Your reactions to someones posts

December 16 2013

Do posts on the forums affect the attractiveness of a perspective persons profile for you? If so positive or negative? Have you had a change in the type of contacts due to your posts? Have you received more interest due to your posts? Have you become more interested in someone due to their posts? For me I won't lose interest in a person due to their posts, but if they have a post that intrigues me I would be more interested. Obbi "Why are most safety components made by the lowest bidder, and why are we are ok with this?"

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Do posts on the forums affect the attractiveness of a perspective persons profile for you? . Absolutely. There have been men with great profiles that have made comments on the forums that completely turned me off..If so positive or negative? .Both. There are also people I hadn't really looked twice at, until I read their amazing posts. .Have you had a change in the type of contacts due to your posts? . I've posted since day one, so hard to say. Though some times when I talk about my job, I get questions about medical issues and addiction. Oh, and the reactions to my DP thread were... interesting..Have you received more interest due to your posts?.Wouldn't know, like I said I've posted since the day I joined. .Have you become more interested in someone due to their posts?You bet! It has made me break my "No under 30's" rule more than once.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Do posts on the forums affect the attractiveness of a perspective persons profile for you? Yep. I'm attracted if they are clever, funny and or wise. If so positive or negative? If they sound like a dick on the forums, then they're probably a dick irl..Have you had a change in the type of contacts due to your posts? I got a lot of interest when I joined 12 months ago. Since then it's dwindled down to nothing. Nada. So maybe people don't like what I write. Meh ... Have you received more interest due to your posts? See above..Have you become more interested in someone due to their posts? Yes. Absolutely.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Do posts on the forums affect the attractiveness of a perspective persons profile for you? - Somewhat... their posts give a glimpse into their mind however some people are better or worse at the written word than the spoken word. If so positive or negative? - Everyone has bad and good days and even the most harmless comments can be taken out of context... I try not to let someone's one off comments tip the scales... regular negatives however show a lack of thought or conflicting attitude which will sway me to the negative eventually. Have you had a change in the type of contacts due to your posts? - Nope. have only had 5 unsolicited contacts from people... so my posts don't sway others that I can see. Have you received more interest due to your posts? - Nope. See above. Have you become more interested in someone due to their posts? - Absolutely. And they should know who they are... If not, they will do soon. SG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    often change what I think about myself - sometimes I like myself, sometimes I don't

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    There are certain people in here who I didn't have an opinion about one way or the other.... until reading certain forum posts. Now I just think they're dickheads. And I'm sure it works both ways!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    When people make too many wild claims and stories they loose all credibility in my eyes. Also some comments can completely change my view of a person.... For example some recent comments a man made about larger women changed my view of that person and not for the better. ( and no it wasn't the inappropriate joker)

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    11 years ago

    Do posts on the forums affect the attractiveness of a perspective persons profile for you? yes sometimes, if they aren't long posts. cause I don't always read the long ones n full If so positive or negative? both Have you had a change in the type of contacts due to your posts? yes Have you received more interest due to your posts?I believe so but have no idea why Have you become more interested in someone due to their posts?yep

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    all that little writing,poor old me,I can barely read it even with the new bi-focals...I think some little dears just love the sound of two fingers tapping and by the time I almost get to the end of their posts ..zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....what was the question again?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Do posts on the forums affect the attractiveness of a perspective persons profile for you?... Yep If so positive or negative? Both, some I wouldn't look at twice but they get a look in because they've said something interesting. Others I would never meet even if they looked like brad Pitt. Ok, maybe... Have you had a change in the type of contacts due to your posts? I notice that I get a lot of looks in when I post something that is overtly sexual. I don't do it often so I do notice. Have you received more interest due to your posts?see above Have you become more interested in someone due to their posts? Definitely... I've become interested in their personality as shown on the forums... I think I've realized though that what's on the forums is only one aspect of a much more complex being. Sometimes the rest of the person seals the deal and other times it really turns you off. Bitterly disappointing when that happens.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Absolutely ! Many people who post on these forums are "Perspective Persons" and they espouse their perspectives to the "like" or the "chagrin" of other forum readers / posters. That said, there are a few "Perspective Persons" whose posts I follow. Their "perspectives" strike a chord with me and I do find them very attractive. Their minds arouse me as much as their gorgeous bodies. Oh Wait, You and the other "Bards" that have posted before me are talking about a "Prospective Person's Profile" not a "perceptive persons profile". Sorry, My Bad.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Irony.... or paranoia. hmmmmmmmm And perhaps this comment affects how the OP views me. Doubt it somehow.LOL

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    Yes was defiantly attracted to his comments/opinions/sense of humour, and then I read his profile and I knew he had me...💋

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Miss Freya, that would be me. If the background was yellow, it would also have the text easier to read. (so I believe, because a teacher told me) Mado

  • Beachlover1999

    Beachlover1999

    11 years ago

    Yes but generally in a positive way although there are a couple of forum peeps I would be quite intimidated to meet and that doesn't happen often!!!! I am not a real girlie girl but lovely to be amongst like minded chicks and be able to chat away from the RHP site!! You chickadees are a breath of fresh air!!! Have I changed the type of contacts! Probably not but you learn better filtering techniques the longer you play the online game!!!! I would definitely say I get more attention being a forum devotee (NB:But not the reason why I post!!!), difficult to evaluate that but lots of contacts make reference to comments I have posted etc. As for following posters yes I think we all have our fav's!!! There are also many that I receive from people who never post but read the forums. Interesting topic op :)))