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Your one night of Passion
April 25 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
...- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Although I get the feeling there's a catch?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just the one night...meet them through a girlfriend.FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
The question you should ask is. Why wouldn't you go there? And have you heard from him in the last 6 months? If not, he is only after sex. If you are okay with that then why not. Go for it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
does the hypothetical woman have feelings for him (i.e.. the catch)? If so, RUN. If not, ENJOY another night of bliss.
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subgal_gc
12 years ago
So if you think that being with this person will make you happy then why wouldn't you go for it?But I would make sure you are both on the same page as to what his and your expectations are. If sex is all that is on offer and you can deal with that then enjoy I say.
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RHP User
12 years ago
No caveats Just do it!
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RHP User
12 years ago
How long are they in Australia for? Are we talking another night of passion or could there be more on offer? Definite yes from me though.
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RHP User
12 years ago
YES
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RHP User
12 years ago
On ANZAC day. A Kiwi or Turk on the otherhand......... And I love the photo Ms D. xx
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
(ie: wife/girlfriend and/or hang ups)... Why not? If the sex was great it would be criminal not to.
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Mr_MrsAraps
12 years ago
Why not. Especially if you knew it was good last time.
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
If I was able to n I had a connection with them - yes xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
if I hadn't already met someone special... of course
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RHP User
12 years ago
sure would!
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BrightBubbly
12 years ago
There is more to this than what you have told us so far...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes, yes, yes, oh hell YES
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RHP User
12 years ago
yea....why not? obviously theres already a connection..at least for me there would be, as i'd never contemplate a night of 'passion' with anyone....unless it meant something...
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RHP User
12 years ago
What's the reasons causing you to question going back? If you didn't have doubts you wouldnt hesitate?.... If its going to create more happy memories...definitely yes!
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RHP User
12 years ago
You will regret it when you say no.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's a yes from me!!! What's holding u back!?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am not sure....only if you can live in the moment again Foxy...with no expectations for the future.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you enjoyed the last time, why not go back? No expectations of anything further just to have another passionate night.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We met through another couple I have known for over 10yrs...He contacted the couple (he used to work with the male). The couple know that there was a connection between us. So my thinking is. A) Leave it as an awesome memory or B). Go there again knowing he has to return to England and go through a broken heart again and heal again or C) because we have friends in common makes it sort of messy and don't want to ruin anything there. The one night of passion was the night prior he left Australia...We had met a couple of times prior that through the couple..There was no sex or anything till the night he left...His last words to me "I will be back for you" I walked away knowing distance it could not work. He rang me when he arrived yesterday...I let it go to message bank as I didn't recognize number as I deleted it when he left. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
It was really powerful and has such a special meaning to me... Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'd be thinking like its a nice big pizza.....bad for me yes, probably go straight to my hips and arse....but the taste is just divine lol On a more serious note though, I can't say I disagree. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
leave and go to england yourself... see if he likes it lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Expectations (perceived or implied) at play? My assumption (dangerous I know) given that the sex was great is that if you are questioning then something is niggling you. Get comfortable with that then go for it ;-) 50- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Foxy' you know in your own heart what you want, no one here can decide for you, Do what you feel is right for you...In my opinion ' it's never quite the same the second time around as the first... Sometimes it's best to leave the memory as it is.. That first was probably unplanned and just happened ' everything fell into place and was nice, been there.. Regardless' no harm in going out and having a good time but... Better than sitting at home wondering...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mainly on what is happening in both lives at the current time. Life is not all about great sexual experiences. There is more than just sex to consider. Sometimes hard decisions need to be made and our own fleeting sexual gratification put aside just because it may be the right thing to do. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I hear and read of things like this happening but to happen to myself in Real life is quite daunting. Foxy
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
...done that.... more than once.When I met LN, our first meeting was like a stereotype story from Penthouse letters or similar.She was a Doctor travelling to Sydney for a conference. Saw my profile, contacted me, struck up conversation over phone, decided to meet, and enjoyed a great night in a Potts Point bar. She put a proposal on the table... I accepted, and we enjoyed a night of indulgence in the city then back to her Swishotel suite, then breakfast and we went our own ways with a smile.A little over a year later she was in Sydney again, found me on facebook and we had another great night out. Unless theres a problem Foxy.... I dont see a problem or make a problem.Enjoy life... and sex.... for what it is, if circumstances permit.DG
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
I still get a giggle out of the pop rock shock.LOLDG
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Wrong topic for that last one HAHAHAHADG
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wingman2014
12 years ago
What is it you are afraid of ? That the last encounter was so perfect that now you feel it can never reach the same heights ? Do you think that he may be now looking for a relationship that you dont want? Was it just a romantic fantasy of a one time lover that will be spoiled?
