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after 2nd and 3rd meet ! she tell me she loves me ?
November 09 2017
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RHP User
7 years ago
I am an awesome root myself...and it is something that ACTUALLY happens to Women...After you spoil them with multiple, multiple orgasms every sex session, they just fall in love !!Fckn Biology sucks!!IT got to the stage that I had to tone my sex making down..Just enough so their "LOVE BUTTON" was not pushed. NOW, I am hoping a couple of women read this, and want to try me out...
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
They are confusing 'in love' with the more likely 'in lust'. Reset the parameters of the friendship/fb status or however you label the connection, make it clear you are not looking for anything serious, and that you dont feel the same way they do. If they continue with the declarations, stop seeing them....but do the right thing and tell them why. Dont just disappear on them...thats cruel.
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
So much for no one wanting you eh? - Posted from rhpmobile
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mango69er
7 years ago
Cavey50. You nailed it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I said Luv ya as in 'Luv ya work' to a guy once before and he took it the wrong way.... Maybe you have the "karvorka" like Kramer on Seinfeld. The animal attraction that lures women to you. ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
If they fall in love that quickly you need to runnnn lol!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Heh heh
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RHP User
7 years ago
Don't know why my posts show twice. Sorry
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
And ask us all to the wedding because we helped with your profile ๐ (Disclaimer: not me personally but I read the post so feel I was part of it) Partay ๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Alpha females don't crack that easily...
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Livingandloving2
7 years ago
I go about my life smugly congratulating myself for being non judgemental Then occasionally I stumble across a post like this and realise Nope ... I'm a judgemental asshole Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yep, me too. Bit somtimes it's good to be knocked off our so-called high horses every now and again. Even better when the post in question literally makes you laugh out loud ๐
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RHP User
7 years ago
Damn autocorrect!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Start charging money. You're worth more than drugs..
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RHP User
7 years ago
Disregard the cynicism that's coming from some posters because I do have the same problem sometimes. Unicorns are certainly a rare find but also good men who are down to earth and know what they are doing are also as rare and partly what makes us so rare is that we are hidden in a sea of "hey wanna fuck" and dick pictures. Just try and always be upfront and honest about your intentions but regardless of that you'll usually come across as the bad guy no matter what. It's just how it is
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RHP User
7 years ago
Come to WA, have I got the woman for you ! ๐๐๐
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RHP User
7 years ago
How do you get to 2nd and 3rd meet? Must take Cutethickhung's advice :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
Wow. Last week you couldn't get a single meet. This week you need a cattle prod to fend them off! Hahaha God I love RHP The forums just never stop giving. ๐๐๐๐ PS. Screaming "I love your cock" is very common these days. I heard a woman do it in KFC, so you shouldn't take it too seriously. Much like your topic, really. - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Phoenix
7 years ago
Wondering if they are wanting an FWB arrangement? You can love someone but not be โin loveโ. Then again maybe they are because of certain skills, obvious talent and a great outlook on life. ๐ I would bet itโs lust at play and the intense draw that comes with that. All you can do is be Honest and tell the truth. Keep the meets strictly casual. Ladies do tend to fall in love with good cocks ๐ฌ BB - Posted from rhpmobile
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Livingandloving2
7 years ago
I would have to disagree with you there. Good down to earth guys are the majority of guys I know. You're selling your gender short there! Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
...you have to use your double-barrel Super Soaker Water Cannon just to keep those women away! I'm am surprised though that it takes yours that long to fall in love? Hell I get notes every day after they've read my profile declaring undying love. And one time...at band camp? CM the cynical
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RHP User
7 years ago
You tell them to snap out of it. Or ask them if they are telling their other lover the same. That will lead to a good convo about non exclusivity. ๐
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RHP User
7 years ago
Mate just hit the eject button & GTFO ๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm only basing that on what I'm told. Probably 80% of my friends are women and I get forwarded a lot of cock pics. If anyone sneaks a look at my phone I've a lot of explaining to do
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RHP User
7 years ago
Maybe they make up the majority that you know because you're cool ;)
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Sawadee
7 years ago
Don't laugh... If you were a chick magnet like me ' how do you think they feel ? It must be hell for them but at the same they must realise what I have to go through . Up at the crack of dawn ( aww' poor dawn I hear you say ) everyday just to keep up the demand for services only to be told ' I luv u ? Again ? ? Anyway ' enough about my cock.. There is more to me than just waving my massive wand around ... ๐
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RHP User
7 years ago
You poor bastard. Be grateful that you are getting to meet people. Some of us aren't as fortunate.
