M45
affair with married women
December 27 2009
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sorry mate, but your post sounds wrong. Are you after an affair or after hot sex?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just curious to know what it is about being with a married woman that you find so hot? Is it the trill of doing another mans wife? Or that they're more likely to offer you NSA fun? Were you after an on-going affair or just a one off? I'm not putting my hand up by the way *giggle*... I'm just here for the forums now :) I was just curious, that's all and thought that it might help any other married women who might be interested to know... S xox
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RHP User
15 years ago
The thought entered my mind that married women are taken... because a man found them desirable, was attracted to them and being married implies they are experienced. A married woman seeking some on the side also implies she has a strong libido, is not getting enough or the possible scenario that she is desperate for a bit. Not suggesting that is a universal rule... just trying to rationalise why people seek married women. Of course the same can apply to women who seek out married men. Married people are more likely to be careful... so maybe that is an important criteria? People not wanting to get caught? Watching this to see how successful Saucyone is....
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FunnWunn
15 years ago
Hi Sonsie ... a good question ... For some of us, it's having sometihng more in common - maybe even similar cumstances or curiosity driving us. There's also less risk of deeper attachment and often the same understanding of the need for genuine discretion. Know
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree with Sonsie... why are you seeking a ' sexy married women'??? You stipulate no age (and I reckon it will be a young one not someone is their 50's or 60's to be sexy)... just to be married?Is it that you cant find anyone single?? Beats me why people do this. It makes out that these people want to break up marriages for no other reason than sex.Why not seek a single women to be a FB or FWB's....!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Having an affair with a married woman is not a bad idea; in fact it is great concept for our redhotpie family. One can love everyone in a different form like father, mother, brother, sister, husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend etc.. Love and joy always doubles when we share, but should know the difference between husband and a boy friend, real family responsibilities and redhotpie family responsibilities. Honesty and respect is a must without any compromise. Look for someone who can love you with her husband’s permission and make him your best friend too. Love them sincerely, never try to be over smart and try to put the husband down. Then it will work smoothly. With two male friends, girls always enjoy sex and always have a shoulder to lean when she needs. But you should keep in mind it is hard to keep up the trust, slight misunderstand will spoil everything.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Some married/attached women dont get enough at home and same with guys. A bit on the side might be the answer for some. With us it would be transparent and likely end us as a 3some Mars
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RHP User
15 years ago
hi..is it the thought of it thrilling /...less chance of becoming more? ...or bragging rights..ego boost?I can understand where your coming from Know..but again there's still that chance of things going wrong....( not sitting in judgement) as people have their reasons...its their business..xoxoheymumma
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just watch out. You might just answer the door one day and there'll be a married man there with a shot gun. Playing around with married women is not without risk, and it has the potential to destroy lives. Maybe take up stamp collecting or something... You'll live longer. lol.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Don't do it!!!What you get up to is your buisiness (and your responsibility), but have you considered:-1. It's not nice fucking someone elses missus behind the hubbys back!2. You will get found out one way or another...what comes around, goes around3. Thats what swinging is for...so you don't cheat. You can play with someone outside the marriage with certain rules in place. That person could be you if you approach the right couple...and play by their rules!4. There are plenty of sexy singles on RHP who will make your sex life pretty damn interesting without you having to fuck up someone's marriage.So have I convinced you yet?Hope so...BiSextra4u
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RHP User
15 years ago
It's a common fantasy for single guys. An empowerment gig. Guys who do this usually have low self esteem. Maybe they're short... hehe... maybe it's because they have been rejected too often and that they now consider that all the good women are already married. To redeem themselves and their own egos, they feel the need to try and take advantage of another man's bride. They do this in a moment of her weakness... and if there isn't one, they do whatever they can to try and generate one... and an opportunity. For this reason, a bit of drink spiking is also a common ploy... fair game for these fuckers. The thing about being married is that you can never take your lover for granted. You get complacent and tend to forget that guys like this are here.. it's really no different to being single... you still have to fight for your woman.. so keep your guard up married guys! You are surrounded by other men who will fuck your wife if they can generate an opportunity. As for women, well, a half decent bride.. you know.. all the the really sort after ones .... will drop to their knees on a whim, submissive little vixens that they are.... so you can hardly blame them for it. HUgs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
or people who are attached in serious relationships are possibly less lilkely to become attached to this person and start making life inconvenient for their suitor - whether the suitor is in their own relationship or not.There may also be the consideration (I'm not saying it is right or wrong) that married people might pose less of an STD risk since they're (supposedly) not out mixing with the great unwashed masses.Or he's looking to make "Married Momma's like it in the Laundry 7", but hey, who knows :p
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RHP User
15 years ago
thanks guys. lovin the feedback. keep it coming..
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RHP User
15 years ago
As an ex married woman, let me tell you that sex with a young guy is an ego boost, and I'm fairly certain that at some stage most guys have either fantasized about or even had sex with a married woman. Just make sure it's not a mates wife. So all you guys out there get off your high horses and take this for what it is .... a question posed by a young man who obviouly is out for a bit of fun and a stir, if a married woman wants to reply who are any of us to judge? Kisses Cherish
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RHP User
15 years ago
Cherish I couldn't have put it any better myself. If a married woman want to have sex outside her marriage that's her business no one is forcing her. If a guy wants to get involved with a married woman that is his business and no one is forcing him. Just play nice kiddies.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Then add in this variable - A married woman is allowed to have a rendezvous with a guy, but the guy is under the impression she is having an affair with him? HAHAHA, theres a spanner in the works, i guess thats bloody taboo as well huh? Get a grip you right wing moral do-gooders trenching around and slagging your opinions about on a SEX SITE after all. Mwah Mwah ..... Mr Shy xxx PS: Just in a really inflamatory mood today, no time for ignorance!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Cherish and Leap, Would you be so supportive if the OP was a married guy wanting to play? Whilst I agree with Cherish's comment that it is really none of our business, would either of you be supportive of a married man wanting a bit on the side? Going by a lot of the comments I have read in various forum posts here, I seriously doubt it. As for younger guys wanting an affair with a married woman, some I have found some do it because to their minds, it is an easier conquest. They reason that a bored, frustrated married woman would just jump at the chance of someone, something to happen. It also means they can screw and leave, there is no committment issues, no chance of anything long lasting happening. And if they get caught, hell no skin off their nose (unless hubby breaks said nose for them), they can go on with their lives. Unfortunately, the family they just help break up can't!
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