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ArtemisLuna
12 years ago
Do what is right for you right now.... I guess ask yourself what is the worst that could happen....and if you can live with that go forth and enjoy :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes Yes Yes Oh God Yes! Pusscat xxxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Did he make any attempt to contact you while he was in England? If not, I'd be saying nope, no deal. Since it's obvious you want more to come out of it than just sex and if he's just suddenly appeared out of the blue and contacted you now, not even giving you any warning before he arrived in Oz, then it's very likely that is all he's after. On the other hand, if you think you can overcome and deal with it just being another one night thing, a bit of fun, then go for it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...that you had residual 'feelings' when he left, the chemistry you describe sounds beautiful. If he's just after a quick root, I think you might lose the memories you have. If he's not (and you're not), you might just make more! My gut (contrary to the others) says leave the memories untarnished and don't go there unless you are absolutely sure there's new and happy ones to be made. Let us know how you go! IAT - Posted from rhpmobile
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ttlsbm4fun
12 years ago
He said he would be back for you and now he is here. Do you want just the memory or do you want to have a go. He is Here the choice is yours. You can make so many excuses for and against seeing him again, but at the end of the day, it still comes back to what you want!! Good luck in your decision
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I still get a giggle out of the pop rock shock.LOLDG I get the giggles over POP-ROCK shock as well ... FOXY
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smo669
12 years ago
Yes, of course you should........can I join you?
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RHP User
12 years ago
If it was that hot - no harm in going there again. Even if its not as good u still remember the first time. Normally I say dont look back but hell I hv and sometimes it's been well worth it! Do it Foxy baby Love Lolly xxx- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think it would depend on how well you got along the first time round...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why not the more fun in live you can have the better. My out look on life is one day at a time one lifetime of days so live every day as its your last.
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inspirit
12 years ago
Why wouldn't you ?!
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BrightBubbly
12 years ago
I kinda want to give you a big hug right now... You are happy where you are at in your life right now and don't want anything to change that, you have worked hard to get a good balance and think that by seeing this guy again it will open all these emotions that will complicate it.I would look at it from a "what could happen" POV.Say you meet again, share another amazing night together and he goes back to England. You never see him again, then you have 2 amazing nights to remember.Or, you could have an absolute disaster of an evening together and then you will know that there could never be more between you.What happens if there is a chance that this could be that perfect fit for your life, what happens if you take this chance and it all works out ? What if it isn't forever - would it be worth it for that time you had together ?I met the love of my life last year, it was the most amazing 6 months I have ever had. He ended up walking away from our relationship and it nearly destroyed me. It ruined many friendships and left me an absolute mess and an empty shell. But you know what, even knowing all of that, I would do it all again just to have that time with him.
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coastcpl
12 years ago
Hell yeah.. go back there and just go with the flow... ENJOY
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you think that you will have that special moment again or better you would be crazy not to. What have you got to loose.- Posted from rhpmobile
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chockisses
12 years ago
I always end up regretting things not done.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
FoxyIf you dont go back then every guy from now on you will compare to the fantasy like passionate passion you enjoyed with this guy.My perspective - You need to spend time and see all sides of this man.