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Hawt1
7 years ago
But jeez you lot are merciless! Admittedly I did laugh a little through this thread. Op, I had this predicament a couple of times (only). Just stick to your guns communicating the terms you agreed to. They either get the message or you give them the flick. That is unless of course you changed your mind (but that's not very fair now is it). Good luck. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
i've done alright this week since monday i met 3 single ladies and a couple ! but i have a big package and know how to use it am high on stamina normally go for hours few weeks ago i came many times and lasted 8 hours
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RHP User
7 years ago
well i was on another site (AMM )last year met someone on it and we got attached bit fast we ended up in a relationship for about 1 year but we broke up few months ago and i joined this one but we used to fuck at least 4 times a day some of the things she used to scream out during sex :) i even been told i should of become a porn star lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
"disregard the cynicism that's coming from some posters" Yes it seems really bad lately. Sailbad, a woman from WA? Seems I'm under fire this week. Pot kettle black re the lack of appeal my posts have? What a hypocrite ๐
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tylannister
7 years ago
Come talk to me when they're falling in love with you -before- you even meet them.
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Sawadee
7 years ago
I reached the shuttle COCK finals which I won in stunning fashion.. twice ? But when I wanted to enter the coxless 4s , they just laughed at me saying ' how can you enter the coxless with a weapon like that .? ๐ณ Anyway ' I stormed out and went looking for the Chinese women's swim team...
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Sawadee
7 years ago
I just finished reading your other post where u were saying how you were having trouble finding ladies ? and was there anything wrong with your profile. ? According to one of your posts ( above ). That's all changed ? Amazing the difference a week can make ??
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RHP User
7 years ago
op didn't like my other comment? All I was saying is the rhp ruler is a little different ๐
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RHP User
7 years ago
in one week i went from being a dud to a stud lol no idea how not sure if it cause am 6 foot 2 tall fit and high on stamina with large package ?
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Livingandloving2
7 years ago
Gifts that just keeps on giving ๐๐๐ Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile
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Bodhi8
7 years ago
You sound fake bro. No one who is actually any of these things youโre โbraggingโ about needs to post on and on and on about it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
The more he posts about it.... The less fucking heโs obviously doin.... Unless theyโre taking a break...intermission kinda thing... In which case whoever they are clearly doesnโt mind taking a back seat to his ego..... Just sayin ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Run to the Hills-Iron Maiden. - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
Please for the love of God keep posting forum topics. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
7 years ago
Hate to sound like I'm bragging or hanging for some cheap advertising... but yep ' it's me. ๐ If you blink twice real fast that is... .๐ AND... The right hand tells me it loved me after only just one meet.. Life's a bitch.. ๐
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RHP User
7 years ago
Damn devil dick! Pommy fucker is right, there are lots of terribly behaved men out there, when women get treated nicely they take it the wrong way. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Aimtoplease83
7 years ago
Donโt tell me youโre a comedian?! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
But he's already got more listed friends than me so... :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well Iโll have to take your word for it fellas.... havenโt had much success myself but I agree that itโs possibly more a lust than love thing... hopefully I can add some feedback from actual experiences soon..๐๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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rebeccaparker
7 years ago
Saying they love you after a 2nd or 3rd rendezvous RUN, RUN TO THE HILLS!! Hahaha ๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
lols every guy thinks there a sex goddess every maybe thought that maybe she does have some sort of feelings of love towards ya instead of thinking ya so called multiple orgasm is why she feels love for you lols
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PurePeony
7 years ago
... "falls in love" with you that quickly, it might not be a compliment to you but rather, an indication of how desperate they are to fall in love with any Tom, Dick or Harry. ๐ Like they all say, "It's not you... it's me." ๐คฃ ie. It's not about how good you are, it's about how screwed up they are! ๐
