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RHP User
10 years ago
I will die all alone in my flat and mysterious dogs will come and eat my face. I have already resigned myself to that fact.
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RHP User
10 years ago
That reminds me I should probably have a will so that I minimise the inconvenience of my passing. Funny. So morbid tonight.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am fine with being alone, have been for a long time and I do like the idea of my pets being able to feed off me if I die alone (as morbid as it may seem). It is when loneliness strikes that I get a little down but as others have said in another thread I do have family and friends and my cats do cheers me up with their antics. Not quite the same as having a connection with the opposite sex but it will have to suffice. I also have my invisible friends to keep me company
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RHP User
10 years ago
Happy in your own company then what chance do you have with anyone else. Being alone is a chance for peace, quiet and your own thoughts. Meeka put loads of makeup on in your old age and that may put the dogs iff 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
have been spelt "A LOAN"We are ALL only on Loan.. so are our kids.. so are our friends..Meeka - I would "Loan" myself to you in you wanted... IF you promised to leave certain ... Umm TOYS at home OP... Learn to love yourself.. and learn to UNDERSTAND yourself.. and you will find, you actually LOVE being alone..Good Luck!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
A huge difference between loneliness and solitude.As Cavey said,learn to love your own company..enjoy the time you spend with you...but also learn to be social..what do you enjoy doing..what are you good at..there are many groups of fellow enthusiasts you can join.The Internet is an amazing tool for connecting people,but you have to be prepared to step out of you comfort zone....another thing you can do is volunteer your time...often the interest of others.is the best form of self interest hugs xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Love yourself. I never feel alone. I am single yes but not lonely. Its a state of mind.......for me And I call it..................... FREEDOM
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RHP User
10 years ago
That I may indeed be alone for quite some time. So I have devised a plan of becoming a crazy old cat lady. Im buying my first cat when I turn 50.
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RHP User
10 years ago
We are all seeking someone or something to fulfil us......Unfortunately nothing does in the long term !!But it is a journey that most of us travel, searching, ultimately for love in people, objects, status, etc. Eventually some of us start looking inwards to find how to BE love instead of looking for it outside of us.Long, lonely, sometimes painful, sometime brilliant journey.....but the only road that I know to happiness.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Been alone (other then my kiddies) most of my life. I was abandon at birth and life has had it's moments but we carry on all the same hey :)
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
at a swingers club few weeks back. I had a moment to reflect before i got some action. There was a group of older gents who by their interactions, presumed were regulars who went there every week. Also presumed that they didnt get much action and were there for company of the others. Gee i thought. Is that my future? Stuck in a swingers club for a perve on sexy couples on a sat night, trying to pick up an old tranny........ Then slinking off afterwards to go home for a wank.... Good grief
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's perspective, really.Yes I'm single but I don't feel alone. I have amazing friends and family, can call on many people anytime if I want to hang out. But as I'm quite comfortable being by myself it's never an issue. Plus I'm always in chat, a virtual party! Ms Silk.....get a dog, there's a reason they call them "crazy" cat ladies!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have been alone relationship wise for 18 years... have a truly been alone, completely and totally.. nope never, I have my child, animals, myself, and my beliefs, that spirits of my loved ones are with me always. it gives me peace..
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I will die all alone in my flat and mysterious dogs will come and eat my face. I have already resigned myself to that fact. Do you have an Instagram account set up and ready for that? People love dogs and selfies, I'm sure it would be VERY popular
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RHP User
10 years ago
The former is a character, one is often described as a lone wolf that wanders in their own world within a community but barely connects or engages beyond the surface. The latter is a challenge for many more people than you think, being single and alone is the obvious but there are many many people in the world that are alone within a busy complicated relationship that has taken away their individual identity. I have chatted to quite a few married women that feel alone despite having a partner that provides companionship, kids that drive them mad and a social friendship base to rival the best. Its important to understand that you aren't alone, you may lack certain elements of life but you aren't alone. There is a community of souls for anyone that looks hard enough. There is always an answer, a solution, a way forward but sometimes its not obvious, not accepted by the wider community and not without its challenges. Sometimes being alone is productive and good for the spirit, sometimes its the hardest place on earth
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RHP User
10 years ago
i'm very rarely alone, but quite often feel lonely. it's a product of losing someone you love without knowing why. since my wife died, i've found myself wondering on occasion whether i'll end up dying alone, or if i'll find someone to fill the gap
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RHP User
10 years ago
Loneliness is not connecting with other people. Learning to connect with other people means you will never be alone. This is a skill and all to often I find people wanting to connect out of insecurities rather than a deep emotional acceptance of each other. The earlier will leave you feeling alone. Learning the latter and you are never alone. Well unless 7 billion or so people dissapear all of a sudden.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Cyber man hug your way comes.
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Dryphuz
10 years ago
lots of porn...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Know how u feel since my divorce I have been wondering the same thing as its so lonely but hopefully I can find someone out there hope I do it's so lonely
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RHP User
10 years ago
i don't need to answer to anyone. I can scratch my nuts at a 14.375o angle if I choose to. I don't have any arguments over what's for dinner...you know the ones that go like this:- "What do you want for dinner darl??" "Dunno I'm easy; you're a great cook just let me know if you need help!!" "Just choose something I'm always deciding!!" "Yep; and that's what I love about ya 😊" I don't mind if I leave the toilet seat up. The list goes on and on. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
You need to love your own companyBefore you can love those that give you company.
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RHP User
10 years ago
There is a huge difference between being alone and being lonely. I'm on my own, but I can't honestly say that it's often I ever feel lonely. Embrace the solitude while it lasts. And, you really can't enjoy another person's company, until you can enjoy your own. If all else fails, get a creature with fur and four paws. (Well, it works for me......) And remember, it's better to be on your own than jumping into the frying pan with someone only to find you'd made a pact with the devil!
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RHP User
10 years ago
You can be surrounded by people and still feel lonely. Love your own company and you can never be alone.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I like being alone something frustratingly hard to find. When I feel lonely I usually find a friend to share it with, makes it a lot easier to deal with when you share it. No I am not trying to be funny, loneliness can be shared and still be lonely, you can at times in life be totally alone in a room packed with people. It is the connection that we want, we are alone without it. Isolation does not always make you alone.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Means that I am never alone,sometimes lonely but that is not necessarily a bad thing,...solitude can be a gift,make it one .
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