RHP

RHP User

F35

Your sexual personality

August 14 2012

sex

So with the recent topic about the frustrating 'Ask Me' selection in profiles, it made me realise that 'Sexual Personality' was one of the only options for which you HAD to select an answer (if you're filling out your sexual info). When I first read through them, I remember having quite a laugh at the options available. All right, I understand that if you're black/white a Dominant/Submissive, that's easy enough, but the other options just really got me and I've read through enough profiles to observe what people have put.Very rarely are people open to admitting that they're a Sex Maniac.Adventurous gives me a mental image of contorted body parts and erotic yoga... Normal yoga is challenging enough for me, thanks. I suppose Adventurous is still a level lower than, say, Sexual Deviate.Gentle Lover and Considerate Lover seem to be synonymous...And I see this one on wayyy too many profiles.....Naturally Sexy....which tells me absolutely nothing!So the only options that I thought sounded more like me were Passionate and Naturally Sexy. So after snorting over the latter, I ended up choosing the former, although every time I see the word 'passionate' it looks like it belongs in a Mills & Boon novel.I think we need to create some of our own terms for our sexual personalities. Any suggestions?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    that should cover it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    erotic mindx Hugs H

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Oddly enough, no-one ever complains when I bring along my Indy hat and whip.

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    12 years ago

    I like your description of Adventurous though :) I picked Naturally Sexy, it felt right. There's nothing fake about my connection to sexuality.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Keen, frantic, insatiable, lusty, did I say insatiable?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Well...If they'd had "Terrified of the thought", I'd have selected it.. ~pokes out tongue~But on the thought of suggestions.."Wombat""Is able to shag if he can ever get his hand of it""No clowning around, just pants down""Nervous, but partially capable if drunk""Atom bomb. Only once but big""Constant dribble"why not come up with a few of your own??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Fine China come demolishion derby! OR Wait and see! OR Tequilla Slammer. (Lip,sip,suck) OR Who Knows Wins.   Yep I think I know what I am talking about,pmsl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I didn't have to think twice, I was definitely Passionate. I might've even chosen that word myself if it was a fill in the blank sort of question. I like to tell people that whatever I lack in skill and physical endowment I more than make up in enthusiasm.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I can't remember what I picked. Runs off to have a look.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The best description for me is..Hot blooded

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Saucy Minx after a few drinks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The interesting thing is not all that come onto these sites have a high sex drive. Some may be curious while others may of come out of a relationship and are just looking around.   It's difficult to some yourself up in one word so maybe try to narrow it down to three and go with how you feel at the time. I agree, 'naturally sexy' isn't an appropriate selection choice for this category lol.   In relation to myself romantic and passionate comes to mind although i like the term 'natural lover'. To best explain this if the women could think to themselves for a moment of that perfect sensual moment with a guy (as you all do) i think you'll understand what i am lol.

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    12 years ago

    Still Learning or All of the Above

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Unfortunately :P I do tend to bounce off the other person/s (hopefully not literally!). A good dominant tends to find me liquidly submissive (an arsehole just finds me a total bitch). People that are somewhat submissive bring out my more forceful side :P whilst gentle begets gentle and playful will find cheeky. Enthusiastic (or "rough" in the tumble sense) will also engender a similar feedback loop. Can be irritating if I'm in a particular mood, as I find it very hard to project where I want things to go... I solved the problem at one point by keeping a harem and booty calling by preference :P lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Loving the answers so far...If I had to describe my own personality, it would have to be.... Hungry :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    um...just to be clear and FYI - it's not all black and white (i.e. clear cut) with being Dom/sub, there's a lot of grey (no pun intended!!!) that is not covered in those tag types.:)Sadey

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'll tell you what.. I'm loving the rhyming LOL..

  • jensta

    jensta

    12 years ago

    Shame we can't add more I would add Adventurous ... Which I have stated in my profile Im a Switch ... can be Dominate ... and can be Submissive Passionate ... Intense ... Could go on and on But theres only one to tick ... so lets deal with it once chatting to a someone then can fill in the gaps ... Our Profile ... only needs to give a little Info ... After all it is like an Advertisement ... to make a point of contact and what we do & say from there is up to us ... xxx