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RHP User
7 years ago
These egos are epic. Just be honest and upfront and communicate.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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agent99
7 years ago
Oh cutethickhung.. You poor humble soul! Want a tissue? Ill also grab my violoin lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Swingingnudist
7 years ago
Disregard the sarcasm OP there are females out there that are like this, encountered it many times. Even after 1st meet they have started talking moving in, relationships yada yada. Seems if you just treat them nice they just misread you, must be some arsehole guys out there. Even in Thailand if i take a lady to my room, i have been told hey you are different you are nice and want to pleasure me and i say well if you are enjoying it i am too then the lady just changes and she turns into a nympho... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
einstein defines stupidity as someone doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result, At least he is trying and not just sitting back and shooting down every attempt in an effort to make yourself feel/look better. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
.... pillow talk. Sometimes people say that kid of thing when laying around post coitus. It doesn't mean they want to marry you. Or even see you again. If you want to get technical, orgasms release the hormone oxytocin - the love hormone - which causes us to develop emotional connections with others. However, if they're talking about moving in, getting married etc that early, be cautious. Pushing relationships to quickly can be a warning sign of an abusive / controlling partner.
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3isnotacrowd
7 years ago
Have to totally agree with you there. A lot of people do confuse 'In love' with 'In Lust'. Cutethickhung....if you are hearing that on the 2nd or 3rd meet...ask yourself, am I really into this woman or is it purely that you are into the sex....again, love or lust. Men do like to hear that they are wanted, (just as much as women do) but if you are upfront and honest about your wants and needs, there should never be any confusion.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I used to be called devil dick by Karen lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
Speaking for myself I have been there and confused in-lust for in-love more so when I was younger, not so much now.When I have had an amazing experience with someone and I am on a sex high so to speak my brain stops functioning properly and words are said without even thinking about it. The fact that I might say I love it or whatever during the act means I am loving what someone does not them.I also think there is a huge difference between in-love (which you can fall out of easily and on a whim) to loving someone long term.I have just had this happen to me with a guy who said he didn't want serious to getting way too serious when we both were very clear from the beginning. It does happen if you see someone on a regular basis and build a rapport with them.Some women do get confused and believe me if someone is saying this after the 2nd or 3rd date. I agree run for the hills and never look back!!
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HotNightsGC
7 years ago
Iโm tempted to be judgemental here. But I wonโt. Hang on. Yes I think I will. OMG! CTH are you kidding me? Youโre meeting women and couples all the time. Be grateful. Perhaps you should communicate at the beginning of a meet that itโs strictly NSA. If women fall for your huge package (tongue in cheek) after that, then thatโs their issue and not yours. Iโm thinking that perhaps your doing a bit of advertising with this thread. Just sayin... Ms HNP. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
is comedy gold
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RHP User
7 years ago
Oh there is nothing so good for a laugh than a "Cock" fight between the boys!!Somehow a "pussy" fight just doesn't sound the same.There is nothing wrong with ego!! Maybe he is that good peeps and if he has a healthy outlook and is getting what he wants then Kudos.It is in roosters nature to crow is it not? And so the fun continues............
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'midnightblue71'It is in roosters nature to crow is it not? The cockiest roosters have the least to crow about...
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Sawadee
7 years ago
If you're getting that much attention.. Wouldn't you be enjoying it instead of posting it on here ? Personally , most guys I know including yours truly ' just go on about their business with their love life .. You'll always get the odd one who thinks different.. That's when the BS metre goes off the chart... Besides , I think the OP might be pulling the other leg...
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RHP User
7 years ago
BhahaSo true!!
