RHP

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adult breastfeeding ~ adult nursing relationships

October 05 2012

I got a wink from a man who had the word 'nursing' in his profile name. I thought to myself "that's odd, I get a man referencing his profession if he's a tradie, or a truckie or a fireman etc, but I'm surprised he would reference being a nurse" . So I was curious, and popped in to check out his profile. And whoa ... discovered a whole_new_world!!!   Men suckling and nursing on a woman's breast. Women developing routines to induce lactation so they can offer suckling men milk. And moooooore.   I was equally perplexed, horrified, intrigued ... and here's the rub ... titillated! Yes, there's my confession - reading some ANR journals and blogs I found myself tingling in all sorts of lovely places.   Apparently adult breastfeeding leads to deep, loving, nurturing intimacy between couples. I like deep, loving intimacy, so that's a drawcard. And I love my boobs - they connect to my femininity and my heart. I love men loving boobs. I love men. So you can maybe see - and I can maybe see - why ANR had a little bit of appeal when I was reading about it. Maybe? Gawd ... I don't know what to think!   Forum friends, what do YOU think?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I guess everyone has their own thing, cant say i have ever done it, but have to try something before you can make a decision on good or bad i guess. Who knows maybe its something really great that the majority are missing out on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    From my own experience....I have had 3 kids and every time my ex was lactating she would allow me to suckle a bit every so often.I was an incredible experience....very erotic.....extremely nurturing......and did create a big bondage between us.....(for a while that is ....we have not being together for many years now )But highly recommend it to those they can......I love breasts.....and when they are full and dribbling they are amazing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ANR can be traced back to the earliest records of mankind .. the need to bond .. the security of a woman's breast .. the nourishment and life giving properties of her milk all make an intoxicating attraction. However this could quickly descend into sexual depravity if you choose the wrong partner ! Like all things considered 'strange' by main stream society it should not be discounted JUST because OTHER people say so .. if curious then allow yourself to experience it in an environment of safety and comfort .. THEN make up your mind.As for me it has been a fantasy for as long as I have been an adult ! ... i still wish to discover this passion of life

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yeah....nahhhh.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    please visit www.plvr.com

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    A guy Op'd this same topic. He was summarily ripped limb from limb by the ladies.How times change, or is it because a fem has OP'dCheers Felonious

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    I am not sure either BH. The more l think about it though the more l become aroused. I think if I was breastfeeding my child I couldn't go there. As an extra in the bedroom well um hmmmmmmm

  • playful4u

    playful4u

    12 years ago

    While breast feeding, we discovered how erotic it was to have Mr P suck Mrs P's breast whilst having sex in the cowgirl position. This was such a big turn on for both of us and took our sex to a new level.   We think go for it, it is fun and exciting :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    On many occassion I have cradled a man in a breast feeding position while they suckle on a breast, but lactation is not for me.   It has been put forward to me in the past, going through the rituals of inducing lactation through both oral and mechanical means on a regular basis and going through all that again just doesnt do it for me. I breastfed my kids and wouldnt have had an issue if the x wanted to taste or suckle at that time, but now, many years past, I dont want to induce it to indulge in a fetish.   I personally dont enjoy that over engorged feeling or just full breasts, remember it more annoying than any eroticisim.   So for me I am happy for them to suck as much as they want, but to take it further to lactation thats just not for me. The women who enjoy it on an adult level for their partner, I admire you. It certainly does take things to a different level.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Breast feeding does not go hand in hand with sexuality in any way shape or form. Not in my ,mind! I can imagine that it would fullfill a need in some men but do I really want my sexual partner to think of me as Mummy? Nope. I did breastfeed my babies yes. All three of them...and I dont want to think of nurturing my babies in the same way as anything sexual at all. The idea of deliberately producing milk for my man just does not do it for me. It is not the suckling part I have issues with...it is the producing of milk for him. Maybe some people just need to grow up a little.....after all there comes a time in every baby birds life that they get kicked out of the nest...deal with it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    would this be any more unacceptable than other sexual proclivities? I have no desire to lactate again but if that is what floats ya lil' boat,why not try.I think BH you would have to find a man that you had a strong connection with and to maintain your milk supply you would have to breast feed him on a regular basis or express milk ,and wear nursing pads...I feel exhausted just writing all this.Sounds erotic in principle but not so much in the actual practice,me thinks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    And really not 100pc sure what intrigues me about it all, but very interested in the responses so far ... and yet to come :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13' would this be any more unacceptable than other sexual proclivities? It is the acceptance of them that make them fetishes and not pervertions.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I don't see too much difference other than opinion to any other kink.When I was breast feeding not only did my breasts look amazing, they felt amazing! - like super amazing! - like words could not explain amazing! Quoting 'playful4u' While breast feeding, we discovered how erotic it was to have Mr P suck Mrs P's breast whilst having sex in the cowgirl position. This was such a big turn on for both of us and took our sex to a new level.   We think go for it, it is fun and exciting :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Oh the mammories :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I can understand the attraction to it - from both your perspectives - :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    A womans breasts, so versatile.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    What are they?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    And Ive read with great interest all the comments     but for me...its a nah .....................(not that Ive ever had children) and perhaps I may feel different if I was lactating and in a loving relationship....     I do enough hand holding, back patting and ego stroking for the men in my life ( and thats just my work colleagues)   So I draw the line at the whole nursing thing...endless back scratching of his back whilst watching his TV programme is about as far as I go on this one...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    No thankyou...but lactating brings negative contations to mind (and those who know me know what they are) so this one is just one I could enjoy, howevere I have met people who do enjoy it.   Just like any other fetish there are people who wil say yes and others who will say no.   Kisses Focus

  • playful4u

    playful4u

    12 years ago

    If it is between a married couple? Probably more natural. I would be kink if it was someone else having a taste :) Yes, they do look and feel super amazing, they were great times. Quoting 'Cassandra_Jayne'I don't see too much difference other than opinion to any other kink. When I was breast feeding not only did my breasts look amazing, they felt amazing! - like super amazing! - like words could not explain amazing! Quoting 'playful4u' While breast feeding, we discovered how erotic it was to have Mr P suck Mrs P's breast whilst having sex in the cowgirl position. This was such a big turn on for both of us and took our sex to a new level.   We think go for it, it is fun and exciting :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Whilst it could indeed be interesting if individual breasts had different perspectives on things. :)I meant your perspective Brave__Heart, being the tingling from your recent research ;) and his perspective (the catalyst sts) - one who is so fetished to come across your profile - well, I mean...easy to understand the flirt, i'd say ;)Apologies if brevity got in the way and was confusing - my bad :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    and search for individually minded breasts.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Major turn on!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    And I did a search on my normal free porn movies site. I watched a couple of lactating movies where milk was flying like a bukkake bath, and yep....not even a tingle.