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RHP User
12 years ago
but your emotions and hormones will win out in the end. Resign yourself to that. Your mind will be screaming "What are you doing ?!!??" but you will observe your feet walking to his door. It's going to be exquisite, and then dreadfully painful once again. You survived before, and you will again. You're only human. That's what we do.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFox'We met through another couple I have known for over 10yrs...He contacted the couple (he used to work with the male). The couple know that there was a connection between us. So my thinking is. A) Leave it as an awesome memory or B). Go there again knowing he has to return to England and go through a broken heart again and heal again or C) because we have friends in common makes it sort of messy and don't want to ruin anything there. Your OP didn't mention this, and it changes my answer considerably I think these things could happen if you "go there" again: 1. It's nothing like last time, disappointing even, and stains the wonderful memory you had 2. It's nothing like last time, leaving you relieved as you no longer have to wonder "what if..." 3. It is just as good as last time, leaving you with another great memory 4. It is just as good as last time, breaking your heart all over again and leaving you wishing for much more. From your posts it's clear you're expecting the last outcome. Is it worth it? Tread carefully Foxy x
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inspirit
12 years ago
I think you really need to be discussing this with him. Tell him your thoughts and why you are not sure if you want to go back there. He may feel exactly the same way. Be open and honest as you have nothing to loose at the moment.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If it feels good .....................just do it!!!!!Or if you want to be" way out there" maybe you could discuss how you both "feel"..................novel i know!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
IF THE SEX WAS GOOD, THEN I WOULD FOR SURE DO IT...IF YOU DONT THEN YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE ......THE WHAT IF??? GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
He didn't come back for you he told you what you wanted to hear which given your feelings at the time was actually quite cruel.No contact in the meantime=he doesn't give a fuck.He contacts you when he is on your doorstep, you are the shortest route to a root.If there's nothing on telly do him, otherwise don't bother.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have done this. Best to stay with the memories you have. But you never know could be amazing.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
to see you back 50z....and a reality check from you...I suspect you may be correct.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFox'Go there again knowing he has to return to England and go through a broken heart again and heal again or There's the catch.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've been thinking a lot and I really don't think I can go there - just mainly based on the no contact while he was away - I am not a light-switch that can be turned on at his expense when ever he wants.When he first contacted I was like...woot woot Oh yeah baby!!! but when I sat and thought about it after a while and read posts- it's really is just like PIZZA - temptation is there but it's really really not healthy.Not only that I don't think emotionly, I can put myself through heartbreak again, 2nd time around with a person. I hurt and cried that first time.If I ever am with the couple and he's there I will act polite and hold my integrity- and turn on my awesome smile.I am just happy having those memories - One night of Passion - those memories I can switch on and off when ever I want.Thank again Peeps I appreciated your feedback. Love ya posts.FOXY
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Goodvintage
12 years ago
Follow your inner desires...If you expect more then just hot sex...Don't go there...!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have had other friends go 2nd time around; its worked out or turned out to be a complete disaster. Foxy
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On_Safari
12 years ago
I could feel his heat emanating from his body just sitting beside him. Hot just doesn't do him justice. We spent a whole day and 2 nights together then I went back home. It was tender and heartbreaking (we both just clicked!!), have you ever wished for an endless night? Thanks for the memory Foxy. As for the dilemma, some things are best left where they were, a beautiful memory. OS
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
If he's really keen he'll chase you up, but the no contact thing does show his form.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh boy i understand where you are coming from. For me life's to short. I would go back to feel him in my arms, our body's touching, his lips and tongue over my body, wanting to pleasure him as much as him pleasure me. Even knowing you may not see him again that temptation for me would be to great not to go. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
12 years ago
I wouldn't care about the reason why he has called again. Grasp the opportunity and enjoy the moment given is my theory :-)
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leeroybbad
12 years ago
What is there to lose...could be hot fun all over again!!
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