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Renegades
7 years ago
I have a feeling Geppetto was a little tipsy when he created this OP-inocchio....bahahaha! Keep going OP based on how the story goes it will only get bigger......before you turn into a real boy. Bahahaha! - Posted from rhpmobile
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moreforyou69
7 years ago
Just my 2 cents to the OP: Sounds like it could be "love-bombing", and is a symptom of Borderline Personality Disorder. Unless you're a thrillseeker, and enjoy the idea of a cyclone running through your life, implement exit strategy. Peace. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Doesnโt matter how good you look or are in bed, Iโm not on here to fall in love. Having great sex and fun is all we seek. If you are looking for real love I donโt think you should look to find it on a swingersite.. xxx
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moreforyou69
7 years ago
Ahh, I had a feeling I was going to get jumped on. Meander, you are correct, I'm not suggesting love-bombers are all BPD, but all BPD's are love bombers. Can we agree that it's not exactly normal rational behaviour to be confessing the "L" word within 2 or 3 dates. Personally I have experienced this, and promptly ended all contact. That woman became a fully fledged stalker, and the entire experience was very unsettling. For months I would drive back toward my home every night wondering what I would find, from poisoned pets to a burned house. Not worth the risk IMO. Pull the rip chord. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
ffs here we go again lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
False morality to heighten standing within a group? I must pop over to the word of the day thread ๐
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moreforyou69
7 years ago
Kinda sad that some of you think it's no big deal. Im quite sure if the genders were reversed your attitudes would be markedly different. Is that 'false morality'? Thanks :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I wouldn't take it too seriously. I don't take a traditional/romantic view of 'love'.. I see it as a frequency anyone can access anytime. I can love a stranger on the train, it doesn't mean I want to see them again. I love everyone I've ever played with. But I'm pretty weird ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
That is a joyful way of being... Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Come and see how good I look. Happens to me every single bloody time. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Posting order stuffed that up. Wasn't for you ๐ Sorry, I liked your comment. Liked your profile even more ๐
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RHP User
7 years ago
Lay down what you want , it helps us crazy's, then we won't fall in love , no matter how good a job you do ๐ I was talking to a guy tonight about sharing his fwb, I wanted to know he wasn't bullshitting and have the female contact me before I sent a face pic !! Is that to much to ask ?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
Quoting 'moreforyou69' Kinda sad that some of you think it's no big deal. Im quite sure if the genders were reversed your attitudes would be markedly different. Is that 'false morality'? Thanks :-) - Posted from rhpmobile Yes had it happen to me and here's the serious answer. It depends on both people mindset and expectations. When it was said to me I took it more as as a "I love your way kind of thing, not I'm in love with you" which is totally different. He was an expressive person so even though it freaked me out little bit it was kind of in his character. So I laid down my expectations of what it was we had, which to me was FWB non exclusive and he was cool with that. Happy days. Just be honest and not a player and if its not what they want they have the choice to move on.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Those girls fall so hard don't they!. One can only assume it's the deep conversation that flows from your lips in between the life changing sessions of coitus you informed us about. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
May be they are just trying to prepare you so they can let you down gently. Got what they want from you - realised you're a one trick pony and decided that if they declare their love you'll be running for the hills - clever devious minxs that they are!!! ๐๐๐ they are about to give you the "it's not you it's me" speech! I suggest you call their bluff and declare your undying love for them! Write them some poetry - sonnets are good and a single red rose next time you see them! Oh and don't forget to offer them lots of TLC after sex! ๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
You really need to train a little harder mate cause 8 hrs is childsplay as a one Off..... Keep that up increase it repetitively then I'll be impressed!!! Also a real woman with maturity and quality doesn't fall in love that easily.... Not if she's worth anything..... You have to earn the title to quality pussy and if she's quality it's you that falls in love with her!!! So if they are declaring love for you that's not the kind of woman who's worth a dime. Plenty of chicks fall super easy.... It's not a reflection on how good you are it just means they are not quality mate and aren't stable in the head!! Thanks for the post though, fuck it made me laugh ๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Loving this thread - Ive have been kept amused all week Iโm even considering take-out so I donโt miss anything! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I call bullshit! Maybe this has happened once, but I don't believe for one second that it has happened more than once. Get back to reality honey. ๐๐๐๐๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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youngcoffscpl
7 years ago
Tell us again how amazing you are? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
Ok, so it's been another week..... ... I'm sure you've married, have seven kids and been divorced at the rate you were 'improving' ๐ Update?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Mate,your not needing a spell at "specsavers" and actually been dating your mum for the last three weeks and she's just telling you she loves you for stickin to your guns n pumping out those porkies on rhp when nobody else thought (hoped) you would..............๐ต๐๐ฉ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Your all killing me tears streaming down face doubled over with laughter I ๐ love ๐ (oops) it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Funny. Maybe, but there are a lot of relentless shitty comments. Some of you sound like youโre jealous frankly.
