What I do is my and my lovers business.... How is that for a shocker statement after things I have said on this forum before. LOL.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You're asking a rather private question, OP. I wouldn't want my potential dates knowing all my likes and dislikes in advance. I met a guy once who seemed perfect, but it turned out he'd read my posts and was trying to be exactly what he thought would win me over.

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    And prefer my castle to anything else. I know a lot about my dates before they get here. I'd have the drink they like and we start with drinks. Seduction would occur and I'm is usually impatient so I would initiate the play. Lots of foreplay and fucking, we would end the play session with food, that I have cooked ( I'm Greek, we want to feed everyone). I plan what I wear and smell like to a T. I would be waxed, showered and wearing as little as possible, I've been known to answer the door in a sheer robe, and not get far past the door either ;) I like my man being comfortable in his own skin, he can wear what he likes as long as he is showered and smells divine. Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Is the guy suddenly the bad boy for asking a question on the forums? If I feel uncomfortable with a subject I just don't post a reply.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I agree... And I answered in my way after he singled some of us out. Fair enough I thought but he has pushed for more so I replied to his personal comment to me. I assume that is allowed.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I didnt mean personal comments, but yes, anyone can reply to any questions in any way they desire. I just meant if it was something that bothered me I personally wouldnt bother replying. Guys pushing for more.....never!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'd have to agree with Meander here. And add one thing in regards to getting ready, and that's to make sure I don't put excess cream or perfume anywhere where I think I'll to be kissed and licked.

  • TallBaldSexy

    TallBaldSexy

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' I'd order Menulog and fuck him on the kitchen table while we waited for our food to arrive. Wow I never heard of Menulog before....I just googled it....that's a pretty darn good idea.....surprised its not taken off up this way actually....id def order from that type of service......no dobut an app too?..maybe...very easy to order from on your way home...

  • TallBaldSexy

    TallBaldSexy

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' I have answered it. All the bells and whistles do not work on me, in fact anything overly romantic dates and gestures make me uncomfortable. So it's the person that matters to me not where they take me. I am not impressed with a show of money or anything like that. Not sure how someone knowing I shave my twat would give any insight into anything. So I would say my ideal first date would not be a dinner especially a romantic one. In fact I find this whole question uncomfortable for some reason. What I do is my and my lovers business.... How is that for a shocker statement after things I have said on this forum before. LOL. Yes agreed that is a large disparity Meeka. However what an individuals experience is, is there experience, granted. And to that end im sorry if that experience wasnt indeed what it should have been. On a more positive note. Life in and out of the forums for those wise amongst us should be endowed by the acquisition of knowledge, should it not?....You have shared something with us today and some may have learned something...I mean Fair dinkum I learn something everyday - or try to. Like the other day I learned that if one places Bananas in their trolley - in the child seat - for some obscure reason - then this apparently signifies the shopper is single and potentially available....I mean that is something I shall never forget..And forever on the lookout for :-)

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    First date with a very special man! I stole 1/2 half his steak and I fed him half a dodgie schnitzel..,then we were in awwwww of fireworks! Bwahhhh Ha! Foxy xx

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    First date with a very special man! I stole 1/2 half his steak and I fed him half a dodgie schnitzel..,then we were in awwwww of fireworks! Bwahhhh Ha! Foxy xx

  • TallBaldSexy

    TallBaldSexy

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' You're asking a rather private question, OP. I wouldn't want my potential dates knowing all my likes and dislikes in advance. I met a guy once who seemed perfect, but it turned out he'd read my posts and was trying to be exactly what he thought would win me over. Mannnn I can not believe that, I mean seriously?....but then again I suppose anything is possible....the more I think about that the more I now ponder the fact that, I mean we do discuss and comment on things publicly and some of those ive seen are entirely OTT explicit but for someone to keep track of what an individual says over a period for dishonest purposes is - literally crazy. You know I met this lady once off another site, well gave her my number only luckily, as it turned out. In a joked fashion I said to her (whilst I was on crutches) that id worked out what crutches were actually for..."To fend off very old ladies perving at me at the shopping centre".....well dearie me (no joke this time) this lady started saying things like - "I don't like that older woman, who is she"?.......im thinking what the heck have you been ingested?.... By the way I did crack up at your first comment...

  • TallBaldSexy

    TallBaldSexy

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Burning_Love' I'm a simple soul. A quick shower and mandatory grooming. Let my hair dry naturally. A light touch of make- up. No perfume. Jeans and a soft, feminine, casual top. Shoes that are easy to slip off. All ready for takeaway fish and chips by the beach :) Followed of course by a wander along the water's edge, where we can chat freely and comfortably. I'm not a fan of fuss and pomp. Anything by the beach on a warm shmmer's night brings out the best in me. - Posted from rhpmobile DTE simplicity is always alluring - im sure that would be a hit! I do connect with a beach setting. The water is a true pacifier for me. It always has been. After all our bodies are around 65% water! One of my favourite spots to "chill" is on this hillside looking North the length of Newcastle beach and yes eat fish and chips there too...North is also where the Barrier reef is. Underneath the warm tropical water of the reef scuba diving, well that's another story... I too identify with the simple things; sunsets, sunrises, mountain views......meeting a someone i feel a strong potential connection to, for me - would include those somehow too - if I did not have agreeable feedback I might be able to convince her Center point Tower Restaurants are great - on a clear day for the view :-) ( i am from Newcastle)

  • TallBaldSexy

    TallBaldSexy

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' I went on a lovely date out for dinner to a beautiful classy restaurant along Brisbane Pier.. My date picked out my dress. A stunning little black lace number (tight fitting to enhance my figure, mid length, short sleeve and thin high heel sexy shoes). It made him and me feel good so why not?? Yep. That is exactly what the post was looking for. A ladys ideal - And this lady allows her friend to select her a dress for their special dinner date - that's excellent. Funnily Ive never thought of asking if I could share in that - It would make me feel great - geese thats sounding soft gents but - is that not sensational?

  • TallBaldSexy

    TallBaldSexy

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'ag4mg92' And prefer my castle to anything else. I know a lot about my dates before they get here. I'd have the drink they like and we start with drinks. Seduction would occur and I'm is usually impatient so I would initiate the play. Lots of foreplay and fucking, we would end the play session with food, that I have cooked ( I'm Greek, we want to feed everyone). I plan what I wear and smell like to a T. I would be waxed, showered and wearing as little as possible, I've been known to answer the door in a sheer robe, and not get far past the door either ;) I like my man being comfortable in his own skin, he can wear what he likes as long as he is showered and smells divine. Mary xx I mean how the heck does one comment on that.........is there anything to left to say!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You, me, and the pigeon... Any questions??? :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    imo Meeka made a valid comment with her first post. Disregarding the eye infatuation alone lol imo when you are both besotted with each other, all you really care about is enjoying and being in each other’s company again, organising any fancy parlour is not foremost in ones besotted mind :)

  • TallBaldSexy

    TallBaldSexy

    10 years ago

    I see comments all the time in RHP forums saying they would look at a something more than just a FB or FWB if the opportunity arose.....And other quotes disparaging those that call RHP "just a sex site".....Thought id give everyone the opportunity to tell us how that may play out for them.....Some people have been courageous in revealing their romantic side and to those Gents & lovelies - thanks knew you were out there somewhere...