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RHP User
7 years ago
My rationale may not be perfect but it works.... if a guy does the "breaking up" they tend to not come back but if the chick does it the guy tends to come back wanting more. I don't like hurting people's feelings. So sometimes I will tell them I Love them and I want to get married and have babies with them etc.... love it...works most of the time. They think I'm crazy then break it off. They feel they had the power and I feel like I've just made them do exactly what I wanted them to do. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
The Mistress of manipulation ๐
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RHP User
7 years ago
op too busy to hang around the forum now ๐ I know it's wrong but I did giggle at the bunny boiler comment. Spank me ๐
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RHP User
7 years ago
Iโd spank you but, alas, you may fall in love with me ๐ Mr D - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sexymilf
7 years ago
You might just be picking the girls who are easily infactuated, who are confusing love with lust or a crush. If itโs said โin the heat of the momentโ then I would simply disregard it. If it were me Iโd be chasing more but, at the end of the session, all that should be needed is a kiss and a hug at the door (and perhaps a slap on my arse on the way out lol)... till next time. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Haha yes ๐
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swingalingson
7 years ago
far this post has got! So many pages...but hey this is social media after all. And Trump is president!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting moreforyou69 "not suggesting that all love bombers are BPD's but all BPD's are love bombers" I'm sorry to hear that you have had a bad experience with someone whom I assume from your post had BPD. Stalking is never OK regardless of the gender of the perpetrator. Having a diagnosis of BPD in no way makes the behavior acceptable either. Yes. BPD left (unchecked) can be quite frightening for both the sufferer and its victim/s. Not all BPD's are love bombers though. Case in point. I was diagnosed as having BPD over 20 years ago. Through my own personal choice I have quite happily spent the vast majority of my adult life as a single person. I neither need nor even want a relationship. A love bomber I am definitely not. Anyway. I just felt the need to challenge the misconception that everyone with BPD will exhibit predefined behaviors in accordance with the diagnostic criteria of BPD. PS: BPD does have it's benefits too. Stay safe. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Donna' I just felt the need to challenge the misconception that everyone with BPD will exhibit predefined behaviors in accordance with the diagnostic criteria of BPD. Really shits me when people make sweeping generalisations about a whole group of people based on their personal experience of one or two of those people, and / or an internet echo chamber. Some of the comments about mental illness on this forum show a real ignorance and highlight why stigma is still such a problem for people who deal with MH issues.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I don't know how many times, I've had my mental health thrown at me by the people supposedly most understanding if it. And then there is slime who take advantage of people's vulnerabilities to manipulate them. Not a hard thing to do.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Have you considered that perhaps it's not them it's you. We are all mirrors to each other, if you don't like the reflection it's an aspect of yourself you don't like and an opportunity to learn and grow. Perhaps you are as needy and they are reflecting it back to you. It's robotic and deeply tragic to have sex with another human and not feel connection. In-too-me-u-see. What don't you want them to see?
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RHP User
7 years ago
I had a woman tell me she loved me the first time we met. Wasn't even a date! We had spoken in the phone maybe twice, exchanged messages a few times. It was just a spur of the moment meet up as we both had a few hours free. I'm getting on the train to go home, and as I sit down, she points at her eye, makes a heart shape with her hands, then points at me. Just for the record, yes, she said the words at the same time. Crazy doesn't even go close to describing this experience. Needless to say, I neither said it back, nor returned her calls. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
Yesterday, a woman from another site that I have never met..... and only messaged a few times...... but never spoken to..... .... sent me a voice text message and ended the message with... * I miss you * Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight Do I win a prize?!
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RHP User
7 years ago
I hope you don't have the same problem Some things in life are so cryptic aren't they?? Have your read my profile carefully to find out what I am looking for It aint love.
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